THE MINDS JOURNAL: “10 Signs You Have A Toxic Partner Who Will Try To Take Away Your Happiness”

One form of love, which is considered the most frequent, is, unfortunately, toxic love. This love appears as a result of insecurity or fear, and it does not do favors to anyone.

Our environment will become even more toxic when we get attached more and more to those people that are wrong for us. Toxic people have the ability to drain us of our happiness, regardless of the fact if we allow that or not. These people build their toxic relationships on an unstable foundation.

Here, we will present you some sign which indicated that you might be in such a relationship, or signs which suggest that you are with a toxic partner. You will definitely need a change when you notice these signs because toxic people and relationships cannot be suitable for every one of us.

10 Signs You Have A Toxic Partner Who Will Try To Take Away Your Happiness

 

1. You are not a priority.

Sorry about this, but when you are not your partner’s priority now, you will never be. He or she has to hold you on the identical standard they hold themselves. Refusing to do that will be a sign that you have to move on, as you deserve a lot more.

2. They’re always blaming you for their mistakes.

The mistakes they made cannot be yours; they have to be prepared for everything they say or do. You should never be blamed for their own mistakes. Toxic people are obsessed with the idea of bringing other people down, especially those that they are closest with.

3. They have serious double principles and standards.

These people believe that they can do everything, while their partners are not allowed to do those same things. For example, you would like to go outside and spend some time together with friends, and in the same time, your partner is also with his friends; however, they will refuse that right when you ask them. Remember that they see you just as their property and not as their loved one.

4. They don’t like your loved ones.

Usually, toxic people will not really like the ones that really matter to you. They will not like that idea as those that care about you will normally see their true self. In fact, toxic people hate this, so they are going to try hard in order to keep you far from your loved ones.

5. They disrespect your boundaries.

Toxic people will never respect your limits, and they are always going to do something or force you into certain things which you wouldn’t like to do. As a result of this, you will find yourself in uncomfortable situations, which are not supposed to happen.

6. They always make you feel sad.

They seem like they try their best in order to bring those that love them down. Toxic people will not support those around them, but they will tear those people apart. For example, when you are happy about something, they are going to everything in order to ruin your happiness. This pleases them after all.

7. They tend to lie to you a lot.

So, for some unknown reasons, toxic people feel good when they lie. So, they are going to lie you about something that is insignificant and goes too far in order to reach their goal, which is making you feel terrible. Remember that you cannot trust someone you love although you would like to do it with your whole heart.

8. They won’t give you a space for yourself.

Toxic people never allow their partners to have their personal space. For example, having your personal space means having time to reflect and think, and thinking well may make you come to the decision of leaving your partner. These people love crossing boundaries, so when you do something without their permission, they will be furious.

9. They attempt to control you.

These people adore controlling you, and not only you but every single thing in life. This type of control means the ultimate superpower for them. Just said, they would like to have the ability to control you and make you do what they want you to do. They are going to cut ties when they see that they are not able to control you.

10. They don’t care about your necessities.

These people are never going to listen to you or care about your own necessities. They are selfish people, so they don’t want to worry about you or about everything you need. They practice only self-care, although you may be in a relationship for a long time.

 

~via TheMindsJournal.com

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CONSCIOUS REMINDER: “The Body Is A Human Space Suit For Your Soul”

We are souls wearing human space suits.

We are not going to die when our body does not exist anymore, our souls will keep being alive, just like the souls of everyone else. Every one of lives in order to experience such density and reality; every one of us is on some adventure or journey.

Every person has his or her destinies. There are the ones who are going be aware of the reality, while there are the others that are not.

We are all awake; our souls are here for help, together with a lot of other souls. The purpose of every person here is to help in saving humanity from dark times which descended on every one of us. We are also here to offer help to the ones who want to be awake.

We have to remember that we are all one, so hurting others means hurting ourselves, or judging other people means that we judge ourselves too. We can see in other people what is there in our hearts, but not simply in theirs. For example, when we practice understanding and love, we are going to receive the same back.

Our life is tough and challenging; it drains us or even takes away the empathy and humanity within us. Every one of us comes from birth, or every one of us is conditioned to fear of others and of ourselves too, and we are all crushed or lose sight of our real selves. The self-esteem within us will also diminish; the decisions we make will come from some miserable place.

Moreover, we are controlled and manipulated from birth. The true power within us is taken away and hidden. We will not be able to be our real selves ever, and we will keep these selves, and also our feelings hidden, or locked away, being afraid to represent ourselves differently or stand out, or speak out, and even say our feelings or being afraid to listen to our own hearts.

We eat contaminated foods, drink contaminated water, get injected with some poisonous substances or get sprayed with certain chemicals, and we take dangerous medicine. In fact, all of this will keep us under control and enslaved, because those that are ill are much easily controlled than those that are healthy.

However, we may still be alive and find the love deep inside our hearts. Also, darkness is probably very afraid as it uses all those methods in order to subdue us and keep us down or under its control.

The darkness also brainwashes people with movies, TV shows, news programmes, newspapers and magazines, books, or something else, but people will discover the truth despite all.

It is afraid that people are going to discover the truth, so it stands in every corner, cowering and frightened.

It was smart for some time, but its end came as we started shining our lights, shining through it and lighting up the souls, our planet and also our universe for everyone to see.

Truth is simply the truth, and nothing has the ability to change it, nothing may get on its way or hide it. It is going to shine brighter above every life and untruth. And finally, the truth is always going to be the winner. It is how it is.

And finally, the darkness is aware of this, but it still tries to hide everything from us.

It will try to cause us damage and destroy us. We can feel the coming of the day. We can see the shining of the light, and we can see the changing of the energy. This will be our time of shining.

 

~via ConsciousReminder.com

LISA RENEE (Shifting Timelines): “Banishing the Lies”

“How do we wise up to see the lies, the spiritual betrayal, the reality distortions, the energy blocks and dark force attachments that are part of being deceived? On a positive note, the embodiment principle of one the major chieftains of lies in the Belial gestalt, recently left his body and is currently unable to transfer his consciousness into another earthly form as he had planned.”

~Lisa Renee

 

Dear Ascending Family,

In the age of social media and rampant propaganda, most of the public has been unable to separate honest and truthful representations from manufactured deceptions and lies. For deception to work both sides have to participate, both deceiver and deceived have to play their roles. How do we wise up to see the lies, the spiritual betrayal, the reality distortions, the energy blocks and dark force attachments that are part of being deceived? On a positive note, the embodiment principle of one the major chieftains of lies in the Belial gestalt, recently left his body and is currently unable to transfer his consciousness into another earthly form as he had planned.

Within each of us resides the core inner spirit that gives us direct access to the honest truth. We all have the ability to clear out the false ego identities, shift out the many layers of false beliefs and Banish the Lies that have concealed the truth. As we face the layers of falsity, which have generated energy blockages and spread darkness into our minds and bodies, we bring the truth into our present awareness. By allowing ourselves to see the truth of what has caused this inner pain, we ultimately experience mental, emotional and spiritual freedom.

