NEZEL PADAYHAG: “10 Tips How To Become The Best Person That You Can Be”

We all have bigger potential within us than we think we have. We can be and do much, much more. We can influence the world on a much bigger scale.

Success in all areas of life depends largely on how you carry yourself. Whether you want to be the best lover or worker, you can’t become one without having to work for it.

You need to be the best that you can be before you can attract the best things and the best people to come your way.

You need to be aware, though, that becoming your best self doesn’t mean things will flow smoothly in your life. You may still encounter hardships along the way.

Yet, these things are easy to handle when you have become the best version of yourself. The suggestions below will help you become one.

10 Tips How To Become The Best Person:

1. Love yourself the way you want to be loved.

There is no one in the world who can provide you the love that you need except your own self. You alone know yourself inside out, including your strengths, weaknesses, failures, successes, and quirkiness.

If you can love yourself despite some of the things that you hate in yourself, then it would be easier for others to love you the same.

In the same way, you can’t love others for who they truly are if you can’t love yourself for who you really are. Make it a point to love yourself genuinely and be energetically vibrant.

2. Go deeper and discover the beauty within you.

As Aristotle pointed out, “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” It’s because while growing up, we have been conditioned to believe we need to become someone else.

Seeing yourself other than who you really are may block you from seeing your true beauty.

You are a divine being destined to spark. But you can’t see yourself this way unless you connect to yourself much more deeply.

3. Accept your own uniqueness.

Avoid the pitfall of comparing yourselves with others. You have your own journey and have a different path to take.

Don’t be afraid to express your unique self because that is who you are. You don’t need approval or validation.

Follow your own unfolding and focus on your unique gifts. You alone carry the kind of gift you are intended to share with the world.

4. Forgive and heal yourself.

Carrying grudges decreases your life force. Forgive others even if they don’t ask for it. Forgive yourself too.

Healing begins with the act of forgiveness. When you forgive, you free yourself and heal yourself from all the pains that you may have accumulated for so long.

Once freed, you begin to gain access to your life force.

5. Be aware of your inner critic.

Most often, your inner critic is your worst critic, telling you to be more than what you can be. Don’t fight this inner critic because you will only waste your energy.

Instead, be more compassionate with yourself.

When this critic speaks tell yourself how much you love yourself for all that you are. Love conquers all, your inner critic included.

6. Follow your gut feeling.

Learn to honor your gut feeling or intuition.

Most often, it carries the answers to your questions and serves as a guide in making important decisions.

Your intuition is your inner knowing that only wants the best for you.

7. Practice meditation.

A regular practice of meditation goes a long way.

Meditating for at least 15 to 20 minutes a day is enough to calm your mind, free you from stress, and enhance your well being.

It’s also a great means of connecting with your inner being.

8. Honor your body.

Your body is your physical manifestation in this world. It’s how others connect to you on a physical level.

When it’s in good shape, your connections outside and inside can go smoothly.

Give it the self care that it needs. Feed it with nourishing food, get enough rest, and do physical exercises.

9. Design your best life.

You have in your capacity the full power to design your life the way that inspires you to wake up every morning with vigor and excitement.

You can create a unique living that suits your special needs.

It’s the kind of life that may not be the ideal one in the world’s standards, but one where love prospers and where you can be absolutely happy.

10. Strive to make a difference in your small part of the world.

Wherever you are, you can make a difference in your own unique way.

Your contribution may be small, but giving all your best to the world can create ripples that will ultimately touch the lives of more people than you could expect.

Even becoming the best person that you can be is enough to create a spark in the hearts of others that you may come into contact with.

Remember, the greatest person you are to meet in this world is still within you. Awaken that person and be the best that you can be.

 

~via LifeCoachCode.com

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SUZANNE FORCESE: “Reclaiming Our Divinity”

“It is at this moment in our evolution as the higher frequencies are entering our planet that we are shifting in our awareness and being given the opportunity to take a look at our scripting and to re-write the score. This does not come without some amount of effort but the rewards are immeasurable as we release and unhook from those ancestral ties that have held us hostage to unworthiness.”

