ALEX MYLES: “Navigating the Pleasure and Pain of Twin Flame Connections”

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“Ultimately the twin flame connection is here to teach us about unconditional love and acceptance by showing us whatever we have the most difficulty in loving and accepting within others and ourselves.  It is easy to love the qualities that reside in the light, our greatest challenge is also being able to love and accept those that reside in the darkness.”

~Alex Myles

 

A Twin Flame connection is often defined by one thing: an instantaneous, intense and magnetic soul resonation.

However for many, despite the heightened emotions and strong longing to connect with a twin flame, the opposite usually happens, and instead of coming together they seem to move further apart.

When we live open-hearted and are highly sensitive, we recognize our twin flame immediately, as they seem familiar and their energy feels like what many describe as home.  However, the ultimate twist in this is that the other person often won’t recognize us, or if they do, they are stuck in denial.  It can sometimes feel like the closer we move toward our twin flame, the farther they move away.

The reason behind this is not a comfortable pill to swallow, but it is important to know so we can awaken and heal from the aching desire to unite with the person whom our heart craves.

Twin flames are not the same as us — they are our polar opposites.  This ignites immense fear, as we are innately terrified of what we don’t fully understand, so we subconsciously attempt to reject it.

Where one person is open and inviting, the other may be closed and unwelcoming of the energetic bond.  Our entire universe is made up of yin and yang opposing energy and we are often pulled toward the opposing side in order to achieve harmony and balance.

The tricky part with this is that our egos play a huge role in resisting these twin flame/yin yang dynamics as we have become conditioned to behave in ways that are limiting, demanding, judgmental, controlling or fearful.  Therefore, even though the one who is closed off at the heart center will still feel an undeniable attraction, that attraction may feel chaotic and full of friction as it evokes an array of emotions they are currently unable to manage and process.

We simply will not get close to a twin flame until the barriers within ourselves that were erected at a point when we felt a need to self-protect are finally broken down.

Despite what we may have previously come to believe, when we initially connect with our twin flame we are usually entirely unprepared for the emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of this meeting.

This is because our twin flame projects back at us all the things that we either do not like, do not understand or that we deny, reject, oppress and refuse to accept in our own lives.

Although we often turn a blind eye to the parts we dislike in our twin flame, our subconscious mind is aware and will work tirelessly to attempt to guard our heart by triggering us to behave in ways that cause separation and keep our twin flame out of reach.

The denial of the other person is ultimately a denial of ourselves, because although we may have tried to hide aspects of our personality out of fear that they are hideous and unacceptable, they still exist.

We are often left in total dismay when this happens as in our mind we may have hoped and expected our twin flame would be an identical match, reflecting the same qualities that we have and therefore making us feel validated, worthy and acceptable.  If we believe we have inner strength, courage, and confidence, and we feel secure and centered, we hope that our twin flame also reflects these same things back — only then do we feel that we’ve met our match.

Our primal instincts, on an evolutionary scale, encourage us to admire and gravitate toward certain traits and disregard others so that we receive the greatest chance of survival both for ourselves and our offspring.  While this was all well and good in the caveman days when we had to fight harsh extremes for daily survival, the things we desire, need and want in today’s world are very different from what we may have desired, needed and wanted thousands of years ago.

It is no wonder we struggle to co-exist harmoniously with a twin flame.  We desire and want certain things on one level, but on other levels we are drawn to the qualities our DNA is convincing us that we need in a partner.  When it comes to matters of the heart and soul, these expectations can cause us to fail miserably.

Our needs and wants filter down to the same thing — security.  Not just on a domestic level, but security within ourselves.

The one who is open-hearted will be desperate to connect on a heart level and pour all their affection and admiration over the person their heart adores.  The opposite partner, the closed-hearted one, will accept the outpouring of affection, but it will not hit them in the heart, it instead serves only their egotistical mind.  It is no wonder that the longer these two interact, the further away from one another they seem to get.

The ego stands between them and redirects these messages wherever it feels they are best placed in order to “survive.”  Therefore, although these two flames are on opposing ends of the scale and feel drawn to explore the connection further, there are subconscious underlying forces pulling them apart.

The more attention and admiration the closed-hearted person receives, the more they feel as though they are above the open-hearted one.  The ego convinces them they can forget this connection and instead meet a match who is equal to them on all levels, failing to see that the yin and yang — opposing but balancing qualities — are the exact ones needed for complimentary soul resonation.

