NEZEL PADAYHAG: “The 2 Most Important Traits Of A Soulmate”

Most people think that a soulmate is a person who magically appears in your life out of nowhere because they are destined to be with you.

However, a true soulmate doesn’t have to be a romantic partner. But they will most likely be. And they do not appear magically, they are attracted to your vibration.

So this means that no matter how close your soulmate is to you, if you do not let yourself be yourself, and shine with your light, they will not perceive the truth of you.

To find the right person and connect with on a cosmic level you have to become the right person yourself. And once you find this person, everything changes in your life.

When the two of you unite, your energies complement each other and become so extremely strong that just your partnership in love creates a positive change in this world.

There are countless signs, traits and explanations of what is a soulmate and how it feels when you find them.

But most of these traits are not concrete enough. So here are the two most important traits of a soulmate.

The 2 Most Important Traits Of A Soulmate:

If someone has these two traits, whether you believe in soulmates or not, they are what is considered a soulmate.

1. You’re deeply inspired by them.

“Inspiration” comes from the Greek word “Theopneustos”, which literally means “God breathed”.

In other words, when you meet a soulmate you feel connected to them on a much deeper level, a level that is spiritual, coming from the Source.

This person inspires you more than you can imagine. It goes beyond reason, time, space, and comprehension.

You feel a deep connection on a subconscious level. Having this subconscious connection, you both tap into your infinite potential.

You’re inspired to do things you never have done before. Because you inspire each other, manifesting your dreams is easier.

You become aware that you’re both co creators creating your reality.

When you’re together, your energies are so strong that people can’t help but notice its magnetic power. When both of you enter a room together it illuminates the atmosphere.

You know what the other person is thinking even just by gazing at each other’s eyes. And whenever you are together you feel as there are no limits to your potential.

You are changed into the best version of you not because they magically transform you, but because you are inspired by them to transform into your best self yourself.

At times, it takes true love so the darkest places of your soul can surface and be healed. And this kind of love is what really transforms us.

2. You love deeply and care strongly for them.

As we said, a soulmate doesn’t have to be a romantic partner. Some times it is a friend, or maybe even a person you consider a foe.

But most often it is going to be a romantic partner. This is because a soulmate reflects deep parts of yourself you are often attracted to or you disassociate with and hate.

There are many ways to define love. And it’s often subjective. A person can love someone out of a deep need. Or, they can love someone just because they do.

Most often, the second kind of loving is the deepest kind of loving. It’s because you have no need to love a person, but you still do, that hints to some deeper reason.

You love deeply and care genuinely when you’re willing to give without demanding something in return.

A usual phenomena that happens with your soulmate is when you can look at each other’s eyes and see that you’re both timeless.

You unconsciously understand that you come from the same source and the same breath of life.

If you feel your partner is the right person but things aren’t flowing smoothly, there might be some issues that both of you need to solve.

Both of you may have reflected upon each other’s aspects that need healing. It’s scary to look but if it’s the only way to heal, then face your fears and inner wounds.

This often happens with soulmates who are not romantic partners but a friend, or maybe even someone you just hate. But it can happen with a romantic partner.

You hate them because they reflect the things you hate within yourself and they are, in a way, trying to heal you by making you face what you avoid within yourself.

But whoever they are, a friend, a foe, a romantic partner, if they are your soulmate you will feel deep care for them, even if you hate them.

So what do you need to do to attract your soulmate:

You shouldn’t force yourself trying to attract your soulmate. If a relationship isn’t making you happy or fulfilled, then you might be in the wrong relationship.

You don’t need to suffer in a relationship wishing the person you’re with is the right one. No one knows it better than you. But first, you need to work on yourself.

You need to have a deeper connection with yourself because your vibration is the link that connects you to your soulmate.

When you’re fully aware of yourself and vibrate in the same frequency your soulmate is vibrating, then there’s a big chance you will meet each other.

Whatever the case may be, continue to shine your light. When the right person comes, you will just know it. Any other explanation will be just irrelevant.

 

~via LifeCoachCode.com

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MOMENTS WITH MILLIE: “Rise!”

“As you rise many people will disapprove. Rise anyway.”

