LISA RENEE: “Targeting our Guts with Parasites”

“By controlling the food and water supply through mass production and corporatization of commercially processed food products, the preservatives, bio-tech chemicals and genetic modification (GMOs) added to many foods are engineered for gene editing, and to attack the healthy microbes in the gut. The control over food is designed to attack our gut and second brain, in order to have more effective mind control results through the ELF targeting and other AI sweeps, including the Chemtrailing and vaccinations, that are designed to interact with the body organism to achieve breakdown of the solar plexus and interconnected bio-neurology functioning, as well as breakdown the digestive and elimination channels. Currently, this agenda to feed people bio-technology laboratory produced chemicals labeled as food is much more severe in the USA.”

~Lisa Renee

 

Energetic Parasites are one byproduct of alien implants and other soft kill technology used to maintain the closed source system for the NAA, and eventually this can manifest and turn into a variety of physical parasites that weaken the human body. If we can perceive the larger picture of Negative Alien Invasion which led to the infestation of energetic parasites in every layer of the earth body that we are still coping with today, this will help connect the dots to why every human being has some level of imbalance or dysfunction that is manifested as a result of parasites and parasitic behavior.

Physical parasites impact all bodily functions, mental body functions and commonly can induce negative thought-forms. They can induce emotionally hysterical states as well as promote disconnection between the multidimensional layers, separating the inner self and spiritual energies from the physical body. When people are internally disconnected in this way they do not know who they are and they more easily accept a false identity that is handed to them by the mind control system.

When we act out parasitic behaviors, we attract more parasites into our internal landscape. Many of these pathogenic organisms attract parasites that also attract demonic energies into the weakened human body, and this is a primary reason for this particular NAA strategy to spread parasites.

If the body is heavily implanted and heavily parasitic, anti-parasitic therapy such as cleanses, fasts, meditations and prayers are highly suggested to help regain energetic balance within the homeostatic functions of the entire body, mind and spirit. It is also necessary to stop consuming all genetically modified foods, which are designed to radically increase parasitic invasion into the human body through the digestive system.

Over the last fifteen years an introduction of next level electromagnetic technologies have been used specifically to target the public, in order to stimulate the production of toxic bio-films in the internal systems, especially the digestive system. Many of the biofilms are not naturally induced within the human biology, they are technologically induced. Why would they want to send frequencies to our gut to generate more biofilm?

As we have discussed many times, energetic parasites produce physical parasites. That is why empaths, gridworkers and Starseeds usually have to deal with the more serious byproducts of digestive and elimination problems, bloated and distended abdomens, and parasitic symptoms that require more support in a variety of ways to help restore balance. When we have energetic or physical parasites this greatly weakens our immunity. The direct correlation to parasites in the body, usually sourcing in the gut, is designed to weaken the physical body and etheric body so that lower ELF mind control frequencies aimed at the solar plexus are more effective in controlling the person. There is an agenda to target the human gut, to eliminate advancement of the second brain and its neural plexus higher functions, which are needed neural centers for developing skill with direct cognition and cellular knowing. Thus, this is the intended destruction of empathic feelings received from the environment, to block the signals that are sourced within the bio-neurology in the second brain energy receivers, which are located in the organs that make up the entire digestive system.

How is our Gut being Targeted?

By controlling the food and water supply through mass production and corporatization of commercially processed food products, the preservatives, bio-tech chemicals and genetic modification (GMO’s) added to many foods are engineered for gene editing and to attack the healthy microbes in the gut. This results in the common dysfunction of leaky gut, and vulnerability to biofilms, intestinal plaque, and pathogenic microorganism growths, which spreads into the blood stream and generates toxicity. This also destroys the nerve cells and etheric webbing in the intestines, impairing overall immunity and damaging the second brain and receptivity of our center of personal will.

The Solar Plexus is the main energy center that regulates our conscious mind or personality matrix. When our solar plexus is being accosted, energetically and by the foods we eat, it is weakened and it dissipates our center of personal will, which forms our actions for improved self-determination. The control over food is designed to attack our gut and second brain, in order to have more effective mind control results through the ELF targeting and other AI sweeps, including the Chemtrailing and vaccinations, that are designed to interact with the body organism to achieve breakdown of the solar plexus and interconnected bio-neurology functioning, as well as breakdown the digestive and elimination channels. Currently, this agenda to feed people bio-technology laboratory produced chemicals labeled as food is much more severe in the USA.