The tricky part arrives when the illusions fade, the rose tints are off and the ego steps back. Then we see the situation with clarity:

A twin flame is simply mirroring all the tendencies that we perceive as weak and undesirable.

If we hold disdain for emotionally unavailable types, it is a sure bet that our twin flame will be emotionally unavailable to us.  If we despise people who are trapped in their ego, that is the exact manifestation that our twin flame will take on.  If we hate people who are arrogant and self-absorbed, yes, our twin flame will project those traits outwardly too.

We may not consciously accept that these characteristics are inherent in our twin flame, as we can become captivated with the image our imagination helped create, but when that illusion is torn down and reality hits, we start to see that our twin flame is not as “perfect” as we may have first believed.

Spiritually we are being asked if we are still willing to keep our heart, that is tempted to close, wide open knowing that the person we placed on a pedestal is simply a human — just like us — with a myriad of perceived and real flaws and faults.

Instead of suppressing our darkness and attempting to only rest in the light, it is essential that we embrace, integrate and balance all of our shades if we want to gain inner peace and receive the chance of connecting with this person.

We often feel compelled to only express the light parts of ourselves due to fear that we will be rejected if anyone sees the broken fragments beneath the surface.  However, in our terrified state we are also rejecting ourselves as well as those around us whose dark sides we witness.

The key to a twin flame soul connection is in accepting one another in our entirety and continuing to love regardless of all the imperfections that this person presents to us.

When we are able to love not just others but also ourselves, without conditions, expectations or attachments, we have then reached a heightened form of love.  The toughest and most challenging part is maintaining it.

There is a difference between a soul mate and a twin flame.  A soul mate is someone we share similarities with, learn from and communicate well with.  They are kindred spirits and we can usually co-exist harmoniously with them without being challenged too far outside our comfort zone.  These relationships feel natural and comforting and generally flow effortlessly.

A twin flame appears as our opposite incarnation and we learn continuously from the connection regardless of whether we are in close contact with them or not.  We usually struggle to co-exist with a twin flame as we are challenged beyond our comfort zone and these challenges trigger our deepest insecurities, beliefs, values, motivations, intentions and feelings.

We learn from a soulmate for our own higher good, but we learn from a twin flame for the higher good of the entire planet and collective evolution.

Ultimately the twin flame connection is here to teach us about unconditional love and acceptance by showing us whatever we have the most difficulty in loving and accepting within others and ourselves.  It is easy to love the qualities that reside in the light, our greatest challenge is also being able to love and accept those that reside in the darkness.

Both halves of the twin flame dynamic will struggle equally to accept the opposing traits of the other person.  As much as they feel a bond and are magnetized towards one another, there is also a strong undercurrent repelling and forcing them apart.

When we finally learn to release our past pain, our conditioned beliefs and the trauma that is causing obstacles, we can then begin to truly love and accept ourselves and one another exactly as we are.  The undercurrent pulling us away will weaken and we will stop subconsciously resisting the powerful and unique flow of unconditional, limitless love.

Until then, a twin flame connection may feel complicated, frustrating and will likely elude us.

 

 

~via ElephantJournal.com

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SOPHIE GREGOIRE: “Message For Twin Flames ~ Trust Your Own Inner Knowing”

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“Twin Souls are ‘committed’ to each other but they don’t need to say it.  They’ve agreed to come together in this life but this requires no words, no rings, no schedules or timelines.  It’s a commitment of the higher realms.”

~Sophie Gregoire

 

There is no need to “let go” or “move on”:  You can trust your own inner knowing. 

There is a huge misunderstanding for Twin Flames.  We’re often told to move on, let go or cut off — but this is impossible.  That’s a battle that none of us has to fight or win.

Instead, I’ve learnt that what Twins “should” do is to find the “right” place that they let their counterpart occupy in their heart — it’s not and will never be about trying to erase them from there or “forget”.

The right battle is to move at your own pace towards this space where you can love freely.

– Letting Go Isn’t Needed –

The bonding that connects Twins is very strong, telepathic and almost uncontrollable — so “letting go” can’t really be achieved especially if it’s forced on you.

The Twin Flame journey is about raising your vibration in order to open up to unconditional love.  So if every time there is an issue between both of you — someone, a friend, psychic or whomever (and however well-meaning they may be) tells you to “let go” and causes a deep pain in you, it’ll bring a stop on your way.  You can’t maintain your vibration high anymore because you’ve been brought back to pain.

