SPIRITUAL UNITE: “What The First Letter of Your Name Says About You”

If I’d thoroughly read this article before spending time finding a photo, it wouldn’t be posted… The title should be… “What The First Letter of Your Name Says About You… As A Lover”… Image result for eye roll emoticon gif

Letters

 

Does your name begin with: A

You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action.  You mean business.  With you, what you see is what you get.  You have no patience for flirting and can’t be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing.  You are an up-front person.  You often don’t get hints and you ever pass any.  Brains turn you on.  You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship.  You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you’re being appreciated.  Your mate’s physical attractiveness is important for you.  You tend to be very practical, and not very emotional.  Your choices are very good and can only lead to trouble.  You are very self satisfied and egoistic.

 

Does your name begin with: B

You give off vibes of lazy sensuality.  You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined.  You are very happy to receive gifts as an expression of the affection of your lover.  You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate.  You are private in your expression of endearments, and particular when it comes to love.  You will hold off until everything meets with your approval.  You can control your appetite and feelings.  You require new sensations and experiences.  You are willing to experiment.

 

Does your name begin with: C

You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a relationship.  You require closeness and togetherness.  You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking.  You see your lover as a friend and companion.  You are very sensual, needing someone to appreciate and almost worship you.  When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to hold out on affection until you receive this.  You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.

 

Does your name begin with: D

Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full steam ahead in your suit.  You do not give up your quest easily.  You are nurturing and caring.  If someone has a problem, this turns you on.  You are highly passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvements, sometimes possessive and jealous.  You are very sharp and talented often with sense of humour.  When people bother to look deep inside they cannot resist what they see.  You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, having a free and open attitude.  You get jealous of other people and lose your temper.

 

Does your name begin with: E

Your greatest need is to talk.  If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating.  A person must be intellectually stimulating or you are not interested sexually.  You need a friend for a lover and a companion.  You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument once in a while — it seems to stir things up.  You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important.  But once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal.  You will fall asleep with a good book (sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book to a lover).

 

Does your name begin with: F

You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal.  You look for the very best mate you can find.  You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal.  You are sensuous and privately passionate.  Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant.  You are a born romantic.  Dramatic love scenes are a favourite fantasy pastime.  You can be a very generous lover.

 

Does your name begin with: G

You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover.  You respond to a lover who is your intellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status.  You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of stimulation, because you work at it meticulously.  You can be extremely active-never tiring out.  Your duties and responsibilities take precedence over everything else.  You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to people.

 

Does your name begin with: H

You seek a mate who can enhance your zest for life, fun and everything you seek for.  You will be very generous to your lover once you have attained a commitment.  You are very affectionate and very strong.  Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner.  Before the commitment, though, you tend to be very careful with your every move and equally cautious in your involvements often as you believe that you have to look out for yourself.  You are a sensual and patient lover.  You will hold off till everything meets your full approval.  You are a perfectionist, hard to satisfy and strong in your beliefs.  Not influential, you always stand your ground.  People can always count on you to stand by them in a crisis.  You are a dreamer with a passion for life.

 

Does your name begin with: I

You have a great need to be loved, appreciated… even worshiped.  You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh.  You like necking spend hours just touching feeling & exploring.  You look for lovers who know what they are doing.  You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor.  You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied.  You are willing to experiment and try new modes of expression.  You bore easily and thus require adventure and change.  Your commitments don’t last very long and you often tend to stray.  Loyalty is not one of your strong points.  You are more sensual than sexual, but you are sometimes downright lustful.

 

Does your name begin with: J

You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy.  When used for a good cause there is nothing to stop you, except maybe that they aren’t always used for the good (you could dance all night).  You respond to the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the mating game.  You can carry on great romances in your head.  At heart you are a roamer and need to set out on your own every so often.  You will carry on long-distance relationships with ease.  You are idealistic and need to believe in love.  You have a need to be nurtured deep within.

 

Does your name begin with: K

You are secretive, self-contained, and shy.  You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do not let on to this.  Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself.  When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert.  You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game, and take your love life very seriously.  You don’t fool around.  You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along.  You are very generous and giving, often selfless.  You are kind-natured and sweet, which is found to be attractive by many.  You are a good friend.

 

Does your name begin with: L

You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love.  Having a partner is of paramount importance to you.  You are free in your  expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided it’s all in good taste.  Brains turn you on.  You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship.  You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you’re being appreciated.

 

Does your name begin with: M

You may appear innocent, unassuming and shy; but we know that appearances can lie.  When it comes to sex, you are no novice but something of a skilled technician.  You can easily go to extremes, though, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole idea of love.  You can be highly critical of you mate, seeking perfection in both of you.  It is not easy to find someone who can meet your standards.  You have difficulty expressing emotions and drawing close to lovers.  You are often selfish, thinking you are always right no matter what.  You never give in.  Winning is your prime desire — at any cost.  You often forget friends and family and you live for the moment.

