STEPHANIE LUCAS: “Surviving Twin Flame Relationships – 4 Tips for Mindfulness”

 Twin Flame Relationships

There’s nothing more surreal, ethereal, or divine than two harmonious lovers walking the journey together. Two cosmic flames reuniting physically on the earthly plane in search of Source, the Higher Self…to rediscover what is there all along but has been obscured by the human experience and its trials.

Twin Flames and Soul Mates can meld seamlessly for the first few weeks and months or even years, but as the flames grow higher and burn stronger, you and your mirror image will begin feeling the heat in areas beyond the boudoir.  Yes, some fiery confrontations can occur in twin flame relationships, especially once the ‘bubble love’ phase transitions into a deeper realization of your cosmic connection.

Why? Because as exhilarating as it is, discovering your twin can be an intimidating experience. Theoretically, you’re in relations with the other half of your soul essence, so resisting the urge to have expectations and fears that can lead to disagreements can be ‘simply irresistible.’  Before calling it quits or calling the fire department on these occasions, here are a few ways contain the heat of these cosmic connections.

Twin Flame Relationships

Balance Intimacy with Spirituality

Anyone can fall in love. That’s the easy part. But, it’s going to take work – really challenging work on the physical, emotional, and spiritual levels – to make your partnership succeed and for you to STAY in love. Now, if you’re truly with your Twin Flame, you shouldn’t be having any issues with intimacy. In fact, you may be enjoying that connection so much that spiritual connection time together is being neglected. Of course, intimacy IS spiritual in twin flame relationships. It’s the spirituality involved in spending time together soul gazing, meditating, communing in nature, doing yoga, developing your Kundalini presence or exploring the amplified healing abilities TFs are purported to have. These types of practices are what allow you to have balanced, positive energy so you can nurture not only your soul but to also tend to your partners when needed, In short, don’t neglect the SOUL work.

Twin Flame RelationshipsBe Open as Both a Student and Teacher

These special partnerships are of cosmic design, and they are intended to help us assist one another in becoming everything we are meant to be both as individuals and as a union before the process of ascension. Your partner mirrors your own issues back at you, and naturally, we can be resistant to these lessons because they are typically painful for us to see – especially once we consider ourselves to be ‘above’ those places we once were. There is no direct path to our final destination, and our human selves may refuse to see and acknowledge that dark side… to bare ourselves down to the core where both the darkness and light coincide so we can learn those tough lessons – sometimes over and over again. Don’t be afraid to be naked in your relations with your partner… let your beloved also be your teacher and guide. In return, allow them to be your student by letting them know who you really are and be honest in communicating your lessons.

Hold Back with Hypersensitivity

When times are trying it’s tempting for Twin Flames to Run in Troubled Times, but true twin flames must realize that they are a mirror image of one another, reflecting their own personal issues back at their partner, so naturally there is sensitivity to seeing those weaknesses. You’ll be hypersensitive to each other’s energies, both high and low, positive and negative – especially when those ‘lessons’ and ‘mirror’ issues crop up. This is the time to truly evaluate the role of the Ego, of YOUR Ego, and let it go. Choosing to communicate in a productive, kind, and loving way when disagreements arise rather than taking offense opens the door for healing. However, times when you realize your reaction was less impressive or productive, try to see your reaction as an opportunity to look within yourself and address any old baggage you’re harboring that fuels any undesirable responses.

