JEAN M. TWENGE, PhD: “Is Donald Trump Actually Insecure Underneath?”

I’m often asked how you can spot a narcissist. Here’s my standard list:

  • Brag or show off
  • Name-dropping
  • Name brands or flashy possessions
  • Look at themselves in the mirror a lot
  • Turn the conversation back to him/herself
  • Insults others
  • Declarations about being the “best” or “great” without details
  • Emphasizes his/her status

I wrote that list two years ago — long before Donald Trump started running for president. Yet it could have been written just for him. As others have pointed out, the Donald is a textbook case of narcissistic personality. He is clearly functioning well and thus can’t be classified as having narcissistic personality disorder, the clinical-level form, which by definition only describes someone whose traits are causing them difficulty. Trump, instead, displays narcissism as a personality trait — the type we focus on in The Narcissism Epidemic.

Here’s the question: Is Trump’s narcissism a cover for insecurity? This is known as the “mask model” — the idea that grandiose narcissism is a show to distract people from the deep psychic pain underneath. A recent piece in Time made this claim, arguing that Trump is trying to cover for a “profound insecurity and lack of self-esteem.”

Here’s the problem: At least for grandiose narcissism like Trump’s, there’s no evidence that the mask model is true. Narcissists have high self-esteem on average, not low, and the most aggressive people are those with both high narcissism and high self-esteem. Children who become narcissistic are not those shamed by their parents, but those told they are special.

Perhaps the best evidence comes from studies measuring self-esteem in a subtle way, such as with an implicit self-esteem measure recording people’s reaction time in pairing words like “I” and “me” with words like “bad” and “good.” People who score high on grandiose narcissism also score high on implicit self-esteem. In other words, deep down inside, narcissists think they are awesome.

This is also just plain common sense: Does Trump really seem like he is insecure underneath? Does he seem to be in a state of psychic pain, or even covering for one? No — he’s having the time of his life. So why does he seem to crave all of the attention and adulation? The Time article argues that Trump is trying to fill a deep “psychic hole.”

I have a more straightforward explanation: He likes all of the attention because he thinks he deserves it. It’s never enough not because of psychic pain, but because he thinks everyone should pay attention to him. Attention is fun and gratifying; it has nothing to do with insecurity.

Why the Mask Model of Narcissism Is Dangerous

I will go further: I think it’s dangerous to believe that narcissists are insecure underneath. Not only is it not supported by empirical evidence, but it promotes the idea that the way to deal with narcissists is to boost their self-esteem and heal their “wounds” through more love and affection. This is like suggesting that the way to cure obesity is by giving everyone more doughnuts. The narcissistic person who ruins relationships through his self-centeredness does not need more love or attention — he needs to get kicked to the curb. The young adult who takes advantage of everyone around her does not need her self-esteem boosted — she needs to learn responsibility.

Narcissism is known as the “disease that hurts other people,” and the cure for it is real life — losing a relationship because of selfishness, losing a job because you’ve alienated people. Yes, we should try to understand narcissists and realize that their behavior is explained by this personality trait. But that does not mean we should believe that they are actually insecure — that myth undermines our understanding of narcissism because it presumes that it’s only skin-deep.

Many, many people have been hurt in relationships with narcissists by believing that they can change the person with more love. If only that were true — but sadly, most of the time, it’s not. We can have empathy for people with narcissistic traits, but that does not mean we have to believe they are suffering underneath. Most of the time, they are making other people suffer. They won’t suffer themselves until bad things start happening to them, often as a consequence of their narcissism. It is sad, but it is not due to insecurity.

Trump is not insecure. We should not be looking for the source of his “psychic pain” or expect that someday he will break down and show his true, doubting self. He really does think that he’s that great, and that his ideas are that great. If we believe otherwise — about him or anyone else with these traits — we risk underestimating the true power of the narcissist.