Suffering, pain and fear are on the opposite range to unconditional love, trust and faith — from a vibrational standpoint.

“Letting go” isn’t required and doesn’t really means much on this path — what you truly need, is to become detached from the outcome.  And this will only happen on its own time, when you’ll be ready.

Raising your vibration must be your primary goal.  The rest will unfold as a consequence of it.

Actually, we don’t decide to “let go” of people, we can’t force this kind of things.  We’re able to move past attachment and be happy no matter what happens on the outside when our vibration is high enough — and not the opposite. 

We never “release” our counterparts, or the people— soul mates, deep friends, ex partners, family — that have meant a lot to us. We release or let go of patterns of relating or ways of being in our relationships— not of people.

So if you were advised to forget your Twin, please know that this was never truly needed. There are other ways to move forward – while maintaining opened possibilities for the future.

–So, Why “Professionals” Have Advised This To You? –

When readers tell you to let go, move forward or forget, it’s because you are hanging on too tight — you are still too attached to the outcome.  You have not yet found your balance, the successful middle ground between love and detachment.

These people or readers have tried to detach you from your expectations for the future in order to make you find balance — balance between feeling strongly for someone, and freedom. 

Imagine a slider.  You had too many expectations, you were getting too close and attached energetically… so the Universe has found a way to tell you to pull away completely, so that you finally land a at middle ground place — the one where this kind of love may thrive from.

This has first caused pain in you — but ultimately more detachment was required.

–What Does The Final Line Look Like? –

We never truly “let go” of such a connection.  Either we’re obsessed by it or we manage at our own pace to love in a detached way.

Twin Flames say a Big Yes to loving freely and being “detached”.  This is what happens when we truly find our own joy and power, so the outside becomes less and less important — that’s why this path is more than anything else a Journey to the Self.

The truth is, Twins never “forget” about one another.  They simply find enough strength and joy inside, to live happily no matter what happens on the outside.

We simply learn to love our counterparts no matter what has happened.  This, is not “letting go” or “forgetting” — it’s about seeing things from another perspective, forgiving, trusting that a new version of love could happen in the future and working at the same time on becoming detached from this hope.

Hope and faith yes — but detachment to the outcome, and happiness no matter what.

In other words, what’s needed is finding balance between : love, hope, peace, harmony, coming closer energetically, seeing the beauty of it, being grateful AND wanting it to happen now, knowing when and how, developing new expectations, trying to make things happen or to bend life to our will which ultimately leads to attachment & impatience.

Because the truth is, whenever we develop hope again, we’re tempted to form expectations at the same time.  In other words we get too close to our Twin.

So ultimately we become disappointed if things don’t unfold as we expected, and we pull away once again from it — because coming too close while seeing that nothings happens or changes, brings too much pain.

In time you’ll be more and more able to love in a detached way — you’ll love no matter what happens or doesn’t happen, no matter what they say or don’t say, no matter where they’re and with whom.

This is when love becomes magic — you love them freely and you let them be, without chasing or running after.

Twin Flames have come here to show that there is a possibility for love beyond the paradox of love = constraints, attachment, fear of losing, desire to keep them around you and knowing what’s going to happen in the future.

Even if Twins experience together the usual kind of “romantic love”, they’re expected to become able to feel strongly for their other half — without expectations and attachments. 

Twin Souls are “committed” to each other but they don’t need to say it.  They’ve agreed to come together in this life but this requires no words, no rings, no schedules or timelines.  It’s a commitment of the higher realms.

– Listen Above All To Your Own Inner Knowing –

On the spiritual path either between Twins or more generally, nothing “works” when it’s forced on our souls.

Growth happens on its own time depending on our own experiences, past and personalities.

Your goal is to maintain your vibration high, no matter what is being said to you.  However it’s your and only your own responsibility to ask for advice or not, to give attention to what’s being told to you or not.

You’re a soldier, you’re ascending. You keep moving, bravely. You’re shielded, you’re protected by the ones that came before you. Whenever something feels wrong, you keep walking — you trust yourself and you don’t look back.

Because, personal growth is about self-empowerment… — how could you “ascend” if you trust and listen more to what other people tell you, than to what you intuitively know and believe?

Trust yourself, Ladies and Gentlemen. This is your easiest and fastest way to joy and freedom — and this more than any other thing, will lead you to your Twin.

