DAILY VIBES: “10 Unexpected Traits You Will Only Find In Extremely Intelligent People”

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Intelligence or smarts can manifest in many different ways.  Sometimes it shows itself in seemingly totally spontaneous manners, things we don’t even connote with someone who is bright.  Often those who are very proficient in one area of intelligence are a little lacking in others.  A brilliant mathematician may lack an understanding of poetry or abstract art, while a leading physicist may be extremely socially challenged in a similar sense.

There are those lucky few however, that seem to somehow have tapped into many or all of the nuanced forms of intelligence and can function at a uniquely high level of ability in numerous opposing realms.  These people tend to share common traits which others might not even consider connected to their intellectual talents.  Listed below are 10 of these traits most commonly found among the subtly brilliant.

1. Fluidity of thought and opinion.

These people know that to take a staunch position on something is to limit yourself to that position.  While they are perfectly capable of forming strong opinions or beliefs, they prefer to stay away from rigid absolutes because they know that one must keep their mind open to new possibilities at all times.

2. They’re never hasty.

They will always take as much time and energy as they need to deeply and genuinely consider what they want to say before they say it.  They will take into account whether it is kind or socially acceptable, whether it is necessary or will add anything to the conversation, and whether or not they feel ready to confront the possible reactions to it.  It may seem like a lot of work, but this is usually a momentary process in the head that takes only a few extra seconds of thought.

3. Never contributing unless it will benefit the group.

Intelligent people don’t tend to be interested in small talk.  They don’t speak or do things just for the attention or to fill the awkward silence and spaces.  They will only become involved in a situation if they think they have something to bring to the table, something that will help or assist in a positive or necessary way.  Otherwise they simply won’t interject.

4. They march to their own drummer.

They aren’t worried about fitting in with the crowd because they know sometimes the crowd is boring or even downright wrong.  They base their thoughts and opinions on information and fact because they are acutely aware of the great potential human beings have for making mistakes.

This doesn’t mean they won’t consider other people’s feelings on things, but they will always want to form their own individual ideas about it once they’ve obtained as much information as they can.

5. They know that everyone is capable of being wrong. Including themselves.

Only the fool believes that men are infallible.  The truly intelligent person will always admit when they’re wrong or they’ve made a mistake.  You don’t grow to be wise or well-educated if you can’t accept being incorrect.  This also goes for those you might consider personal heroes.  You can respect someone greatly for many things and still believe it when they screw up.

6. They always strive to be objective.

Instead of being emotional about it and telling a person they’re just wrong, someone who is very intelligent will instead offer a different perspective.  It’s not about winning or losing the argument, it’s about helping the other person to understand things in a different, perhaps better or clearer way.  The smart man/woman would rather help someone else come to their own conclusion than force personal opinions on them.

7. They don’t let emotion get the best of them.

They will always do whatever they can to stay calm and clear-headed.  When you allow your emotions and personal bias to inform your speech and behavior, people suffer.  Communication just doesn’t happen the way it should and everyone ends up angry or upset.  Staying relaxed, trying not to take anything personally and relying on facts and logic are the best way to find a good solution or compromise to any difficult situation.

8. They often rely on intuition.

It may sound cliche, but sometimes the best thing you can do is trust your instincts.  Intelligent people know that human beings once relied entirely on their gut for survival, and though we’ve long since evolved past that, our physical feelings can still give us some useful hints for life now.  Never deny your instincts, they exist for a good reason.

9. They are people of action, not just words.

Too many of us will react to a troublesome issue by sitting around and trying to think our way out of it.  While I’m not suggesting that we remove thought from the equation entirely, I am telling you that the truly intelligent know better than to get paralyzed in thought.

At some point you’ve got to take the risk and act, or you’ll be immobilized permanently.  No good can come of sitting there and obsessing over your problem, you have to make a plan of action and follow through with it in order to have any hope of progressing.

10. They don’t need your validation.

Most of the time when someone is judging you harshly, what they’re really doing is revealing what type of person they are. Intelligent people don’t worry about judgment or what others are saying about them.  They do what feels right and important to them and they don’t bother letting others shame them for it.

They will take into consideration the thoughts of those they greatly admire and respect, and if they think they’re being called out on something they deserve to be called out on, they won’t deny it, but overall their validation comes from within.  They simply have more productive things to do than chase the approval of their peers.

 

 

~via DailyVibes.org

 

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SAMANTHA KING: “Your Two Conflicting Personality Traits And How To Make Peace Between Them, Based On Your Zodiac Sign”

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Aries

You’re a free spirit who enjoys adventure and craves for authenticity in life, but your perfectionist sidekick prevents you from savoring joy and getting lost in the moment.  Consider allowing yourself to sit with your emotions, no matter how inconvenient they are, and accept that you can only influence what is in your control.