 

~via PsychologyToday.com

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UNQUOTABLE QUOTES: Michael David Raso on “The Chosen One” Donald Trump

“In surprising news today, Donald Trump retweeted that he is loved as the Second Coming of God and the King of Israel. Feeling some clarification of his grandiose beliefs might be necessary, he held an informal press conference. Gazing heavenward, he declared, ‘I am the Chosen One.’ What has Trump been chosen for? Is Trump really the latest King of Israel? Is he truly the Second Coming of God? Some people find it doubtful. Despite there not yet being a rapture, nor a uniting of world governments (quite the opposite in fact), Trump, in many circles has recently been compared, not to Jesus, but to Satan’s emissary on Earth. So yeah, Antichrist. I just had no idea the antichrist would be so gotdamned stupid.”

~Michael David Raso

~via Breaking News! Turns Out Antichrist is a F*cking Moron

“THE ART OF THE ORDEAL” ~ Tony Schwartz on ‘Sociopath’ President Donald Trump

“Trump is not only willing to lie, but he doesn’t get bothered by it, doesn’t feel guilty about it, isn’t preoccupied by it. There’s an emptiness inside Trump. There’s an absence of a soul. There’s an absence of a heart. Because he has no conscience, he has no guilt. All he wants to do is make the case that he would like to be true. And while I do think he is probably aware that more walls are closing around him than ever before, he does not experience the world in the way an ordinary human being would.”

~Tony Schwartz – Ghostwriter who penned Donald Trump’s 1987 book, “The Art of the Deal”

 

~via ‘Blood Money’: Donald Trump’s ‘Art of the Deal’ Ghostwriter Says He Wants to Atone for Helping President’s Rise

LISA RENEE (Time Shift Blog): “Moloch Programming”

“For the NAA, raping children is the most productive way to set up the siphoning of soul energy and to further create traumatic soul damage in the child. As that child grows into adulthood without addressing or spiritually healing the sexual trauma, they have the tendency to mentally and emotionally fracture, becoming an adult with dissociative, split or narcissistic personalities. Many raped children suffer from ongoing spiritual trauma that is generated from the soul bindings made to demonic and satanic entities, that can be both human and nonhuman. The most common soul binding that is used in child rape and FGM in SRA is the demonic altar of Moloch.”

~Lisa Renee

 

In the Guardian use of the term Moloch, it is used to describe receptacles on the Astral Plane that operate as battery tanks for harvested Loosh, which is generally sexual in nature. Moloch tanks are used by the NAA forces to collect and store human sexual energy as a battery source, generally the tanks are more specialized as sourcing from the consciousness bodies of molested children, which is the real purpose that is behind the promotion of legalizing pedophilic practices. Large amounts of sexual energy is harvested from sexual ritual or Blood Sacrifice ritual killing in order to direct that collective energetic force from the victims for the purpose of widespread Satanic Ritual Abuse carried out by Black Magicians which is designed for the purpose of gaining control over others perceptions, and influencing the direction of the planetary Timelines towards serving the negative Controller agenda. The process of stealing consciousness energy from many people who are unaware that they are being used in this way, is to gain control over others minds and perceptions of the outer reality and is called Sorcery or Black Magic. The Power Elite are a small group of people who conjure an assortment of Black Magic through dark rituals such as the sacrifices made to Moloch, that are used for maintaining direct contact with the NAA. Moloch is one of the most important loosh harvesting systems for the NAA because it comprises the most desired form of human based collective energy, which is sexual energy siphoned from the human’s sexual organs.

Moloch can be implanted as an energetic signature in those children or adults that have been exposed to sexual abuse, Genital Mutilation, violent sex acts in which any sexual trauma is generated in the consciousness of that person, no matter how young or old they are. Babies that are born from rape and a history of sexual abuse in the family of origin, can inherit the Moloch attachment at the time of birth, and carry this attachment sentencing them to heightened Sexual Misery programming and sexual organ siphoning for a lifetime.

Moloch is a quality of collected sexual energy that is bound to the Astral Plane via gestalts of negative spiritual attachments or demonic entities that are most commonly interspersed within the Baphomet collective consciousness field that is used to power up the Black Magic Grids. This means that on planet earth, the Black Magicians have a special planetary grid set up exclusively for their use in spreading Satanic forces through access of the Baphomet field during SRA practices, these are sentient fields from the lowest dimensions filled with collected human sexual energy that feeds and keeps the negative spirits.