The most important is to feel at peace with your Twin, no matter where they’re and what they’re doing. This vibration of harmony is the only one that can truly bring long-lasting joy on this journey — no matter what is in the physical.

Peace and harmony between you and them is something that you already have available within, you only need to find it again — and don’t be afraid to say No to whatever some outside energies come your way and affect this feeling.

Let me sum that up…your goal is to find peace, harmony and to deepen your love with your Twin — without falling back again in wanting it now and drowning in expectations. Because this would ultimately lead you to feelings of disappointment or resentment if it doesn’t unfold as you thought… and this would cause a new cycle of separation — either in the physical or in the ethereal realms.

Just love in a free way, new unfoldments have already started I’m hearing…

 

 

 

 

Source: TheTwinFlameJourney.com ~via LoveHasOne.org

SPIRITUAL UNITE: “Twin Flames Separation — Why It Happens”

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Twin flames separation is something that can’t be avoided and is meant to happen in most of the twin flame relationships.  Apparently, most twin flames relationships are bound to come to a slight pause since it’s not quite obvious that at the point of meeting they both will be ready for each other.

The reunion is quite strong and would require the twins to be ready for each other i.e. be in a position to take care of each other’s souls and in addition, they should have individually learnt some important life lessons such as love, loss, handling of; jealousy and hate etc.

Therefore, when the relationship can’t seem to work, it happens with a reason.  It happens that there are key lessons still meant to be learnt and understood before embracing the love meant for the two.

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However much the two of you will have part ways, you are still connected and it’s just a learning moment for the two of you.  You are meant to learn important lessons such as detachment, forgiveness, surrender, grace, inner strength and trust.

Forgiveness will be the greatest lesson you will get to learn since the separation would have been caused by one of you either saying or doing something that hurt the other.

At a point like this, you will definitely miss your twin and you will get to wonder how to cope with such a loss.  It will be painful and it would ache your heart but remember it’s meant to happen.  It’s meant to teach you something and however much you wish they would be with you it’s just not the right moment.

Making matters worse, you will have to go through this stage alone as no one will get to understand what you actually feel.  You may try explaining yourself to those close to you and trust me the best response you can get is “just let go, maybe it was not meant to be.”  But no, don’t listen to them; whatever you had is not ordinary and very few people can come to really understand what you are going through.

Twin flame separation isn’t quite a pleasant ordeal and it will leave you with a string of questions in your head with no real answers and unfortunately it will be a confusing moment for you.

However, with the confusion and uncertainty, the two of you will still be connected in a way.  You will still think about each other nearly all of the time and still feel their internal energy.  You will get to feel it when they are emotional, upset or even when they will be thinking of you.

It’s quite sad to lose someone you had loved and still love with all your heart but remember one thing; it’s a stage you have to grow through and you are learning something out of it.  There may not be exact reasons as to why this is happening, how it’s going to happen or when it may stop and all you have to do is trust the process and endure the pain.

The whole encounter is meant to grow you and therefore this is a time for you to have your own healing, spiritual growth, recognize your lessons and just be the best version of yourself.  Once you are ready, the universe will reunite you once more and this time your love will be unbreakable and divine.

Are you going through the twin flames separation stage?

 

 

 

~via spirituaunite.com

SPIRITUAL UNITE: “Feeling Your Twin Flame Telepathically”

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Twin flames are considered to be the half souls of each other and each and every one is believed to have his/her twin flame destined for them in their last lifetime. How do you know you have met your twin flame?

Bond-Connection

Upon meeting, you will develop an unexplained bond connection between the two of you. You will feel as if you have met before physically as there is an atmosphere of familiarity. Intuitively, you will have a peculiar sensation that tells you that he/she is the one. Everything about you will point towards them being the one; your heart, guts, feelings and even the mind.

Feeling Your Twin Flame Telepathically

Telepathy is quite common among twin flames and you will come to realize that when you meet your twin, you will start developing some of their feelings, thoughts and even moods. It so happens that you can tell what is going on in the heart and mind of your other half and you are able to share whatever it is they are feeling. Distance is not actually a barrier and whatever is affecting them; emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually will definitely affect you too.

Eye Contact

The human eyes are believed to be the mirrors to the soul and feeling your twin flame is possible through them. A deep gaze into the eyes of your twin flame would without doubt trigger some feelings within you. Furthermore it would be quite unusual as it would feel like you are staring at your own soul. A simple gaze into each other’s eyes is also believed to be able to heal any misunderstanding between the two of you.

