GUSTAVO CASTANER: “Should You Be With Your Twin-Flame?”

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“Unfortunately the great majority of people who know about twin flames believe that they have to be with their twin flame.  And because of the free will choices and/or the karma buildup this is near impossible.  But let me ask you this.  Would you rather be or try to be with your twin flame and end up in a dramatic, painful and non-functional relationship?  OR Would you rather be with someone who is not your twin flame and end up having the most fulfilling, higher loving and passionate relationship?”

~Gustavo Castañer

 

Today many are celebrating St. Valentines Day and you probably think that I’m going to tell you that being with your twin flame has to be the most romantic, passionate and spiritual thing you can experience…

Not really, let me explain.

If you do some research on twin flames on the internet you will find tons of dramatic and heartbreaking stories of people who have met their twin flames.

Instead of finding their true love many people find that a relationship with their twin flame most likely turns out to be like one of the following scenarios:

1)  They live on the other side of the world and being together is near impossible.

2)  The Runner-Chaser Karmic Loop — one person tries everything to make the relationship happen while the other one (usually the man) runs away.

3)  The Ultimate Karmic Mirror — both partners mirror each other’s karma like a magnifying glass and unbearable pain results from this.

And yes, there are the rare twin flame relationships stories that turn out to be the most higher loving and spiritually conscious, but these are extremely rare.

Why Are Twin-Flame Relationships Like This?

The first thing you need to understand is that when it comes to relationships, even twin flame relationships, each person has free-will.  Even though to one of them the twin flame connection is astronomically evident (pun intended) the other one might be oblivious.

People who are in twin flame relationships need to work on themselves 10 times more than people who are in any other type of relationship.  And usually there is one person that is very focused on clearing their own emotional baggage, transmuting their karma and growing spiritually while the other person is not (once again, usually the man).

Some will try desperately to rescue the other person but this only aggravates the problem.  It might not be easy but their free will must be honored.

The second thing you need to understand is that just because that person is your twin flame doesn’t mean that YOU HAVE TO be with them.  What many people are not aware of is that you are not supposed to be together in a relationship in ALL lifetimes.

Unfortunately the great majority of people who know about twin flames believe that they have to be with their twin flame.  And because of the free will choices and/or the karma buildup this is near impossible.

But let me ask you this.  Would you rather be or try to be with your twin flame and end up in a dramatic, painful and non-functional relationship?

OR

Would you rather be with someone who is not your twin flame and end up having the most fulfilling, higher loving and passionate relationship?

The answer is simple.  However, too many people get attached to the twin flame label.  Don’t get me wrong, I know there is a spiritual connection like no other but if it’s not meant to be then it’s not meant to be.  It takes two people to make it happen.

So if you find yourself in this twin flame predicament and you truly desire to be in a relationship then make yourself a priority and choose SELF-LOVE.

Don’t force the relationship with your twin flame or try to wait for them.  Continue to raise your frequency and focus your intent on attracting a partner that will want to be with you and work towards it as you do.

After all, you will meet your twin flame again. 😉  And at some point, sometimes during their life review, he/she will most likely realize what an incredible opportunity he/she missed to be with you.  Then on the next lifetime they will step up and do what it takes to find you and be with you.

In the meantime, make sure you enjoy this lifetime and cherish the wonderful experience that is being madly in love with someone who is madly in love with you.

Sincerely,

Gustavo Castañer

Founder of Ascended Relationships

 

 

~via AscendedRelationships.com

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SPIRITUAL UNITE: “4 Signs You Have Met Your Twin Soul”

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What are the signs you have met your twin soul?  A twin soul connection is not like a soul mate; we can have many soul mates; a twin soul connection is unique and profound and there is only one twin soul.

It has been written that our soul is divided into two, so Source can experience duality and mortality on earth.  Since Source does not have an equal, dividing itself into two was necessary, eventually the two would meet and unite again.

Whether you experience a twin soul connection or not, it does not mean you are not complete; Soul and Source are always complete, it’s just our human self senses the incompleteness.  It’s crucial for one to be complete from within.

There are many signs you have met your twin soul.  I am going to list the most important ones, let’s dive into those shall we?

Signs You Have Met Your Twin Soul

Acceleration Of Personal Development

When twin souls do meet, the instant connection and spark are usually followed closely by a prompt development of personal evolution for both twin souls as a whole and individually.

Twin souls are mirrors, reflecting aspects of the self which are deep and significant when twin souls meet the energy between them will uncover gifts from within, a true twin soul connection has a purpose to teach or heal the world.

Twin Souls Are Eternal, You And I Are Old Friends

Whenever you meet your twin soul, the connection will be unlike anything you have experienced before, although the intensity of this connection is different there is still a familiarity about it, it feels beautiful in your soul to have this connection again.

You instantly feel oneness with this person and the love you feel is vast.  You feel you have known this soul for infinity.

Runner And Chaser Chaos

Twin soul connection is not for the fainthearted; many don’t want it and they run from it.  Could it be they are not ready?

This type of relationship can either be great with incredible love or it can crash and burn.  Things don’t go well when twin souls have yet to ascend into higher spiritual vibrations, they are not willing to let go of old beliefs and habits.

Sex Is On A Different Level

Because the soul level connection is intense, sexual experience is unlike anything you have experienced before.

Twin soul sexual experience may go beyond the physical, for example, astral sex.  The astral sex experienced is intense, like the feeling of one’s spirit is merging with the other, astral sex can take place with or without physical intercourse.

Although sexual intercourse is personal, a time for merging, however with twin soul there are other attributes where by looking into each other’s eyes can reveal other places in space and time, either past or future.

Your twin soul experience might be different and the relationship can have numerous outcomes depending on your life path.  These are the main traits of the astonishing twin soul connection.

 

 

~via SpiritualUnite.com

 

SUNANDA SHARMA: “Twin Flame Telepathy & Third Dimension”

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One may question why would twin flames choose to live on the edge?  Well, it is more like they are divinely tested to that extent that they exude crystal light and pure unconditional love.  To really exude unconditional love, one needs to refine one self and let the diamond within unfold.  Doing so is quite a path!

With that being said, what is the level of telepathy one shares with their twin?  The head connection or telepathic connection is so strong that one twin can read the mind of the other even if they are based in two different continents across the globe.  They can almost hear each other out loud and sometimes even see each other across distance.  This is possible because both the twins are highly evolved human beings with strong psychic senses and sometimes very powerful psychic ability.  If for some reason they do not join together for the incarnation, they will be a walking, talking guide to the other through their journey in this lifetime.