 

Does your name begin with: N

You are emotional and intense.  When involved in a relationship, you throw your entire being into it.  Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred.  You are all-consuming and crave someone who is equally passionate and intense.  You believe in total freedom.  You are willing to try anything and everything.  Your supply of energy is inexhaustible.  You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate.  You also enjoy mothering your mate.  You often have the greatest love affairs all by yourself, in your head.  You are very imaginative.

 

Does your name begin with: O

You are very interested in fun activities yet secretive and shy about your desires.  You can re-channel much of your energy into making money and/or seeking we.  You can easily have extended periods of celibacy.  You are a passionate, compassionate lover, requiring the same qualities from your mate.  Love is serious business; thus you demand intensity, diversity and is willing to try anything or anyone.  Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness, which must be kept in check.

 

Does your name begin with: P

You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn’t think of doing anything that might harm your image or reputation.  Appearances count.  Therefore, you require a good-looking partner.  You also require an intelligent partner.  Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy… a good fight stimulates those vibes.  You are relatively free of hang- ups.  You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things.  You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical gratification.

 

Does your name begin with: Q

You require constant activity and stimulation.  You have tremendous physical energy.  It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you.  You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people because of their ethnic groups.  You need romance, hearts and flowers, and conversation to turn you on and keep you going.

 

Does your name begin with: R

You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual.  You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal-the smarter the better.  You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body.  However, physical attractiveness is not very important to you.  You have to be proved to be worthy for a partner.  You have a need to prove yourself the best.  You want feedback on your performance.  You are open, stimulating and romantic.

 

Does your name begin with: S

For you, it is pleasure before business. You can be romantically idealistic to a fault and is capable of much sensuality.  But you never loose control of your emotions.  Once you make the commitment you stick like glue.  You could get jealous and possessive.  You tend to be very selfish often regarding yourself as the only human being on the planet.  You like being the center of attention.  You are very caring sensitive, private and sometimes very passive.  Turned on by soft lights, romantic thoughts.  When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert.  You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role, or any game, and take your love life very seriously.  You don’t fool around.  You have the patience to wait for the right person to come along.  You are very generous and giving, often selfless.  You are kind nature and sweet which is found to be attractive by many.  You are a good friend.

 

Does your name begin with: T

You are very sensitive, private and sometimes very passive.  You like someone who takes the lead.  You get turned on by music, soft lights and romantic thoughts.  You fantasize and tend to fall in and out of love soon.  When in love you are romantic, idealistic, mushy.  You enjoy having your senses and your feelings stimulated, titillated & teased.  You are a great flirt.  You can make your relationships fit your dreams, all in your own head.  Once you put your mind to something you manage to stand by it and see your dreams through. You aren’t very good at expressing your feelings.  You like things your own way.  You do not like change, you like to hold on to things.  This may not always be good because if given an opportunity things may develop into great things.  You work your way to the top.  Attention must be given to what others say because even though you don’t want to hear it their advice may turn out to save your life.

 

Does your name begin with: U

You are enthusiastic and at your happiest when in love.  When not in love you’re in love with love and always looking for someone to adore.  You see romance as challenge.  You are a roamer & needs adventure, excitement freedom.  You enjoy giving gifts and looking good.  You are willing to put others feelings above yours.

 

Does your name begin with: V

You are individualistic and you need freedom, space and excitement.  You wait until you know someone well before committing yourself.  Knowing someone means psyching her/him out.  You feel a need to get into his/her head to see what makes them tick.  You are attracted to eccentric types.  You believe that age is no barrier.  You are good at responding to danger, fear and suspense.

 

Does your name begin with: W

You are very proud, determined & refuses to take no for an answer when it come to love.  Your ego is at stake all the time.  You are romantic, idealistic, often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner for who she or he really is.  You feel deeply about love and tend to throw all of your self into a relationship.  Nothing is too good for your lover.  You like playing love games.

 

Does your name begin with: X

You need constant stimulation because you get bored quickly.  You can handle more than 1 relationship at a time with ease.  You can’t shut off your mind.  You can do two things at once.  You are very talented.

 

Does your name begin with: Y

You are sensual and very independent.  If you can’t have it your way, you will forget the whole thing.  You want to control your relationships which doesn’t work out too well.  You respond to physical stimulation.  However if you can make money you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment.  You have a need to prove yourself the best.  You want feedback on your performance.  You are open, stimulating and romantic.

 

Does your name begin with: Z

You are very romantic but show feels that to love means to suffer.  You wind up serving your mate and attracting people who have unusual trouble.  You see yourself as a lover’s savior.