~Mastin Kipp

 

I want you to read that meme over and over. I remember four years ago when I died in the ER and was returned to this world. I recognized that the moment I woke I was different. As days turned into months and months into years, I had to remove anyone (and anything) that disturbed my sensitivity. I could not be responsible for making the world happy, especially people who sucked the life out of me trying to find happiness. They are responsible for their own journey.

Not everyone will approve.

Not everyone will agree.

People judge from the place of their own perspective and experiences. It’s not for you to try and mold them. Let them judge. Just don’t allow them to break you.

So I stopped…I made it a point of truly disengaging from those whose addictions and toxic energy were hurting me.

I woke to find me. And every day afterwards I’ve had to continue setting boundaries. Some are easy. Others feel like I’m the worst human on earth.

And that’s part of this human thingy. I keep standing in my knowing.

Rise, darling. Keep standing for your truth, awareness, love and your life. Keep rising to all that is to come when you live through your authenticity, when you move through love.

Whether they approve or not…rise and acknowledge YOU!!!

I love YOU! ~m.a.p.

 

~viaMomentsWithMillie.me

KIM SEMETIS: “Our Reality is Our CHOICE”

As we have entered the phase of the collective oversoul/ collective consciousness we have reached the critical mass to shift the entire collective on a universal level to the highest consciousness that there is, the christed consciousness.

This is the highest that we can go, just when we thought that we couldn’t get much higher. Living as a multi dimensional being of the light is the highest honor attainable to all. Some will choose to stay and some will choose to leave, preferring to ascend in another form. Those that choose to stay will continue to ascend in the here and now, in the physical, to achieve energy mastery here. It is all a choice in preference to each soul. Those that choose to stay will learn how to transcend 3D consciousness/duality and come to feel the expansive love that is our very essence. For those that are still deep in slumber this may seem like a bumpy ride, filled with the darkest of days UNTIL they choose to OPEN UP to a NEW WAY, a way that they may have never considered before, as they learn to “see” and “feel” what is truly aligned with their soul. We all must learn to not only see ALL of the programs still held within but also to clear them until all is gone. This means “UNLEARNING” absolutely everything that we thought to be true as a 3D human. This is exciting and can be fun, IF we do not fight the GREAT AWAKENING that is happening in each moment. Those still deep in slumber, as they begin to wake up, will seek out the early wakers, the wayshowers of the light that chose to go through this before the masses. These beings WILL begin to make sense, as all awaken at the perfect moment. Those that they did not understand and actually thought were “CRAZY”, will begin to make sense, as we speak to the soul, as opposed to the human mind.

This is a pivotal time for all, as some are already living in the fifth dimension and higher, and some are still living in 3D/4D hell. Those in the realm of “hell” cannot “see” or understand/comprehend what it is to be living HEAVEN ON EARTH. Those that choose to still see duality and living in victim energy can stay as long as they wish but…..they are watching, and they are seeing those that are happy and joyful, just because. They may judge those and think that we are simple minded, not seeing all the injustices that abound, yet they are curious, and this curiosity is what opens the door for them. Tiny portals will open for them in the beginning, giving them a glimpse of what others already know.

Life is to be MAGICAL, MYSTICAL, filled with JOY at every turn, where LOVE and KINDNESS is always the answer.

This is a place where ego is a thing of the past and if we see it in ourselves and others, we correct it immediately (within our self) or walk away, as it is no longer a part of our experience here on the earth plane. There is no room for this in the higher realms, the frequencies do not support this.

So let us ask you this “Why would you want to stay in hell when there are wondrous other options available?” You may not yet be able to see these other options, but you will, you will notice lives filled with ease, joy and abundance and you will want to know how to get there. There are many out there that have the answers to that and if you seek, you will find those that you resonate with.

Even those that consider themselves “Spiritual” do not see the magnitude of who they are, still playing in dualistic games of the ego. Still holding onto old beliefs, old teachings/ old paradigms, turning a blind eye to opening up and moving forward. Some have hearts that are only partially open, some have open hearts but close them back up if things do not go their way. They are like an ostrich with its head in the sand, unwilling to take a peek at what is really possible, wanting to stay in the fight of “what is mine” and “who is right”….. Nobody cares in the higher realms. This is because we have achieved unity consciousness and all are one commUNITY at all times, not only when it is convenient.

