GUSTAVO CASTANER: “Should You Be With Your Twin-Flame?”

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“Unfortunately the great majority of people who know about twin flames believe that they have to be with their twin flame.  And because of the free will choices and/or the karma buildup this is near impossible.  But let me ask you this.  Would you rather be or try to be with your twin flame and end up in a dramatic, painful and non-functional relationship?  OR Would you rather be with someone who is not your twin flame and end up having the most fulfilling, higher loving and passionate relationship?”

~Gustavo Castañer

 

Today many are celebrating St. Valentines Day and you probably think that I’m going to tell you that being with your twin flame has to be the most romantic, passionate and spiritual thing you can experience…

Not really, let me explain.

If you do some research on twin flames on the internet you will find tons of dramatic and heartbreaking stories of people who have met their twin flames.

Instead of finding their true love many people find that a relationship with their twin flame most likely turns out to be like one of the following scenarios:

1)  They live on the other side of the world and being together is near impossible.

2)  The Runner-Chaser Karmic Loop — one person tries everything to make the relationship happen while the other one (usually the man) runs away.

3)  The Ultimate Karmic Mirror — both partners mirror each other’s karma like a magnifying glass and unbearable pain results from this.

And yes, there are the rare twin flame relationships stories that turn out to be the most higher loving and spiritually conscious, but these are extremely rare.

Why Are Twin-Flame Relationships Like This?

The first thing you need to understand is that when it comes to relationships, even twin flame relationships, each person has free-will.  Even though to one of them the twin flame connection is astronomically evident (pun intended) the other one might be oblivious.

People who are in twin flame relationships need to work on themselves 10 times more than people who are in any other type of relationship.  And usually there is one person that is very focused on clearing their own emotional baggage, transmuting their karma and growing spiritually while the other person is not (once again, usually the man).

Some will try desperately to rescue the other person but this only aggravates the problem.  It might not be easy but their free will must be honored.

The second thing you need to understand is that just because that person is your twin flame doesn’t mean that YOU HAVE TO be with them.  What many people are not aware of is that you are not supposed to be together in a relationship in ALL lifetimes.

Unfortunately the great majority of people who know about twin flames believe that they have to be with their twin flame.  And because of the free will choices and/or the karma buildup this is near impossible.

But let me ask you this.  Would you rather be or try to be with your twin flame and end up in a dramatic, painful and non-functional relationship?

OR

Would you rather be with someone who is not your twin flame and end up having the most fulfilling, higher loving and passionate relationship?

The answer is simple.  However, too many people get attached to the twin flame label.  Don’t get me wrong, I know there is a spiritual connection like no other but if it’s not meant to be then it’s not meant to be.  It takes two people to make it happen.

So if you find yourself in this twin flame predicament and you truly desire to be in a relationship then make yourself a priority and choose SELF-LOVE.

Don’t force the relationship with your twin flame or try to wait for them.  Continue to raise your frequency and focus your intent on attracting a partner that will want to be with you and work towards it as you do.

After all, you will meet your twin flame again. 😉  And at some point, sometimes during their life review, he/she will most likely realize what an incredible opportunity he/she missed to be with you.  Then on the next lifetime they will step up and do what it takes to find you and be with you.

In the meantime, make sure you enjoy this lifetime and cherish the wonderful experience that is being madly in love with someone who is madly in love with you.

Sincerely,

Gustavo Castañer

Founder of Ascended Relationships

 

 

~via AscendedRelationships.com

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SPIRITUAL UNITE: “4 Signs You Have Met Your Twin Soul”

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What are the signs you have met your twin soul?  A twin soul connection is not like a soul mate; we can have many soul mates; a twin soul connection is unique and profound and there is only one twin soul.

It has been written that our soul is divided into two, so Source can experience duality and mortality on earth.  Since Source does not have an equal, dividing itself into two was necessary, eventually the two would meet and unite again.

Whether you experience a twin soul connection or not, it does not mean you are not complete; Soul and Source are always complete, it’s just our human self senses the incompleteness.  It’s crucial for one to be complete from within.

There are many signs you have met your twin soul.  I am going to list the most important ones, let’s dive into those shall we?

Signs You Have Met Your Twin Soul

Acceleration Of Personal Development

When twin souls do meet, the instant connection and spark are usually followed closely by a prompt development of personal evolution for both twin souls as a whole and individually.