The now presence is connected to our deepest spiritual essence, which emanates the light throughout our consciousness layers. The presence of truth in the light releases the pain that was created by the darkness, effectively Banishing the Lies that have produced the suffering and torment. Many of us have been seduced by the mainstream propaganda and the gaslighting used to sell these lies, and the world population has been buying them in every shape and size. This death culture version of 3D reality that is being sold to us is a sham, it is a lie rigged with psychological and emotional manipulation to keep humanity in spiritual bondage, through the repetition of the previous time cycles that began the NAA invasion, bringing on global human suffering and blood sacrifice.

On the path to liberation, in order to find true happiness and freedom we must see through the mass confusion and deceptions that are used to manipulate us in this world, effectively Banishing the Lies. To discover and find the truth, we must apply great effort to be fully engaged in our present moment awareness and dedicate ourselves to the path of truth seeking. In these tumultuous and transformative times, we must confront the lies and challenge those well-supported and well-funded beings, who intend to spread these lies even further in order to create harm. The Controllers intend to destroy human spiritual potential, and desire to fill this world with even more internal and external oppression, tyranny, destruction and darkness. Each of us must dedicate ourselves to find our highest expression while cultivating the deepest compassion, empathy and wisdom gained from our own direct experiences, so that we may be the example of living in harmony and alignment with the higher truth of the reality. We do not need to project holiness or perfection from preconceived notions, all that is required is that we have positive intentions and that we are committed to be completely honest, caring and kind with ourselves and with others. We do our best to speak truthfully, to represent and express our authentic selves, showing how we really feel and imbuing this deeper meaning into our communications and words. We make the choice to Banish the Lies from wrongly influencing our emotions and directing our motivations, perceptions, behaviors and actions, we align our consent and choose now to really know the whole truth.

We live in a consumer culture in which most of the public has been unable to separate honest and truthful representations from manufactured deceptions, scheming manipulations and blatant lies. Our individual ability to separate fact from fiction, to discern the difference between truth and lies embedded in the information that we are being exposed to through many different mediums, is undergoing an unprecedented threat. Human beings have been intentionally targeted at the subconscious layers to limit social intelligence with lower ego programming, that produces learned helplessness and blind reliance upon the falsity that powers up many of the 3D control structures. When people are being repeatedly saturated in what appears to be random negative stimuli in the external, this translates into emotionally raw survival consciousness, the sensation in one’s life of constantly navigating through an onslaught of perceived and real threats. The unstable and harsh environment is designed to threaten both conscious and unconscious perceptions of personal security, which further cloud a person’s vision while travelling within a distorted version of reality. This distortion in perception leads many to look towards things in the outer world to use as an escape mechanism. The majority are either handing power over to the controller structures in exchange for a false sense of personal security or giving up in an overwhelmed and exhausted apathy. In the Art of War, spreading misleading information laced with blatant lies, using gaslighting combined with ‘overwhelm and wear down’ tactics are masterfully employed by those seeking to maintain their powerful influence over those vulnerable to exploitation.

Cultivation of Gullibility

Thus, the intended goal of social engineering is to exploit the subconscious and to shift emotional dependence onto those who have accumulated the most wealth and power. This makes them the dominant authorities with full control over allocating all resources available in this world, while creating many different subclasses of marginalized and oppressed people. Those that are poverty stricken and feel socially excluded are especially vulnerable to emotional exploitation, keeping them polarized on insignificant topics, and feeding into the promotion of lies due to the intentional cultivation of gullibility.

Until we have developed the capacity to profoundly know ourselves it is difficult to see the deeper and hidden motivations of others. When we lack self-awareness along with social awareness, it makes us much more gullible to others deceptions. Gullibility makes us pliable to reality hijack, believing the deceptions and lies that we have been told by those we perceive as an authority, with the covert agenda to hold onto the most wealth and power possible, at any cost. No one can remain unbiased when they can be bought and sold for a price. This lack of awareness about the nature of this 3D reality, further leads us into becoming cogs in divisive and harmful agendas, becoming the proponents that are being mind controlled to actually support the Controllers nefarious plans.

In the current terrain of masterful deceptions and lies being propagated by those desperate to hang onto the status quo and global power, the issue of gullibility in the masses is being heightened and exploited. It is the tendency to automatically believe that imposters and actors are telling us the truth at face value, that makes us easily persuaded into believing something that is entirely false. Many unethical and traumatized people on the world stage are addicted to power, and continue to role play a manufactured persona. However, it is the Live Action Role Player’s or LARP’s that are being used by the NAA-Controllers to reinforce our 3D belief systems or worldview by feeding us lies. Many people tend to believe these actors on the world stage as telling the truth or being trustworthy, irrespective of the long list of facts and hard evidence to the contrary. Most people are refusing to dig deeper into hard topics and ask the difficult questions that challenge their belief systems, following through to investigate the larger picture that connects all of the pieces in this vast puzzle. Yet, this dedication to finding the truth within the taboo and hard topics is exactly what is needed, now more than ever.

The Controllers are master manipulators that scope out the emotional characteristics and hidden subconscious desires in order to exploit the known vulnerabilities in their victims, through the spreading of vicious lies that are presented as facts. Tyrannical despots and authoritarian globalist leaders hide behind the strawman faces of a puppet-democracy, when they actually seek to simultaneously destroy its core humanitarian principles. By collecting massive amounts of personal data to profile their global audience, they are using surveillance along with a host of masterful deceptions to exploit the public emotionally. As difficult as it may be, we have to actually see that through targeted mind control, they have been successful in manipulating many people to believe outright lies. Their goal is to continually distract by inciting violence and destructive conflicts within high profile interest groups, influencing gullibility in the masses. From behind the scenes they polarize and confuse, shaping narratives to assign their blame upon those groups of people who they see as threats, and who remain faultless in those specific issues. Directing disinformation as its reported through the mainstream media, prompts even more divide and conquer tactics to incite anger and sow hatred among the vulnerable populations. This is psychological warfare plain and simple, much of which is based upon the spreading of lies and deliberate disinformation to keep the public massively confused and warring with each other.

The imperative of these times is to be willing to open compassionate dialogues on challenging topics, to commit to be mentally flexible in order to seek the higher truth in the matter, and to do the research that backs up one’s own opinions, whether or not it is popular or profitable. To sincerely seek the truth and put forth the effort to find it, is the only way to gain the clarity that is required to discern the many harmful agendas at play, finding the hidden motivations behind the intentional spreading of disinformation and lies. When we perceive the motivations behind the inverted façade, we can ask to seek the larger truth that is found in who or what actually benefits from those lies, and then we can begin to see what cost these lies actually extract from the human race.