The intended over-processing and chemicalization of fast food is extremely effective for the use of mind control programming, and in some cases even conditioning SRA (Satanic Ritual Abuse) into the nervous system and human brain.
As an example, diet soda and fake sweeteners, such as aspartame, are engineered with gene editing capacity that is used to attack the RNA messenger cells, this disrupts the RNA and DNA communication link throughout the body’s production of uracil. Why manipulate uracil in RNA? Because uracil controls the transmission of hereditary information that is passed into the DNA.

Another example is glyphosate, which is used to break down the cellular wall and tissues in the entire digestive tract, in order to breach the security of the body’s defense mechanism against infections, toxins, and other waste products. Glyphosate has been gradually introduced into our food supply and food chain over the last forty years. When there are small holes in the gut, the toxic waste traveling in the body gets into the blood stream and even other organs and these toxins can get stuck in the joints, muscles and this contributes to the development of many clinically labeled diseases. These diseases could be prevented altogether if they were not being intentionally created by the anti-human environment in which we live on the earth.

Additionally, bio-tech companies are intentionally putting human DNA into mass produced food, such as the addition of human embryo kidney cells (HEK293) that supposedly are additives that are used as flavor enhancers. They describe that these taste receptors have been previously expressed in HEK293 cells. Understanding anti life reversals helps to comprehend the larger purpose for making humans unconsciously eat their own species through the DNA of human children and embryos. This is purposed through the NAA and Satanic based agenda to corrupt human DNA and to keep the world wide child blood sacrifice, child sexual abuse, pedophilia, and SRA networks thriving on the earth. It is important to know that this is put into mass produced fast foods, such as soft drinks and potato chips without direct labeling. This ingredient is also put into many vaccines, so clearly the agenda is to get this into the bloodstream of the masses. Naturally mainstream media normalizes this as if it is no big deal to be consuming cloned human kidney cells in our food and drink. How do you think this effects human kidneys? This is another example of genetic modification, emphasizing both cannibalism and child blood sacrifice as components to promote the death culture consumer-satanic based materialism.

Technology that is targeted to mind control the masses also has specific sweeps to directly attack the solar plexus area, which has many purposes. This weakens organs and glands that need solar plexus nourishment, attacks the second brain wiring in the gut, which replaces empathic feelings with pain, generating biofilms in the body. Biofilms impulse parasitic signaling that can take over the bio-neurological functions in the body, and operate as small parasite communication centers inside the body cavities. Biofilms attach to mucous membranes, intestinal walls, genitals, urinary system, and even in the mouth and gums. They form pockets of tissue that protect the parasite growth, toxic and metabolic waste products, as well as heavy metals that are also used to attract more parasites into the body.

If the average person has extensive biofilm, gut and intestinal problems, mind control and parasitic invasion, we can see how the ability to extract life force energy is made much easier by compromising the body’s integrity. Biofilms can actually be electronically controlled to perform gene editing or genetic modification in the human host.

What is Bio-Film?

A Biofilm is any group of microorganisms in which cells stick to each other and often also to a surface, generating slimy, stringy tissues in which these microorganisms live and reproduce. Think of a clump or tissue, similar to a webbing of tissue holding a pocket of toxic infection within it, which is living inside a cavity or mucous membrane within your body. These adherent cells are frequently embedded within a self-produced matrix of extracellular substance, which may also be referred to as slime, although not everything described as slime is a biofilm. Biofilm is a molecular substance conglomeration generally composed of extracellular DNA, proteins, and polysaccharides (sugar molecules). Biofilms can contain many different types of microorganism, bacteria, archaea, protozoa, fungi and algae, where each group performs specialized metabolic functions. However, some organisms will form single-species films under certain conditions. When the body is afflicted by recurring infections and wounds that are hard to heal, it is highly possible there are toxic biofilms in the gut and intestines that are reinjecting the weakened areas with the toxic waste of the parasitic life cycle, or there are microorganism infections living in the tissues. All kinds of parasites seek refuge in the body in a well-built toxic biofilm.