Twin souls are mirrors, reflecting aspects of the self which are deep and significant when twin souls meet the energy between them will uncover gifts from within, a true twin soul connection has a purpose to teach or heal the world.

Twin Souls Are Eternal, You And I Are Old Friends

Whenever you meet your twin soul, the connection will be unlike anything you have experienced before, although the intensity of this connection is different there is still a familiarity about it, it feels beautiful in your soul to have this connection again.

You instantly feel oneness with this person and the love you feel is vast.  You feel you have known this soul for infinity.

Runner And Chaser Chaos

Twin soul connection is not for the fainthearted; many don’t want it and they run from it.  Could it be they are not ready?

This type of relationship can either be great with incredible love or it can crash and burn.  Things don’t go well when twin souls have yet to ascend into higher spiritual vibrations, they are not willing to let go of old beliefs and habits.

Sex Is On A Different Level

Because the soul level connection is intense, sexual experience is unlike anything you have experienced before.

Twin soul sexual experience may go beyond the physical, for example, astral sex.  The astral sex experienced is intense, like the feeling of one’s spirit is merging with the other, astral sex can take place with or without physical intercourse.

Although sexual intercourse is personal, a time for merging, however with twin soul there are other attributes where by looking into each other’s eyes can reveal other places in space and time, either past or future.

Your twin soul experience might be different and the relationship can have numerous outcomes depending on your life path.  These are the main traits of the astonishing twin soul connection.

 

 

~via SpiritualUnite.com

 

SUNANDA SHARMA: “Twin Flame Telepathy & Third Dimension”

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One may question why would twin flames choose to live on the edge?  Well, it is more like they are divinely tested to that extent that they exude crystal light and pure unconditional love.  To really exude unconditional love, one needs to refine one self and let the diamond within unfold.  Doing so is quite a path!

With that being said, what is the level of telepathy one shares with their twin?  The head connection or telepathic connection is so strong that one twin can read the mind of the other even if they are based in two different continents across the globe.  They can almost hear each other out loud and sometimes even see each other across distance.  This is possible because both the twins are highly evolved human beings with strong psychic senses and sometimes very powerful psychic ability.  If for some reason they do not join together for the incarnation, they will be a walking, talking guide to the other through their journey in this lifetime.

Does the third dimension reality support such unconventional relationships and unions?  It’s very difficult for the people who are still restrained by the third dimensional facade to welcome or comprehend the twin flame reunion.  Twin flame unions are the union of energy, which is the merging of the shiv and shakti as they say in Hind.  Such mergers are not for the faint hearted, but for the non-conformists.  This is the real true merging of souls in divine timing and in accordance with an outstanding divine plan.  That is why the pretenders, conformists and the body lovers may not stand a chance here.  For here, physical appearance does not matter;  the energetic wavelength is what pulls the twins together — one just knows the readings and every beat of the other beyond the comprehension of all the physical senses!  Those who have walked this path would vouch by its feel.

Twin flame reunions have a divine purpose to live by.  Universe will heed their plea once both acknowledge and realize that they are incarnated here for fulfilling a very spiritual mission and agenda.  They are individually very powerful beings, once together the power is manifested.  Similar to two laser sharp rays merging and decrypting the profane from the planet, some metaphysicists have pronounced the twins as ascension masters.  Their reunion all over the world will replicate the source energy and ascend the planet to higher dimensions.  More reunions of these divine mates is now taking place on Earth as our planet is gradually lifting its vibrational frequency to fifth dimensional frequency.  Hail the twins, for they are the fore runners to the next dimension!

 

 

About the author: Sunanda Sharma is a professional tarot card reader, psychic, author and life coach. A published author, she has written two books titled, Inspiration from the Spirit Volume 1 and Inspiration from the Spirit Volume II, which are available on Amazon.com and flipkart.com ~via sunandatarot.com

SOPHIE GREGOIRE: “Message For Twin Flames ~ Trust Your Own Inner Knowing”

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“Twin Souls are ‘committed’ to each other but they don’t need to say it.  They’ve agreed to come together in this life but this requires no words, no rings, no schedules or timelines.  It’s a commitment of the higher realms.”