Taurus

You’re a pleasant and trustworthy companion, but you hardly find it in you to trust others.  While you invest yourself a lot in relationships, you ban people from your life without second thoughts when things don’t go your way.  Learn to make room in your life for tolerance, empathy and mutual respect, and you might discover your opposing traits can reach conciliation.

Gemini

You want to be friends with everybody, but you can’t accept the differences in people (or in yourself).  It is only when you are willing to take people for who they are you will find solace in the company of kindred spirits.

Cancer

You’re a hopeless romantic, but you easily get bored.  Your passionate core makes you invest a lot in relationships and even spill the three magic words way sooner than your partner may be prepared to hear them.  You want it all and you want it now, but your interest fades away as soon as you get to know the other better.  Learn to channel your energy in rationalized bits and accept that keeping yourself focused on other aspects of your life as well (not just your love life) can present you with serendipitous moments.

Leo

You enjoy helping others on a material plan, but you’re greedy with emotional support, and this often makes you feel misunderstood or not thanked enough for.  Learn that in life we need to give in order to receive, and while helping a friend get a job is a selfless and wonderful act, they may rather be more in need of encouragement so they get things done themselves.

Virgo

You’re often stuck in between the need to ground yourself and follow a strict system of values and morals, and the desire to break free and live spontaneously regardless of what happens tomorrow.  You love being the center of attention, but you grow jealous once you feel ignored.  You can make ends meet by allowing yourself to be both rigorous and creative, by turning your inner control freak into a master of imaginative planning.

Libra

You’re chasing eternal love but you’re unwilling to work for it.  Your seductive element likes all things beautiful and inspiring, but when the script in your head fails to match reality you bail out without much explanation.  Learn to look more deeply into things and take the time to actually know a person, you might be surprised that the one thing you’ve been looking for is right under your nose.

Scorpio

You’re very protective of your friendships, but also very vengeful.  If someone crosses a line with you, you shun them without further notice and oftentimes without giving them the benefit of a doubt.  Learn from your own sensitivity that nobody’s perfect and channel your inner strength into forgiveness — everyone you meet holds an inner battle that you may not know about.

Sagittarius

You’re a natural born empath, but you keep too much to yourself and that makes it hard for you to control your anger.  You show a lot of concern to other people’s needs but fail to express your own concerns up to the point where you lash out at others.  Create balance in your life by addressing your own needs and expectations openly to people and learn to say no when you can’t deal with something any longer.

Capricorn

You’re kind hearted and generous but lazy.  You easily get comfortable around others and once a friendship, relationship or business deal is sealed, you’ll just lie there and consider yourself involved just because you’re present.  Learn to participate and become more proactive and engaged in your own life and partnerships, it takes two to tango and three to make a happy crowd.

Aquarius

Your craving for independence, wanderlust and adventure and your consuming desire to love, be loved and share a fantastic relationship can mend together beautifully once you stop trying to control your future and accept that while not all people are as libertine as you, the key to successful connection is embracing each others’ differences.

Pisces

You put on a fantastic show of seduction and mystery, but you’re needy.  Remember, the things you’re looking for in others are the things you mirror to the outside world.  Spend more alone time with yourself and your needs and adjust your expectations of others accordingly to what you can offer the world.

 

 

~via ThoughtCatalog.com

MORAG: “7 Signature Signs Of Starseeds And Lightworkers”

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Do you sometimes feel like ET trying to call home?  Not sure why you are here but know you have a mission?  Feel different and confused?  ‘Starseed, volunteer, lightworker’ describe people who do not resonate with this reality.  Here are 7 signature signs of starseed and lightworker people, and how to manage being in this dimension.

Lightworker, starseed, indigo, crystal child, volunteers all these terms essentially describe people who feel they have a mission on planet earth.  A drive to fix, improve, help.  Something in their gut, a red alert switch that flickers all the time.  Something to do, the reason for being here.  This leads to the most common question from lightworkers waking up, what is my mission?

The first wave of volunteers are reported to have arrived in the late 1940’s in direct response to the detonation of the atomic bombs in 1945.  Dolores Cannon writes extensively about this in her book The Three Waves of Volunteers and the New Earth, this is her reporting of what the intergalactic community chose to do about the destruction and violence on planet earth.

The intergalactic game changer being that atomic war would affect other planets in our solar system as well as possibly beyond (the asteroid belt between Mars and Jupiter is rumored to be the remnants of a planet whose occupiers went down the self destruct route, much like we are doing).

The patriarchal system of control was deemed dangerous, the free will of the planet’s people compromised and a call went out for beings in their feminine energy to volunteer to come down to the planet and raise the feminine energetic frequencies.  This would counterbalance the male energy, bringing calm, stability and progress.

These waves of volunteers as we approached and entered the Age of Aquarius are the predicted Return of the Divine Feminine.  Gaia’s ascension is the return of the divine feminine, a rising above polarity to higher frequencies of peace, harmony, nature and abundance.