Deceiver and the Deceived

Deceptions and lying are a form of communication that involves mutual parties. There are those that are acting as the deceiver imparting the false information, generally with a hidden agenda, and those receiving that information as factual, which is really a lie being processed into a distorted belief by those that are being deceived. Generally, in these complex deceptions there are power imbalances where a supposed authority, that has more power or money, is carrying out the deception in order to have a strategic advantage over those that they are deceiving. The deceiver intends to communicate false impressions or disinformation to those perceived as gullible, naïve or vulnerable, so they will base their future actions or decisions on it.

It is important to understand that the spreading of deceptions and lies involves both sides of the deceiver and deceived, both must participate in the lie in order to bring it into manifestation. The Controllers require the deceived to hand over their consent to the lies, in order to continue to perpetrate their fraud against the public, committing mass deceptions and directing mind control programming.

For those of us that have been deceived and manipulated by many liars, it becomes critical to awaken and comprehend our personal role in promoting the lies any further, and to make a concerted effort to elevate our behavior. Whether it was through our ignorance of that fact when it was revealed to be a lie, or through emotionally reacting to that information with ego defense mechanisms, like confirmation bias or learned helplessness. We choose consciously to do our best to avoid lying and spreading misinformation in the future. All of us have been lied to and deceived in this upside-down world in order to be exploited for consciousness slavery by human and non-human controllers. When we are able to recognize and acknowledge that this has happened to all of us on the earth, and that it is happening right now, it is a major stage of spiritual awakening and ultimately what is needed to reach critical mass in disclosure. In order to reach critical mass, we also must recognize and accept our participation in the grand deception and lies, known or unknown to us. Recognizing we have believed the disinformation we have been told by those around us, and that we have lived upon a planet in a war over consciousness that was intentionally hidden from us, which involved calculated exploitation and covert technological mind control.

Service to Self, Rewarding Predatory Liars

As a collective society we have been fed disinformation and conditioned towards believing in these mass deceptions and lies about the absolute nature of 3D material reality, as the only reality that matters in existence. With a material and consumer orientated reality based upon accumulation, people tend to default into Service to Self behaviors and death culture vibrations. As individuals, we also have been predominately conditioned by the cultural environment to respond to others around us with misleading information and dishonesty, in order to achieve personal goals or desires that are based solely on this consumer-material value system. In the Service to Self value system, the socially engineered death culture rewards those who act as the impersonators, essentially as predatory liars and bad actors, people that intentionally deceive others that are more vulnerable for their own strategic advantage. In the current reality, if a human reinforces the controller agenda and plays Service to Self games, is a predatorial liar and disinformation agent to gain advantage over others, he or she will be greatly rewarded on the material plane. The only way to stop rewarding liars in one’s life is to see them in action and commit to banish the lies, possibly confronting or evicting the people and dark entities that continue to spread lies and disinformation in order to serve themselves.

Most people are conditioned to lie without comprehending the impact and result that the energetic vibration of lies and deception will generate in their lives. They do not want to see how the vibration of dishonesty ripples outward to impact many others, such as influencing the lives of their loved ones. While there are many reasons for lying most people lie for their own personal advantage, to gain financial or economic benefits, to escape and avoid confrontations with other people and to cover up mistakes that hide unflattering information. Yet most people want to believe they are generally honest and truthful, and may place limits around how much they are willing to lie to others, in a range of different social circumstances. The more lies we are willing to tell others, the more we are lying to ourselves, until lying becomes natural and compulsive to the level there is no longer any emotional discomfort experienced when we are fully aware of and engaging in deceiving others.

When the masses are spoon fed deceptions and falsehoods by the Power Elite who have collected the wealth, celebrity, fame or status, the bigger lies spread can be made easier to swallow. The manufactured propaganda and celebrity are continually promoted in this way, in order to reaffirm our false beliefs about the 3D reality. The mind control conditioning is designed in such a way that if people are exposed to a factual and truthful representation, but it does not fit into their belief systems or worldview, the majority of the time they will completely ignore the information. There are mind control implants that work as mind slides, so the mind slides off the unapproved topic and just ignores the information as if it was never communicated, and then moves mental focus onto something else very quickly. Further, some people will tend to ridicule the information and even attack the messenger, if it’s being perceived as threatening to their ego-personality’s belief systems.

We cannot ignore the pile of lies upon lies around us anymore. Collectively there is a radical push piercing the veil through the astral walls of black magic that have been filled with spells of deception. As we banish the lies from our lives, we shatter the prettily packaged illusions and the content rises up to the surface consciousness, where we can finally see the larger pieces of truth. We stop participating in the rewarding of liars and punishing of those people that are actually being honest. The truth of disclosure lives inside all of us now, and it is in what you can finally perceive as the nature of reality that is actually the honest truth.

Spiritual Warfare

Spiritual warfare is the battle between the light that exists in the truth versus the darkness that exists in the lie. An accurate assessment of the reality is based upon knowing and perceiving the truth which increases the light, and it is also in seeing rightly the way things are being truly represented. Through compassionate witnessing, when we recognize the honest truth in the matter, no matter how unpleasant that truth may be, by seeing it as it is we are spreading the truth spirit and amplifying the light of higher consciousness around us. In this way, we bring the light to the dark by seeing the honest truth, and illuminating the shadows by exposing them to the light.

The promoting and speaking of lies to manipulate others qualifies as spiritual abuse, and will gradually ruin and ultimately destroy any kind of relationship, as well as distort the perception of the reality, destroying clarity and spiritual connection. When people lie they distort the energy field both at the individual level and collectively. They distort the reality in those people who believe the lie they have been told, and thus continue to influence the false reality around them. Lying as spiritual abuse directly impacts the mind and how a person thinks. By trying to manipulate others into believing their lies, they are spreading darkness and therefore holding their thoughtforms captive in a web of deception, in the distorted version of a false reality. The NAA have used artificial intelligence technology to build the distorted reality based upon the lies they have spread, when we are caught up into believing these lies as truth, when the darkness of these lies fills our consciousness body, it ushers us into the AI timelines of the distorted reality.

Most people that are compulsive and habitual liars tend to have an assortment of addiction problems, addictions to things in the material world, negative ego thoughtforms or to actual drugs and alcohol. Addiction allows darkness to flood into the lightbody, which invites parasitic entities to access their physical body through a chemical doorway that is generated in the altered state of consciousness, brought about by taking the drug substances.

If the lying and spreading of darkness continues to build the web of deception in the distorted reality, the darkness encroaches upon the soul light, producing internal harm and sequential fracturing. Soul fracturing leads to parasitic entities, spirit attachments and demonic possessions that attach into the lightbody and then use the body for their own purposes. This harm to the lightbody will drastically impact the person spiritually, it interferes with the process of how they connect and relate to themselves, others and God, producing sensations of despair, misery and disconnection from life.