~Suzanne Forcese

 

Those of us who understand our Purpose in this Journey have also come to understand and own our responsibility in stepping forward to accept the upgrades and upshifts that have been occurring and are occurring as we move into the Fifth Dimension and to anchor that energetic into third dimensional realities.

We all are carrying aeons worth of stories that are not our own, that we are unaware of and that continue to resurface and repeat due to the energetic frequency that is held within our genetic coding and our signature vibration.

There is an ancestral dynamic held within our own unique signature vibration that has written that very story and it is a chronicle that we broadcast without even being aware of its transmission.

At the moment of conception each of our parents was carrying a unique vibrational frequency. At that moment when the spark of our own life was ignited we received a vibrational frequency from our father that was encrypted with all of his vibrational codes, frequencies and chords/cords. And this entire package was woven together with another package of instructions from our mother to form what was to become our own unique vibration. A vibration that we continue to tweak and augment and either distort or refine as we travel through all the experiences and emotional cording of connecting and interacting with other individuals, events and circumstances.

As we then broadcast this witch’s brew of our own signature vibration we attract to us those frequencies of a similar match. We all understand the basics of this law of attraction.

However, this very signature frequency that defines not only what we broadcast and receive has its origins much earlier than just the energetic that each of our parents bequeathed to us in that moment of conception.

Each of our parents had parents and each of them have parents and so on and so on. There is an entire lineage of frequencies that have merged to create this melting pot of stories that we continue to emit without our awareness.

To clear those emotional blocks the work then becomes a process of unhinging from the ancestral stories that we have been carrying. Stories that are not even ours but stories nonetheless that determine our points of attraction. Whether those stories have been based in persecution, abuse, guilt, fear, shame, betrayal they all boil down to one key source.

Lack of self worth.

So how did this happen and why are we now being given the opportunity to clear this aberration?

As our planet continues to shift with the higher frequencies and as she continues to receive assistance from the intergalactic councils we are being mandated to step into this upshift.

We must clean house. We must reclaim that spark of Divinity that we have dimmed but have still carried with us throughout all our evolutions and revolutions in this planetary walk.

It was a journey that we chose the moment we individuated from Source.

It was a journey that we experienced as we pushed through each lifetime and each soul cording and each circumstance and event to create a tome of misalignment with our Source.

We are Source. We originated with Source. We were One with Source.

And so it is and as it was written according to Divine Decree we are now being afforded this gift in this Time to reconnect with that which we truly are.

It is at this moment in our evolution as the higher frequencies are entering our planet that we are shifting in our awareness and being given the opportunity to take a look at our scripting and to re-write the score.

This does not come without some amount of effort but the rewards are immeasurable as we release and unhook from those ancestral ties that have held us hostage to unworthiness.

As we acknowledge, accept and own the value of the Source within us that is woven with the Light of Divine Source Energy we can now orchestrate those chords and co-create heaven on Earth.

 

About the author: Suzanne is a healing facilitator, teacher, coach and author working with Light Language and Structured Energies to clear emotional blocks and reconnect with Divine Purpose. She lives in Victoria Beach, Canada.

 

~via In5D.com

LISA RENEE (Time Shift Blog): “Spiritual Consumerism”

“Too many people are believing that spirituality, expanding consciousness, and becoming enlightened can be achieved through the pathway of consumer spirituality and self-proclaimed experts that call themselves masters. They can buy enlightenment, have a glamourous spiritual life hanging out on the galactic planes, rather than commit to the deeper inner work of clearing the shadow, by observing the unruly ego in action and correcting abusive patterns of behavior.”

