~via Surviving Narcissism
~via Surviving Narcissism
It was no surprise to see I’m an ‘Idealist’… 🐬
“Knowing your personality type helps you understand yourself, your interests, your motivations, and your relationships. Although your personality type doesn’t completely define who you are, it helps you have much more awareness about yourself and gives you tools for making important decisions in your life.”
~Barrie Davenport @ Live Bold & Bloom
One form of love, which is considered the most frequent, is, unfortunately, toxic love. This love appears as a result of insecurity or fear, and it does not do favors to anyone.
Our environment will become even more toxic when we get attached more and more to those people that are wrong for us. Toxic people have the ability to drain us of our happiness, regardless of the fact if we allow that or not. These people build their toxic relationships on an unstable foundation.
Here, we will present you some sign which indicated that you might be in such a relationship, or signs which suggest that you are with a toxic partner. You will definitely need a change when you notice these signs because toxic people and relationships cannot be suitable for every one of us.
Sorry about this, but when you are not your partner’s priority now, you will never be. He or she has to hold you on the identical standard they hold themselves. Refusing to do that will be a sign that you have to move on, as you deserve a lot more.
The mistakes they made cannot be yours; they have to be prepared for everything they say or do. You should never be blamed for their own mistakes. Toxic people are obsessed with the idea of bringing other people down, especially those that they are closest with.
These people believe that they can do everything, while their partners are not allowed to do those same things. For example, you would like to go outside and spend some time together with friends, and in the same time, your partner is also with his friends; however, they will refuse that right when you ask them. Remember that they see you just as their property and not as their loved one.
Usually, toxic people will not really like the ones that really matter to you. They will not like that idea as those that care about you will normally see their true self. In fact, toxic people hate this, so they are going to try hard in order to keep you far from your loved ones.
Toxic people will never respect your limits, and they are always going to do something or force you into certain things which you wouldn’t like to do. As a result of this, you will find yourself in uncomfortable situations, which are not supposed to happen.
They seem like they try their best in order to bring those that love them down. Toxic people will not support those around them, but they will tear those people apart. For example, when you are happy about something, they are going to everything in order to ruin your happiness. This pleases them after all.
So, for some unknown reasons, toxic people feel good when they lie. So, they are going to lie you about something that is insignificant and goes too far in order to reach their goal, which is making you feel terrible. Remember that you cannot trust someone you love although you would like to do it with your whole heart.
Toxic people never allow their partners to have their personal space. For example, having your personal space means having time to reflect and think, and thinking well may make you come to the decision of leaving your partner. These people love crossing boundaries, so when you do something without their permission, they will be furious.
These people adore controlling you, and not only you but every single thing in life. This type of control means the ultimate superpower for them. Just said, they would like to have the ability to control you and make you do what they want you to do. They are going to cut ties when they see that they are not able to control you.
These people are never going to listen to you or care about your own necessities. They are selfish people, so they don’t want to worry about you or about everything you need. They practice only self-care, although you may be in a relationship for a long time.
For a long time, Native Americans used dream catchers like a way of preventing some nightmares, as well as guaranteeing just some good and beautiful dream results to the dreamer.
In fact, dream catcher can come in different shapes, designs, and sizes, and each of them reveals some specific things about the person that uses it. Here, we have five types of dream catchers, so your preference will reveal something about your traits and personality.
Picking the first dream catcher will mean that you are an honest and dependable friend. You also find it quite easy to trust others blindly soon after you get to know those people better.
Also, you have the expectation of others having total faith in you. Sometimes, the emotions inside you will get the best self of you, especially when there is something which disturbs your everyday routine.
If you choose the second dream catcher, it is a sign of cleanliness and innocence.
You don’t like the act of keeping hate in life, so you better like to pay attention on some specific things, as well as loved people. When some things go away from the line, in fact, you will often isolate from it because of your empathic side for perfection and harmony.
In fact, you are a person that is an optimistic and positive extrovert. Actually, you don’t feel any stress when you are about to accept others without having extreme judges for them.
Despite that, you are afraid of the judgments from other people, and you also spend more time when it comes to preparing yourself for some decisions.
Actually, you are a person that is quite supportive, sympathetic, as well as subtle, and you tend to put other people in the first place.
Because of the compassion within you, the words, as well as the actions of other people will hurt you very often then they should.
Choosing the fifth dream catcher will mean that you are a determined, detached, and independent person.
When you made up the mind for a certain thing, there will be no talking and persuading from the ones you love which will change that decision.
Positively, this is going to help you overcome worrywarts and pessimism. However, negatively, you will have the tendency to scare other people and refuse good pieces of advice which come in front of you.
Narcissists are people who are always full of themselves. They don’t look beyond themselves. They end up hurting people around who are compassionate and sensitive.
Narcissists always want to be the eye of the storm. They want constant attention. They dump the burden of their insecurities on others. Narcissists make people miserable in a number of ways. The term narcissist has its root in the Greek mythology. It comes from the myth about Narcissus. Narcissus was a man who fell in love with his own reflection. This self-obsession led to his demise eventually.
Freud has often theorized about this idea of narcissism and self-absorption. He had claimed that such people are far from the real world and often lead to their own doom. Moreover, it is not very tough to spot narcissists around us these days.
They can preach a doctor about medicine. This is how they are. Highly interruptive, narcissists hate those conversations which are either neutral or not about them. They crave attention and try to drive the conversations towards themselves only.
Just as they assume they are superior to others in every way possible, they also believe themselves to be at the top of the ladder. They believe that laws and dictates are below them.
However, with time, their true colors are out there for people to see. They exude charm, and confidence. But they wear off and emotionally drain you.
Narcissists tend to use rage to put you into a submissive stance so that they can naturally dominate and rule.
They aren’t wired to be sensitive towards others. Though neutral themselves, they know the tactics of how a human empath can be manipulated.