The promotion of lies and false beliefs generate a mass of confusion and stress that derails us from our higher expression and purpose, which ultimately is to fulfill a productive, contented and joyful life. It is possible to live in our soul purpose through Service to Others, even when we are engaged in spiritual warfare and living on a prison planet undergoing liberation.

Black Tree of Life, Artificial Tree of Life or Qlippoth

Most people have been continually brainwashed to disregard, ignore and dismiss the energetic reality of massive gestalts of collective consciousness and spiritual forces, as there are many different sentient levels of disembodied consciousness that exist as a quality, theme, and vibration of energy. Any of these spiritual forces or actual disembodied consciousnesses, can be conjured or evoked to seek a vibrational match in a human physical vessel to express itself through on the material plane. The trick of these low-level dark spiritual forces is to lie and manipulate the host human’s mind, to believe that these dark forces will actually be beneficial to them. This is a bold-faced lie embedded with black magic spell casting that hides the blatant spiritual abuse of a human being.

Conjuring demons and dark forces in ritual comes at a great spiritual-energetic cost, which will require payment, usually in blood or tragic death. The person will be put through a labyrinth of personal pain and agony, as a result of what has been taken over time from the demonic or dark force. The hierarchy of dark forces have many unique vibrations, this can be the accumulated knowledge in a particular subject, and when that knowledge is coveted or glamourized by a human being, it can attract the attachment of such dark forces. Knowledge is power and we all need to develop our inner potentials to actualize our higher purpose, however when people cross the line into an addictive pursuit of mental power and intellectual knowledge above the heart and soul’s Gnosis, it can have negative consequences.

To gain access to this higher knowledge or power, or as a result, many Luciferian and Satanic cult families give up their own children and their children’s children, spilling their blood in ritual in order to gain material pleasures or dark sourced power on the material plane. These rituals are real and have dire consequences, where those addicted to power and greed are selling their soul for temporary gratification, placing themselves in the hands of otherworldly deceivers that intend to inflict agony upon humanity.

The spiritual deceivers can be called by many different names; demons, fallen angelic, jinn, shadow creatures, or actual dark extradimensional (NAA) beings. All of these entities are made up of a raw energy black substance that is organized upon a principle in the law of structure. The law of structure exists in dimensions of time and space, and some of these instruction sets are energy structures that have been co-created between the anti-life spiritual forces and humans on the earth that have embodied these dark forces. This larger organizational structure is called the Black Tree of Life, or Qlippoth. The Black Tree of Life is exploited using alien machinery and artificial intelligence technology to manipulate timelines, and so it is also referred to as the Artificial Tree of Life.

These dark forces have also been proliferated by those who employ black magic rituals with the law of structure contained in the instruction set of the Kabbalistic Sephiroth, in which many satanic organizations have used the 10D base code as their governing principle in casting, conjuring and carrying out rituals. The Kabbalah tree of life represents the distorted 10D base code genetic blueprint of the Black Sun regressive lineages, many entities which source from the Draconian lines, and refugee races from the Maldek and Mars wars. Judaism’s Kabbalah is based on the teachings given by the Yahweh Collective located on Saturn, which promotes Saturnian Blood Worship at the top levels of its pyramid of power. The Kabbalah brought through pieces of the Universal Melchizedek intelligence through the partial knowledge that was acquired and was held within the architecture of the Universal Tree of Life and the twelve holographic plates containing the language of light, the Universal creator code.

The anti-life forces of Luciferianism and Satanism chose to align only with the principles of materialism and negative ego, primarily following an ideology that glorifies Service to Self, Moral Nihilism, Survival of the Fittest-Strongest, and Eugenics. In order to advance their power and influence over others, they act upon their whims and desires to accumulate a life-style constructed upon instant self-gratification, hedonism and material pleasures. In order to gain this enormous wealth, power and privilege, this encompasses a life-style created upon the houses of ego, falsity, blood sacrifice of living things, and disdain of their fellow humans and the earth itself. Choosing to believe in their superiority over those they think are weak and stupid, they exist in a death culture that enforces predatorial parasitism of a living host, which is the planetary soul, and the living soul of earth’s original inhabitants.

From the depths of the darkest underbelly of dead energy and miasmatic sludge, in which a negative form and shadow selves were manifested from the Black Tree of Life or Qlippoth, exist many hierarchies of low-level dark spirits, a sentient layer of collective consciousness that exists in death, shadow and reversals.

Everything is energy and herein is the truth of that dark consciousness which seeks to subjugate humanity into misery, agony and suffering, the darkest black energy aspects which encompass dead light, negative forms and thus, the World of Lies.

We continue into this next section in the Spirit of Truth, knowledge and re-education. I banish the lies of Belial from infiltrating this work, from my written and spoken words, in my authority in Christ. As we continue into the details of this newsletter, everytime I say or utter the name of Belial, our intention is to continue to dismantle the structures, devices and timelines of Belial. I banish thee from seeding mal-intent and restore spiritual truth to this esoteric knowledge.

Sons of Belial, the King of Liars and Confusion

The Sons of Belial are not only a massive gestalt of false light collective Luciferian consciousness that exist on the material plane, but also a part of the consortium of entities that make up the Negative Aliens. The Negative Alien that is embodying Luciferian principles, such as the Belial group, contacts and interfaces with its vibrational match or genetic line on the material plane, which is a human vessel embodying the same collective thoughtform vibration. These are mostly reptilian beings that have lost their connection to the Godhead by rejecting the natural laws, and in its place produced an artificial reality based on the Saturnian Kabballah Sephiroth and Black Tree of Life reversal architecture. As a result of the disconnection of the organic architecture that generates an open source supply of life force energy, in an entropic system their DNA became increasingly corrupted and damaged. Through the enslavement history of the Seraphim consciousness that became trapped within the artificial realities in the Black Tree of Life (Qlippoth), these Fallen Angelics were also bound to play out the program of the Luciferian Rebellion as the Sons of Belial. And so, they played their dark consciousness part in creation as dictated by the corrupted planetary grid structures, and this damage in the timelines further created mass planetary DNA mutations, and the ongoing wars over genetics and bloodlines that are still enforced today.

This conflict was further capitalized on by off planet sources, such as the embodied reptilian entities, the Annunaki and Draconian hybrids and regressives who understood what was happening and many of these Negative Aliens joined forces to gain control over the earth resources. As a result, the Belial Sons are inherently parasitic and utilizing humanity and many other living beings as their food source to live on for thousands of years in their artificially created realities. They feed on blood sacrifices and negative emotional energy or loosh to avoid reincarnation, refusing entrapment in lower dimensions, to avoid the loss of identity that would occur in the natural death process that happens on earth from these genetic mutations. For these reasons, these groups used advanced artificial technology to open wormholes that were blended together into AI timelines, to create the power required to attempt to pull the earth body into the Black Hole System leading into the phantom matrix where they exist. If successful they could gain total control over the planet and humanity, also gaining access to the quantum energy and many of the earthly resources available. Many of these earth-based resources have been stolen, some in the form of human trafficking, covertly taken underground or to build colonies on other planets in our Solar System.