~Lisa Renee

 

When we become more aware of how poverty consciousness is being engineered into the materialistic minds that power up and feed into the machine of the global consumerism economy, we can see one of the main goals is to keep individuals feeling a constant pressure and concern over gaining material possessions and assessing their access to resources that equate into personal status, security or power. This same social conditioning is aimed directly at the spiritual ascension communities or those that are heavily marketing themselves on social media towards the consciousness industry, to manipulate the lower instinctual drives and get people to buy or endorse many forms of spiritual consumerism and label it as “being conscious”. By specifically targeting and spreading poverty consciousness fears designed to generate insecurity, doubt and desperation in the masses, they fuel the deification of materialistic values throughout the world, and this runs an infection throughout many spiritually based modalities. Consumerism has become the main world religion, which capitalizes on the insecurity and survival fears in people in order to continually sell and market assembly lines of products, and it is wise to remember that spiritual products are also used in the same way.

On the spiritual path, if we are being honest with ourselves, it is important to observe the exact same marketing schemes used to make ascension, or higher consciousness a consumer item that can be easily purchased. Marketing campaigns are being used with all the consumer key notes to attract a massive spiritual following, and are being introduced and peddled to the public through social media, and YouTube. People that generally are not equipped with strong discernment and a cultivated b.s. meter, have the tendency to give away their personal power to an outside influence, such as a guru type, group consciousness or a spiritual consumerism movement marketing themselves as a spiritual authority. Too many people are believing that spirituality, expanding consciousness, and becoming enlightened can be achieved through the pathway of consumer spirituality and self-proclaimed experts that call themselves masters. They can buy enlightenment, have a glamourous spiritual life hanging out on the galactic planes, rather than commit to the deeper inner work of clearing the shadow, by observing the unruly ego in action and correcting abusive patterns of behavior.

Materialistic values powering up consumer cultures glorify and breed narcissistic personalities that have little to no empathy for other people. People that are materialistic and externally motivated tend to equate their value, worth and esteem on their accumulated wealth, status and possessions. Yet, the same pitfall is common under the label of spirituality or higher consciousness, a breed of spiritual consumerism that is marketed as enlightenment to gain a marketed level of faux spiritual status. A belief that enlightenment can be achieved through instant gratification and by skimming on the surface of life, while ignoring the deeper inner emotional work that leads to personal accountability and greater integrity.

People that are materialistic tend to have highly ambitious, competitive, arrogant, and aggressive behaviors and are deeply concerned with issues of personal adequacy and exerting their power in the world. These unethical qualities can show up quite aggressively in that which can be labeled as a spiritual community, or in the industry that has sprouted up around topics promoting higher consciousness development. Thus, when a spiritual community or organization operates with this blaring blind spot, they also will compromise ethical and humane behavior in order to accumulate the resources and possessions they want, in order to gain more power for their cause. Maybe they justify that power grab as required for serving the greater good, they feel they have a greater mission that is more important than others around them. Maybe they have deemed themselves as the leader of a mass movement for needed consciousness shifting, and like many others that have gone before them, are leaving the same trail of emotional damage and destruction in their wake. A spiritual leader is a servant of the people, and holding compassion and empathy for others is the primary milestone of being dedicated to the spiritual ascension path. Otherwise, it can quickly digress into a consciousness trap with astral delusions of grandeur that cause a root downfall from repeated power abuses. How many times have we seen the same storyline, different era, different people working in the spiritual communities, yet the same abusive narrative is repeated over and over, and goes unnoticed and unrecognized?

Over many years, the group dynamics and world of forces present in many spiritual groups are not recognizing power abuses when they are occurring, which are caused from the same unchecked destructive egoic behaviors. These are the important lessons from the past that remain unlearned. What we do not learn, we keep repeating. If we study spiritual gurus and spiritual communities in the recent years, one will begin to see a very disturbing pattern of gross abuses of power. Where an absolute power was given and fully corrupted, this set the group mission up to fail. The group field of the community begins to drown in the same massive archetypal dark forces that prefer to use spiritual betrayal and victim-victimizer manipulation tactics to continue the divide and conquer agenda within that group.