 

 

~via spiritualunite.com

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ALETHEIA LUNA: “10 Soulmate Love Myths Everyone Needs To Read”

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When we were young we listened to jovial stories about princes and princesses falling in love and getting married.  We were taught that we only have one true love out there, and that this person (who is always the opposite gender) completes us.

As we grow older many of us seek to fulfil this romantic ideal.  Some of us spend years pining and searching for the “perfect” lover who can tick all the boxes and match all of our criteria.  In fact, some of us even carry around a mental idea of what our soulmates will look like, sound like, and behave like.  Being a romantic soul myself, I always thought that my soulmate would be a tall, mysterious, rebellious, Australian bloke.  Perhaps I was simply projecting my own disowned anima (masculine energy) outwards?  Instead I fell in love with a logical, brawny, emotionally balanced man of Peruvian descent — a perfect fit for me!

But I’m not the only one who has experienced this.  So many of us think we know what we want in a person, when in fact we don’t.  And sometimes, when someone not quite matching our description comes along, we shut ourselves off, missing the opportunity.

To those of us who have experienced severe emotional and mental wounding in our lives, soulmates appear as a kind of holy mecca or “promised land.”  When we feel incomplete, lonely and disconnected from ourselves, the ideal of soulmate love becomes a beacon of hope promising to save us.  Soon we start sincerely believing that our beloved will “complete us,” and thus make our lives meaningful again.

Deep down many of us believe that there is at least one person out there who will fulfill all of our needs and desires.  In fact, such a warped belief is what causes such high divorce rates and relationship dysfunction running rife in our societies.

There are so many harmful myths about soulmates that circulate through our cultural dialogues.  These myths end up as rigid stories and ideals within our minds.  In fact, these ideals and beliefs are actually responsible for limiting our spiritual growth and capacity to mature as divine beings.  Believing that anything outside of yourself will complete or make you whole is not only misguided, but highly dangerous to your well-being.

So with this in mind, let’s explore 10 of the most common soulmate love myths out there:

Myth 1. You can “find” your soulmate.

First of all, it’s important to drop the illusion of control.  Here’s a wake up call: you have no power over when, where or how your soulmate will appear.  All you can realistically do is be open and receptive to meeting your soulmate.  The human ego tends to believe that it can control life.  But life can’t be controlled.  Life is just as wise, wild and mysterious as it is frustrating!  Our soulmates often appear “out of the blue” when we least expect them to.  But it’s also quite common to intuit, sense or dream about your soulmate before they suddenly appear in your life.

Myth 2. What you want in your soulmate is what you’ll get.

We tend to approach relationships with preconceived notions of what we want or need.  So many articles out there that I’ve read recommend “visualizing your soulmate” so as to “attract them” into your life.  However, this is another trick of the ego.  The law of attraction doesn’t quite work that way.  It is your thoughts and beliefs that reflect your reality.  Your soulmate often isn’t someone you consciously desire, but someone you unconsciously attract and need for inner growth.

Myth 3. Soulmates will stay with you no matter what.

This is another highly harmful myth that creates a lot of unnecessary pain.  As a species we find great comfort in the thought of “always and forever” (hence why marriage is so appealing to us).  But this isn’t always the case.  Sometimes our soulmates stay for a season, and sometimes they stay for a lifetime.

Myth 4. We only have ONE soulmate.

This point is a matter of personal opinion.  However, I believe it is possible to have more than one soulmate in a lifetime.  Talking to many people about their thoughts and experiences on love, I’ve discovered that a great number have had “multiple” soulmate experiences.  Each was different, precious and life-changing in varied ways.  I do, however, believe that we only have one twin flame relationship.  Read more about the difference between soulmate and twin flame connections.

Myth 5. Soulmates are always romantic/sexual.

On the contrary, soulmate relationships can be completely platonic with no sexual or romantic feelings involved.  In other words, your soulmate could simply be your best friend in the world.

Myth 6. Soulmates are human.

We think of soulmates in terms of humans loving other humans.  But many people have felt intense and strong bonds with animals and pets that transcend human language.

Myth 7. Soulmates are the opposite gender.

Religion and tradition would have us believe that soulmates are heterosexual in nature.  In reality, love is free: it is not restricted by what is thought of as “right” or “wrong.”  Your soulmate could very well be of the same gender as you.  If you identify as heterosexual this will obviously come as a great shock to you.  However, it will ultimately encourage you to reclaim your authentic sexuality.

Myth 8. Soulmates are single.

Love is a complex emotion.  It is true that “we can’t choose who we love” — love flows freely and runs wild.  Who can claim to understand the mysteries of the heart?  As such, many people are tormented by the fact that the one they love is already in a relationship or marriage.  This is not the same as stimulation seeking or lust: soulmates resonate much deeper than great chemistry, sex or compatible interests.  As such, soulmates in this position must choose to move on, or break up marriages.  While both options are painful, both are ultimately catalysts for growth.