Essentially biofilms are microscopic bugs, which are found everywhere inside and outside the body, that create biological homes in their human host using a mixture of sugars and proteins. For example, biofilm in the mouth is dental plaque. The sturdy protection that toxic biofilms provides from actually eliminating pathogenic microorganisms is one reason why some infections are so difficult to resolve. Yeasts, parasites, and bacteria find shelter in the toxic biofilm matrix, evading an onslaught of even the strongest of medications. Unhealthy biofilms in the gut:

  • Prevent the full absorption of nutrients across the intestinal wall.
  • Protect the disease-causing microorganisms from the immune system.
  • Protects disease-causing microorganisms from antibiotics and antifungals, this means both herbal and pharmaceutical-grade.
  • Promotes inflammation and hyper immune diseases in the body.
  • Houses toxins like heavy metals.

Unhealthy gut biofilm is a refuge for many pathogenic or disease-causing microorganisms. This means yeasts like Candida, as well as the varieties of bacteria that are related to digestive and elimination issues. Unhealthy biofilms accelerate aging and promote diseases such as:

  • Parasites.
  • Systemic Candida and fungal overgrowth.
  • Heartburn or GERD (gastroesophageal reflux).
  • Chronic fatigue syndrome and fibromyalgia, which are often thought to have an infectious root.
  • Small intestine bacterial overgrowth (SIBO), which includes symptoms like heartburn, bloating, gas, abdominal cramping, brain fog, arthritis, acne, and other skin conditions.
  • Irritable bowel syndrome, ulcerative colitis, and Crohn’s disease.
  • Unhealthy biofilm allows some infections to persist for years. This means that the body may become more susceptible to other infections, or co-infections, as well as other chronic degenerative diseases.
  • Attracts an array of energy parasites and demonic homes that set up attachments in the aura.

To clear out unhealthy gut biofilm requires some research and special care to determine the most harmonious method for detoxification and restoring balance to your gut. Consuming only high quality nutrient dense and organic foods as possible, eliminating sugar, alcohol, drugs, processed and commercial foods, is an important part of the purification process. Also, proteolytic enzymes can help to break apart the structure of unhealthy gut biofilm when taken on an empty stomach. There are anti-parasitic and antimicrobial herbs that are effective because they naturally bust through and degrade biofilm. In most cases the most effective way to eliminate toxic biofilms and the parasites they harbor, as well as entity attachments, can be greatly assisted through applying oral cleansing at the same time using natural therapeutic based enemas. Prayer and meditation should also be integrated into any detoxification and healing process.

All energy workers may notice how much more content that is processed when you eliminate, realizing that the waste content is not all coming from what you are consuming. Many of us naturally process obsolete or negative energy which is eliminated through the bowel, and this is the reality for many gridworkers. This is also why this is a good time to cleanse our liver and bowel, as well as remove biofilms, as this supports the release of ancestral programming in the physical body. As well it keeps us clearer from the effects of mass technological mind control from impacting our conscious mind and breaking down energy receivers in the gut.

It is suggested that some careful research on bio-films and parasite detoxification be completed in order to develop an appropriate wellness program for purifying your body to be resistant to biofilms and energetic and physical parasites. A Starseed that has developed the antidote to the mass problem of glyphosate in our food chain that destroys the gut lining and intestinal walls, Dr. Zac Bush, can be found at http://www.zachbushmd.com. Additionally, MMS and CDS oral and enema protocols as developed by Jim Humble and Andreas Kalker, have proven effective for many people in eliminating toxic biofilm and unnatural AI related organisms, like large intestinal rope worms. MMS also can destroy heavy metal compounds in the water and many different poisons. There is a heavy disinformation campaign against these caring and courageous individuals, so carefully discern the reasons behind why there is so much aggression directed to them and others that promote natural therapies from the medical establishment. The estimated third cause of death in the USA is medical negligence, hundreds of thousands of people die from doctor and medical malpractice every year, a much higher risk than MMS and CDS usage. As with any protocol, you must do your own due diligence and listen carefully to how to administer the best care to help your physical body regain health and balance, to strengthen your overall immunity and ability to deflect parasitic infection, at both energetic and physical levels. In most cases, go very slowly and test the resistances in your body, be smart and aware of how you treat your body, which should be with loving care and respect.