Moloch is especially coveted by an assortment of satanic forces in the NAA that intentionally promote sexual predators and violent sexual acts that perpetrate the use of Victim-Victimizer software, which is to create masters and slaves, victims and victimizers. These are the main polarities required to foment the War Over Consciousness and reinforce beliefs of separation and division between humanity.

Moloch Programming

This program usually starts during childhood and remains as an attached Moloch implant that can grow to infect the multidimensional spiritual bodies, especially through genital implants, which are holographic devices implanted by an offending entity in order to siphon the child’s sexual energy into adulthood. A child that is infected with Moloch programming, will generally exhibit abnormal sexual attitudes and behaviors with other children and adults, that may resemble having inappropriate sexual knowledge from being sexually abused by an adult. However, sexual behaviors in small children can also be groomed by Pavlovian Classical Conditioning, and sexual predators commonly use assorted grooming methods to condition the child to abuse, in so the child believes that sexual abuse is actually playtime behavior.

Children with Moloch programming grow into adulthood with the high probability to continue the same negative forms of sexual abuse that they themselves had suffered at the hands of an adult predator. By exchanging roles, from being the child victim, growing into the adult victimizer, this perpetuates the ongoing abuse cycle through the Moloch sexual energy capture program and is by design to continue to harm humanity. The early abuse programming is used to create Sexual Misery for the child as he or she grows into adulthood, ensuring a future with sexually incompatible partners and destructive intimate relationships that are founded upon the dark history of predatorial abuse and unresolved sexual trauma. Various levels of experienced trauma that occurs during childhood abuse will exacerbate the likelihood of evolving perversions or addictions into adulthood, which feed the Loosh generated by continual mental anxiety into the Moloch programming. The Moloch program directly results in the perpetuation and maintenance of the Mind control used in human Sexual Misery programming, where the child’s earliest memories of sexual confusion, gender confusion, marital confusion, and potentially sexual abuse, traumatizes the emotional body and therefore the soul. This propagates the same re-occuring patterns in co-creating abusive relationships, both interpersonal and intimate, based on the learned patterns of conditioning dysfunction and abuse prevalent in the Death Culture.

The Moloch programming is also organized by the Power Elite to be a form of Mind Control worship to the NAA posing as Gods, and is historically related to the Moon Chain lineages that organized Saturn Blood Worship. These invading groups are karmically responsible for the sexual misery programs which have stolen the knowledge of sacred marriage and perverted the practices of sacred sexuality, intentionally eradicating and attacking the possibility of achieving loving spiritual unions between the men and women of the earth. This condemned the people of earth to gender splitting and sexual misery, not aware of the energetic balance that is required to unite men and women as equals in order to transcend the horrific suffering of the human Soul. The Moloch programming used to attack sexual energy in the human population is propagated through a larger organized NAA harvesting system, the NRG network. They work hard to promote states of confusion, guilt and shame upon all matters that are related to sexuality, as well as promoting promiscuous sex with random partners in order to remain fully disconnected from feeling love and meaningful spiritual connection with sexual partners. These spiritually destructive behaviors are described in the Archontic Deception Behavior profile and the NAA strategy for humanity’s mass Mind Control.

Finally, it is to comprehend that Moloch is a soul binding to attach an assortment of Satanic entities to a person’s lightbody that is used in SRA rituals. Moloch is evoked or conjured during the satanic ritual in order to collect and disperse the human being’s vital energies to specifically named demonics, the negative spirits of Satanism that are controlled by the invading forces of the Black Sun NAA groups. In situations where a person has not been subjected to direct SRA, when a percentage of that human being’s vital forces and spiritual energies are being collected and harvested by these groups of Satanic spirits, the person is high risk for further soul binding attachments, that include aggressive dark manipulation and possible full body possession. See Dark Force Manipulation Methods.

Archontic Deception Strategy 3: Sexual Abuse and Sexual Misery

Sexual abuse and Sexual Misery are preferred by the Controllers Archontic Deception Strategy because it serves many purposes for torturing human beings of all ages into submission and ultimately, consciousness enslavement.