Myth 9. Soulmate relationships are effortless.

There is a widespread assumption that soulmate love is easy and stress free.  This belief adds to the desirability and idealization of such a relationship.  However, soulmate relationships require time, effort, patience and diligence like any other relationships.  Without conscious maintenance, even soulmate relationships will fail.

Myth 10. Soulmates complete you.

Perhaps the most destructive myth of all, the thought that our soulmates complete us is not only misleading but it is also highly self-disrespecting.  We are taught to believe that our soulmates are our “missing halves” when in fact they are helpers and catalysts of our spiritual growth.  The belief that our soulmate “completes us” is so popular because it encourages us to bypass responsibility for our happiness and wholeness.  It’s much easier to put the burden and pressure on others!  So many people enter relationships believing their soulmate will give them everything they need.  This unfortunately leads to issues such as codependency, toxic enabling and self-betrayal.

Instead of looking outside for completion, why not look inside of your own precious and unexplored soul?  Everything — all the love, acceptance and joy you need — is waiting there to be found.

Tell me …

Did you have any strong emotional responses to this article?  Perhaps this article was everything you didn’t want to read, or everything you hoped to discover.  I hope that I’ve helped to bring more realism to a world that can easily get obscured by myths and ideals.

Some final parting words: learn to completely love, forgive and cherish the person you are.  This is the best way to both attract, and bring harmony to your soulmate relationship.

Did I forget to mention any important soulmate love myths?  I welcome any thoughts or experiences you have below.  Finally, if you haven’t already, take the soulmate test  I created (just for fun!).

~via spiritualunite.com

KATE RAE: “10 Things to Understand Before You Fall In Love With An Old Soul”

And then there are very old souls, such as myself, who aren’t even impressed by their own Twin Flame… as in… “Whatever, I’ll see you on the other side.”… : D

10 Things to Understand Before You Fall In Love With An Old Soul

  1. Simplicity. It’s the simple things in life that capture us. Simple living and simple pleasures in life ground us and make us feel all warm and cozy inside. Extravagant dinners, jewelry, and sparkly gifts may be the key to some people’s hearts but not an old soul.
  2. Impressing us is so simple, it’s scary. An intimate conversation on the beach with a candle or a night of camping under the stars is like heaven on earth. Give us experiences and most of all, give us your time.
  3. Alone time. Old souls are pretty intense, spiritual people. It’s not a facade or front we put up, but a lifestyle we live to stay connected to ourselves and to our spiritual path. Time to decompress, detach and meditate are crucial to our well being. So if we turn down an invite to a bar once in awhile, don’t take it personal. Instead, understand our need to be with ourselves because there is probably a reason we are needing some alone time.
  4. Dreamer. As most people only dream when they sleep, we dream constantly. Daydream that is. Sometimes we need a partner to snap us back into reality, but also one who understands our dreaming is what excites us, dreaming inspires us.
  5. Romantics. –ahh, sigh– We love romance and everything that comes with it. Sometimes, expecting a little too much from people trying to win our affections. This can cause some let downs and learning experiences for both partners. Old souls need someone that can pull them out from the clouds when needed and bring them back to a beautiful reality.
  6. Comfort. I’ve always felt like the “grandma” of my friend group. Throwing on a big comfy sweater, staying in to cook dinner, and snuggling up while someone reads to me would be like, so amazing. Going out is good here and there, but know for us, being comfy with our significant other takes the cake.
  7. Free bird. We want freedom. Freedom to chase whatever is worth chasing to us. Nothing holding us back or stopping us from pursuing our dreams and desires. Rather, someone who encourages us to chase and to succeed. Aside from longing for a stable and simple life, we want room to grow and follow whatever path our spirit is leading us on.
  8. An unusual approach to life. Not really conforming to the expected way of living, we view the world and our lives as a blank book and we want to write it. I definitely have very philosophical views and it deeply effects all of my relationships. Being with someone who likes that about us is key!
  9. Not-so material world. Possessions and money are nice, but it is not number one for us. Intellectual conversations and meaningful experiences is what takes our breath away…
  10. Intuition. You may hear this a lot from an old soul, “I don’t know, I just have this feeling.” Following our hearts more than our minds makes us a bit more in touch with our intuitive side. You can either go with the flow or turn and run, intuitive people can be a bit intimidating. It can be very daunting to some, to have an intuitive partner…especially if the significant other is trying to be sly. Good luck!

We’ve got dreams, big dreams. Idealistic dreams of painting the world like our very own canvas. Ending world hunger or starting a business that benefits people in some positive way is not far from an old souls list of lofty ideas. Helping mankind is on our dreamy To Do List!

I’m sure a lot of you out there can relate to some of these traits or have come across an old soul yourself. Maybe you’re realizing you are one…what qualities do you have that make you or your partner an Old Soul?

 

 

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