When we better understand how parasitism occurs, and begin to flush parasites from our physical body, we’ll want to evaluate our relationships and pay attention to those around us which are unhealthy, imbalanced or parasitic. A critical part of becoming healthy and balanced is to not engage with psychic vampires, their manipulations and dramas.

 

References:

Energetic Parasites

 

See Also:

War Over Consciousness

 

~via AscensionGlossary.com

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MARTIJN DE ZEE: “How To Cut Energetic Cords With Someone”

Why not shield away ALL parasitic beings, starting with Archons and their minions, the ‘Archon Angels’, ‘Descended Disasters’ and ‘Galactic Federation Of Blight’? Too brainwashed by New Age consciousness traps and fake or mind-controlled channelers? Or are you a minion of the Dark yourself? If so, have fun in the Soul-Harvesting Recycle Dump and another stupefying ride on the Blank-Slate-Memory-Wipe Reincarnation Wheel… WEE! Ah, can you just imagine yourself a powerful God-Sovereign Being? Alas, few will awaken or ever know the joy… ~Ascension Avatar

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Have you ever felt a constant pull to someone and thinking all day about this person you used to have a relationship with? You may be psychical disconnected, but chances are you are still connected on an energetic level.

The mental aspect is linear and does not deal with nonlinear emotions which usually happen unconsciously in the astral plane. When we meet someone, we automatically connect energetically. When when leave this person again, the connection is automatically disconnected. The reason we have a gut feeling, with someone we first meet, is because our astral body communicates with the aura of the other person. Should it be concluded that this person will have a negative effect on you, it will be translated by your astral body in a sense, or in images, not in language. It is therefore true that we cannot exactly explain why we better stay away from certain people. If we choose to ignore this advice, there undoubtedly will come a time, we regret it, because our astral body is not linked to time, as it has already seen and experienced what will be the outcome.

When you meet someone who you immediately feel a deep connection with, it usually has a karmic cause. The energy cords are directly connected and entwined to the heart chakra, if for example, there was an intimate love relationship in your (past) life. Automatically, the same energetic (karmic) commitment is made. Love at first sight is a good example. So learn to trust your feelings, because it has a clear function, to save you from situations that will not end well. It is very important that after the termination of a relationship the cords on the astral plane are going to be cut too. If the person still thinks about you obsessively, and cannot let go of you, this may have a negative effect on you.

The best way to cut through the cords is to visualize it. You can do this with scissors or with an ax, or any other object that will serve. By imagining that you are breaking the energetic connection with someone, it will work through on the astral plane. Sometimes, during visualizing, this can cause feelings of resistance, because something inside of you is not completely convinced to cut him or her completely out of your life. This resistance can be the cause of problems you can have when someone still harasses you in the astral plane. You give the person access to pull the cords tighter, because you still have feelings for him or her. These do not necessarily have to be romantic feelings but also hatred and resentment toward someone creates a connection.

A good friend and psychologist had issues with repeatedly thinking of her ex from 15 years ago. Meanwhile, she had been a relationship of 4 years with someone else. Her ex had still feelings of resentment over the fact that she had ended the relationship, while she was still troubled by guilt. An ideal recipe for staying energetically connected. After I guided her once during the visualization of the disconnecting, she felt liberated and relieved. After this, she repeated the ritual herself several times, until she felt no resistance during the visualization of breaking down the energetic commitment. Whatever the person did to you, it’s important to thank him or her for the lessons they have given you. Remember hatred does not serve anything or anyone and only reinforces the connection. The lessons you have learned were necessary to transform you into the person you’ve become.

 

~via Zentasia.com

VEIL OF REALITY: “Love Bite Plus — Panel Discussion on Paranormal Interferences In Human Love Relationships”

Ascension Avatar note: Got 3+ hours to burn? I certainly didn’t, but thankfully, have never allowed anyone or anything into my life describing this scenario… and never will!

By Bernhard Guenther

We have completed a 3 hour and 22 minute Panel Discussion on The Love Bite and The Dark Side of Cupid topic (October 17th, 2015). This is the most comprehensive discussion yet available on the internet on the theme of paranormal interference in human love relationships.

  • Panel Discussion participants:
 Eve Lorgen, James Bartley, Laura Leon, Bernhard Guenther, Carissa Conti, Tom Montalk, Arella Eliora.

