LISA RENEE: “Bio-Family Macrocosm Mirror”

“The Bio-Family Macrocosm Mirror has been definitely a lesson of self mastery for many Awakening at this level of 3D third dimensional existence. Many of us will be shown the mirror reflection of the biggest macrocosm problems on the planet Earth, and that is reflected back to us in the microcosm level patterns of our personal ancestral, Family of Origin and parental kind of relationships. So if you want to see the issues that need to be healed in the entire global consciousness, if you want to better understand the reasons why you came to this earth as a Starseed, all you need to do is go in and look at your family of origin or bio-family dynamics. All of the Family of Origin archetypal patterns, and the family lineage that we chose to incarnate into, will reflect the mirror of our spiritual mission and the tasks we chose for emotional healing and transforming. Your mother, your father, your family, many of us have those particular mirrors especially as Lightworkers and Starseeds, so that we can see those larger issues we experienced in the family dynamics, mirrored back to us in the macrocosm. The patterns you were exposed to as a child, the conflicts and issues you came to heal, are not only within yourself, but are reflected as the mirror in the planetary level of the global state of consciousness. There are definitely issues that are impacting, many of us as Starseeds and Lightworkers that were born into the Earthseed families of the 3D third dimensional type of consciousness, of which we call the False Parent archetype. As we were growing in those particular families, we could see very clearly all of the imbalances that were created from disconnection, even though we may not have been able to articulate it at that time. We’re here to study the third dimension because those of us that are Starseeds are here to break through the 3D paradigm, we came here to create the new paradigm shift into Ascension timelines. Many times through our biological family, we allow our power to be drained when we are conforming to another’s expectations of us. So any time we are not fully in our power by accepting who we are at the deepest authentic levels, which is our big fear program to overcome in the third dimension, we can be corded and drained of our energy. When we are in our power and we accept and unconditionally love ourselves at that level, and we don’t allow our power to be drained by others, including our family of origin, as they may try and manipulate us into their expectations through emotional blackmail or Gaslighting techniques.”

~Lisa Renee


The Bio-Family Macrocosm Mirror has been definitely a lesson of self mastery for many Awakening at this level of 3D third dimensional existence. Many of us will be shown the mirror reflection of the biggest macrocosm problems on the planet Earth, and that is reflected back to us in the microcosm level patterns of our personal ancestral, Family of Origin and parental kind of relationships. So if you want to see the issues that need to be healed in the entire global consciousness, if you want to better understand the reasons why you came to this earth as a Starseed, all you need to do is go in and look at your family of origin or bio-family dynamics. All of the Family of Origin archetypal patterns, and the family lineage that we chose to incarnate into, will reflect the mirror of our spiritual mission and the tasks we chose for emotional healing and transforming. Your mother, your father, your family, many of us have those particular mirrors especially as Lightworkers and Starseeds, so that we can see those larger issues we experienced in the family dynamics, mirrored back to us in the macrocosm.

If we were adopted, we have the additional layers of the Orphan Complex which is a very common archetype for Starseed people to work through and heal, when they incarnate on the earth. The family that adopted you will be your macrocosm mirror. This will become obvious as we begin to heal the patterns and archetypes at the family interaction and personal micro levels. So of course there is no accident that you have the parents and family members that you have, because those were the direct mirrors that you needed to see while you were on the earth.

The patterns you were exposed to as a child, the conflicts and issues you came to heal, are not only within yourself, but are reflected as the mirror in the planetary level of the global state of consciousness. There are definitely issues that are impacting, many of us as Starseeds and Lightworkers that were born into the Earthseed families of the 3D third dimensional type of consciousness, of which we call the False Parent archetype. As we were growing in those particular families, we could see very clearly all of the imbalances that were created from disconnection, even though we may not have been able to articulate it at that time. We’re here to study the third dimension because those of us that are Starseeds are here to break through the 3D paradigm, we came here to create the new paradigm shift into Ascension timelines. We are here to model win-win and mutually balanced integrated types of templates in all of our relationships, not only with our biological families, but model these behaviors in our interpersonal relationships at every single level, so obviously we’ve been doing incredible amount of emotional healing work, and a lot of collecting 3D case study work.

Many times through our biological family, we allow our power to be drained when we are conforming to another’s expectations of us. So any time we are not fully in our power by accepting who we are at the deepest authentic levels, which is our big fear program to overcome in the third dimension, we can be corded and drained of our energy. We have been trained, and conditioned to be programmed, that whatever the expectation is coming from social or family types of 3D belief structures, we are supped to conform to those beliefs to belong, and as a result, attachment cords also form.