Does the third dimension reality support such unconventional relationships and unions?  It’s very difficult for the people who are still restrained by the third dimensional facade to welcome or comprehend the twin flame reunion.  Twin flame unions are the union of energy, which is the merging of the shiv and shakti as they say in Hind.  Such mergers are not for the faint hearted, but for the non-conformists.  This is the real true merging of souls in divine timing and in accordance with an outstanding divine plan.  That is why the pretenders, conformists and the body lovers may not stand a chance here.  For here, physical appearance does not matter;  the energetic wavelength is what pulls the twins together — one just knows the readings and every beat of the other beyond the comprehension of all the physical senses!  Those who have walked this path would vouch by its feel.

Twin flame reunions have a divine purpose to live by.  Universe will heed their plea once both acknowledge and realize that they are incarnated here for fulfilling a very spiritual mission and agenda.  They are individually very powerful beings, once together the power is manifested.  Similar to two laser sharp rays merging and decrypting the profane from the planet, some metaphysicists have pronounced the twins as ascension masters.  Their reunion all over the world will replicate the source energy and ascend the planet to higher dimensions.  More reunions of these divine mates is now taking place on Earth as our planet is gradually lifting its vibrational frequency to fifth dimensional frequency.  Hail the twins, for they are the fore runners to the next dimension!

 

 

About the author: Sunanda Sharma is a professional tarot card reader, psychic, author and life coach. A published author, she has written two books titled, Inspiration from the Spirit Volume 1 and Inspiration from the Spirit Volume II, which are available on Amazon.com and flipkart.com ~via sunandatarot.com

SOPHIE GREGOIRE: “Message For Twin Flames ~ Trust Your Own Inner Knowing”

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“Twin Souls are ‘committed’ to each other but they don’t need to say it.  They’ve agreed to come together in this life but this requires no words, no rings, no schedules or timelines.  It’s a commitment of the higher realms.”

~Sophie Gregoire

 

There is no need to “let go” or “move on”:  You can trust your own inner knowing. 

There is a huge misunderstanding for Twin Flames.  We’re often told to move on, let go or cut off — but this is impossible.  That’s a battle that none of us has to fight or win.

Instead, I’ve learnt that what Twins “should” do is to find the “right” place that they let their counterpart occupy in their heart — it’s not and will never be about trying to erase them from there or “forget”.

The right battle is to move at your own pace towards this space where you can love freely.

– Letting Go Isn’t Needed –

The bonding that connects Twins is very strong, telepathic and almost uncontrollable — so “letting go” can’t really be achieved especially if it’s forced on you.

The Twin Flame journey is about raising your vibration in order to open up to unconditional love.  So if every time there is an issue between both of you — someone, a friend, psychic or whomever (and however well-meaning they may be) tells you to “let go” and causes a deep pain in you, it’ll bring a stop on your way.  You can’t maintain your vibration high anymore because you’ve been brought back to pain.

Suffering, pain and fear are on the opposite range to unconditional love, trust and faith — from a vibrational standpoint.

“Letting go” isn’t required and doesn’t really means much on this path — what you truly need, is to become detached from the outcome.  And this will only happen on its own time, when you’ll be ready.

Raising your vibration must be your primary goal.  The rest will unfold as a consequence of it.

Actually, we don’t decide to “let go” of people, we can’t force this kind of things.  We’re able to move past attachment and be happy no matter what happens on the outside when our vibration is high enough — and not the opposite. 

We never “release” our counterparts, or the people— soul mates, deep friends, ex partners, family — that have meant a lot to us. We release or let go of patterns of relating or ways of being in our relationships— not of people.

So if you were advised to forget your Twin, please know that this was never truly needed. There are other ways to move forward – while maintaining opened possibilities for the future.

–So, Why “Professionals” Have Advised This To You? –

When readers tell you to let go, move forward or forget, it’s because you are hanging on too tight — you are still too attached to the outcome.  You have not yet found your balance, the successful middle ground between love and detachment.

These people or readers have tried to detach you from your expectations for the future in order to make you find balance — balance between feeling strongly for someone, and freedom. 

Imagine a slider.  You had too many expectations, you were getting too close and attached energetically… so the Universe has found a way to tell you to pull away completely, so that you finally land a at middle ground place — the one where this kind of love may thrive from.

This has first caused pain in you — but ultimately more detachment was required.

–What Does The Final Line Look Like? –

We never truly “let go” of such a connection.  Either we’re obsessed by it or we manage at our own pace to love in a detached way.

Twin Flames say a Big Yes to loving freely and being “detached”.  This is what happens when we truly find our own joy and power, so the outside becomes less and less important — that’s why this path is more than anything else a Journey to the Self.

The truth is, Twins never “forget” about one another.  They simply find enough strength and joy inside, to live happily no matter what happens on the outside.

We simply learn to love our counterparts no matter what has happened.  This, is not “letting go” or “forgetting” — it’s about seeing things from another perspective, forgiving, trusting that a new version of love could happen in the future and working at the same time on becoming detached from this hope.

Hope and faith yes — but detachment to the outcome, and happiness no matter what.

In other words, what’s needed is finding balance between : love, hope, peace, harmony, coming closer energetically, seeing the beauty of it, being grateful AND wanting it to happen now, knowing when and how, developing new expectations, trying to make things happen or to bend life to our will which ultimately leads to attachment & impatience.

Because the truth is, whenever we develop hope again, we’re tempted to form expectations at the same time.  In other words we get too close to our Twin.

So ultimately we become disappointed if things don’t unfold as we expected, and we pull away once again from it — because coming too close while seeing that nothings happens or changes, brings too much pain.

In time you’ll be more and more able to love in a detached way — you’ll love no matter what happens or doesn’t happen, no matter what they say or don’t say, no matter where they’re and with whom.

This is when love becomes magic — you love them freely and you let them be, without chasing or running after.

Twin Flames have come here to show that there is a possibility for love beyond the paradox of love = constraints, attachment, fear of losing, desire to keep them around you and knowing what’s going to happen in the future.

Even if Twins experience together the usual kind of “romantic love”, they’re expected to become able to feel strongly for their other half — without expectations and attachments. 

Twin Souls are “committed” to each other but they don’t need to say it.  They’ve agreed to come together in this life but this requires no words, no rings, no schedules or timelines.  It’s a commitment of the higher realms.