WE LOVE and HONOR EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING at all times. We not only see the whole picture, we are the picture, we are the creators in each moment, creating our own reality/universe. We love everyone enough to mind our own business, allowing others the space to create whatever they wish. This is not for us to interfere anymore as we have learned (sometimes the hard way) how to step back and give presence and honor to those that we used to hover over. This is full HONOR and RESPECT on the highest level, to give each its own power back. It truly is the greatest gift, for we are all sovereign beings in the higher realms, coming together to create in UNITY/commUNITY with purity only, with no hidden agendas. “Relationships” are a thing of the past. There is no more relying on others, there is only assisting out of the purity of our heart. Those that have already been ascending for years can “feel” and “know” the difference. It quite simply does not feel good when intentions are other than pure and we will simply walk away if and when we even have these experiences at all anymore.

Heaven on Earth, simply put, means that if and when we have an experience that is less than pleasant, we may simply wait until this energy dissipates (quite quickly) and we will also not wish to be around that energy and will make sure that we walk away from it once and for all. This may mean walking away from friends/family/jobs/homes/ people and places we have always known and replacing them with our solidarity as we walk in peace/happiness and love. We begin to be very okay with this as we make room for all NEW REALITIES with souls that are in alignment with our frequency/our mission. Those that radiate out light at all times, refusing to go back to old patterns and games. Those that seek the highest in all that they do and those that they choose to create with. The human cannot comprehend this, but the soul not only knows that this is possible but it is the true way, the key (keycode) to unlocking doors that they never even knew that they were there. This light encoded writing is offering you the keys to open the doors/portals/gateways/stargates that are just for you, for they are YOUR DOORWAYS. Take a step, turn the key and unlock/open the door to the passageway into the unknown, for this is where all the MAGIC and BLISS resides!!

We LOVE you more than you can ever imagine!

Kim

http://www.divinewarriorgoddess.com

 

~via In5D.com

NANICE ELLIS: “Are You In A Chaotic Or Energy-Sucking Relationship?”

Are you in a chaotic or energy-sucking relationship? If so, you need to know about the social/relationship disorder known as “Amorphia”!

Do you have a friend, partner or parent who spews their emotions, crosses boundaries or manipulates the relationship according to their needs? If so, they may be suffering from the social/relationship disorder called Amorphia!

The term “Amorphia” is derived from the word amorphous which means “indefinite character without defined shape or form; lacking clear structure, boundaries or focus.”

Although the word “amorphous” is most commonly used to describe undefined circumstances or shapeless substances, such as clouds or chemicals, people can also have amorphous tendencies. In fact, in many cases, amorphous behaviors can turn into a social dysfunction that negatively affects relationships.

Even though I usually prefer to avoid labels, I also know that it’s impossible to heal a relationship without first identifying the core issue. As a result, I have personally coined the term “Amorphia” to describe this relationship dynamic.

So, what exactly is Amorphia?

You know all those people who drain your energy? Well, in all likelihood, many of them suffer from some degree of Amorphia, and, therefore, they can be defined as “Amorphics”! Although severe Amorphics are often described as “energy sucking vampires,” in most cases, the signs and symptoms of Amorphia are more subtle.

Although Amorphia can manifest as a wide range of behaviors, it can be defined as the misuse and abuse of energy, and this means that Amorphic people are not responsible with their energy (aka emotions, behaviors actions, etc…).

For instance:

  • Amorphics are often unpredictable and unable to commit to even simple choices, and because they have poor follow through, many don’t honor the commitments or choices they do make.
  • Amorphics often display inconsistent behavior and cannot be pinned down, and because they want to keep their options open, they may say one thing and do another.
  • While having poor boundaries, Amorphics frequently shift responsibility and use their emotions to manipulate others.
  • Since many Amorphics don’t value other people’s time and energy, they’re known to be insensitive or undependable (they are often late for appointments).
  • Amorphics can change their mind in a flash without any discussion; not even communicating with those involved.

Even though many Amorphics don’t understand how their behavior negatively affects others, the combination of mixed messages and broken promises results in ongoing arguments and chaotic relationships.