  • The sexual energies can be stolen from the individual without their consent or awareness and used by the Black Magician or the sexual predator as a pain and pleasure reward system for classical conditioning automatic impulses and addictions that continue to carry out Archontic Deception Behaviors into the human culture.
  • Vaginal or anal rape can yield harvested soul energies that are being siphoned during the act and consequently bound to the perpetrator which may be human or an demonic entity that has conspired with the human and committed the act of rape. For the NAA, raping children is the most productive way to set up the siphoning of soul energy and to further create traumatic soul damage in the child. As that child grows into adulthood without addressing or spiritually healing the sexual trauma, they have the tendency to mentally and emotionally fracture, becoming an adult with dissociative, split or narcissistic personalities. Many raped children suffer from ongoing spiritual trauma that is generated from the soul bindings made to demonic and satanic entities, that can be both human and nonhuman. The most common soul binding that is used in child rape and FGM in SRA is the demonic altar of Moloch.
  • The dissatisfaction with the nature of sexuality and the dysfunctional fears that are generated within destructive sexual relations create misery, pain and torment for many humans on the earth. When Sexual Misery patterns are not healed and resolved, these spiritual traumas erupt into a great many mental and emotional deviations, such as unnatural perversions and fetishes which are the set up to further control human sexuality through whatever means that is ultimately harmful. Spiritually abusive behaviors and self rejection disconnects the person from their Soul, and then the great void of inner pain grows to generate Addictions. Addictive behaviors are coping mechanisms to deal with unresolved pain and trauma, many times that trauma is seeded within the sexual energy centers of the person whom is desperate to experience relief from ongoing personal anxiety and persistent pain. In many cases this unresolved trauma and pain creates a split personality that automatically leads into a double life or living in duplicity. The person may appear to be functioning normally or reasonably well in their day job, and yet behind the scenes when they are alone, they are addicted to some kind of deviant behavior which is used as an outlet for the buildup of mental and emotional anxiety. This profile of person will reach a breaking point, in which their personal anxiety will explode onto the surface. In some cases reaching the breaking point has seriously violent ramifications, while others may act out their trauma without outer violence.

Abraham Blood Covenant is Moloch

From the Guardian perspective, the Abraham Blood Covenant in organized religion is Moloch programming, that is designed to feed the Moloch battery tanks on the Astral Plane. As an example, a Blood Covenant is made with the anti-Christ forces in the name of Yahweh, who is a False alien God, and to which this transfers the soul binding rites to the Moloch tank during the genital mutilation or circumcision. The blood spilled and foreskin taken from the baby’s penis marks a claim on the Soul to be bound to serve the Moloch entity, which is further being organized and directed to the Yahweh collective, an Annunaki faction of the NAA, that pose as False Gods to lure humanity into servitude bindings in the afterlife.

Genital Mutilation

Male circumcision at birth is a Moloch program promoted through Religious Violence Mind Control. The cutting of foreskin and the bundle of nerves in that area of the penis creates dysfunction in the penis from its inherent design of being involved as the conduit of heart and soul energy that is potentially transmitted during intercourse between a male and a female. From the Guardian perspective, this is Genital Mutilation and a spiritually harmful action. The male sex organ is designed to act as a transference rod of inner sexual vital force energy which is one part of the paired energy circuit exchanged between the male and female polarities within the human body as they are designed to unite together. Whereby both partners experience energetic catalyst of sacred union with the inner spirit and ultimate Creator, expanding consciousness states of bliss and ecstatic energies generated by the forces of love co-created between both partners. In order to disrupt the energetic circuit that unites the male and female polarities within and to interfere with the exchange of bliss experience during sexual intercourse, circumcision was introduced to sever the nerve bundle that linked the heart complex to the main sexual organ.

At this time when and if this resonates with you, we can reclaim sexual parts as well as recognize levels of trauma that was committed to shatter our innocence, especially through interfering with the forces of love that are shared in the heart during sexual experiences. If sexual healing feels complete within, then this is an impact that can be clearly observed in the world around you, and you may be called upon to help release Moloch programming tanks.