That is the big set up on the earth, a person that highly desires external validation of self-worth and special-ness, will have to play the mind games to get what the broken ego and instinctual drive wants. This means they must make the deal or Faustian pact to give up personal sovereignty and many times prostitute themselves, because of who is really behind the power abuses and controlling the spiritual structure. The first thing these dark forces do is find that spiritually ambitious person’s pressure point and work to compromise personal integrity and derail spiritual actualization, in order to exploit addictions and weaknesses through psychological and emotional blackmail. An emotionally unstable person is a weak-minded person that is easily possessed, therefore is easily manipulated by their uncontrollable impulses until they become so fully corrupt, their physical body is used to satisfy the whims of dark forces that are controlling their instinctual impulses. Instinctual impulses are not enlightened behaviors, they are the marker of a spiritually undeveloped person. Thus, spiritual consumerism can be highly addictive to the instinctual body, as it is marketed as entertainment and an astral bliss pill. This is the main reason why so many people fall prey to their instinctual reactions and personal indulgences transferred over to spiritual consumerism, which leads to a rapid spiritual decline, which exacerbates even more unethical behaviors and power abuses.

For many spirituality is viewed like a consumer option, like an extension or app with a free activation and trial period. Maybe this week we’ll try the mindfulness app, or the shaman Ayahuasca app, or the hot yoga app. Something that we can add to our operating system which offers to bring change, to help lift our base instincts, make us feel more fit, more kind or more peaceful. This usually comes with subconscious limitations, placing an internal stop on too much change, that would make us uncomfortable or disrupt the way that we see ourselves or relate to the world around us. This description of spiritual consumerism may seem callus, but there is a very surface feel-good quality associated with the marketing and monetizing of spirituality and self-help, that operates almost like a bait and switch. The bait and switch have dishonesty at its core, in the marketing used to fool our mind into thinking we are buying a product that will make us spiritually strong and more evolved than we actually are.

Attending week long retreats to look at our anger, our grief, or our thighs are treated as the false equivalent of an awakening or enduring a deep emotional healing process. Retreats that scratch the surface and allow us to feel something, allow us to check off a box that later gets turned into, I’m beyond all that shadow because I’ve dealt with that already. Thus, the setup is to ignore red flags and emotional weakness in everyday life, because the fear of actually facing deeper issues and having to make changes in one’s lifestyle is too overwhelming. Spiritual development is about getting the negative ego out of the driver’s seat and being open and willing to feel the changes that need to actually happen while being honest with ourselves. If we are really being honest, we may know we need to change, but we will be faced with a test of self-responsibility. In the consumer spiritual market, we can transfer that responsibility onto something else, and pretend that we are actually doing something spiritual because we paid for a product or listened to a guru type that promised awakening.

Yet there is an importance of value-based exchanges when we are in service in spiritual community. We must spread that value and service to others, in order to keep circulating the money-energy to exchange with others that also contribute to the overall wellbeing of the community in their own ways. When we value human beings and what they contribute, the value is embedded in the work, service or product that is exchanged. The money received should represent the fair value exchange of that work. Money received represents the value of your work, time, energy, talents and contribution, when you spend that money you are letting go of the value created and honoring the value another person has created.

It is interesting to see people who would describe themselves as long term spiritual practitioners, get completely knocked off center by basic everyday challenges, or have a meltdown about political elections. It is also interesting to see those who have positioned themselves as spiritual teachers, abuse power so frequently by sleeping with students or throwing tantrums where they are verbally abusive. These are some of the issues with consumer spirituality, where we invest time and money in a product, technique, tradition or artifice by making it a part of our routine and possibly our social fabric. Someone can have years of “practice” like this hanging out on the surface of spirituality, but then get knocked over like a house of cards by relatively small events of adversity. People can flip in-between these states of lower ego and higher frequency (momentarily) and how long they hold sustained higher frequency states is the hallmark of spiritual maturity and mastery over the personal energies. When people lose their center, freak out or lash out, you are looking at an ego tantrum, and when they do it is the sign of inner violence, fragmentation and the need for integrative spiritual healing. Inner violence generated by the three layers of ego and mind control programming that remains unhealed will result in control-oriented tantrums. This is an important piece to remember as to why Krystic beings never deviate their focus to engage in combative strategies that are violent, and choose to stay peaceful and holding a pure loving heart within even the most difficult interactions.