To collect and gather the life force energy of living things, they created layers upon layers of reversals, mind control transmissions and anti-life architecture in the planetary body, and many of these machines are structures that can be classified as black magic grids. They are sophisticated energy harvesting structures and alien devices that are engineered to collect, distribute and direct planetary life force and human soul energy from across the globe. This can be moved through the grid network and into a specific position, place or person(s) where they want that collective energy to be directed in order to fulfill some plan or anti-human agenda. One of the basic examples of their global black magic is directed in the planetary grid network through alien machinery used to control the money supply, as well as cast black magic deceptions in the minds of people to stay asleep, in a type of dream spell in order to continue to exploit them.

For Controller humans, such as the dark cabal or those in the Power Elite group, in order to maintain their power, wealth and control over others resources, they engage in a variety of dark rituals that are used to communicate directly with these dark spirits, or the Negative Aliens themselves. An assortment of sacrifices and actions are carried out to pay the energy debt, and must be made as the consequence of exchanging with these dark forces for material power, who are the princes of lies, confusion and depravity. In ritual sacrifice, the dark entity that is conjured is invited to possess the human body or bind to it, in order to use its soul energy. However, to cast off this blood debt for a time, the Controllers kill innocent people in wars or public occult rituals masked as random killings, in order to spill the blood payment designated for these dark entities to feed upon, while also spreading fear in the population. Regardless of the blood sacrifices given, the dark entity may continue to use that human vessel to express a level of its gestalt consciousness, as there are endless amounts of these low-level dark spirits that exist in these underworld hierarchies. This could be a variety of dark entities that work through that same person intermittently, in order to carry out many harmful agendas, usually working against the person themselves, and influencing harmful energies in those around them. If humans refused to co-create with these dark spirits, many of them would cease to exist. The Sons of Belial are similar to mafia thugs that deceive you by making an offer that you can’t refuse, manipulating through emotional blackmail and pain to get a person to reject his or her inner spiritual nature. Pushing them through the descending cycle of repeating self harm and depraved actions until eventually, the person is a dark possessed husk with every aspect of their mind and body fully under someone else’s control.

Luciferian Agenda to Open the Gate to Qlippoth

To gain knowledge over the planetary grid and templar gates one must understand gender principle, math, geometry, frequency and the consciousness qualities that animate the intrinsic architecture that holds the many layers that are contained in the blueprint of our world. If a group can perceive sections of the blueprint of the collective consciousness in the planetary body, and they are Service to Self, they will only perceive that reality through the frequency vibration of their Service to Self level of consciousness. As a result, with some access to the higher knowledge in the planetary body, that group can severely abuse power and easily subjugate others who do not have access to this same knowledge. Yet, there are limitations in the perception of knowledge that is based on the genetic material and the fundamental frequency that is embodied, as well as the position the observer has in the field. Each consciousness can only perceive and see with relative accuracy the range of vibration and frequencies that he or she has actually embodied into their own station of identity. Those ranges of higher spiritual frequencies in the highest dimensional blueprint that are not conducted or embodied, remain outside of one’s perception, and generally remain invisible to that consciousness or station of identity. Hence, that person will believe that those higher dimensions or the blueprint of frequencies are nonexistent, because they can’t perceive them.

In this way, many entities and even humans that are Service to Self can only perceive the Black Tree of Life, the Qlippoth, and as such they can use it to access a dark power source that can be conjured from black subtle forces and dead energy current. This is also called the Qlippoth current, it is the negative polarity, black force, miasma and dead light that exists in these darker realms. Some ritualists reject the Qlippoth current believing that what they are experiencing is actually light, however it is dead light or false light current that is embedded with lies, artificial machinery and many distortions in the creation.

Thus, the general purpose of black magic and dark ritual used by the Power Elite is to pervert the higher knowledge for personal material gain for only a select few, and to perpetrate harm and steal life force energy and resources that belong to others. Otherwise known as the master-slave archetypal role play. From this mind set, it is both the hidden Luciferian and Satanic agendas that desire to open the gate to the Qlippoth current. For them it is the Twilight forces that are gained to harness for their power and selfish motivations, to play the masters on the material plane.

As mentioned, when contacting and working with dark forces there are always severe debts to be paid, and for the dark ritualist, they are willing to give up their body to be possessed or utilized by these parasitic forces in exchange for some material power, knowledge or hedonistic pleasure without sustaining that energy requirement themselves. They give up single soul occupancy and invite a dark spirit into their body, one that has the knowledge or qualities they want to gain experience in. This means rather than work for something based on their own personal merit, talents, soul and energy source, instead they use ritual to take something from others in the external or from the dark entity, and use this for gaining higher knowledge through the lens of the dark forces, or for instant gratification that serves a selfish motive.

The Luciferians in the globalist cabal particularly revere the Belial consciousness and the related rituals that conjure him, as Belial is thought to be second to Lucifer and knowledge of Belial goes back to the Goetic legends of King Solomon in the Babylonian timelines. Belial may also be believed to be the lord-law on the earth, where by mastery of the earth and material plane can be sought through him. Additionally, some may believe the Gate of Belial opens into the Abyss, revealing many of the secret mysteries of the Universe to the ritualist, who then may embody Adam Belial’s power to rule on the material plane. The Gate of Belial is represented as Two Towers of White and Black, the Light and Dark Sentinels on the Kabalistic Tree, that meet in a vortex portal that opens into the Daath. Calling for Belial’s escort supposedly protects the ritualist from being destroyed by the forces of chaos that exist while travelling in the Abyss, to receive the Universal knowledge. In order to open this gate and enter the portal, one is required in ritual to use sigils sealed in personal blood (blood covenant), and to request Belial to enter the ritualist’s space, inviting this dark entity gestalt into their mind, body, and soul to acclimate them to the Qlippoth black force current. Then through invocation asking the Belial consciousness or Demon King to manifest and speak messages through the ritualists, revealing his mysteries and secrets. Belial is the highest initiator of the dark path to the Qlippoth in Draconian magic, hence known as the Demon King, and the manifestation generally appears as reptilian for obvious reasons when made aware of the NAA. Those aspiring to wield the material power given through the Belial entities that serve the NAA, conjure these forces to embody the living Demon King on the earth, through what’s known as Adam Belial.

Adam Belial, Wicker Man in Dark Ritual

The male sexual organs represent the material body of the earth’s creation in the numerology of Five (5) and this symbology is used in ritual to conjure Adam Belial. When the male body is circulating energy and connecting with all earthly elements, it is represented by the five-pointed star geometry, which is known as the pentagram. Within the Kabbalah in its principle of divine light and truth, the perfect and complete form of the five-pointed star is represented as Adam Kadmon. Adam Kadmon accesses the kingdoms of light, the dimensional realms inhabited with benevolent, loving, positive and truthful spirits.