Some Suggested Tools

1. Resign From Moloch Matrix

2. Consecrate your genitals as holy objects dedicated to the purposes of God/Christ

3. Practice conscious loving sexual acts and be loving and appreciative of your genitals

4. Bless all children as Children of God, claimed in the Christ or Krystal Star

5. Clear all implants or structure you become aware of

6. Send all beings bound to Moloch in SRA to Mother Arcs Aqua Portal, set up portal for this specific reason

Heartfelt gratitude for our beloved community in being open to explore this difficult topic. Even though this is very difficult material, this shift to reveal the Moloch programs and battery tanks is very optimistic in that the systems and structures of containment are being revealed so that they can be dismantled from continued use. This is extremely positive news. This is a longer term project with reclaiming the sexual energies of humanity, so just allow this information to settle and do not feel pressurized to act, this is just for your information if it indeed becomes relevant in your life. The mind cannot see what it does not know, and now you are made aware of the covert agenda of the Moloch programming, in so to identify it and remove it from yourself and your children.

(Source: Ascension Glossary: Moloch)

 

~via EnergeticSynthesis.com – Time Shift Blog – June 10, 2019

THE MINDS JOURNAL: “10 Signs You Have A Toxic Partner Who Will Try To Take Away Your Happiness”

One form of love, which is considered the most frequent, is, unfortunately, toxic love. This love appears as a result of insecurity or fear, and it does not do favors to anyone.

Our environment will become even more toxic when we get attached more and more to those people that are wrong for us. Toxic people have the ability to drain us of our happiness, regardless of the fact if we allow that or not. These people build their toxic relationships on an unstable foundation.

Here, we will present you some sign which indicated that you might be in such a relationship, or signs which suggest that you are with a toxic partner. You will definitely need a change when you notice these signs because toxic people and relationships cannot be suitable for every one of us.

10 Signs You Have A Toxic Partner Who Will Try To Take Away Your Happiness

 

1. You are not a priority.

Sorry about this, but when you are not your partner’s priority now, you will never be. He or she has to hold you on the identical standard they hold themselves. Refusing to do that will be a sign that you have to move on, as you deserve a lot more.

2. They’re always blaming you for their mistakes.

The mistakes they made cannot be yours; they have to be prepared for everything they say or do. You should never be blamed for their own mistakes. Toxic people are obsessed with the idea of bringing other people down, especially those that they are closest with.

3. They have serious double principles and standards.

These people believe that they can do everything, while their partners are not allowed to do those same things. For example, you would like to go outside and spend some time together with friends, and in the same time, your partner is also with his friends; however, they will refuse that right when you ask them. Remember that they see you just as their property and not as their loved one.

4. They don’t like your loved ones.

Usually, toxic people will not really like the ones that really matter to you. They will not like that idea as those that care about you will normally see their true self. In fact, toxic people hate this, so they are going to try hard in order to keep you far from your loved ones.

5. They disrespect your boundaries.

Toxic people will never respect your limits, and they are always going to do something or force you into certain things which you wouldn’t like to do. As a result of this, you will find yourself in uncomfortable situations, which are not supposed to happen.

6. They always make you feel sad.

They seem like they try their best in order to bring those that love them down. Toxic people will not support those around them, but they will tear those people apart. For example, when you are happy about something, they are going to everything in order to ruin your happiness. This pleases them after all.

7. They tend to lie to you a lot.

So, for some unknown reasons, toxic people feel good when they lie. So, they are going to lie you about something that is insignificant and goes too far in order to reach their goal, which is making you feel terrible. Remember that you cannot trust someone you love although you would like to do it with your whole heart.

8. They won’t give you a space for yourself.

Toxic people never allow their partners to have their personal space. For example, having your personal space means having time to reflect and think, and thinking well may make you come to the decision of leaving your partner. These people love crossing boundaries, so when you do something without their permission, they will be furious.

9. They attempt to control you.

These people adore controlling you, and not only you but every single thing in life. This type of control means the ultimate superpower for them. Just said, they would like to have the ability to control you and make you do what they want you to do. They are going to cut ties when they see that they are not able to control you.

10. They don’t care about your necessities.

These people are never going to listen to you or care about your own necessities. They are selfish people, so they don’t want to worry about you or about everything you need. They practice only self-care, although you may be in a relationship for a long time.

 

~via TheMindsJournal.com