Overwhelming Feeling of Love

Another way of feeling your twin flame is that there will be moments when there is intense genuine love between the two of you. You will feel the deep feeling of love strongly in at least one of the chakra focuses, particularly the heart chakra. The feeling will be so intense such that your souls seem as one and you will be feeling your twin flame’s soul inside yours. Such moments will be of certainty that you two are meant for each other and no matter what happens the two of you will always come back to be together.

Exaggerated Feelings

Since the two of you will be associating on a soul level, feelings between the two of you will be more amplified as considered to other relationships. Whether positive or negative, the two of you will experience excessive emotions i.e either incredibly good during the exciting moment or intensively low during the sad moments. The empathetic relationship between you two will mean you absorb the other person’s emotions and combine them with your own.

The 11:11 Synchronicity

There will be occurrence of repetitive numbers within your connections and the most common of them would be the number 11. The number 11:11 and other number synchronicity will be found within your day to day activities, anniversaries and individual birth dates, phone numbers and major life events.

Dreams

Both of you will sure have dreams about each other since you share a telepathic connection. In most cases, you will have these dreams about each other prior to meeting and they would also have certain themes based on your individual lives and also issues in the relationship that should be addressed. The telepathic connection can also be expressed in form of visions and day dreams.

Separation

Separation is quite common between twin flames as they prepare themselves for each other. Just as other relationships, you will face various misunderstanding however you are set to eventually come back together. The relationship may crumble in cases that one of you has unresolved emotional baggage and you two can only get back together once healing is ready to occur. The intense attraction and repelling between you two will definitely show you when to part ways and when to reunite.

Life Changing

The relationship should make you grow as an individual and in some sense teach you some aspects of life. You will realize that you develop different ideologies and approaches on life situations as a result of your twin’s influence on you. The relationship will also help your individual growth and enable you reach your highest potential in the world and in each other’s lives.

Empathy and Telepathy Connection over Distance

You will definitely come to realize that distance is not a barrier between the two of you and telepathy and empathy will be a common thing. At certain moments you will find that you pick on each other’s thoughts and may find yourselves finishing each others’ statements and texting, calling and emailing each other at almost the same time.

 

 

 

 

~via spiritualunite.com

NEW SUN UNITY: “Twin Flame Love and Reunion”

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As humans we intrinsically yearn for that rare love, twin flame, relationship with another who understands and somehow completes us on the deepest spiritual level; one who cherishes us always. The reason we yearn for this is because when God created our spirit out of His spirit, he separated each of us into a male and a female counterpart. Although cleaved in two, twin flames are never truly separate from each other and are still one, like two sides of the same coin. This resulted in our one perfect partner in spirit, our exact mirror twin flame, who is made as we are, of the same Presence.

I met my twin flame some years ago and as is typical of most reunions we parted again. This article will describe most of the common signs and stages in a typical twin flame reunion.

What Is A Twin Flame?

Our twin flame is our closest soul mate. We have other mates that are aspects of our soul, part of our soul family who are very much like us. Yet soul mates are never exact mirrors the way our twin is. The twin flame is truly our cosmic partner in spirit, who sometimes incarnates with us so that we can meet them in a physical body. Once a rare event, it is more common now due to humanity raising its consciousness.

There are multiple other aspects (soul mates) that arise from our soul, yet our twin flame is the closest to us and mirrors our exact soul characteristics and traits. They think as we think and feel as we feel. We tend to go through life feeling we are the “only one” or are unique. Being with a twin flame is meeting that other aspect of self, one that reacts to events the same way we do; and that can be disconcerting! I had issues when my twin possessed my own uniqueness, he was the same as me. He would always say everything exactly as I was about to say it to a group, only he would beat me to it. He would literally steal my conversation and that was something I didn’t really enjoy. Yet what is guaranteed with our twin souls is strong attraction and a deep spiritual connection, so there are plus sides to this relationship after some big adjustments regarding how we see our self.

How To Recognise A Twin Flame

Sometimes this recognition is instant and at other times it takes a little bit of time. Once twins catch each other’s attention, the bond can be overpowering, even if they are the last person we ever believed was suitable. Twins can have large differences in age and upbringing, or be from completely different walks of life (both true for me). This can be disconcerting and, I won’t lie, it can make things very rough going. Despite some big differences, there is a powerful recognition that can leave both twins surprised and puzzled.

