NEZEL PADAYHAG: “The 2 Most Important Traits Of A Soulmate”

Most people think that a soulmate is a person who magically appears in your life out of nowhere because they are destined to be with you.

However, a true soulmate doesn’t have to be a romantic partner. But they will most likely be. And they do not appear magically, they are attracted to your vibration.

So this means that no matter how close your soulmate is to you, if you do not let yourself be yourself, and shine with your light, they will not perceive the truth of you.

To find the right person and connect with on a cosmic level you have to become the right person yourself. And once you find this person, everything changes in your life.

When the two of you unite, your energies complement each other and become so extremely strong that just your partnership in love creates a positive change in this world.

There are countless signs, traits and explanations of what is a soulmate and how it feels when you find them.

But most of these traits are not concrete enough. So here are the two most important traits of a soulmate.

The 2 Most Important Traits Of A Soulmate:

If someone has these two traits, whether you believe in soulmates or not, they are what is considered a soulmate.

1. You’re deeply inspired by them.

“Inspiration” comes from the Greek word “Theopneustos”, which literally means “God breathed”.

In other words, when you meet a soulmate you feel connected to them on a much deeper level, a level that is spiritual, coming from the Source.

This person inspires you more than you can imagine. It goes beyond reason, time, space, and comprehension.

You feel a deep connection on a subconscious level. Having this subconscious connection, you both tap into your infinite potential.

You’re inspired to do things you never have done before. Because you inspire each other, manifesting your dreams is easier.

You become aware that you’re both co creators creating your reality.

When you’re together, your energies are so strong that people can’t help but notice its magnetic power. When both of you enter a room together it illuminates the atmosphere.

You know what the other person is thinking even just by gazing at each other’s eyes. And whenever you are together you feel as there are no limits to your potential.

You are changed into the best version of you not because they magically transform you, but because you are inspired by them to transform into your best self yourself.

At times, it takes true love so the darkest places of your soul can surface and be healed. And this kind of love is what really transforms us.

2. You love deeply and care strongly for them.

As we said, a soulmate doesn’t have to be a romantic partner. Some times it is a friend, or maybe even a person you consider a foe.

But most often it is going to be a romantic partner. This is because a soulmate reflects deep parts of yourself you are often attracted to or you disassociate with and hate.

There are many ways to define love. And it’s often subjective. A person can love someone out of a deep need. Or, they can love someone just because they do.

Most often, the second kind of loving is the deepest kind of loving. It’s because you have no need to love a person, but you still do, that hints to some deeper reason.

You love deeply and care genuinely when you’re willing to give without demanding something in return.

A usual phenomena that happens with your soulmate is when you can look at each other’s eyes and see that you’re both timeless.

You unconsciously understand that you come from the same source and the same breath of life.

If you feel your partner is the right person but things aren’t flowing smoothly, there might be some issues that both of you need to solve.

Both of you may have reflected upon each other’s aspects that need healing. It’s scary to look but if it’s the only way to heal, then face your fears and inner wounds.

This often happens with soulmates who are not romantic partners but a friend, or maybe even someone you just hate. But it can happen with a romantic partner.

You hate them because they reflect the things you hate within yourself and they are, in a way, trying to heal you by making you face what you avoid within yourself.

But whoever they are, a friend, a foe, a romantic partner, if they are your soulmate you will feel deep care for them, even if you hate them.

So what do you need to do to attract your soulmate:

You shouldn’t force yourself trying to attract your soulmate. If a relationship isn’t making you happy or fulfilled, then you might be in the wrong relationship.

You don’t need to suffer in a relationship wishing the person you’re with is the right one. No one knows it better than you. But first, you need to work on yourself.

You need to have a deeper connection with yourself because your vibration is the link that connects you to your soulmate.

When you’re fully aware of yourself and vibrate in the same frequency your soulmate is vibrating, then there’s a big chance you will meet each other.

Whatever the case may be, continue to shine your light. When the right person comes, you will just know it. Any other explanation will be just irrelevant.