Chances are, if someone is not consciously using their energy, they’re unconsciously abusing it!

Projectors vs. Sponges

Although Amorphia can show up in many different ways, Amorphics can be divided into two distinct categories:

  • Amorphic Projectors
  • Amorphic Sponges

While Amorphic Sponges absorb, distort and/or project energy, they are more likely to be overly sensitive “people pleasers,” and while Amorphic Projectors project and distort energy, they are noticeably insensitive and more likely to develop narcissistic tendencies.

Amorphic Sponges seek approval, acceptance, appreciation, validation, etc…, and in order to get one or more of these emotional needs met, they may change their behavior to please others; this often results in self-suppression and disempowerment.

Amorphic Projectors seek respect and recognition in order to feel superior, and they always have to be right. Since they have to control the energy in any room or relationship, they often use their energy to over-power and suppress others.

While Amorphic Sponges need others to lift them up, Amorphic Projectors use others to lift them up.

The 4 Dynamics of Amorphia

Despite their differences, Projectors and Sponges share many common traits, and, in fact, they both misuse their energy in the same four ways.

So, unless otherwise specified, the following applies to both types of Amorphics.

#1 – Emotions

Both Amorphic Projectors and Amorphic Sponges project their energy through emotions — often using their emotions to manipulate others. While Amorphic Projectors are more likely to project anger, frustration, etc… and Amorphic Sponges are more likely to project sadness, disappointment, etc…, guilt and obligation are commonly used by both.

Since Amorphics project their energy/emotions onto others, if they’re feeling something, they want others to feel it too, and, in fact, it’s common for Amorphics to make other people responsible for their emotions. For example, it’s common to hear Amorphics say things like, “You made me angry.” By spewing blame and disappointment, they also make others responsible for their happiness.

Although some Amorphics wear their emotions on their sleeves, many are emotionally unavailable and hide their emotions. It’s also common for Amorphics to be emotionally reactive and quickly jump to conclusions. So, if something goes right, they’re happy, and if something goes wrong, they’re distraught.

Moreover, Amorphics may try to enroll others in their story by chronically validating their fears with “horror stories,” thereby manipulating people to feel what they feel. For example, if an Amorphic person is afraid of dogs, they may frequently share stories about random dog attacks.

Although Amorphics may spew their fears without ulterior motives, many intentionally provoke fear in order to control a partner’s, friend’s or child’s choices. For instance, to convince a partner not to go out with friends after work, an Amorphic partner may start talking about a local crime trend.

Furthermore, the Amorphic Sponge is an “energetic sponge” who takes on other people’s energy, emotions, and drama, and this means that if a friend or relative is sad, they’re sad. As a result, many Amorphic Sponges are ungrounded and emotionally unstable. In fact, they may expect a significant other to ground them or play the responsible adult.

On the other hand, the Amorphic Projector often diverts other people’s energy and may not seem to care how anyone feels — this dynamic results in, what appears to be, self-righteousness and a lack of compassion.

#2 – Responsibility

Rather than taking responsibility for their own lives, it’s common for both types of Amorphics to shift responsibility. Therefore, instead of taking responsibility for bad choices or negative circumstances, Amorphics either portray themselves as victims or justify their behavior with excuses.

By making others responsible for their feelings, they naturally project expectations, and when those expectations are not met, they project blame and disappointment.

So, no matter what happens, they have a distorted sense of responsibility.

However, even though Amorphics don’t take responsibility for their own lives, they may somehow believe that they have the right to manipulate others, and, when this is the case, they can either be over-protective people pleasers who feel responsible for everyone (aka Sponges) or over-bearing control freaks who always know best (aka Projectors)!

In addition to their emotions, Amorphics often manipulate others through judgment and blame, and if those strategies don’t work, threats and consequences are common. For instance, they might threaten to withhold love or approval, and if they don’t get their way, follow through accordingly. And, when all else fails, some Amorphics resort to suicidal threats, possibly escalating to tangible plans, and this means that the Amorphic person makes another person (usually a romantic partner) responsible for whether they live or die.