~Sophie Gregoire

 

There is no need to “let go” or “move on”:  You can trust your own inner knowing. 

There is a huge misunderstanding for Twin Flames.  We’re often told to move on, let go or cut off — but this is impossible.  That’s a battle that none of us has to fight or win.

Instead, I’ve learnt that what Twins “should” do is to find the “right” place that they let their counterpart occupy in their heart — it’s not and will never be about trying to erase them from there or “forget”.

The right battle is to move at your own pace towards this space where you can love freely.

– Letting Go Isn’t Needed –

The bonding that connects Twins is very strong, telepathic and almost uncontrollable — so “letting go” can’t really be achieved especially if it’s forced on you.

The Twin Flame journey is about raising your vibration in order to open up to unconditional love.  So if every time there is an issue between both of you — someone, a friend, psychic or whomever (and however well-meaning they may be) tells you to “let go” and causes a deep pain in you, it’ll bring a stop on your way.  You can’t maintain your vibration high anymore because you’ve been brought back to pain.

Suffering, pain and fear are on the opposite range to unconditional love, trust and faith — from a vibrational standpoint.

“Letting go” isn’t required and doesn’t really means much on this path — what you truly need, is to become detached from the outcome.  And this will only happen on its own time, when you’ll be ready.

Raising your vibration must be your primary goal.  The rest will unfold as a consequence of it.

Actually, we don’t decide to “let go” of people, we can’t force this kind of things.  We’re able to move past attachment and be happy no matter what happens on the outside when our vibration is high enough — and not the opposite. 

We never “release” our counterparts, or the people— soul mates, deep friends, ex partners, family — that have meant a lot to us. We release or let go of patterns of relating or ways of being in our relationships— not of people.

So if you were advised to forget your Twin, please know that this was never truly needed. There are other ways to move forward – while maintaining opened possibilities for the future.

–So, Why “Professionals” Have Advised This To You? –

When readers tell you to let go, move forward or forget, it’s because you are hanging on too tight — you are still too attached to the outcome.  You have not yet found your balance, the successful middle ground between love and detachment.

These people or readers have tried to detach you from your expectations for the future in order to make you find balance — balance between feeling strongly for someone, and freedom. 

Imagine a slider.  You had too many expectations, you were getting too close and attached energetically… so the Universe has found a way to tell you to pull away completely, so that you finally land a at middle ground place — the one where this kind of love may thrive from.

This has first caused pain in you — but ultimately more detachment was required.

–What Does The Final Line Look Like? –

We never truly “let go” of such a connection.  Either we’re obsessed by it or we manage at our own pace to love in a detached way.

Twin Flames say a Big Yes to loving freely and being “detached”.  This is what happens when we truly find our own joy and power, so the outside becomes less and less important — that’s why this path is more than anything else a Journey to the Self.

The truth is, Twins never “forget” about one another.  They simply find enough strength and joy inside, to live happily no matter what happens on the outside.

We simply learn to love our counterparts no matter what has happened.  This, is not “letting go” or “forgetting” — it’s about seeing things from another perspective, forgiving, trusting that a new version of love could happen in the future and working at the same time on becoming detached from this hope.

Hope and faith yes — but detachment to the outcome, and happiness no matter what.

In other words, what’s needed is finding balance between : love, hope, peace, harmony, coming closer energetically, seeing the beauty of it, being grateful AND wanting it to happen now, knowing when and how, developing new expectations, trying to make things happen or to bend life to our will which ultimately leads to attachment & impatience.

Because the truth is, whenever we develop hope again, we’re tempted to form expectations at the same time.  In other words we get too close to our Twin.

So ultimately we become disappointed if things don’t unfold as we expected, and we pull away once again from it — because coming too close while seeing that nothings happens or changes, brings too much pain.

In time you’ll be more and more able to love in a detached way — you’ll love no matter what happens or doesn’t happen, no matter what they say or don’t say, no matter where they’re and with whom.

This is when love becomes magic — you love them freely and you let them be, without chasing or running after.

Twin Flames have come here to show that there is a possibility for love beyond the paradox of love = constraints, attachment, fear of losing, desire to keep them around you and knowing what’s going to happen in the future.

Even if Twins experience together the usual kind of “romantic love”, they’re expected to become able to feel strongly for their other half — without expectations and attachments. 