 

~via LifeCoachCode.com

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WISDOM FOR THE DAY ~ Eliza Ayres on Twin Flames

“Finding and living with your Twin Flame is NOT necessary in order to complete ascension. The Twin Flames of most starseeds have remained in the higher dimensions to hold the balance for the ground crew member. The whole search for Twin Flame is a major distraction for most starseeds. The real job is balancing the divine masculine and feminine essences WITHIN the ascending individual…”

~Line Cmdr. Sundeelia Kumara VaCoupe aka “Eliza Ayres”

 

~via https://bluedragonjournal.com/2018/06/19/conscious-reminder-twin-flame-consciousness-its-all-about-rising-in-love-not-falling-in-love/

CONSCIOUS REMINDER: “Twin Flame Consciousness — It’s All About Rising In Love, Not Falling In Love”

The dimension in which true love exists is different from that of space and time. This is why it cannot be started or ended; it just can be felt by giving up all selfishness.

It is a divine creation of God that helps one get closer and closer to self realization and Godliness. When someone is in true love, he tends to fulfill the ultimate motive of their life.

In a romantic relationship, our instincts and hormones make it natural to provide our partner with love but as the time passes it becomes a function of how much we are loved in return.

Whereas, in the case of true love, we never cease to feel the charm of their presence and we are constantly overwhelmed by the nature of this blissful creation love. Hence loving and caring for them comes to you naturally and effortlessly.

Being in true love is like the perfect combination of companionship, romance and worshiping in the right proportion. It brings out the spiritual purpose of making a dimensional shift in the hearts of humanity, in humans but empowering them to embrace the physical imperfections.

The purity and blissfulness of the love towards your twin flame is ever increasing regardless of how the love is reciprocated, helping us believe in the beauty of reality, what we do have and not what we could.

Nonetheless, to carry and retain this divine emotion in one’s heart takes immense persistence and patience.

It depends on the efforts of the twin souls to make their true love a celebration and it happens when they completely give in to each other while exploring the million ways to offer comfort and care towards the twin flame. If either of the twin flames choose to give up, the connection to the God breaks and you rescind the spirituality in you.

In order to prevent both the souls from tearing apart and failing to thrive in life, they must continue the practice and empower each other to live the best possible time and it can only be possible with the right support and irrevocable intention of loving in the hearts.

 

 

~via ConsciousReminder.com

ALEX MYLES: “Navigating the Pleasure and Pain of Twin Flame Connections”

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“Ultimately the twin flame connection is here to teach us about unconditional love and acceptance by showing us whatever we have the most difficulty in loving and accepting within others and ourselves.  It is easy to love the qualities that reside in the light, our greatest challenge is also being able to love and accept those that reside in the darkness.”

~Alex Myles

 

A Twin Flame connection is often defined by one thing: an instantaneous, intense and magnetic soul resonation.

However for many, despite the heightened emotions and strong longing to connect with a twin flame, the opposite usually happens, and instead of coming together they seem to move further apart.

When we live open-hearted and are highly sensitive, we recognize our twin flame immediately, as they seem familiar and their energy feels like what many describe as home.  However, the ultimate twist in this is that the other person often won’t recognize us, or if they do, they are stuck in denial.  It can sometimes feel like the closer we move toward our twin flame, the farther they move away.

The reason behind this is not a comfortable pill to swallow, but it is important to know so we can awaken and heal from the aching desire to unite with the person whom our heart craves.

Twin flames are not the same as us — they are our polar opposites.  This ignites immense fear, as we are innately terrified of what we don’t fully understand, so we subconsciously attempt to reject it.

Where one person is open and inviting, the other may be closed and unwelcoming of the energetic bond.  Our entire universe is made up of yin and yang opposing energy and we are often pulled toward the opposing side in order to achieve harmony and balance.

The tricky part with this is that our egos play a huge role in resisting these twin flame/yin yang dynamics as we have become conditioned to behave in ways that are limiting, demanding, judgmental, controlling or fearful.  Therefore, even though the one who is closed off at the heart center will still feel an undeniable attraction, that attraction may feel chaotic and full of friction as it evokes an array of emotions they are currently unable to manage and process.

We simply will not get close to a twin flame until the barriers within ourselves that were erected at a point when we felt a need to self-protect are finally broken down.

Despite what we may have previously come to believe, when we initially connect with our twin flame we are usually entirely unprepared for the emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of this meeting.

This is because our twin flame projects back at us all the things that we either do not like, do not understand or that we deny, reject, oppress and refuse to accept in our own lives.

Although we often turn a blind eye to the parts we dislike in our twin flame, our subconscious mind is aware and will work tirelessly to attempt to guard our heart by triggering us to behave in ways that cause separation and keep our twin flame out of reach.