– Listen Above All To Your Own Inner Knowing –

On the spiritual path either between Twins or more generally, nothing “works” when it’s forced on our souls.

Growth happens on its own time depending on our own experiences, past and personalities.

Your goal is to maintain your vibration high, no matter what is being said to you.  However it’s your and only your own responsibility to ask for advice or not, to give attention to what’s being told to you or not.

You’re a soldier, you’re ascending. You keep moving, bravely. You’re shielded, you’re protected by the ones that came before you. Whenever something feels wrong, you keep walking — you trust yourself and you don’t look back.

Because, personal growth is about self-empowerment… — how could you “ascend” if you trust and listen more to what other people tell you, than to what you intuitively know and believe?

Trust yourself, Ladies and Gentlemen. This is your easiest and fastest way to joy and freedom — and this more than any other thing, will lead you to your Twin.

The most important is to feel at peace with your Twin, no matter where they’re and what they’re doing. This vibration of harmony is the only one that can truly bring long-lasting joy on this journey — no matter what is in the physical.

Peace and harmony between you and them is something that you already have available within, you only need to find it again — and don’t be afraid to say No to whatever some outside energies come your way and affect this feeling.

Let me sum that up…your goal is to find peace, harmony and to deepen your love with your Twin — without falling back again in wanting it now and drowning in expectations. Because this would ultimately lead you to feelings of disappointment or resentment if it doesn’t unfold as you thought… and this would cause a new cycle of separation — either in the physical or in the ethereal realms.

Just love in a free way, new unfoldments have already started I’m hearing…

 

 

 

 

Source: TheTwinFlameJourney.com ~via LoveHasOne.org

SPIRITUAL UNITE: “Twin Flames Separation — Why It Happens”

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Twin flames separation is something that can’t be avoided and is meant to happen in most of the twin flame relationships.  Apparently, most twin flames relationships are bound to come to a slight pause since it’s not quite obvious that at the point of meeting they both will be ready for each other.

The reunion is quite strong and would require the twins to be ready for each other i.e. be in a position to take care of each other’s souls and in addition, they should have individually learnt some important life lessons such as love, loss, handling of; jealousy and hate etc.

Therefore, when the relationship can’t seem to work, it happens with a reason.  It happens that there are key lessons still meant to be learnt and understood before embracing the love meant for the two.

Twin Flames Separation

However much the two of you will have part ways, you are still connected and it’s just a learning moment for the two of you.  You are meant to learn important lessons such as detachment, forgiveness, surrender, grace, inner strength and trust.

Forgiveness will be the greatest lesson you will get to learn since the separation would have been caused by one of you either saying or doing something that hurt the other.

At a point like this, you will definitely miss your twin and you will get to wonder how to cope with such a loss.  It will be painful and it would ache your heart but remember it’s meant to happen.  It’s meant to teach you something and however much you wish they would be with you it’s just not the right moment.

Making matters worse, you will have to go through this stage alone as no one will get to understand what you actually feel.  You may try explaining yourself to those close to you and trust me the best response you can get is “just let go, maybe it was not meant to be.”  But no, don’t listen to them; whatever you had is not ordinary and very few people can come to really understand what you are going through.

Twin flame separation isn’t quite a pleasant ordeal and it will leave you with a string of questions in your head with no real answers and unfortunately it will be a confusing moment for you.

However, with the confusion and uncertainty, the two of you will still be connected in a way.  You will still think about each other nearly all of the time and still feel their internal energy.  You will get to feel it when they are emotional, upset or even when they will be thinking of you.

It’s quite sad to lose someone you had loved and still love with all your heart but remember one thing; it’s a stage you have to grow through and you are learning something out of it.  There may not be exact reasons as to why this is happening, how it’s going to happen or when it may stop and all you have to do is trust the process and endure the pain.

The whole encounter is meant to grow you and therefore this is a time for you to have your own healing, spiritual growth, recognize your lessons and just be the best version of yourself.  Once you are ready, the universe will reunite you once more and this time your love will be unbreakable and divine.

Are you going through the twin flames separation stage?

 

 

 

~via spirituaunite.com

SPIRITUAL UNITE: “Feeling Your Twin Flame Telepathically”

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Twin flames are considered to be the half souls of each other and each and every one is believed to have his/her twin flame destined for them in their last lifetime. How do you know you have met your twin flame?

Bond-Connection

Upon meeting, you will develop an unexplained bond connection between the two of you. You will feel as if you have met before physically as there is an atmosphere of familiarity. Intuitively, you will have a peculiar sensation that tells you that he/she is the one. Everything about you will point towards them being the one; your heart, guts, feelings and even the mind.

Feeling Your Twin Flame Telepathically

Telepathy is quite common among twin flames and you will come to realize that when you meet your twin, you will start developing some of their feelings, thoughts and even moods. It so happens that you can tell what is going on in the heart and mind of your other half and you are able to share whatever it is they are feeling. Distance is not actually a barrier and whatever is affecting them; emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually will definitely affect you too.

Eye Contact

The human eyes are believed to be the mirrors to the soul and feeling your twin flame is possible through them. A deep gaze into the eyes of your twin flame would without doubt trigger some feelings within you. Furthermore it would be quite unusual as it would feel like you are staring at your own soul. A simple gaze into each other’s eyes is also believed to be able to heal any misunderstanding between the two of you.

Overwhelming Feeling of Love

Another way of feeling your twin flame is that there will be moments when there is intense genuine love between the two of you. You will feel the deep feeling of love strongly in at least one of the chakra focuses, particularly the heart chakra. The feeling will be so intense such that your souls seem as one and you will be feeling your twin flame’s soul inside yours. Such moments will be of certainty that you two are meant for each other and no matter what happens the two of you will always come back to be together.

Exaggerated Feelings

Since the two of you will be associating on a soul level, feelings between the two of you will be more amplified as considered to other relationships. Whether positive or negative, the two of you will experience excessive emotions i.e either incredibly good during the exciting moment or intensively low during the sad moments. The empathetic relationship between you two will mean you absorb the other person’s emotions and combine them with your own.

The 11:11 Synchronicity

There will be occurrence of repetitive numbers within your connections and the most common of them would be the number 11. The number 11:11 and other number synchronicity will be found within your day to day activities, anniversaries and individual birth dates, phone numbers and major life events.

Dreams

Both of you will sure have dreams about each other since you share a telepathic connection. In most cases, you will have these dreams about each other prior to meeting and they would also have certain themes based on your individual lives and also issues in the relationship that should be addressed. The telepathic connection can also be expressed in form of visions and day dreams.