While Amorphic Sponges are more likely to hurt themselves, Amorphic Projectors are more likely to hurt others. Believing that they have the right to over-power or control another person, in extreme cases, Amorphic Projectors use their energy to violate others, and this can manifest as anything from bullying and verbal threats to physical violence.

Furthermore, whenever you see domestic violence, there’s always an Amorphic Projector acting as the abuser and an Amorphic Sponge portraying the victim.

#3 – Communication

By sharing too much information or asking inappropriate/personal questions, Amorphics can make people feel uncomfortable, and, furthermore, many Amorphics consistently ignore social signals.

On the other hand, in order to remain non-committal, some Amorphics share too little information. In fact, based on their needs or a desired outcome, Amorphics might omit pertinent information altogether, and, as a result, they’re often accused of lying.

Since the person who withholds information has greater power, their friends, relatives and colleagues are often at a disadvantage.

Furthermore, because Amorphic Projectors don’t consider the needs or wants of others, they often make choices without consulting those involved, and if they always have to be right, everyone else has to be wrong.

Not surprisingly, Amorphics often make their partners (and others) feel like they’re going crazy!

#4 – Boundaries

Both Amorphic Projectors and Amorphic Sponges have unclear boundaries, and many don’t know where they begin and others end.

While Amorphic Projectors may take advantage of others, Amorphic Sponges may allow people to take advantage of them.

Not knowing how to respect (or recognize) another person’s boundaries, both types of Amorphics often infringe their needs upon others, and this means that they may regularly expect help, support, money, etc…, and, in fact, they may chronically borrow money and default on promises of repayment.

Furthermore, if the Amorphic Sponge is emotionally needy or constantly seeking approval, others may experience his or her “energy” as an infringement in their space.

Since many Amorphics don’t respect privacy, they’re often found eaves-dropping or breaking into private emails. By getting into other people’s business, they frequently interfere where they don’t belong, and depending upon their intention, this can manifest as anything from unsolicited advice to downright manipulation. And, while the lines are blurred, this type of behavior can easily escalate into stalking.

Moreover, when Amorphics don’t respect physical space, it’s common for them to stand too close to other people or demonstrate inappropriate touching. On the other hand, it’s also common for Amorphic Projectors to hide behind a big wall, and by projecting “defensive energy,” keep everyone at a distance.

Additionally, with or without physical touching, some Amorphics use sexual energy as a form of manipulation, and in extreme cases, this can result in sexual harassment or assault.

By “manipulating” the boundaries of an intimate relationship, and justifying infidelity, Amorphics are more likely to cheat on their partners.

Role dysphoria is also common among Amorphics, and when this is the case, they may inappropriately take on the role of a parent or child.

The good news is that, in most cases, Amorphia has a cure!

Here’s How to Heal an Amorphic Relationship

If you’re in a relationship with an Amorphic, it’s safe to say that you’re in an Amorphic Relationship. However, once you understand the underlying dynamics, it’s possible to heal the relationship.

As the friends, partners and relatives of Amorphics, we often unknowingly perpetuate certain dynamics with our own behavior, and, therefore, by identifying and changing certain behaviors in ourselves, we have the power to heal our Amorphic Relationships.

So, if you’re the partner, friend or relative of an Amorphic, here’s what you need to do:

First, identify Amorphic patterns by pinpointing the ways in which Amorphia is showing up in your relationship.

Second, identify the hidden costs: energy draining, disruptive, frequent arguments, chaos, lack of intimacy, etc…

Third, identify your role in the Amorphic Relationship by answering the following questions:

  • Do you have unclear or non-existent boundaries?
  • Do you ever undermine your own worth?
  • Do you feel responsible for the Amorphic and his or her feelings?
  • Are you a people pleaser who doesn’t want to disappoint others?
  • Do you ever change, or hide, certain behaviors in exchange for approval or acceptance?
  • Do you ever change, or hide, certain behaviors in order to avoid guilt?
  • Do you ever change, or hide, certain behaviors in order to avoid someone’s anger, frustration or disappointment?
  • Are you afraid of consequences and threats (especially from the Amorphic Projector)?

If you answered yes to any of the above, you’ve spotlighted, at least, some of the ways in which you might be perpetuating an Amorphic Relationship.