The denial of the other person is ultimately a denial of ourselves, because although we may have tried to hide aspects of our personality out of fear that they are hideous and unacceptable, they still exist.

We are often left in total dismay when this happens as in our mind we may have hoped and expected our twin flame would be an identical match, reflecting the same qualities that we have and therefore making us feel validated, worthy and acceptable.  If we believe we have inner strength, courage, and confidence, and we feel secure and centered, we hope that our twin flame also reflects these same things back — only then do we feel that we’ve met our match.

Our primal instincts, on an evolutionary scale, encourage us to admire and gravitate toward certain traits and disregard others so that we receive the greatest chance of survival both for ourselves and our offspring.  While this was all well and good in the caveman days when we had to fight harsh extremes for daily survival, the things we desire, need and want in today’s world are very different from what we may have desired, needed and wanted thousands of years ago.

It is no wonder we struggle to co-exist harmoniously with a twin flame.  We desire and want certain things on one level, but on other levels we are drawn to the qualities our DNA is convincing us that we need in a partner.  When it comes to matters of the heart and soul, these expectations can cause us to fail miserably.

Our needs and wants filter down to the same thing — security.  Not just on a domestic level, but security within ourselves.

The one who is open-hearted will be desperate to connect on a heart level and pour all their affection and admiration over the person their heart adores.  The opposite partner, the closed-hearted one, will accept the outpouring of affection, but it will not hit them in the heart, it instead serves only their egotistical mind.  It is no wonder that the longer these two interact, the further away from one another they seem to get.

The ego stands between them and redirects these messages wherever it feels they are best placed in order to “survive.”  Therefore, although these two flames are on opposing ends of the scale and feel drawn to explore the connection further, there are subconscious underlying forces pulling them apart.

The more attention and admiration the closed-hearted person receives, the more they feel as though they are above the open-hearted one.  The ego convinces them they can forget this connection and instead meet a match who is equal to them on all levels, failing to see that the yin and yang — opposing but balancing qualities — are the exact ones needed for complimentary soul resonation.

The tricky part arrives when the illusions fade, the rose tints are off and the ego steps back. Then we see the situation with clarity:

A twin flame is simply mirroring all the tendencies that we perceive as weak and undesirable.

If we hold disdain for emotionally unavailable types, it is a sure bet that our twin flame will be emotionally unavailable to us.  If we despise people who are trapped in their ego, that is the exact manifestation that our twin flame will take on.  If we hate people who are arrogant and self-absorbed, yes, our twin flame will project those traits outwardly too.

We may not consciously accept that these characteristics are inherent in our twin flame, as we can become captivated with the image our imagination helped create, but when that illusion is torn down and reality hits, we start to see that our twin flame is not as “perfect” as we may have first believed.

Spiritually we are being asked if we are still willing to keep our heart, that is tempted to close, wide open knowing that the person we placed on a pedestal is simply a human — just like us — with a myriad of perceived and real flaws and faults.

Instead of suppressing our darkness and attempting to only rest in the light, it is essential that we embrace, integrate and balance all of our shades if we want to gain inner peace and receive the chance of connecting with this person.

We often feel compelled to only express the light parts of ourselves due to fear that we will be rejected if anyone sees the broken fragments beneath the surface.  However, in our terrified state we are also rejecting ourselves as well as those around us whose dark sides we witness.

The key to a twin flame soul connection is in accepting one another in our entirety and continuing to love regardless of all the imperfections that this person presents to us.

When we are able to love not just others but also ourselves, without conditions, expectations or attachments, we have then reached a heightened form of love.  The toughest and most challenging part is maintaining it.

There is a difference between a soul mate and a twin flame.  A soul mate is someone we share similarities with, learn from and communicate well with.  They are kindred spirits and we can usually co-exist harmoniously with them without being challenged too far outside our comfort zone.  These relationships feel natural and comforting and generally flow effortlessly.

A twin flame appears as our opposite incarnation and we learn continuously from the connection regardless of whether we are in close contact with them or not.  We usually struggle to co-exist with a twin flame as we are challenged beyond our comfort zone and these challenges trigger our deepest insecurities, beliefs, values, motivations, intentions and feelings.

We learn from a soulmate for our own higher good, but we learn from a twin flame for the higher good of the entire planet and collective evolution.