Separation

Separation is quite common between twin flames as they prepare themselves for each other. Just as other relationships, you will face various misunderstanding however you are set to eventually come back together. The relationship may crumble in cases that one of you has unresolved emotional baggage and you two can only get back together once healing is ready to occur. The intense attraction and repelling between you two will definitely show you when to part ways and when to reunite.

Life Changing

The relationship should make you grow as an individual and in some sense teach you some aspects of life. You will realize that you develop different ideologies and approaches on life situations as a result of your twin’s influence on you. The relationship will also help your individual growth and enable you reach your highest potential in the world and in each other’s lives.

Empathy and Telepathy Connection over Distance

You will definitely come to realize that distance is not a barrier between the two of you and telepathy and empathy will be a common thing. At certain moments you will find that you pick on each other’s thoughts and may find yourselves finishing each others’ statements and texting, calling and emailing each other at almost the same time.

 

 

 

 

~via spiritualunite.com

ALEX MYLES: “Violet Flames & Twin Flame Relationships”

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“The magnetisation of these two souls will bring together two rays of light, so they are able to beam a pure and radiant glow out into the world. The union will teach those around them about loving unconditionally and selflessly and also about letting go of all resentments through learning to forgive and accept.”

~Alex Myles

 

A violet flame is a fire that burns a brilliant, harmonious light and is capable of clearing and alchemising the negative energy we harbour.

The flame translates the negativity into a calm and positive energy that vibrates highly and flows freely. A violet flame is a loving, accepting, forgiving and highly intelligent flame. It is capable of transforming us by providing us with a very powerful and unique spiritual energy that will enhance all aspects of our lives.

The colour violet has the highest frequency of all seven colours on the visual spectrum and it cleanses the system of all our toxic emotional, mental, spiritual and physical blockages.

The flame heals old wounds, clears the karma of past mistakes, erases painful memories and frees us from the heavy emotional baggage we have been carrying around.

We all have an electromagnetic field that surrounds us and we vibrate on different frequencies depending on our current mental, emotional, spiritual and physical state. Our vibrations send out colours, which can be seen in the form of auras.

The colours of our aura solely depend on what is happening within our conscious and sub-conscious minds.

When two people are radiating a violet light and they meet with their twin flame they will engage in an intense, magnetizing and indestructible relationship.

We can have many soul mate relationships with anyone from strangers to lovers, however, we will only ever have one twin flame connection. This is because twin flames share the same cosmic or energetic blueprint as one another.

A twin flame connection is one that offers the purest form of love we will ever experience. The reason for this is that the love arises from absolute unconditional love.

Twin flames have ancient history together, so the instant they meet there will be an intense attraction like no other. There is no mistaking the connection when it occurs. Memories will come flooding back as we try to piece together how we “know” the other person. As soon as the first encounter with a twin flame takes place we will feel a huge shift happening and this is the beginning of a major transformation.

This “knowing” feeling that is indescribable is what keeps us entwined with our twin flame and we will feel as though two intricate pieces of a puzzle have perfectly slotted together.

Although the connection will feel immensely comfortable, it will also cause friction as we are constantly pushed to become the highest version of ourselves possible when we are in their company. It is like looking through the clearest mirror and we may not always like what is being reflected back—however, we will still be compelled to look.

The bonding will not be one where two halves become one, it will be a relationship whereby both are able to be the complete version of their true selves and nothing and no one will have the strength or ability to rock or cause cracks in their foundation.

Twin flames are able to stay bonded through thick and thin and will never cosmically sway too far from one another even if they are not always able to exist side-by-side. When they have reached a point whereby they are radiating this violet light all the obstacles that have been in the way to prevent this connection will fall by the wayside and from there on the relationship will be unstoppable.

The main thing that prevents us from having a deep and powerful twin flame relationship is the energy that we are holding onto from past or current painful experiences. By working with the violet flame we can eradicate all karmic energy and past memories that we are holding onto.

Twin flames that are radiating a violet flame are not co-dependent in any way. They are entirely free to live their life as they choose to, knowing their partner fully accepts, nourishes and supports the paths they desire to roam. Within this relationship it may look to an outsider that these two lives are lived as though they are “single” people as there are no boundaries, rules or regulations that either one has to abide by.

The reason these relationships work without conditions is that both individuals have high levels of integrity, are accountable for their errors and they are radiating with pure love. This love is not just for the other person it is for the whole of humanity, the world they live in and ultimately for themselves.

A burning violet flame sends a glowing, healing wave of energy out into the universe. There are no judgements cast out to others and they hold no resentments for any other ways of life that do not fall in line with their own. Their minds are opened fully so that they see beyond what lies in front of them and this enables them to see all sides of the sphere rather than choosing a limited view.

Within themselves and also their relationship they are able to find the balance between the darkness and light and they are not afraid to accept what lies on either side. Twin flame connections are aware that as human beings we are often too afraid to expose the truth of ourselves to one another.

We all make mistakes and we all have flaws, and in a twin flame relationship the beautiful and ugly are loved and accepted equally so that both people can open up their souls and have the privilege of viewing what lies at the core. This means they are privy to the truest form of love possible as they embrace the reality of the other person, not an illusion they have been tricked into seeing.

The most difficult lesson that twin flames face is the one of unconditional love. This is often why twin flames do not always remain together if they are not radiating with a violet light. If either one has not prepared enough for the connection they will drift in and out of each others lives, although, they will still have a profound sense of togetherness, however far apart they may be.

There will also be a battle with the ego and this is one of the most difficult obstacles to overcome. A twin flame will reflect everything back to us and show us parts of ourselves we may not feel ready to embrace.

We may question if we are advanced enough to be able to deal with this relationship in our lives, as often it will cause us more internal friction that we think we are cable of handling. This is again where the violet light comes into play, as this will help us reach a place of self-love, a higher sense of self-worth and when we reach these things we will find an acceptance for those around us too.

Our twin flame will keep presenting themselves to us time and again until the violet flame has transformed our energy to pulsate on a frequency so we are vibrating at the highest level. Basically, when we have done the work necessary to attract a twin flame we will be emotionally and spiritually ready to fully and intimately connect with our twin flame.

The love between twin flames is not essentially a romantic love, it is the greatest opportunity we will be given to develop personal growth. This being said though, twin flames do not exist for purely a personal benefit. The universe unites twin flames for a divine purpose, which is a selfless one to be of service to others.