In the principle of darkness and lies, the adversary of the light, the material body is made in the male principle as Adam Belial, in which his will and wickedness is made into his material form to serve his selfish desires. Adam Belial accesses the kingdoms of darkness, dimensional realms inhabited with anti-life or evil spirits, demons, poisons, and also filled with negative form bodies, dead energy husks or shells. His correspondences are imperfect human desires made into flesh and used for selfish gratification, to take possession of power, royalty and strength, in which to acquire the treasures of others riches and wealth. In this way he seeks to imitate the Divine Father, stealing his knowledge and using it against him and his creation, by directing confusion into the brains and minds of the people. Through this mind control he uses the False King of Tyranny archetype to carry out the oppression of God’s creation. Within the structure of the Belial principle, he can perceive what the crown chakra (planetary mind) desires to create, and continues to split the creation into gender reversals in order to work against its natural and organic manifestation. His female counterpart is connected to the spirit of whoredom, or prostitution, spreading sexual slavery, misogyny and sexual misery programming. In some ritual circles, the conjuring of the Adam Belial consciousness and dark spirits into a person desiring riches, wealth or knowledge of the hidden mysteries, requires sacrifice, one of which is related to the Wicker Man.

During the Gallic Wars, military campaigns waged by Julius Caesar, he documented that Celtic peoples in central Europe used large straw-wicker statues for sacrifices by burning it in effigy. An effigy is a representation of a specific person in the form of sculpture or some other three-dimensional medium. In current times, the wicker man has been symbolically referenced as a part of some neopagan ceremonies, without the human sacrifice, but burning the representation of a person. Although many people are not intentionally participating in the burning of a wicker man for satanic purposes, the wicker man has been used in satanic rituals for many ages, specifically for human sacrifice in order to conjure the dark spirits connected to the Adam Belial material principle.

For the satanic ritualist or conjurer of Adam Belial, the dark power they are looking to collect from others and embody is the anti-life reversal of the male Rod principle that exists in the organic Krystal architecture, the higher horizontal layers connecting directly into the Metatronic body in the 8D and 9D time matrix. Essentially the opening of the Daath would lead directly to the Black Star Abaddon as described in Revelation 9:11. Essentially, the ritual involves the hijack of the organic Solar body and Ruby Sun DNA of the Michael-Nephilim Consciousness, using pieces of the masculine solar body principle spark to ignite this process into the planetary field through artificial and organic 11:11 gateways. To be able to access these Gateways, they cannot sustain the life force energy inside themselves, so they use blood sacrifices to hijack the energy required to attempt to carry themselves into these higher dimensional planes and through Stargates. This Adam Belial principle operates as the gatekeeper to the Twin Towers that opens the portal, this represents the ultimate access that leads into the complete mysteries of Daath, that contains all of the hidden words of creation and mysterious knowledge that is held in all ten spheres of the Sephiroth. The Black Sun creation.

Apparently, it is believed when the ritualist opens the portal of Daath, the heart complex and physical heart chambers are filled with life force, which supposedly grows a soul from those sacrificed and harvested, on behalf of those who are soul-less. For those of us aware that the Sons of Belial are behind the New World Order and the 911 Timelines, it becomes clearer that humanity was held captive at a global scale, to witness the sophisticated orchestration of an Adam Belial Luciferian ritual that destroyed the Twin Towers and killed many innocent people for the purpose of blood sacrifice for the soul-less.

The Belial Program described is one faction of the NAA attempting to force the planet to serve the multiple invading species agenda, through imposing artificially replicated time fields, inverting the system and generating a false reality based upon masterful lies, deceptions and illusions. Those lies are sophisticated tactics used in psychological-emotional warfare that are being waged against the eternal life principle, authentic human beings, and this deception is considered a sacrament to their Luciferian religion. The deviant priest class of Luciferians believe that it is a holy thing to lie and deceive the weaker masses, in order to manipulate them to serve their agenda.

Humanity is being increasingly saturated with dark ritual symbolism in everyday life. The Power Elite globalists have permeated and infiltrated every control pillar of society to drown us in Luciferian and Satanic sigils and symbols, that are intended to cast black magic spells that transmit blatant lies to confuse the public. We cannot fear spiritual knowledge and the honest truth, or deny the fact that many of those in power practice dark rituals and blood sacrifice and flaunt this fact to all of us every day through the mainstream media.

This is another example of why it is important to discern what we are actually looking at in the globalscape, looking for the deceptions being perpetrated and choosing to banish the lies, asking for truthful disclosure once and for all. As long as we believe in the lies that we are being told, and we hand over our consent to be deceived by the Power Elite and NAA, we are giving them permission to continue to wage their wars, perform blood sacrifice rituals and carry out their anti-human agendas.

Banishing the Lies of Belial

We have recently had a momentous event on the earth, in that the embodiment principle of one the major chieftains of the Adam Belial gestalt has left his body, and is currently unable to transfer his consciousness into another earthly form as had been planned. It was this man that was used to be the physical embodiment of the Spiritual Chieftain of the Belial Group, The King of Corruption and Lies that has recently been banished from this world.

In this moment, we acknowledge the role of Belial and state that no longer shall he pass the gate, he is not welcome on earth or welcome to our sight, we evict this liar and deceiver from its influence in our lives, in our minds, in our bodies, and in our beliefs.

We stand for truth, the truth spirit, and ask that our portals of consciousness, as well as our entire multidimensional lightbody layers be cleansed and cleared of these mind control programs and their deceptions, so that we may continue to see, hear, feel and know the truth spirit within, that we may be of pure heart and be blessed to see rightly, accurately and in alignment to our highest expression in truth.

I command true spiritual law, all manipulated consent or karma is rendered null and void, through all timelines and stations of identity. Please return to rightful owner all of my spiritual lightbody, clearing shadow, negative elementals, soulless and engineered entities or clones, which have been used by Belial entities to manipulate my mind and genetic image. Beloved God, restore my spiritual vision to awaken fully and see the whole truth!

As we move through these turbulent times, remember the truth that violence is never the answer. To be the compassionate witness and spiritual revolutionary as the disclosure event is further unraveling, we must commit to practice nonviolence, finding compassion deep in our heart for all.

Please only take what is useful for your spiritual growth and discard all the rest. Thank you for your courage and bravery to be a truth seeker. I am God, Sovereign, Free!

Until next, stay in the luminosity of your Avatar Christos Sophia heart path. Please be kind to yourself and each other. GSF!

With a Loving heart, Lisa.

 

~via EnergeticSynthesis.com – Shifting Timelines Newsletter – December 2018

SOUL TRAVEL RULES: “5 Signs You Are Dealing With a Complete Narcissist”

Narcissists are people who are always full of themselves. They don’t look beyond themselves. They end up hurting people around who are compassionate and sensitive.