Indigo children and crystal children live in a perpetually higher state of vibration.  Their light is shimmering, unfiltered, rainbow colors.  Many are diagnosed as autistic, ADHD, anything so that the system can shut them down with drugs and diagnoses.  Their very existence raises the vibrations around them.

Starseed, volunteer, lightworker all describe someone who does not feel they come from here, nor do they belong here.  Born with varying degrees of amnesia, into a system of control through oppression can lead to confusion and despair.  If you’ve wondered does any of this apply to you, here are 7 sure fire signs you are a lightworker or volunteer.

1.  You don’t fit in.  The language, customs, culture and society are alien. You may have memories of studying your classmates behavior in an attempt to imitate and fit in. You may have always been the outsider or you may be a social butterfly but deep down you know it’s an act, a strategic move of camouflage. You may be in stealth mode, so deep undercover that even you have forgotten you don’t fit in. But at the very center of your being you will know you are not from here.

2.  You have always longed for home and been confused as to why here does not feel like home.  You may be a stargazer, sea dreamer, loved up hippie or suited and booted glamazon, yet in your heart there will always have been a cry to contact home.

3.  You have a mission It’s the reason you are here, it’s why you came and you have to figure it out and do it.  This is what keeps you awake at night.

4.  You are a giver, service to others.  You will work in a giving environment or deeply wish you did, and believe instinctively in the power of the collective to work together to benefit the whole.  This will be in your DNA.

5.  You will be naturally drawn to meditation, yoga, sound healing, chanting, drumming, holistic therapies, and esoteric theology .

6.  You will have unusual eyes People have always commented on your eyes, you will know from a young age, they and you, are different.

 7.  You will be feminine in your energy (not necessarily gender or sexuality, a sensitive person).  You will lean to nurturing and caring.  Your energy field can be sensitive to fluctuations in energetic fields around you.  You may avoid crowds and feel more comfortable in small groups or on your own.

The mission is to plant seeds, cause vibrational ripples, anchor light on Gaia’s grid, heal awakening people.  This is the mission.  By being mindful, kind, gracious, and humble, embodying the spirit of the warrior, for planet earth is a warzone for hearts, bodies and minds, this raising of frequencies can be achieved.

Volunteering is to be at ground zero during a rare, cosmic event offering a unique opportunity to grow karmically.  We are able to release stuck, old karma faster riding these cosmic waves of ascension on Gaia than we could in a hundred lifetimes elsewhere.

We also chose the ancestral family we were born into, this was preordained.  An integral part of our mission to release old, struck ancestral karma from our chosen families.  Breaking down programming, pushing boundaries, digging and releasing, to aid families in their energetic evolution at this incredible time.

As we prepare for phase three Realignment, phase 1 being Waking Up (See my article Awakening on 5dhealing wordpress), phase 2 Recalibration (Recalibration wordpress), we should all make self care a priority.  When we fly in a plane we are told to fix our own oxygen mask first before trying to help anyone else.  This is the key to achieving our mission here.

Take care of yourself and your frequency field will be light, progressive and loving.  Don’t allow the matrix to corrupt you, wear you down, label and medicate you, blocking, limiting, dulling or delaying your energetic impact of healing on others.  Play the matrix game by being grounded.  Ground your self back into Gaia every day.  Say this mantra:  I am moving my spirit back into my body, three times as and when you feel disconnected or like floating away or escaping.

Stress and worry hamper the recalibration and upgrade process, blocking it with denser energy.  Stay centered and grounded using the routines of the matrix to help regulate your behaviors.  Gardening, cooking, knitting, reading, walking, swimming all these kinds of activities allow energetic space for our mind body soul systems to process these quantum upgrades.

This reality is our choice, predetermined, preordained, contracts agreed upon.  No matter how big or small the ripples created by lightworkers, the waves of lighter energies is a way of helping this besieged planet without directly interfering with the right to free will.

Lightworkers shine light, higher frequencies wherever they go, illuminating dark corners, challenging matrix programming and sharing love vibrations, even if they do not know this is who they are.

These are the crucial years when mass awakening is occurring across the globe and people are needing help, reassurance, healing, protection, guidance and support.  There is a better world, its the fifth dimension, a place Gaia is heading whether her passengers join her or not.

As lightworkers or starseed it is the mission to help facilitate this process from the ground.  Every little interaction, the bus driver, your kid’s teacher, your colleagues, every interaction is an opportunity for a volunteer to raise the vibration a notch or two.  Our energy field is such that if we are feeling bad we will literally splatter that bad juju everywhere.  So be wary lightworkers — fear, greed, envy, paranoia create bad vibes maaaan.  Keep yourself recharged, balanced and stay kind and compassionate to the people around you.

These are exciting times, breathe, believe and manifest a beautiful future on Gaia of abundance, equality and love.  Literally go spread the light!

Namaste.

 

 

~via spiritualunite.com