The magnetisation of these two souls will bring together two rays of light, so they are able to beam a pure and radiant glow out into the world. The union will teach those around them about loving unconditionally and selflessly and also about letting go of all resentments through learning to forgive and accept.

Whether the mission of these two souls is to help to create a more sustainable world to live in, to reduce suffering of all living creatures or to teach others about ultimate soul growth, the message will be one that is necessary for the evolution of human beings on a mass scale.

All that it takes is for our energetic vibrations to alter so that we are in a position to attract that once in a lifetime partner. We can then embark on a magical adventure that will work hard to match our own fire to the fire that is raging in our twin flame.

Once our flames connect we can carve a unique path by burning through all negativity. This means that our lights will shine brightly enough so that we recognise one another immediately when we eventually move onto the next life.

By setting aside a small amount of time each day, even if it is just for five minutes, we can change our frequency to help to achieve a violet flame.

When we choose a mantra and speak it out loud it helps to alter our frequency and it also assists with manifesting the changes we seek.

To invoke a violet flame a simple mantra such as, “I am present, I am a violet light,” or, “I welcome the violet light into my life.”

As we ask for a violet light we must also be willing to offer it all of the pent up emotions of frustration, anger and resentment we have been feeling. By opening up our heart and accepting the light, we must also surrender to it and flush away all impurities and toxins that have been seeping into us.

We can repeat this mantra as many times as we feel we need to and as often throughout the day as we would like. It is important that the mantra is spoken out loud (through the throat chakra) as our voices are powerful vibrational tools that are capable of changing our frequency.

A visualisation helps when repeating the mantra. If we close our eyes we can imagine a pure violet ray of light burning from within and emanating from us. We can imagine that the flame is burning through any negativity that we bring in to the mantra so that we destroy all thoughts of anger or fear and replace them with ones of love and peace.

Initially it can be painful to uncover and expose certain past memories, however, if we imagine that we have sealed our aura with a healing white and blue protective shield, we can avoid the darkness penetrating and negatively affecting our light.

We can use a mantra anytime we are feeling stressed or angry, or just allow them to become a ritual that takes place each morning before we begin the day. The more often the mantra is repeated, the more powerful it will be in working its magic.

 

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~via elephantjournal.com

NEW SUN UNITY: “Twin Flame Love and Reunion”

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As humans we intrinsically yearn for that rare love, twin flame, relationship with another who understands and somehow completes us on the deepest spiritual level; one who cherishes us always. The reason we yearn for this is because when God created our spirit out of His spirit, he separated each of us into a male and a female counterpart. Although cleaved in two, twin flames are never truly separate from each other and are still one, like two sides of the same coin. This resulted in our one perfect partner in spirit, our exact mirror twin flame, who is made as we are, of the same Presence.

I met my twin flame some years ago and as is typical of most reunions we parted again. This article will describe most of the common signs and stages in a typical twin flame reunion.

What Is A Twin Flame?

Our twin flame is our closest soul mate. We have other mates that are aspects of our soul, part of our soul family who are very much like us. Yet soul mates are never exact mirrors the way our twin is. The twin flame is truly our cosmic partner in spirit, who sometimes incarnates with us so that we can meet them in a physical body. Once a rare event, it is more common now due to humanity raising its consciousness.

There are multiple other aspects (soul mates) that arise from our soul, yet our twin flame is the closest to us and mirrors our exact soul characteristics and traits. They think as we think and feel as we feel. We tend to go through life feeling we are the “only one” or are unique. Being with a twin flame is meeting that other aspect of self, one that reacts to events the same way we do; and that can be disconcerting! I had issues when my twin possessed my own uniqueness, he was the same as me. He would always say everything exactly as I was about to say it to a group, only he would beat me to it. He would literally steal my conversation and that was something I didn’t really enjoy. Yet what is guaranteed with our twin souls is strong attraction and a deep spiritual connection, so there are plus sides to this relationship after some big adjustments regarding how we see our self.

How To Recognise A Twin Flame

Sometimes this recognition is instant and at other times it takes a little bit of time. Once twins catch each other’s attention, the bond can be overpowering, even if they are the last person we ever believed was suitable. Twins can have large differences in age and upbringing, or be from completely different walks of life (both true for me). This can be disconcerting and, I won’t lie, it can make things very rough going. Despite some big differences, there is a powerful recognition that can leave both twins surprised and puzzled.

When my twin first noticed me it was electric and took us both by surprise. It is often so with twin flames. If there is any doubt about them being the one flame for us, then they probably are not. The connection is undeniable and deeply spiritual, but can also be overwhelming and intoxicating. There can be elements of infatuation, but also very deep elements that are undeniable. Our spiritual twin seems beyond familiar as we get to know them, perhaps too familiar, yet we are always hooked by them nonetheless. For me it was like being with myself, which lent me the feeling it was not supposed to last; it was a weird feeling.

There are downsides to the intense attraction / attachment that is experienced because the thought of losing them can feel like death. Because we are very close to our twins in spirit, we get very close fast in the physical dimension. We have very strong emotional feelings about our spiritual counterpart and nothing we do can make that simply go away. Once we know this person, we become attached. Their soul is our soul, their blood our blood. Any time we allow our self to go too high, we open the possibility of falling to an equal low.

Problems And Differences

Believe it or not, these relationships are not supposed to be easy. We find our mate testing us on many levels and this relationship is not an easy ride by any stretch. We may well be in different stages of life, one person young and inexperienced whilst the other seasoned, divorced, with children or possessing a much different attitude to life. Our twins enter into our lives in order to stretch us and help us grow. Whilst this can be true of many romantic relationships, it can be especially true of soul mates and twin souls. Heartbreak is possible, as well as separation. Although it may be a short lived relationship, it will be one that takes a while to forget. My twin meeting was over twenty years ago, and whilst I have forgotten it now, I have met another who is so similar to my twin, astrologically and temperamentally, who possesses the exact same emotional problems. This second relationship cannot hurt me because my twin already hurt me in just the same ways.

There is a lot of idealistic information circulating on the net somewhat falsely claiming that twin soul relationships are perfect, with no ego, no arguing, no separation. But our twin counterpart is not a fairytale figure; they are human and have faults and issues. Although we can become improved by the twin relationship, separation is common and so are arguments. Imagine meeting the one person who can push your buttons precisely. Twins tend to mirror each other so perfectly that if we possess a fault that we dislike, we see the same fault in our twin and all hell can break lose. Twins are as mirrors to each other and will bring up issues of self judgment or self loathing that can then be transferred onto the twin mirror.