We covered many topics, shared our experiences, research, pathways towards healing, protection and much more.


Discussion Bulletin Points:

  • The history of how the term “alien love bite” came about.
  • The alien love bite and the Dark Cupid “love bite” symptoms.
  • The targeting aspect of Dark Side of Cupid connections.
  • Obsessive aspect of the love bite, love and drug attachment extremes.
  • How the love bite can trigger life threatening conditions.
  • How ETs/aliens handlers keep us in states of prolonged isolation where emotional needs go unmet, thus setting us up for love bite relationships.
  • Trust issues, intimacy issues as a result of abduction histories.
  • The inverse of the Love Bite—disrupting true love and how its not unusual for truth seeking abductees.
  • How others connected to the “abductee” can be manipulated to keep the abductee from awakening.
  • The Predator vs Prey set up in Love Bite/Dark Cupid.
  • One of the persons, the “prey victim” is usually more spiritually evolved because essentially they are being targeted.
  • How the Predator in the duo tends to have Narcissistic traits or personality disordered. How the predator can mirror our needs so well. Sexual attraction high. How both the Predator and the Prey are both empathic and psychic.
  • How it feels like one is under a spell and the “red flags” of true intuition get overridden.
  • How some people are groomed to be addicts of love.
  • How the predator types are acting like “organic portals”, puppet people and are very destructive. Some predators are possessed by high level entities and demons, psychic vampires.
  • Many victims of the DSOC were literally targeted by sorcerers, “hosts” for inter dimensional entities.
  • How true soul sparks or Twin Flame true love partners will be targeted to be set up in counterfeit “twin flame love bites” so that they don’t meet the real soul mate partner. How to tell if its a real twin flame versus the imposter love bite.
  • Many online Twin Flame web sites, forums, gurus are actually part of the parasite/predator program to keep and ensnare people in love bites. How difficult it is to “deprogram” people from the belief in their twin flame when the red flags of a love bite are glaring at them. Denial.
  • Cult leaders especially dangerous and often are hosted by parasitic beings who encourage and set up love bites in masse. (octopus head feeders)
  • The feelings of when your own intuition is being overridden, like you are in a trance but somehow just “go along with it”.
  • Our bodies can react with psychosomatic symptoms when we have invasive negative energy beings invading our energy bodies. Dark beings should be incompatible with our frequency hence unusual physical symptoms or pain.
  • Sexual interaction the most potent form of energy transfer between two people and with entities.
  • Some fractured people are groomed to be “empty vessels” and puppets for mind control agendas that may play out in love bite scenarios.
  • False timeline reality creation, through “black magic like” rituals can bring in dark beings, and cause a true destiny distortion, and a love bite instead of “true love”.
  • Love spells can yield love bites.
  • Solar plexus chakra affected in many love bites, where our will is weakened
  • Childhood wounding can contribute to vulnerability to love bites, and also be the source of great learning and healing.
  • Drug use can open one up to entity possession, unhealed wounds, fracturing of personality.
  • Narcissists and entity possession often go hand in hand.
  • How the narcissist uses blame, projection, shame, guilt and punishing tactics.
  • How you cannot rationally communicate to a narcissist because they twist, blame, shame and project so much it’s futile. Just disengage.
  • Healing discussion in love bite situations.
  • Self-awareness and self-correction necessary to re connect with spirit and intuition.

 

~via HowToExitTheMatrix.com

ALETHEIA LUNA: “12 Signs It’s Time to Move On and Burn All Bridges”

“It is not selfish to burn bridges when the person on the other end is feeding off your soul. In fact, deliberately moving toxic people from your life is a sign of self-love and respect for your personal needs.”

~Aletheia Luna

 

There often comes a point where we outgrow the people in our lives, develop different interests, and even in the best circumstances, lose people due to the natural cycle of life and death.

But when is the right time to move on from a relationship that feels doomed? Should we wait it out … should we try to pick up the broken pieces, and if so, for how long? At what point is it acceptable to walk away and never look back?

Burning bridges is a tough and serious decision to make. When we “burn bridges” we are essentially cutting off all contact with a person and making it impossible to return. If you’re struggling with this decision, there are a few things you might like to know first.