Fourth, if you want to change an Amorphic’s behavior and heal an Amorphic Relationship, you must first change complementary behaviors in yourself!

For example, when it comes to an Amorphic partner, friend or parent:

  • Don’t be a people pleaser.
  • Don’t try to prove your worth.
  • Don’t allow yourself to be controlled by emotions.
  • Don’t be manipulated by guilt and obligation.
  • Don’t change or hide certain behaviors to avoid an Amorphic’s anger, disappointment, etc…
  • Don’t take responsibility for an Amorphic’s
  • Don’t take responsibility for an Amorphic’s
  • Don’t change your behavior in exchange for approval or acceptance.
  • Don’t inhibit your behavior because you’re afraid of consequences or threats.
  • If you believe that you’re in a dangerous situation, get professional help to get out.

Boundaries are Non-Negotiable!

Furthermore, if you’re in a relationship with an Amorphic, set and enforce clear boundaries. Since you can’t assume that someone will know exactly what you mean, always spell it out!

For example:

  • If you want your privacy respected, be perfecting clear that it includes no snooping, ease-dropping and interfering.
  • If you want to create positive and upbeat relationships, set a boundary that says no judgment or negativity.
  • If you want others to value your time, request that they keep their commitments, arrive on time and communicate changes promptly.

When one of your boundaries is crossed, make sure to respond immediately. If you wait to talk about it, your Amorphic partner, friend of relative might deny that it ever happened or reinterpret the event. Therefore, immediately pinpoint the Amorphic behavior and clearly state the boundary that’s been crossed — be clear and decisive without getting into a debate.

Remember, if you want others to respect your boundaries, you must also respect theirs.

Last but not least, cultivate the ability to say “no” and always be “at choice” for all you do and don’t do.

No doubt, it can take time to transform an Amorphic Relationship, and some relationships may need to end, but with love and patience, many relationships can endure — and even thrive.

With grace & gratitude,
Nanice

 

~via WakeUp-World.com

KIM SEMETIS: “Empaths And Codependency — Signs That You May Be A Codependent Empath”

As empaths we are healers to the very core of our soul. The lines may get a little fuzzy as we want to heal and please those close to us in our lives (we are BORN this way so it starts real early, even though we may not realize that we are healers for many, many years).

The ones we love are of a major concern. We want to heal them and it seems that we can never turn this off. We want them to be happy and be healed because WE CARE SO MUCH not only about them but about all living things. This can and usually does turn us unwittingly into co–dependents. Please bear with me as I give the definition of both.

EmpathSomeone who is hypersensitive to their surroundings and the thoughts, feelings and emotions of those around them. They can feel the energy of people and places to the extreme. They have the gift of claircognizance, meaning they just know things. If someone is lying to them they will just know it. They came here to heal the world. Just by being in and around an empath other souls are being healed on many levels (body, mind, spirit). These other souls know this (on a soul level) and can become energy suckers to the empath (this is my own personal definition).

Codependency Is a type of dysfunctional helping relationship where one supports or enables another person’s drug addiction, alcoholism, gambling addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement. (www.everydayhealth.com)

An empath usually gets to point of caring much too deeply on an unhealthy level. This usually starts at a very young age and gets progressively worse as we mature. We usually choose to incarnate into a family of codependency so this is what we see daily. From a very early age we learn to make sure that everyone around is happy and cared for, always before ourselves (because we came here to serve, after all!). It makes us put everyone else’s happiness before our own. It is a sad endless cycle that gets progressively worse as time goes on until you get to the point that you realize there is nothing left to give. You have been totally drained by those that you love because you are the giver and they are the taker. It is totally unconscious of course, on your part. As for the takers, they may or may not realize that this is what they are doing but you give so easily that it is human nature to take, take and take some more. Of course this is not how an empath operates so they do not understand the taker mentality.

Mistaken For Love

The codependent and usually the taker mistake this caring for love. This is not love on any level. Yes we care deeply but this is not love. For if we truly love another we step back and let them make their own choices and let the chips fall where they may.

Worry is not Love. Codependents think that constantly worry about someone is a sign of love. It is not.

Codependents are looking for ways to swoop in and save someone. This is also not love (this is actually very self serving to the ego).