Sometimes a twin flame has led a selfish life or has mental issues that border on the dangerous. Not all issues vanish simply through the reunion of two flames. Some twins are promiscuous drunks, who crave freedom and don’t wish for a relationship. Some are already married and in love. A twin could be a nerd, our total opposite, or a social butterfly extrovert who parties endlessly. We may have nothing in common with them; they could be poor or rich, a bum who never showers, or a well-healed snob. Chances are they will be very different to what we would normally expect or look for in a partner. They could also come from a different geographical location, culture or religion, or from a completely different upbringing to our self.

How To Find Our Twin Flame

They usually have a way of finding us. What I mean by this is that they will simply appear when we least expect it. Our angels and guides set up the meeting and then sit back to watch the fireworks explode. The angels tell me that it is not possible to cause the meeting to occur, but we should have faith and hold a positive mental attitude and get on with life. Twin flame meetings usually occur when one counterpart is going through a life crisis. This dramatic, once in a lifetime crisis occurs first then the twin appears suddenly. They come in to help, although it may not always unfold this way depending on the twin. I wonder if they are called “flame” because of their propensity to burn us? They do not mean to of course, it is just that the chemistry is so intense. My feeling is we must not judge the experience. Not all reunions are romantic in nature, especially if the age difference is very large.

Telepathy – Knowing What The Other Is Thinking/Doing/Feeling

Telepathy is a given with our twin flame, it is a well known phenomenon which also happens with true soul mates who are part of our soul family. Their uncanny ability to see into each other is what can scare away any soul mate we meet in the flesh, because this dynamic is rare and one we don’t often have when interacting with other souls. The natural telepathy and familiarity can shock us to the core.

I had a strange experience when I met two soul mates as well as my twin all at once. The others are male and I am female. One part of my soul family was very down and out and was a drunk, although I simply could not judge him as easily as I might another – there is much compassion within soul families. Another was a young, handsome man my own age (both very young at the time) who already had several children with different girls. Then there was my twin, who was significantly older and a complete mess. The younger soul mate and I got along amazingly well as friends and could have been close friends if not for his fear. He would push me away then get close again. He was too young to understand the meaning of platonic friendship, like he was afraid a friendship was forbidden. This soul mate also became amazing friends instantly with my twin, and followed him around like a puppy.

There is telepathy between all soul mates. They can see right into us as no one else ever can. Mine ran from me and I regretted the lost potential of friendship. My twin flame also ran (more on the “runner” phenomenon in the next section).

It is the very closeness we crave that causes us or them to run in shock and fright. We need to adjust quickly when we first realise this other person can see into our very heart and mind; it is eerie at first. We cannot hide even the deepest secrets about ourself because telepathically and claircognizantly, they know All. They notice that we also know all. The immature or emotionally closed ones almost always run. The meeting of four members of my soul family was divinely organised for us, but it all fell apart because people got scared of the closeness. The telepathy and empathy is such that we know each other well after no time, and can feel what the other feels, even at a distance. Actual telepathic conversations can occur between twins, and some twins will sync themselves so that their moods match, or even their activities.

5 Twin Flame Stages / Phases

There are several well known stages to the twin flame relationship. I have found that these phases are almost exactly like what I went through.

1.  Preparation Stage

There is a preparation stage before the twins meet, where one if not both have a strong feeling or longing for someone to enter their life. This preparation comes from soul level so that both are prepped and ready for the meeting.

2.  The Meeting

The first meeting between twins usually occurs in the last place you would ever imagine. This phase is described as the initial blissful, perfect relationship. This happens for some but not all of us. In my case we skipped straight to stage three after a few weeks because my twin was recently divorced and bitter, and I “turned him down”. He became what is known as “the runner” almost from the start. I could not be forgiven for the misunderstanding that occurred, and he ran from the other half of himself.

3.  Disagreements and Fights

Phase Three is the inevitable Fighting that seems to occur in these relationships. It may be karma, it may be that age and cultural differences are just insurmountable, or it could be a horrible misunderstanding, or perhaps one twin simply likes to argue. As well, this phase commonly manifests as a cold, unbreakable silence consisting of one ignoring the other steadfastly, for months or even years. Though it seems strange that two parts of the same soul can’t get along, this is indeed what occurs with the typical twin flame relationship.

At this point, one twin becomes the “chaser” and the other one the “runner”. This position will most likely swap completely at some point when the former runner begins chasing, and the former chaser starts to run. The initial chaser is almost always the feminine counterpart. In my instance, I was the chaser for three years and kept bumping into my twin on the street. Each time he would duck away and literally run. As time passed and I moved on, he then became the chaser. For the next three years I continued to bump into this man, and although he made advances, I went to extraordinary lengths to run from him. In my heart I wanted to reunite, but the damage had been done and to this day I would still run.

4.  The Reunion

The reunion between twins is supposed to happen when their karma is balanced and both have forgiven the other. Any kind of reunion needs to conform to a freewill decision to revive something long dead, or perhaps only sleeping. After researching people’s experiences online, I have some evidence of couples who have experienced phase 4 & 5. Yet most stories I have read have ended with separation after a short period of being together. Even in the case of Doreen Virtue and her published book about her twin flame relationship, they later separated and are no longer together. In my own heart I know I will not be reaching phase four in this life. The fact is that most twin flames move on and eventually end up with other partners, although there are always exceptions. My angels hint to me that this phase takes place after we pass over from this life, and we make good again with our twin.

5.  Bliss

Phase Five is Eternal Bliss. I am not sure bliss can so easily be experienced on the Earth plane, but maybe it can if that is what one wanted badly enough and was able to achieve with their twin. As the  Earth continues to ascend, it will probably become much more possible. Most twin flame stories I have read describe the way one or both twins, during one of the above stages, moves on enough to only want to be “friends” (this is my experience too). Yet stage 5 can happen according to a smaller percentage of stories I have read. For some of us, stage five bliss with our twin happens after passing into the higher dimensions after this life is over.

The Purpose Of Twin Flame Relationships

Channeled material tells us there is a divine purpose to our linkups with our flame, a purpose that is relevant to this era and world as we prepare to ascend spiritually. Twin flame partnerships exemplify unconditional love and set up a template for the world. They are an example of true love to aid in humanity’s Ascension. If this is so, then many of us may have completed the task and simply moved on again, and maybe this is how it is meant to be.