When my twin first noticed me it was electric and took us both by surprise. It is often so with twin flames. If there is any doubt about them being the one flame for us, then they probably are not. The connection is undeniable and deeply spiritual, but can also be overwhelming and intoxicating. There can be elements of infatuation, but also very deep elements that are undeniable. Our spiritual twin seems beyond familiar as we get to know them, perhaps too familiar, yet we are always hooked by them nonetheless. For me it was like being with myself, which lent me the feeling it was not supposed to last; it was a weird feeling.

There are downsides to the intense attraction / attachment that is experienced because the thought of losing them can feel like death. Because we are very close to our twins in spirit, we get very close fast in the physical dimension. We have very strong emotional feelings about our spiritual counterpart and nothing we do can make that simply go away. Once we know this person, we become attached. Their soul is our soul, their blood our blood. Any time we allow our self to go too high, we open the possibility of falling to an equal low.

Problems And Differences

Believe it or not, these relationships are not supposed to be easy. We find our mate testing us on many levels and this relationship is not an easy ride by any stretch. We may well be in different stages of life, one person young and inexperienced whilst the other seasoned, divorced, with children or possessing a much different attitude to life. Our twins enter into our lives in order to stretch us and help us grow. Whilst this can be true of many romantic relationships, it can be especially true of soul mates and twin souls. Heartbreak is possible, as well as separation. Although it may be a short lived relationship, it will be one that takes a while to forget. My twin meeting was over twenty years ago, and whilst I have forgotten it now, I have met another who is so similar to my twin, astrologically and temperamentally, who possesses the exact same emotional problems. This second relationship cannot hurt me because my twin already hurt me in just the same ways.

There is a lot of idealistic information circulating on the net somewhat falsely claiming that twin soul relationships are perfect, with no ego, no arguing, no separation. But our twin counterpart is not a fairytale figure; they are human and have faults and issues. Although we can become improved by the twin relationship, separation is common and so are arguments. Imagine meeting the one person who can push your buttons precisely. Twins tend to mirror each other so perfectly that if we possess a fault that we dislike, we see the same fault in our twin and all hell can break lose. Twins are as mirrors to each other and will bring up issues of self judgment or self loathing that can then be transferred onto the twin mirror.

Sometimes a twin flame has led a selfish life or has mental issues that border on the dangerous. Not all issues vanish simply through the reunion of two flames. Some twins are promiscuous drunks, who crave freedom and don’t wish for a relationship. Some are already married and in love. A twin could be a nerd, our total opposite, or a social butterfly extrovert who parties endlessly. We may have nothing in common with them; they could be poor or rich, a bum who never showers, or a well-healed snob. Chances are they will be very different to what we would normally expect or look for in a partner. They could also come from a different geographical location, culture or religion, or from a completely different upbringing to our self.

How To Find Our Twin Flame

They usually have a way of finding us. What I mean by this is that they will simply appear when we least expect it. Our angels and guides set up the meeting and then sit back to watch the fireworks explode. The angels tell me that it is not possible to cause the meeting to occur, but we should have faith and hold a positive mental attitude and get on with life. Twin flame meetings usually occur when one counterpart is going through a life crisis. This dramatic, once in a lifetime crisis occurs first then the twin appears suddenly. They come in to help, although it may not always unfold this way depending on the twin. I wonder if they are called “flame” because of their propensity to burn us? They do not mean to of course, it is just that the chemistry is so intense. My feeling is we must not judge the experience. Not all reunions are romantic in nature, especially if the age difference is very large.

Telepathy – Knowing What The Other Is Thinking/Doing/Feeling

Telepathy is a given with our twin flame, it is a well known phenomenon which also happens with true soul mates who are part of our soul family. Their uncanny ability to see into each other is what can scare away any soul mate we meet in the flesh, because this dynamic is rare and one we don’t often have when interacting with other souls. The natural telepathy and familiarity can shock us to the core.

I had a strange experience when I met two soul mates as well as my twin all at once. The others are male and I am female. One part of my soul family was very down and out and was a drunk, although I simply could not judge him as easily as I might another – there is much compassion within soul families. Another was a young, handsome man my own age (both very young at the time) who already had several children with different girls. Then there was my twin, who was significantly older and a complete mess. The younger soul mate and I got along amazingly well as friends and could have been close friends if not for his fear. He would push me away then get close again. He was too young to understand the meaning of platonic friendship, like he was afraid a friendship was forbidden. This soul mate also became amazing friends instantly with my twin, and followed him around like a puppy.