Codependents usually end up not knowing who they are and what they think because they are so busy trying to help people that they have no idea what is actually their thoughts or if they are the thinking of another. This is called programming. They revolve their thoughts around what is going to make someone else happy to the detriment of their own happiness. They start to realize that they have put all of their own hopes and dreams on the back burner and that they have forgotten what they even are.

Codependents lose all sense of self as they run around trying to please everyone around them and focusing on others happiness that they forget who they are.

Codependent empaths are easy prey for master manipulators, narcissists, psychopaths, and sociopaths because of their sweet demeanor and trusting attitude, always wanting to think the best of others. This is because they do not have a mean bone in their body and it is sometimes hard to relate to others that really do not have the best intentions. They can easily manipulate you to the point that you begin to doubt every move that you make. If you find yourself in this situation you may experience verbal and emotional abuse or even physical abuse as it escalates.

When you get to the point that you realize that your life is out of control you are so deep into codependency that you think there is no way out. But there is always hope because you are a healer and you can and will heal yourself.

You learn that you have to love yourself first, in order to truly love another.

You learn to detach from others, their choices and their life and know that this is the true act of love. Detachment with love is the highest form of love! To let others live their life the way they deem appropriate. We no longer try to “SAVE” anyone. We begin to realize that they deserve to have freedom to make their own choices. We also begin to see that by giving them their freedom that we now have the freedom to do what we are called to do. We begin to realize that it is in fact, our very own ego that is self serving by trying to save another.

When we learn that we are here to serve and be a healer merely by existing then we can focus on the mission that we came here to do.

You learn that if you put your happiness first then you can truly be happy for another.

You learn that a healthy relationship is truly equal of give and take and not one sided. Learning how to have healthy relationships will be an utmost priority as you know that your energy is precious.

You eventually get so strong that you will no longer tolerate one sided relationships.

You realize that you would rather be alone than in a unhealthy relationship.

You will no longer tolerate others sucking your precious energy.

You learn to love and respect yourself and demand this in the other people in your life. You realize that this is not selfish and is in fact a form of self love.

You learn to trust yourself and your ability to spot users and not allow them into your sphere.

You begin to trust your claircognizance no matter what anyone else says. And beleive me, as you get stronger, the people around you will not like this and may up their game to try to get you to doubt yourself. After all, you have always put them and their thoughts and opinions above your own and they do not like it that now you voice your own opinions and follow your own intuition.

You realize that you have only begun to scratch the surface of your own self discovery and healing.

You become a master at unraveling and peeling away the layers of who you really are and readily dig deeper and deeper.

You begin to be so strong that no one will EVER take advantage of you again as you

“Step Into Your Power”

Of course all of this will take time to evolve as you are on your healing journey. It will depend on you and how long you have been a codependent empath (I was one for over 30 years before I realized it).

It will also depend on how hard you actually want to heal and how committed that you are to your healing journey. I would ask you to consider; Do you feel deep in your soul that you are here to heal? If so, in order to serve to your full capacity you must heal yourself and it is in this way that that you can share your journey to healing to help others. This is what I have been called to do is to share my journey to help heal others and it has driven me become a Quantum Transformational Specialist because I have been through and overcome so very much in my life. I only write/teach/guide about things that I have experienced myself. This is why my spirit team dubbed me the “Divine Warrior Goddess” as I am ruthless in my own self examination so that I may heal and release everything that is encoded in me that no longer serves me, not only from this lifetime, but all lifetimes. So that each day as I release more and more than I am more pure to serve to my fullest capacity in the New Earth in Christed Consciousness. I thoroughly love helping others to step into their power. But it is with great love, honor and respect that I do not put expectations on any of my clients as it is their own healing journey and they will only get out of it what the put into it.

Please remember that healing is YOURS FOR THE TAKING if you wish for it to be so. By you just reading this article and recognising yourself in it you are already on the road to healing. I send you much love on your healing journey!! You CAN move through it much faster than I have as the vibration on the earth plane has been raised and we are all on the ascension journey.

Love Blessings,

Kim ~ Divine Warrior Goddess ~ Helping you to “Step Into Your Power”

 

~via In5D.com