 

 

 

 

~via NewSunUnity.com

ALETHEIA LUNA: “8 Twin Flame Stages — Are You Experiencing This?”

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The love experienced between two reunited twin flames is like a wild beast.

It can’t be captured. It can’t be contained. It can’t be tamed. Instead, it burns fiercely with an unquenchable form of intensity that is both exhilarating and formidable. The love experienced between twin flames is like Holy Fire: it burns you to ashes, but it also forges you into a new creature, like a Phoenix emerging out of the dust.

Although every twin flame relationship is unique and can’t be simplified, there is a general pattern that tends to emerges in these unions. As a person who went through a twin flame fusion, I know how overwhelming (and even terrifying) such an experience can be. I would have loved to read an article on common tell-tale twin flame signs when I was going through such a disorientating experience. But back then I knew nothing of twin flames or their significance. So here I would like to provide you with what I lacked: a general map that can help to guide you and pinpoint where you are right now.

8 Major Twin Flame Stages

Twin flames are said to be beings that aid our souls in finding completion. Ancient Greek philosopher Plato first created the idea of souls “split in two” that eternally yearn to find their “other halves.” These days we still carry around this idea of “find our other half,” but unfortunately we believe that it is absolutely imperative for us to find another person to be complete. Please keep in mind that while twin flames do help us to experience unconditional love and grow immensely as people, not all of us find our twin flames, and not all of us need twin flames to feel complete. Please read “7 Common Myths Embellishing Twin Flame Relationships” to read more about this.

Also, it helps to remember that the degree to which you can experience harmony in your twin flame relationship is dependent on your level of soulful maturity. For example, two old souls will have a much easier time at “holding it all together” than two young souls. You can read more about soulful maturity here and soul ages here.

So keeping this in mind, what are the eight major twin flame stages that you’ll likely experience in your relationship?

Stage One – Yearning for “The One”

In this preliminary stage you have spent your entire life pining for “The One” that doesn’t yet exist in your life. You have this strange sensation that someone who is perfectly molded to you is “out there” but you don’t quite know where or when they will appear in your life. Although you ache for your twin flame, you have a feeling they will appear to you at some point.

This stage is also sometimes spent “preparing” for the arrival of the twin flame on an unconscious level. In my instance, I had to learn how to love myself before I met mine. For others, this stage of preparation involves the development of self-awareness, discovery, and understanding.

Stage Two – Glimpsing “The One”

At some point, you will have a brief glimpse of your twin flame. Whether this is through a dream signal, or through a real life meeting, suddenly the Beloved can be sensed. The result is profound. Wonder, joy, anxiety and intoxication quickly ensue. For those cautious among us, a lingering sense of intense curiosity and desire to get to know the person better is the result. You don’t know what it is exactly, but this person is extremely special. Like me, you may even sense that this person will play an immensely important role in your life – even before you know them properly.

Stage Three – Falling in Love

When you fall for this person, you will fall very, very hard. You will fall harder than you have ever fallen for anyone – and the impact will knock the breath right out of you. In fact, as you get to know your twin flame better, you will fall more and more deeply in love with them. As a result, you’ll find it hard to stand with two feet on the ground. You might feel disorientated, lovesick and “unlike yourself.” You may even try to resist the attraction, but eventually you’ll accept the reality that you’re deeply and madly in love.

Stage Four – The Fairy-Tale Relationship

As both of you eventually make your feelings known and enter into a relationship, life will feel like a fairy-tale. Your relationship with them will be perfect in every possible way. It will seem as though your twin flame fulfills every single need you have and everything you ever possibly wanted. This taste of “paradise” is what the matured twin flame relationship looks like after the next few stages of turmoil.

Stage Five – Outer Turmoil and Inner Purging

In this stage there is trouble in paradise. As the ecstasy from the initial meeting period wares off, egos start to flare up. Suddenly differences in opinion, taste and personality arise, and old core wounds emerge out of the gloom. While our twin flames share and mirror our deepest needs, desires and dreams, they also tend to mirror our shadow selves. For example, if you are an emotionally repressed person, your twin flame will likely be emotionally explosive. If you tend to be arrogant, your twin flame will most likely be uncertain and quiet. In this way our twin flames challenge us, riling up our insecurities. This can be infuriating, devastating and very painful.

While all the arguing and fighting in this stage may seem disastrous, the truth is that it is necessary for our growth. Without being provoked, without seeing ourselves for who we “really” are, we live in illusion and fail to grow soulfully. But this is certainly hard to realize while you’re going through such turbulence in your relationship!

Stage Six – The Runner and Chaser

As tensions mount it is common for one partner (or sometimes both) to emotionally or physically withdraw and “run” away, and another to pursue in a game of cat and mouse. Sometimes this involves emotional shut down and silent treatments. Other times this involves physical separation and in extreme cases, the permanent termination of the relationship. In this stage, twin flames experience a trial by fire. While some relationships last and are strengthened, others crumble to pieces. As I mentioned at the start, this is all dependent on each partner’s soulful maturity. Sometimes one partner leaves for many years and then returns, only to repeat the cycle once again. The chaser, on the other hand, tends to be the more mentally and emotionally mature partner of the two, trying to sort everything out and make amends.

Stage Seven – Surrender and Dissolution

Once the shadow of your relationship has been revealed, you may experience a period of surrender. After so much anguish, distress and provocation, you both begin to open up about your wounds and insecurities. In this stage it is common to experience a lot of ego dissolution and soulful expansion. As the ego relaxes, powerful lessons are learned about the nature of oneself and the nature of the “other.” As you begin learning how to work through your differences, the maturity of your relationship deepens and thus strengthens.

It is common to go through stages six and seven many times throughout your relationship.

Stage Eight – Oneness

As the problems in your relationship become increasingly easy to deal with, you will enter a period of soul reunion. In stage eight it is common for you to both find a shared meaning, passion or cause that brings you a mutual sense of fulfillment. As the ego continues to relax, virtues such as forgiveness, understanding, empathy and patience are learned. The more you both work through each issue that comes your way vigilantly, the more you experience the sensation of “Oneness,” or ego death.

This is a true miracle.

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Have you found your twin flame? Which of these twin flame stages have you experienced in life and what insights can you share? I’d love to hear from you below.

 

 

~via LonerWolf.com

ALETHEIA LUNA: “20 Twin Flame Signs – Who is Your Mirror Soul?”