Ultimately the twin flame connection is here to teach us about unconditional love and acceptance by showing us whatever we have the most difficulty in loving and accepting within others and ourselves.  It is easy to love the qualities that reside in the light, our greatest challenge is also being able to love and accept those that reside in the darkness.

Both halves of the twin flame dynamic will struggle equally to accept the opposing traits of the other person.  As much as they feel a bond and are magnetized towards one another, there is also a strong undercurrent repelling and forcing them apart.

When we finally learn to release our past pain, our conditioned beliefs and the trauma that is causing obstacles, we can then begin to truly love and accept ourselves and one another exactly as we are.  The undercurrent pulling us away will weaken and we will stop subconsciously resisting the powerful and unique flow of unconditional, limitless love.

Until then, a twin flame connection may feel complicated, frustrating and will likely elude us.

 

 

~via ElephantJournal.com

GUSTAVO CASTANER: “Should You Be With Your Twin-Flame?”

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“Unfortunately the great majority of people who know about twin flames believe that they have to be with their twin flame.  And because of the free will choices and/or the karma buildup this is near impossible.  But let me ask you this.  Would you rather be or try to be with your twin flame and end up in a dramatic, painful and non-functional relationship?  OR Would you rather be with someone who is not your twin flame and end up having the most fulfilling, higher loving and passionate relationship?”

~Gustavo Castañer

 

Today many are celebrating St. Valentines Day and you probably think that I’m going to tell you that being with your twin flame has to be the most romantic, passionate and spiritual thing you can experience…

Not really, let me explain.

If you do some research on twin flames on the internet you will find tons of dramatic and heartbreaking stories of people who have met their twin flames.

Instead of finding their true love many people find that a relationship with their twin flame most likely turns out to be like one of the following scenarios:

1)  They live on the other side of the world and being together is near impossible.

2)  The Runner-Chaser Karmic Loop — one person tries everything to make the relationship happen while the other one (usually the man) runs away.

3)  The Ultimate Karmic Mirror — both partners mirror each other’s karma like a magnifying glass and unbearable pain results from this.

And yes, there are the rare twin flame relationships stories that turn out to be the most higher loving and spiritually conscious, but these are extremely rare.

Why Are Twin-Flame Relationships Like This?

The first thing you need to understand is that when it comes to relationships, even twin flame relationships, each person has free-will.  Even though to one of them the twin flame connection is astronomically evident (pun intended) the other one might be oblivious.

People who are in twin flame relationships need to work on themselves 10 times more than people who are in any other type of relationship.  And usually there is one person that is very focused on clearing their own emotional baggage, transmuting their karma and growing spiritually while the other person is not (once again, usually the man).

Some will try desperately to rescue the other person but this only aggravates the problem.  It might not be easy but their free will must be honored.

The second thing you need to understand is that just because that person is your twin flame doesn’t mean that YOU HAVE TO be with them.  What many people are not aware of is that you are not supposed to be together in a relationship in ALL lifetimes.

Unfortunately the great majority of people who know about twin flames believe that they have to be with their twin flame.  And because of the free will choices and/or the karma buildup this is near impossible.

But let me ask you this.  Would you rather be or try to be with your twin flame and end up in a dramatic, painful and non-functional relationship?

OR

Would you rather be with someone who is not your twin flame and end up having the most fulfilling, higher loving and passionate relationship?

The answer is simple.  However, too many people get attached to the twin flame label.  Don’t get me wrong, I know there is a spiritual connection like no other but if it’s not meant to be then it’s not meant to be.  It takes two people to make it happen.

So if you find yourself in this twin flame predicament and you truly desire to be in a relationship then make yourself a priority and choose SELF-LOVE.

Don’t force the relationship with your twin flame or try to wait for them.  Continue to raise your frequency and focus your intent on attracting a partner that will want to be with you and work towards it as you do.

After all, you will meet your twin flame again. 😉  And at some point, sometimes during their life review, he/she will most likely realize what an incredible opportunity he/she missed to be with you.  Then on the next lifetime they will step up and do what it takes to find you and be with you.

In the meantime, make sure you enjoy this lifetime and cherish the wonderful experience that is being madly in love with someone who is madly in love with you.

Sincerely,

Gustavo Castañer

Founder of Ascended Relationships

 

 

~via AscendedRelationships.com