Twin Flame Relationships

Live, Laugh, Love

As you ease into the comfort zone with your twin flame relationship, you will propel beyond being in love to just BEing LOVE. You’ll enjoy life more as you laugh and love together, allowing your relations with one another and the actions you bring into the world will to be like a mesmerizing song, an eloquent dance, a meditation or prayer, honoring and appreciating each moment with grace and humility. Be that LOVE, and all of your relationships will thrive even in the toughest of times.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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STEPHANIE LUCAS: “Understanding Soul Mate Connections and Twin Flames in Troubled Times”

Soul Mate Connections

It seems that many folks have a somewhat unrealistic impression of what a soul mate or twin flame connection will or should be… with visions or expectations of an all encompassing ideal partner that grabs their hand, gives them a twirl or two, and then they walk away into a sunset on a picturesque evening. People expect this bubble love that is never ending, and feel as though they can share every thought with their partner and all is so serene…

Well, let me say this is absolutely NOT how this rolls, my friends. In fact, when you actually encounter potentially romantic soul mate connections – and particularly in the case of an authentic twin flame connection – things can get rather down and dirty…and quickly. However, it is so important to remember that these connections need not be romantic at all but rather an intense friendship that aids you on your Path to Enlightenment. They may be either transient or permanent fixtures in your life on the earthly plane – part of your voyage together is allowing what it is to manifest.Nothing is more challenging than meeting your mirror, and when I say mirror, I mean you will see not only the BEST in that person, but also their worst. And accepting those aspects of yourself while accepting them in your connection is not any walk in the park…and in fact, once this occurs, your partner is likely to run like a bat out of hell from you! As SoulEntity speaks of in “Follow the Stranger“, the ‘Negative Sentience’ is always trying to break into the minds of true soul mates.

Soul Mate Connections Why Soul Mates Run…and 1 Simple Way to Reconnect (or Not)

Meeting a twin flame or intense soul mate is like the Clash of the Titans. What else can two parts of a whole do when perfect strangers have a chance encounter and they somehow see EVERYTHING? There are two things that can happen here: you can acknowledge what you see and go with the connection, or you can keep what you see to yourself. Either way, you are still going to butt heads, so chose your path on this journey wisely.

DOUBTS & FEARS: Strong energetic connections can be rather scary, and running is an instinctual response that can lead the pair into doubting if their union is ‘real’. While feeling so drawn in to someone, you also feel fear. Fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of making a mistake that will drive them away. Essentially, all of these fears are projected onto your partner and this is why they will RUN…you may be the runner or the one in fear or both – likely both of you will be doing both if it’s a true twin flame connection.

LABELS: As with most intense connections, the tendency to want to slap a label on someone as your BFF or your girlfriend, etc. can be very tempting. However, rather than that ultimately serving as an ‘acknowledgment’ this can set you up for future disappointment if the associated expectations of that label aren’t met.

EXPECTATIONS: Everyone is born into a world filled with expectations. Heck, parents make ‘big plans’ for their unborn – setting out expectations of them before they even exit the womb! These expectations will bombard you throughout life if you allow them to, and this is a part of the programming of society. One of the greatest downfalls in relationships of any kind is the expectation of another to reciprocate your feelings or live up to your expectations in any fashion.

JUDGEMENTS: One of the most important parts of living in the NOW is freeing yourself from judgments in all aspects of your life; hence, no matter where your troubles lie with your soul mate, you’d do yourself a favor by taking a bit of time and space rather than being judgmental of them. Remember, they are likely reflecting any energy that YOU are projecting onto THEM, and simple compassion can send out more harmonic vibrations that can ultimately heal issues, fears, and wounds that tempt judgment.

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About that Miraculous Solution for Reconnecting

Well, it’s not miraculous and you may or may not reconnect in the way you want (but that’s still holding onto expectations!). However, you can resolve and avoid many unnecessary conflicts with your soul mate connections or twin flame by avoiding all of the above! Letting go of the labels, doubts, judgments, and expectations allow you to become comfortable with the changes and he challenges as you will live more in the present, raising your vibrations, and increasing your manifestation abilities to gain what is intended from the connection.

“To form a connection with another human being is effortless but to maintain the connection takes some focus. To neglect the connection for prolonged lengths of time means that it will require more effort to maintain its stability. All it takes is a conscious mutual exchange of energy so that both people stay vibrating at a high frequency and the connection will remain strong.”Joshua Tepania, Writer/Poet

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