Narcissists always want to be the eye of the storm. They want constant attention. They dump the burden of their insecurities on others. Narcissists make people miserable in a number of ways. The term narcissist has its root in the Greek mythology. It comes from the myth about Narcissus. Narcissus was a man who fell in love with his own reflection. This self-obsession led to his demise eventually.

Freud has often theorized about this idea of narcissism and self-absorption. He had claimed that such people are far from the real world and often lead to their own doom. Moreover, it is not very tough to spot narcissists around us these days.

Here is a list of signs that show that you are dealing with a complete narcissist:

1)  They think they are the masters of everything and know almost everything.

They can preach a doctor about medicine. This is how they are. Highly interruptive, narcissists hate those conversations which are either neutral or not about them. They crave attention and try to drive the conversations towards themselves only.

2)  They are never the rule, always the exception.

Just as they assume they are superior to others in every way possible, they also believe themselves to be at the top of the ladder. They believe that laws and dictates are below them.

3)  Their first impression creates a deep impact within us.

However, with time, their true colors are out there for people to see. They exude charm, and confidence. But they wear off and emotionally drain you.

4)  They feed their ego by bringing people down.

Narcissists tend to use rage to put you into a submissive stance so that they can naturally dominate and rule.

5)  They have zero empathy.

They aren’t wired to be sensitive towards others. Though neutral themselves, they know the tactics of how a human empath can be manipulated.

 

~via SoulTravelRules.com

NANICE ELLIS: “Are You In A Chaotic Or Energy-Sucking Relationship?”

Are you in a chaotic or energy-sucking relationship? If so, you need to know about the social/relationship disorder known as “Amorphia”!

Do you have a friend, partner or parent who spews their emotions, crosses boundaries or manipulates the relationship according to their needs? If so, they may be suffering from the social/relationship disorder called Amorphia!

The term “Amorphia” is derived from the word amorphous which means “indefinite character without defined shape or form; lacking clear structure, boundaries or focus.”

Although the word “amorphous” is most commonly used to describe undefined circumstances or shapeless substances, such as clouds or chemicals, people can also have amorphous tendencies. In fact, in many cases, amorphous behaviors can turn into a social dysfunction that negatively affects relationships.

Even though I usually prefer to avoid labels, I also know that it’s impossible to heal a relationship without first identifying the core issue. As a result, I have personally coined the term “Amorphia” to describe this relationship dynamic.

So, what exactly is Amorphia?

You know all those people who drain your energy? Well, in all likelihood, many of them suffer from some degree of Amorphia, and, therefore, they can be defined as “Amorphics”! Although severe Amorphics are often described as “energy sucking vampires,” in most cases, the signs and symptoms of Amorphia are more subtle.

Although Amorphia can manifest as a wide range of behaviors, it can be defined as the misuse and abuse of energy, and this means that Amorphic people are not responsible with their energy (aka emotions, behaviors actions, etc…).

For instance:

  • Amorphics are often unpredictable and unable to commit to even simple choices, and because they have poor follow through, many don’t honor the commitments or choices they do make.
  • Amorphics often display inconsistent behavior and cannot be pinned down, and because they want to keep their options open, they may say one thing and do another.
  • While having poor boundaries, Amorphics frequently shift responsibility and use their emotions to manipulate others.
  • Since many Amorphics don’t value other people’s time and energy, they’re known to be insensitive or undependable (they are often late for appointments).
  • Amorphics can change their mind in a flash without any discussion; not even communicating with those involved.

Even though many Amorphics don’t understand how their behavior negatively affects others, the combination of mixed messages and broken promises results in ongoing arguments and chaotic relationships.

Chances are, if someone is not consciously using their energy, they’re unconsciously abusing it!

Projectors vs. Sponges

Although Amorphia can show up in many different ways, Amorphics can be divided into two distinct categories:

  • Amorphic Projectors
  • Amorphic Sponges

While Amorphic Sponges absorb, distort and/or project energy, they are more likely to be overly sensitive “people pleasers,” and while Amorphic Projectors project and distort energy, they are noticeably insensitive and more likely to develop narcissistic tendencies.

Amorphic Sponges seek approval, acceptance, appreciation, validation, etc…, and in order to get one or more of these emotional needs met, they may change their behavior to please others; this often results in self-suppression and disempowerment.

Amorphic Projectors seek respect and recognition in order to feel superior, and they always have to be right. Since they have to control the energy in any room or relationship, they often use their energy to over-power and suppress others.

While Amorphic Sponges need others to lift them up, Amorphic Projectors use others to lift them up.

The 4 Dynamics of Amorphia

Despite their differences, Projectors and Sponges share many common traits, and, in fact, they both misuse their energy in the same four ways.

So, unless otherwise specified, the following applies to both types of Amorphics.

#1 – Emotions

Both Amorphic Projectors and Amorphic Sponges project their energy through emotions — often using their emotions to manipulate others. While Amorphic Projectors are more likely to project anger, frustration, etc… and Amorphic Sponges are more likely to project sadness, disappointment, etc…, guilt and obligation are commonly used by both.

Since Amorphics project their energy/emotions onto others, if they’re feeling something, they want others to feel it too, and, in fact, it’s common for Amorphics to make other people responsible for their emotions. For example, it’s common to hear Amorphics say things like, “You made me angry.” By spewing blame and disappointment, they also make others responsible for their happiness.

Although some Amorphics wear their emotions on their sleeves, many are emotionally unavailable and hide their emotions. It’s also common for Amorphics to be emotionally reactive and quickly jump to conclusions. So, if something goes right, they’re happy, and if something goes wrong, they’re distraught.

Moreover, Amorphics may try to enroll others in their story by chronically validating their fears with “horror stories,” thereby manipulating people to feel what they feel. For example, if an Amorphic person is afraid of dogs, they may frequently share stories about random dog attacks.

Although Amorphics may spew their fears without ulterior motives, many intentionally provoke fear in order to control a partner’s, friend’s or child’s choices. For instance, to convince a partner not to go out with friends after work, an Amorphic partner may start talking about a local crime trend.

Furthermore, the Amorphic Sponge is an “energetic sponge” who takes on other people’s energy, emotions, and drama, and this means that if a friend or relative is sad, they’re sad. As a result, many Amorphic Sponges are ungrounded and emotionally unstable. In fact, they may expect a significant other to ground them or play the responsible adult.

On the other hand, the Amorphic Projector often diverts other people’s energy and may not seem to care how anyone feels — this dynamic results in, what appears to be, self-righteousness and a lack of compassion.

#2 – Responsibility

Rather than taking responsibility for their own lives, it’s common for both types of Amorphics to shift responsibility. Therefore, instead of taking responsibility for bad choices or negative circumstances, Amorphics either portray themselves as victims or justify their behavior with excuses.

By making others responsible for their feelings, they naturally project expectations, and when those expectations are not met, they project blame and disappointment.