Spiritual development takes authentic human character development and deciding what kind of person you really want to be in the world. When we are honest and responsible about our personal commitment to improve ourselves, it is this commitment to do what is necessary, that takes us beyond our comfort zones and actually makes us stronger and more balanced people. This is the time to take an active role in healing ourselves, healing our lives in so to become healthy and balanced people. When we can identify emotionally destructive behavior, and are willing to take steps to heal our thoughts and emotions, we empower ourselves in taking steps that lead us to spiritual freedom. May love, peace and spiritual strength bless you.

(Source: Consumer Spirituality discussion, Paige and Lisa)

 

~via EnergeticSynthesis.com – Time Shift Blog – September 4, 2018

NEZEL PADAYHAG: “Everything You Need To Know About The Concept Of Energy Healing”

Energy healing has been around for centuries. Different ancient cultures use the body’s energy as a powerful force in their healing modalities.

The Japanese have the Reiki as a traditional energy healing, the traditional Chinese medicine practitioners utilize the Meridians, which are the body’s energy superhighway, and the ancient Hindu texts describe the Chakras, the 7 energy transmission centers of the body.

All these energy healing techniques are based on scientific principles.

Now the question is, can energy healing really cure diseases? To answer this, we need to get deep down into the principles of the energy healing process.

Though some people claim having healed of their diseases quickly through energy healing, these instances are rare. Energy healing is not like a magic wand that takes care of your health. It’s a traditional practice and something worth examining.

Here Are 3 Main Things You Need To Know About This Concept Of Energy Healing

1. It is holistic.

This means energy healing doesn’t focus only on one particular symptom or body part.

Rather, the focus involves the overall aspects of the spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical.

The healing must come first from the level of pure consciousness down to the physical.

Energy healing comes from pure love. Love is the ultimate healer of all. Love alone releases fears, which are the primary cause of disease.

Fears prevent you from fully experiencing love, health, abundance, and other pleasures of life that you deserve. It’s only when you allow love to flow that you’ll be totally healed.

2. It is a process.

Energy healing is a process that requires you to have the pure intent of wanting to get healed. Along with this, you must be prepared to have a shift in consciousness and a lifestyle change.

The time it takes to heal depends solely on you. The progress becomes faster if you’re able to receive an intuitive guidance from the healer during the post healing summary.

This, in a way, helps you to expand your consciousness, awakening your hidden gifts that could include self healing.

Energy healing is, therefore, not an elixir that takes your symptoms right away. It’s not even permanent because staying healthy depends on your commitment to yourself and to your lifestyle changes.

Energy healing doesn’t suppress symptoms nor does it removes your illness away. It involves the process of peeling away the layers of yourself that obscures your truth and exposing the core wounds that cause your disease.

Once these wounds are exposed, healing begins. The wisdom you get from this experience will eventually be integrated into your consciousness.

Before the healing procedure takes place, the focus of healing must be determined, the process must be discussed as well as the expectations.

During the healing process, the practitioner scans the energy body that includes the aura and chakras for abnormalities and then repairs them energetically.

After the healing, lifestyle changes and self care routines must be discussed to correct the causes of the imbalances and the energetic healing must also be manifested in other areas, such as the mental, emotional, and physical levels.

3. It takes faith.

Without faith, healing can’t take place. A genuine faith is important for the healing to manifest. You also need to trust in the ability of the healer to help you heal. And you need to have the same faith to sustain you throughout the post healing process.

Your beliefs create your reality. Hence, you need to have the right beliefs.

The energy healers are not there to give you something that you need. They’re only there to assist. You already have what it takes to heal yourself, but because you don’t know the process, you need someone to facilitate you in the healing journey.