So attachments form, when we are emphatic healers and we are not governing our own energies appropriately, but it also happens when we don’t have awareness about our true self-identity, and we do not know ourselves at a core level. We still may carry thought forms and belief systems that come from the expectations of our biological family of origin. When we are in our power and we accept and unconditionally love ourselves at that level, and we don’t allow our power to be drained by others, including our family of origin, as they may try and manipulate us into their expectations through emotional blackmail or Gaslighting techniques.


See Also:

Ascension

Awakening


~via Ascension Glossary


ALEXA PELLEGRINI: “Love Yourself First: Creating Healthy Relationships in a Superficial World”

Love Yourself

In the last several years, websites like ChristianMingle.com and Match.com have soared in popularity. Tinder and dating apps have blown up on social media. But relationship issues and loneliness are still more of a problem in our society than ever, and most of us continue to have a difficult time understanding the foundations of love. So, what is love – not just romantic love, but healthy, spiritual love? What does it mean to be in a genuine, loving relationship, and more importantly, how can we all find one? Here are some insights into improving your dating life so you can avoid unfulfilling relationships and get closer to discovering the healing power of love.

Finding ‘True Love’: It’s All About Your Energy

Relationships work on the basis of energetic attraction. The more you neglect loving and accepting yourself, the more you’ll encounter Karmic relationships that will show that this needs to change. To understand ourselves on a higher level, we tend to attract and be attracted to others who mirror our inner wounds. Instead of healing us, these people just exacerbate our pain – and yet ironically, these are the relationships we struggle to escape the most, because our souls are begging for us to heal ourselves! If we have a deep desire for attention, we may be attracted to a narcissistic person who denies us the attention we so desperately seek. If we have a strong need to be validated and nurtured, we may be attracted to someone who pull away the more we chase after them – and so on. There is a variety of ways we can go ‘wrong’ in our personal relationships by trying to deal with our inner wounds through our partners.

You’re probably wondering: how can this be avoided so we can get the relationship we really want? The solution to finding genuine, loving relationships that don’t reflect our identity crises is simpler than you think. Of course, it all starts with love – but not by giving all of your love and everything you have to the person you’re with, so you can convince them to love you wholeheartedly in return. It’s by showing all of that love and care to yourself.

Making Simple Changes, Day by Day

Repeat after me: you don’t need to prove you’re worthy or lovable to anyone – you already are. If you struggle to look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you’re worth everything you have (and more!), it’s important to realize that some serious self-work lies ahead in order to find the relationship of your dreams.

Forgive yourself for all of your past mistakes. Give yourself a pat on the back for the wonderful things you’ve done and how hard you work every day. Look into your eyes and tell yourself that you are lovable and loved – over and over, until you really believe it. These behavioral adjustments are necessary for you to heal yourself and move on from words and events of the past that are holding you back from stepping into your own power and building healthy relationships. Don’t look for someone else to do the hard work of loving and accepting yourself for you – you can rise to the challenge and take on the quest with vigor and courage.

Love Yourself

Forget Flowers and Candy: Think Friendship and Forgiveness

Affection, gifts, romantic gestures and great sex are all hallmarks of a healthy, functional relationship, but it doesn’t stop there. We’ve all seen in movies and on TV how sexy, romantic relationships often end in heartbreak, how even the strongest of chemistry between two people often leads to nowhere except a series of one-night stands or a dysfunctional relationship. Yet society tells us that fantastic sex and romance are the defining features of a happy relationship, all while friendship and forgiveness are neglected.

Without being able to connect and empathize with our partners on a human level, we lose the ability to forgive their mistakes and realize that they aren’t solely around to fulfill our emotional, physical and financial needs. Codependency, resentment and declarations of “that’s not fair!” and “you don’t care about me as much as I care about you!” are usually the hallmark of these kinds of relationships. When we fail to see our partners as not only our lovers but our friends, we lose the ability to identify with them on a deeper emotional level and the energetic balance in the relationship is totally thrown off.

Here’s an exercise: in your mind, have your best friend and your partner switch places. How do you treat your best friend? Do you give your friend healthy space, reasonable forgiveness and support for their dreams? Do you do the same for your partner? Creating a feeling of friendship between you and your partner is the easiest way to try to heal a failing relationship.

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