When Burning Bridges is the Wrong Choice

Cutting people off is not always the right decision. As much as we would like to quickly dispose of a person who is causing us trouble, sometimes the problem originates more within us than them.

For instance, burning bridges might be the wrong choice if you’re wanting to dispose of a person due to fear of intimacy and the unwillingness to be vulnerable. Both of these problems will not be solved by cutting a person off, and in fact, making such a decision will exacerbate and deepen your insecurities. If you’re uncomfortable with sharing your entire self with another person in a friendship or relationship, the problem obviously isn’t the other person, but your own internal fears and traumas. In order to work through this problem, be honest with yourself and the person in your life. Explain how you feel. If they truly love you, they will understand and will stop trying to make you open up.

Another example of a wrong time to move on would be in the heat of anger (or another strong emotional reaction). When we are consumed by emotions our logic is overridden and we cannot think or see clearly. So many poor and even fatal decisions are made when our amygdala has gone haywire (bring to mind all the crimes of passion you hear on the news). In order to prevent yourself from making a rash decision, force yourself to breathe in and out for a couple of minutes. Removing yourself from the person or situation also helps your mind and body to settle down.

The final example of a wrong time to move on is when a relationship changes and stops being fun and exciting all the time. So many people tend to mistakenly believe that there’s something “wrong” with their relationship as it matures and grows because it’s no longer filled with the same ecstasy experienced at the beginning. But the reality is that every relationship changes: you will not experience the same dizzy euphoria as you did when you first fell in love. But there will be new emotions to experience as you grow and change with your partner. It is normal to feel a bit of boredom every now and then, but this does not necessarily mean that you need to burn bridges and move on. Obviously, if you’re feeling constantly bored and unfulfilled then you should seriously reconsider your relationship. But don’t make the mistake of hopping from partner to partner in an attempt to find that one person who makes you feel euphoric 100% of the time. It just won’t happen.

If you need more guidance on how to improve your relationship, read my article How to Save a Relationship or Marriage. You might also like to read more about how to create a deep spiritual connection with your partner.

12 Signs It’s Time to Move On

So when is it the right time to move on?

At some point in our lives, we all need to make the heart-wrenching choice to sever contact with certain people. For some of us, that might mean burning bridges with our ex-partners or friends, and for others, this might mean cutting off contact with our parents, siblings or even our own children.

It is unrealistic — and even dangerous — to believe that all relationships can be repaired, no matter what has happened. We cannot change other people, no matter how hard we try. Yes, we might be able to influence them, but the choice to change comes from them, not us. We cannot force others to change. Therefore, sometimes we need to accept that it’s time to move on, let go, and open a new chapter of our lives because no matter what we do, a person will only change if they are interested in changing.

Letting go can even seem cruel to some people, especially if a strong emotional bond is present. But the reality is that we have to take care of ourselves as well. If a person is not a source of comfort or support in your life, then they hang around you like dead weight holding you back from self-fulfillment. It is not selfish to burn bridges when the person on the other end is feeding off your soul. In fact, deliberately moving toxic people from your life is a sign of self-love and respect for your personal needs.

Here are some major signs that it’s time to move on:

1. They don’t show interest in your thoughts, opinions or needs

Your relationship is very lopsided. Even when you try to express your thoughts and needs, you are met with a blank, uninterested wall. Life seems to revolve around the other person, and whenever you try to draw a conversation towards yourself, this person will immediately try to hog attention. In the past, you may have drawn attention to the fact that this person doesn’t show interest in your needs, but nothing changed and they made no effort to pay attention to you. This person has an “ME first, you second” attitude.

2. They emanate constant negativity

No matter what you do or say, the other person is always unhappy. This person might nitpick, whine, criticize, judge, and moan about you or other people all the time. Not only that, but you always seem to go away feeling miserable after spending time with this person. They are like a damp heavy blanket suffocating your soul.

3. They don’t encourage your freedom

A major red flag: if the other person is controlling and authoritative, back away slowly! If you feel trapped and unable to be your true self, it’s most definitely time to move on. Feeling trapped can also be subtle and passive, for example, a partner or parent who tries to keep you dependent on them so that they have power over you.