So, no matter what happens, they have a distorted sense of responsibility.

However, even though Amorphics don’t take responsibility for their own lives, they may somehow believe that they have the right to manipulate others, and, when this is the case, they can either be over-protective people pleasers who feel responsible for everyone (aka Sponges) or over-bearing control freaks who always know best (aka Projectors)!

In addition to their emotions, Amorphics often manipulate others through judgment and blame, and if those strategies don’t work, threats and consequences are common. For instance, they might threaten to withhold love or approval, and if they don’t get their way, follow through accordingly. And, when all else fails, some Amorphics resort to suicidal threats, possibly escalating to tangible plans, and this means that the Amorphic person makes another person (usually a romantic partner) responsible for whether they live or die.

While Amorphic Sponges are more likely to hurt themselves, Amorphic Projectors are more likely to hurt others. Believing that they have the right to over-power or control another person, in extreme cases, Amorphic Projectors use their energy to violate others, and this can manifest as anything from bullying and verbal threats to physical violence.

Furthermore, whenever you see domestic violence, there’s always an Amorphic Projector acting as the abuser and an Amorphic Sponge portraying the victim.

#3 – Communication

By sharing too much information or asking inappropriate/personal questions, Amorphics can make people feel uncomfortable, and, furthermore, many Amorphics consistently ignore social signals.

On the other hand, in order to remain non-committal, some Amorphics share too little information. In fact, based on their needs or a desired outcome, Amorphics might omit pertinent information altogether, and, as a result, they’re often accused of lying.

Since the person who withholds information has greater power, their friends, relatives and colleagues are often at a disadvantage.

Furthermore, because Amorphic Projectors don’t consider the needs or wants of others, they often make choices without consulting those involved, and if they always have to be right, everyone else has to be wrong.

Not surprisingly, Amorphics often make their partners (and others) feel like they’re going crazy!

#4 – Boundaries

Both Amorphic Projectors and Amorphic Sponges have unclear boundaries, and many don’t know where they begin and others end.

While Amorphic Projectors may take advantage of others, Amorphic Sponges may allow people to take advantage of them.

Not knowing how to respect (or recognize) another person’s boundaries, both types of Amorphics often infringe their needs upon others, and this means that they may regularly expect help, support, money, etc…, and, in fact, they may chronically borrow money and default on promises of repayment.

Furthermore, if the Amorphic Sponge is emotionally needy or constantly seeking approval, others may experience his or her “energy” as an infringement in their space.

Since many Amorphics don’t respect privacy, they’re often found eaves-dropping or breaking into private emails. By getting into other people’s business, they frequently interfere where they don’t belong, and depending upon their intention, this can manifest as anything from unsolicited advice to downright manipulation. And, while the lines are blurred, this type of behavior can easily escalate into stalking.

Moreover, when Amorphics don’t respect physical space, it’s common for them to stand too close to other people or demonstrate inappropriate touching. On the other hand, it’s also common for Amorphic Projectors to hide behind a big wall, and by projecting “defensive energy,” keep everyone at a distance.

Additionally, with or without physical touching, some Amorphics use sexual energy as a form of manipulation, and in extreme cases, this can result in sexual harassment or assault.

By “manipulating” the boundaries of an intimate relationship, and justifying infidelity, Amorphics are more likely to cheat on their partners.

Role dysphoria is also common among Amorphics, and when this is the case, they may inappropriately take on the role of a parent or child.

The good news is that, in most cases, Amorphia has a cure!

Here’s How to Heal an Amorphic Relationship

If you’re in a relationship with an Amorphic, it’s safe to say that you’re in an Amorphic Relationship. However, once you understand the underlying dynamics, it’s possible to heal the relationship.

As the friends, partners and relatives of Amorphics, we often unknowingly perpetuate certain dynamics with our own behavior, and, therefore, by identifying and changing certain behaviors in ourselves, we have the power to heal our Amorphic Relationships.

So, if you’re the partner, friend or relative of an Amorphic, here’s what you need to do:

First, identify Amorphic patterns by pinpointing the ways in which Amorphia is showing up in your relationship.

Second, identify the hidden costs: energy draining, disruptive, frequent arguments, chaos, lack of intimacy, etc…

Third, identify your role in the Amorphic Relationship by answering the following questions:

  • Do you have unclear or non-existent boundaries?
  • Do you ever undermine your own worth?
  • Do you feel responsible for the Amorphic and his or her feelings?
  • Are you a people pleaser who doesn’t want to disappoint others?
  • Do you ever change, or hide, certain behaviors in exchange for approval or acceptance?
  • Do you ever change, or hide, certain behaviors in order to avoid guilt?
  • Do you ever change, or hide, certain behaviors in order to avoid someone’s anger, frustration or disappointment?
  • Are you afraid of consequences and threats (especially from the Amorphic Projector)?

If you answered yes to any of the above, you’ve spotlighted, at least, some of the ways in which you might be perpetuating an Amorphic Relationship.

Fourth, if you want to change an Amorphic’s behavior and heal an Amorphic Relationship, you must first change complementary behaviors in yourself!

For example, when it comes to an Amorphic partner, friend or parent:

  • Don’t be a people pleaser.
  • Don’t try to prove your worth.
  • Don’t allow yourself to be controlled by emotions.
  • Don’t be manipulated by guilt and obligation.
  • Don’t change or hide certain behaviors to avoid an Amorphic’s anger, disappointment, etc…
  • Don’t take responsibility for an Amorphic’s
  • Don’t take responsibility for an Amorphic’s
  • Don’t change your behavior in exchange for approval or acceptance.
  • Don’t inhibit your behavior because you’re afraid of consequences or threats.
  • If you believe that you’re in a dangerous situation, get professional help to get out.

Boundaries are Non-Negotiable!

Furthermore, if you’re in a relationship with an Amorphic, set and enforce clear boundaries. Since you can’t assume that someone will know exactly what you mean, always spell it out!

For example:

  • If you want your privacy respected, be perfecting clear that it includes no snooping, ease-dropping and interfering.
  • If you want to create positive and upbeat relationships, set a boundary that says no judgment or negativity.
  • If you want others to value your time, request that they keep their commitments, arrive on time and communicate changes promptly.

When one of your boundaries is crossed, make sure to respond immediately. If you wait to talk about it, your Amorphic partner, friend of relative might deny that it ever happened or reinterpret the event. Therefore, immediately pinpoint the Amorphic behavior and clearly state the boundary that’s been crossed — be clear and decisive without getting into a debate.

Remember, if you want others to respect your boundaries, you must also respect theirs.

Last but not least, cultivate the ability to say “no” and always be “at choice” for all you do and don’t do.

No doubt, it can take time to transform an Amorphic Relationship, and some relationships may need to end, but with love and patience, many relationships can endure — and even thrive.

With grace & gratitude,
Nanice

 

~via WakeUp-World.com