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The moment you meet your twin flame is the moment the earth beneath your feet begins to shift.

I like to think of the meeting of two mirror souls as an existential earthquake: all of a sudden you can sense that an immensely important person has entered your life. All of a sudden you get the overwhelming feeling that your life is going to change in a way you aren’t even aware of yet – and yet you intuitively know that the changes will be great, greater than what you’ve ever experienced, and breathtaking in their magnitude.

I know all of this because I am fortunate enough to have met my own twin flame a few years ago, so I have already gone through the fiery, intense and transformative process of meeting my soul’s mirror.

Although I feel immense gratitude for the gift of connecting with my twin flame, I am happy to say that this blessing is open to everyone; however such a gift is not always received openly or even recognized by us on a conscious level. Sometimes we’re at a point in our lives where we are simply not receptive to both ourselves and our twin flame’s presence due to stress, over-work, lifestyle habits and negative thought patterns that lead to low self-esteem.

For this reason I believe that it’s important to identify some of the major twin flame signs that you might experience, or have already experienced, in your lifetime. In the end, the appearance of our mirror soul is always a mystery and can rarely be predicted. So pay attention.

Who is Your Mirror Soul?

I like to refer to our twin flames as mirror souls because they essentially reflect the deepest needs, desires, dreams and shadow elements of our souls. We will explore this a bit more later on.

However before that, I just want to say that our twin flames are not always romantic, and they are not – as is so popularly suggested – necessarily heterosexual connections. In fact, our twin flames may be romantic partners of the same sex (or no sex), and they can often be platonic friends or even family members who we have known for a long time.

Regardless of this, twin flames are most commonly romantic in nature and tend to manifest themselves as people who we can passionately connect with on all levels.

Furthermore, it has also been popularly suggested that twin flames stay together for entire lifetimes, but I personally don’t believe that this is the case. Connecting deeply with another person doesn’t necessarily guarantee that you will stay with them forever – this is dependent on your own level of conscious development and that of your twin flames. Also, in the spiritual community most people suggest that we only have one twin flame in our lifetimes. Such a belief stems from the origins of the concept of “twin flames” in Plato’s The Symposium dialogue which indicated that humans originally had two faces, four arms and four legs. Because of this, humans were once so powerful that they threatened to overpower the gods, so the mythic god Zeus split them in half. However, it is said that once we discover our other “half” again we are filled with a profound sense of wholeness. Whether this explanation of twin flames is out-dated or not is up to you to decide.

Finally, it is common for us to get really excited about meeting our “twin flame.” However, sometimes this jubilation results in romanticized projection, meaning that we paint an idealized image onto another person that might not be returned or welcomed by them resulting in severe disillusionment. Also, when we suffer from low self-esteem and a lack of self-love, it is natural for us to try and find a kind of needy acceptance outside of ourselves (hence the projection), so be careful of infatuation and idolization. Your twin flame is certainly not perfect – just like you.

Top 20 Twin Flame Signs

Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along. – Rumi

We are not always receptive to the appearance of our twin flames in life. We might be heart-broken, wracked with grief, maritally over-burdened, or just plain tired and disillusioned when they suddenly appear out of the blue. In fact, we might have already met our twin flames or mirror souls, but we might have overlooked them, belittled them or taken them for granted in some way.

Whatever emotional or psychological stage you’re at in life, it is always beneficial to be conscious of the people you live with and meet. These following twin flame signs might help you to open new pathways and opportunities for union:

  1. You feel a strange, inexplicable sense of “recognition” when you meet the person. This might manifest itself as déjà vu, or an unshakable feeling that you’ve known this person before, or are somehow “meant to be together.”
  2. You have a feeling that they are going to play a very important role in your own development, without knowing when, why or how.
  3. You’ve established an immediate, intense connection with them that is invigorating and shocking at the same time.
  4. You feel as though you’ve finally found a “home” or safe place with the other person.
  5. You are able to be your authentic self – warts and all – without the fear of rejection, persecution or judgment with them.
  6. You both embody the yin and yang, in other words, your dark side is balanced by their light side, and their dark side is balanced by your light side.
  7. You feel a sense of expansion with them, as though you are larger than your limited identity.
  8. They make you a better person, and you make them a better person.
  9. When together you are both bonded but free, attached but unattached. In other words, you still maintain your freedom even though you might be in a relationship with them.
  10. You are finely tuned to their energy, and they are finely tuned to yours. This means that you are both very conscious of the present play of energy (whether happy or sad, angry or forgiving, open or withholding) present in the connection. You’re both therefore highly empathic with each other.
  11. You feel as though you have been waiting for this person your entire life.
  12. You both connect deeply and mirror each other’s values and aspirations for life beyond surface similarities.
  13. You twin flame is a mirror of what you fear and simultaneously desire the most for your own inner healing. For example, if you are a highly-strung person, your twin flame will most likely be relaxed and messy. If you like to play the victim, your twin flame will be a strong character who refuses to give you pity or sympathy to perpetuate your complex. If you are creatively repressed, your twin flame will be a flourishing artist. In this way, our twin flames challenge and infuriate us but also teach us important lessons about our fears, core wounds and repressions.
  14. No matter how many times you avoid or leave your twin flame, you’re always magnetically attracted back to them. (Don’t confuse this with abusive relationship complexes.)
  15. One of you is more soulfully mature than the other, and often serves as the teacher, counselor or confidant within the relationship.
  16. You are taught important life lessons such as forgiveness, gratitude, empathy and open-mindedness by them and with them.
  17. Your connection is multi-faceted. In other words, your twin flame is likely your best friend, lover, teacher, nurturer and muse all at once.
  18. Your twin flame doesn’t try to change you. They accept you for who you are and what stage you’re at, and encourage you to do the same for yourself (and vice versa).
  19. You can be truthful with each other about anything.
  20. Together, you both feel driven towards a higher purpose, whether spiritually, socially or ecologically.

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Our twin flames can be lovers, sisters, brothers, friends, cousins or even mothers or fathers. For some people they arise at the most opportune times, and for others they arise at the most complicated times. And still, for some people twin flames are said to not arise in this lifetime, but are nevertheless with us in heart.

Whatever the case, remember that it is entirely possible to be whole and complete unto yourself with enough soul work. Remember, twin flames do not “complete” you because you are already innately “complete” at a soulful level; they instead compliment you deeply and help you to grow.

 

 

 

 

~via LonerWolf.com