Twin Souls are “committed” to each other but they don’t need to say it.  They’ve agreed to come together in this life but this requires no words, no rings, no schedules or timelines.  It’s a commitment of the higher realms.

– Listen Above All To Your Own Inner Knowing –

On the spiritual path either between Twins or more generally, nothing “works” when it’s forced on our souls.

Growth happens on its own time depending on our own experiences, past and personalities.

Your goal is to maintain your vibration high, no matter what is being said to you.  However it’s your and only your own responsibility to ask for advice or not, to give attention to what’s being told to you or not.

You’re a soldier, you’re ascending. You keep moving, bravely. You’re shielded, you’re protected by the ones that came before you. Whenever something feels wrong, you keep walking — you trust yourself and you don’t look back.

Because, personal growth is about self-empowerment… — how could you “ascend” if you trust and listen more to what other people tell you, than to what you intuitively know and believe?

Trust yourself, Ladies and Gentlemen. This is your easiest and fastest way to joy and freedom — and this more than any other thing, will lead you to your Twin.

The most important is to feel at peace with your Twin, no matter where they’re and what they’re doing. This vibration of harmony is the only one that can truly bring long-lasting joy on this journey — no matter what is in the physical.

Peace and harmony between you and them is something that you already have available within, you only need to find it again — and don’t be afraid to say No to whatever some outside energies come your way and affect this feeling.

Let me sum that up…your goal is to find peace, harmony and to deepen your love with your Twin — without falling back again in wanting it now and drowning in expectations. Because this would ultimately lead you to feelings of disappointment or resentment if it doesn’t unfold as you thought… and this would cause a new cycle of separation — either in the physical or in the ethereal realms.

Just love in a free way, new unfoldments have already started I’m hearing…

 

 

 

 

Source: TheTwinFlameJourney.com ~via LoveHasOne.org

SPIRITUAL UNITE: “Twin Flames Separation — Why It Happens”

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Twin flames separation is something that can’t be avoided and is meant to happen in most of the twin flame relationships.  Apparently, most twin flames relationships are bound to come to a slight pause since it’s not quite obvious that at the point of meeting they both will be ready for each other.

The reunion is quite strong and would require the twins to be ready for each other i.e. be in a position to take care of each other’s souls and in addition, they should have individually learnt some important life lessons such as love, loss, handling of; jealousy and hate etc.

Therefore, when the relationship can’t seem to work, it happens with a reason.  It happens that there are key lessons still meant to be learnt and understood before embracing the love meant for the two.

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However much the two of you will have part ways, you are still connected and it’s just a learning moment for the two of you.  You are meant to learn important lessons such as detachment, forgiveness, surrender, grace, inner strength and trust.

Forgiveness will be the greatest lesson you will get to learn since the separation would have been caused by one of you either saying or doing something that hurt the other.

At a point like this, you will definitely miss your twin and you will get to wonder how to cope with such a loss.  It will be painful and it would ache your heart but remember it’s meant to happen.  It’s meant to teach you something and however much you wish they would be with you it’s just not the right moment.

Making matters worse, you will have to go through this stage alone as no one will get to understand what you actually feel.  You may try explaining yourself to those close to you and trust me the best response you can get is “just let go, maybe it was not meant to be.”  But no, don’t listen to them; whatever you had is not ordinary and very few people can come to really understand what you are going through.

Twin flame separation isn’t quite a pleasant ordeal and it will leave you with a string of questions in your head with no real answers and unfortunately it will be a confusing moment for you.

However, with the confusion and uncertainty, the two of you will still be connected in a way.  You will still think about each other nearly all of the time and still feel their internal energy.  You will get to feel it when they are emotional, upset or even when they will be thinking of you.

It’s quite sad to lose someone you had loved and still love with all your heart but remember one thing; it’s a stage you have to grow through and you are learning something out of it.  There may not be exact reasons as to why this is happening, how it’s going to happen or when it may stop and all you have to do is trust the process and endure the pain.

The whole encounter is meant to grow you and therefore this is a time for you to have your own healing, spiritual growth, recognize your lessons and just be the best version of yourself.  Once you are ready, the universe will reunite you once more and this time your love will be unbreakable and divine.

Are you going through the twin flames separation stage?

 

 

 

~via spirituaunite.com