There is telepathy between all soul mates. They can see right into us as no one else ever can. Mine ran from me and I regretted the lost potential of friendship. My twin flame also ran (more on the “runner” phenomenon in the next section).

It is the very closeness we crave that causes us or them to run in shock and fright. We need to adjust quickly when we first realise this other person can see into our very heart and mind; it is eerie at first. We cannot hide even the deepest secrets about ourself because telepathically and claircognizantly, they know All. They notice that we also know all. The immature or emotionally closed ones almost always run. The meeting of four members of my soul family was divinely organised for us, but it all fell apart because people got scared of the closeness. The telepathy and empathy is such that we know each other well after no time, and can feel what the other feels, even at a distance. Actual telepathic conversations can occur between twins, and some twins will sync themselves so that their moods match, or even their activities.

5 Twin Flame Stages / Phases

There are several well known stages to the twin flame relationship. I have found that these phases are almost exactly like what I went through.

1.  Preparation Stage

There is a preparation stage before the twins meet, where one if not both have a strong feeling or longing for someone to enter their life. This preparation comes from soul level so that both are prepped and ready for the meeting.

2.  The Meeting

The first meeting between twins usually occurs in the last place you would ever imagine. This phase is described as the initial blissful, perfect relationship. This happens for some but not all of us. In my case we skipped straight to stage three after a few weeks because my twin was recently divorced and bitter, and I “turned him down”. He became what is known as “the runner” almost from the start. I could not be forgiven for the misunderstanding that occurred, and he ran from the other half of himself.

3.  Disagreements and Fights

Phase Three is the inevitable Fighting that seems to occur in these relationships. It may be karma, it may be that age and cultural differences are just insurmountable, or it could be a horrible misunderstanding, or perhaps one twin simply likes to argue. As well, this phase commonly manifests as a cold, unbreakable silence consisting of one ignoring the other steadfastly, for months or even years. Though it seems strange that two parts of the same soul can’t get along, this is indeed what occurs with the typical twin flame relationship.

At this point, one twin becomes the “chaser” and the other one the “runner”. This position will most likely swap completely at some point when the former runner begins chasing, and the former chaser starts to run. The initial chaser is almost always the feminine counterpart. In my instance, I was the chaser for three years and kept bumping into my twin on the street. Each time he would duck away and literally run. As time passed and I moved on, he then became the chaser. For the next three years I continued to bump into this man, and although he made advances, I went to extraordinary lengths to run from him. In my heart I wanted to reunite, but the damage had been done and to this day I would still run.

4.  The Reunion

The reunion between twins is supposed to happen when their karma is balanced and both have forgiven the other. Any kind of reunion needs to conform to a freewill decision to revive something long dead, or perhaps only sleeping. After researching people’s experiences online, I have some evidence of couples who have experienced phase 4 & 5. Yet most stories I have read have ended with separation after a short period of being together. Even in the case of Doreen Virtue and her published book about her twin flame relationship, they later separated and are no longer together. In my own heart I know I will not be reaching phase four in this life. The fact is that most twin flames move on and eventually end up with other partners, although there are always exceptions. My angels hint to me that this phase takes place after we pass over from this life, and we make good again with our twin.

5.  Bliss

Phase Five is Eternal Bliss. I am not sure bliss can so easily be experienced on the Earth plane, but maybe it can if that is what one wanted badly enough and was able to achieve with their twin. As the  Earth continues to ascend, it will probably become much more possible. Most twin flame stories I have read describe the way one or both twins, during one of the above stages, moves on enough to only want to be “friends” (this is my experience too). Yet stage 5 can happen according to a smaller percentage of stories I have read. For some of us, stage five bliss with our twin happens after passing into the higher dimensions after this life is over.

The Purpose Of Twin Flame Relationships

Channeled material tells us there is a divine purpose to our linkups with our flame, a purpose that is relevant to this era and world as we prepare to ascend spiritually. Twin flame partnerships exemplify unconditional love and set up a template for the world. They are an example of true love to aid in humanity’s Ascension. If this is so, then many of us may have completed the task and simply moved on again, and maybe this is how it is meant to be.

 

 

 

 

~via NewSunUnity.com