4. They twist the truth

You struggle to trust this person because they have lied to you so much in the past. Lying is not always active, it can also be passive, for example, withholding information or details that you needed to know. This person has repeatedly broken your trust and is not transparent with you.

5. They don’t prioritize your relationship

The other person doesn’t seem to value your relationship/friendship as much as you do. While you put in so much work to improve your relationship with them, the other person doesn’t seem to care at all. Even when you have asked them to uphold their side of the relationship, they still ended up prioritizing other things over you. For example, they might spend long nights out with their friends at the pub and return at 3am. Or they might forget dates, meetups or agreements and put work or other commitments above you. While busyness is a normal part of life, this person doesn’t seem to have time on their schedule for you at all.

6. They create constant drama

You feel exhausted having to deal with all of the problems and dramas surrounding this person. Even when something goes well for your friend/partner/family member, they quickly find something else to be unhappy about. You have a sense that this person thrives on drama and is empty without it. You’re tired of hearing detailed accounts of their fights, work dramas, relationship tragedies, righteous opinions, ad infinitum.

7. They feed off your energy

This person seems to be fuelled by your attention and emotional reactions. They might enjoy provoking you to elicit a response that makes them feel like they have power over you. You also feel very tired around them, and almost sucked into their gravitational pull. If you feel this way, you’ve likely got an energy vampire on your hands. While I don’t particularly like this term, it accurately describes people who enjoy leeching off our energy.

8. They’re relentlessly needy

You feel smothered by this other person and like you’re bound to them with a ball and chain. Not only do you have to take care of your needs, but you feel as though you have to take care of their needs as well. This person seems to constantly demand attention, pampering, affection, and favors from you. You’ve tried encouraging this person to stand on their own two feet, but they seem intent on clinging off you. This person seems to be incapable of being self-assured and constantly seeks approval from you.

9. They have physically hurt you

In moments of rage, your friend/partner/family member may have hit you or physically hurt you in some way. While they may have apologized, your trust and confidence around them have been broken. Physical abuse is a crystal clear sign that it’s time to move on and burn bridges, forever.

10. They make you want to hide your true self

You’ve tried being relaxed and open around this person, but you’ve been met with coldness, criticism or judgment. As a result, you may have resorted to hiding your true self and wearing a mask instead. Gradually, you may have even started to forget who you truly are, having become a shell of your former self instead. You feel sick of changing who you are for the other person.

11. They manipulate you

You chronically feel emotionally blackmailed or gaslighted by this person. Sometimes you even feel like you’re the abuser, when in fact, the other is just playing mind games with you.

12. They intentionally hold you back

On the surface it may appear that your friend, partner or family member has “the best intentions for you,” but really, they don’t. They are scared. They don’t want you to change. They don’t want you to reach your full potential, for that will make them feel left behind. They don’t want to see you happy, for that will reflect how unhappy they are. They don’t want you to take risks, for that will force them to reconsider their own life choices. As the old truism goes, “misery loves company.” Unhappy people want to be surrounded by other unhappy people because it gives them some sense of consolation. As a result, you might feel like you have to dim down your lights, blend in, and become a wallflower.

After reading this list:

After reading this list, please know that you don’t have to say “yes” to every sign. Even if you’re experiencing just one or two of these signs, you should seriously consider the possibility that it’s time to move on. While you don’t have to necessarily burn bridges, you might like to create space and distance and see how you feel.

Hopefully these signs can gently awaken you to the possibility that it’s time to open a new chapter of your life. And please know that feeling things like stress, shame, and grief are all normal reactions. Personally, when it was time for me to burn bridges I felt intense emotional and psychological turmoil for many months. In my case, I had to cut ties with my entire family in order to escape their oppressive fundamentalist religion. But to my surprise, I felt so free and liberated that all of the pain of going through separation was worth it.

I hope you can find the same kind of freedom. Your heart and soul are stronger than you may think.

 

About the author: Aletheia Luna is an influential spiritual writer whose work has changed the lives of thousands of people worldwide. After escaping the religious sect she was raised in, Luna experienced a profound existential crisis that led to her spiritual awakening. As a psychospiritual counselor, tarot reader, and professional writer, Luna’s mission is to help others become conscious of their entrapment and find joy, empowerment, and liberation in any circumstance.

 

~via LonerWolf.com