It is more about discovering yourself, gaining your personal power back, and using your divinity to live the life you love. Energy healers are there to assist you, but your self-healing faith is what makes everything possible.

As Dr. Bruce Lipton says, “The moment you change your perception, is the moment you rewrite your chemistry in your body.“

 

~via LifeCoachCode.com

LIFE COACH CODE: “10 Ways How Healing Yourself Affects The World And Everyone Around You”

1. Your healing creates a ripple effect.

When reaching out to others for healing you’re lifting yourself out of the darkness, in which many are held captive.

Doing it creates a ripple noticeable by others. Your effort inspires others to take action, seek help and lift themselves up from their darkness.

Soon they will contemplate healing themselves too.

2. You unconsciously assist others in their own healing.

You’re assisting others in their own healing without your awareness.

As you take steps to heal yourself you pave the road for someone else to follow and take the same steps to heal themselves.

Your energy imprint has a multidimensional effect that you’re unaware of at the moment.

3. Your ability to heal yourself raises the vibration of others.

It takes a lot of courage to face your own wounds and heal them.

Doing so means you have to go through the pain, feel it and let go, releasing its grip it has on your subconsciousness.

This will lift your vibes and affect anyone who interacts with you positively. Your triggers will dissolve and you will act from a place of love.

4. You’re allowing greater opportunities to manifest.

As you keep healing yourself, you’re allowing yourself to grow and expand.

This invites greater opportunities to manifest, and at the same time, raises the vibration in your surroundings.

As you start perceiving greater options and possibilities for your dreams to come true and take action, you will keep raising the vibration of your own reality.

5. You’re spreading the value of trust.

You know that time is an illusion and you’re not in a hurry. You believe that the right things will fall into place at the right time.

Your dreams may not be visible at the moment, but you believe that they will be given to you when you’re ready for it.

This projects ultimate trust and others can sense it. It will give them freedom to have faith in something bigger than themselves.

6. You’re open to showing your warrior spirit.

As you heal yourself you cannot escape but to face your fears. In fact, that’s a part of the healing process. And as you face your fears you awaken your warrior spirit.

Even if other people don’t share your perspective, you continue to stand up for what you believe in. You faced your worst fears, embraced them, and freed from them. They didn’t stop you from standing for what you believe in.

You’re a warrior and you’re not afraid to show it. Others see this and get inspired to stand for what they believe in, to be courageous and face their own fears. As they keep facing their fears they are dissolving the darkness that’s within them.

7. You’re becoming patient and tolerant of differences.

Others feel comfortable in your presence because they know that when they’re with you, there will be less friction.

Because you accept yourself as you are, you accept others as they are with all their differences and uniqueness.

This makes it easier for others to accept themselves with all that they are. You give them the freedom to be themselves.

8. You’re allowing others to heal and grow in their own time.

Though you know that the best time to heal is now, you don’t impose it on others.

You respect their individuality and allow them to heal and grow in their own time.

This allows the energy to flow freely and smoothly. It gives them the freedom to walk their own journey and learn their own lessons.

9. You’re teaching others to embrace all emotions.

Healing involves allowing all the emotions you feel to flow freely within you. You’re aware that there are days when you don’t simply feel okay. That there are things that provoke you and make you angry. Things that make you feel sad and vulnerable.

Rather than resist these emotions, you allow them to be because it’s the only way to let them go and flow. You understand that each emotion is for you, not against you. Even the so called negative emotions have a purpose to protect you and your boundaries.

Because you’re in control of your emotions, people around you don’t suffer from any emotional outburst and low vibration energies that you might have otherwise created. You allow all emotions to flow freely and this teaches others that it’s ok to feel what they feel.

10. Your higher vibrations create ripples that benefit others.

Every small thing that you do out of higher awareness will soon accumulate into something bigger that will become a treasure for others.

No matter how small your actions may seem, continue doing them because The Universe recognizes them. Vibration is the language of The Universe and everything within it.

Your healing is an instrument in making this world a better place to be.

 

 

~via LifeCoachCode.com