ALEXA PELLEGRINI: “Love Yourself First: Creating Healthy Relationships in a Superficial World”

Love Yourself

In the last several years, websites like ChristianMingle.com and Match.com have soared in popularity. Tinder and dating apps have blown up on social media. But relationship issues and loneliness are still more of a problem in our society than ever, and most of us continue to have a difficult time understanding the foundations of love. So, what is love – not just romantic love, but healthy, spiritual love? What does it mean to be in a genuine, loving relationship, and more importantly, how can we all find one? Here are some insights into improving your dating life so you can avoid unfulfilling relationships and get closer to discovering the healing power of love.

Finding ‘True Love’: It’s All About Your Energy

Relationships work on the basis of energetic attraction. The more you neglect loving and accepting yourself, the more you’ll encounter Karmic relationships that will show that this needs to change. To understand ourselves on a higher level, we tend to attract and be attracted to others who mirror our inner wounds. Instead of healing us, these people just exacerbate our pain – and yet ironically, these are the relationships we struggle to escape the most, because our souls are begging for us to heal ourselves! If we have a deep desire for attention, we may be attracted to a narcissistic person who denies us the attention we so desperately seek. If we have a strong need to be validated and nurtured, we may be attracted to someone who pull away the more we chase after them – and so on. There is a variety of ways we can go ‘wrong’ in our personal relationships by trying to deal with our inner wounds through our partners.

You’re probably wondering: how can this be avoided so we can get the relationship we really want? The solution to finding genuine, loving relationships that don’t reflect our identity crises is simpler than you think. Of course, it all starts with love – but not by giving all of your love and everything you have to the person you’re with, so you can convince them to love you wholeheartedly in return. It’s by showing all of that love and care to yourself.

Making Simple Changes, Day by Day

Repeat after me: you don’t need to prove you’re worthy or lovable to anyone – you already are. If you struggle to look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you’re worth everything you have (and more!), it’s important to realize that some serious self-work lies ahead in order to find the relationship of your dreams.

Forgive yourself for all of your past mistakes. Give yourself a pat on the back for the wonderful things you’ve done and how hard you work every day. Look into your eyes and tell yourself that you are lovable and loved – over and over, until you really believe it. These behavioral adjustments are necessary for you to heal yourself and move on from words and events of the past that are holding you back from stepping into your own power and building healthy relationships. Don’t look for someone else to do the hard work of loving and accepting yourself for you – you can rise to the challenge and take on the quest with vigor and courage.

Love Yourself

Forget Flowers and Candy: Think Friendship and Forgiveness

Affection, gifts, romantic gestures and great sex are all hallmarks of a healthy, functional relationship, but it doesn’t stop there. We’ve all seen in movies and on TV how sexy, romantic relationships often end in heartbreak, how even the strongest of chemistry between two people often leads to nowhere except a series of one-night stands or a dysfunctional relationship. Yet society tells us that fantastic sex and romance are the defining features of a happy relationship, all while friendship and forgiveness are neglected.

Without being able to connect and empathize with our partners on a human level, we lose the ability to forgive their mistakes and realize that they aren’t solely around to fulfill our emotional, physical and financial needs. Codependency, resentment and declarations of “that’s not fair!” and “you don’t care about me as much as I care about you!” are usually the hallmark of these kinds of relationships. When we fail to see our partners as not only our lovers but our friends, we lose the ability to identify with them on a deeper emotional level and the energetic balance in the relationship is totally thrown off.

Here’s an exercise: in your mind, have your best friend and your partner switch places. How do you treat your best friend? Do you give your friend healthy space, reasonable forgiveness and support for their dreams? Do you do the same for your partner? Creating a feeling of friendship between you and your partner is the easiest way to try to heal a failing relationship.

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LISA RENEE: “Psychic Self Defense: Superimpositional Forces” (Part 6/8)

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Superimpositional Forces

Dear Family,

This Week 6 of the Psychic Self Defense Series continues with the topic of – Superimpositional forces upon a Human Energy Field or in simpler terms, an unprovoked energy drain or attack by another. This is a dicey subject matter to language and therefore I making my best attempt to bring some intelligibility to comprehending such phenomena within the ethereal worlds. The point is this series is intended to inform and provoke thought, never to evoke fear. Utilize this information for your empowerment.

To continue this topic over the next weeks, we must intend to explore with neutrality, intuitive discernment and an open mind. As from the perception of an “investigative reporter” motivated to gain greater knowledge of the truths and the complexities that we ARE, and how that “mechanism” of our energetic existence interacts within the dynamics of our world.    Every cell, every pore of our energy field is held within an immense layering of other fields that connects us all to each other and to the even vaster levels of a” Unified Field” of all creation. We are One with the Universe and All creation, as It is One with Us. Nothing we do, think or create is separate.
Most of the negative interference we are dealing with in our lives is caused from us not comprehending our energy fields (our minds and bodies), how they work, and consequently this causes an imbalance in our ability to live in harmony with the natural laws. The “natural laws” (or universal laws) are really a way to explain that our reality is governed by fundamental truths that are energetic laws to which we are bound, by virtue of incarnating into the physical realm. When we understand and live within those laws, harmony prevails and our lives become released of obstacles and suffering. At that moment of self realization we may now begin to recognize that we are actually “creators” with an amazing opportunity to experience our physical manifestations and interact with them. This allows us to become more fully self / soul actualized when we have the capacity to express a passionate joy enabling us to participate fully in our conscious co-creations in the world. We now can begin to experience unlimited consciousness opportunity in a world of form.

I am a definite proponent of integration, balance and understanding the mechanism of the human ego. As we go further delving into discussion of such matters, there is a danger of the ego falling into various pitfalls of projection, blame, fear or victim-hood. The greatest psychic self defense is the shield created from a position of personal “god- self” power and psycho-emotional mastery. This is one reason we teach the 12D shield. Since we are Spirit having a physical experience, the polarization we experience in the emotional spectrum as humans makes this a slippery slope of finding energetic balance and making micro-adjustments. This is where the borders of realities, illusion and delusion may blend and there is a need to have grounded support system and gain guidance through our transitions. We are beginning our ascent to higher frequency bands of consciousness that will integrate us on a pathway to become multi-dimensional human beings. This is the process of “Ascension” of which we are fully underway and that will be continuing to accelerate. I have begun this series as a tool for you to gather information before it happens so that you may smoothly integrate your process. To be mentally prepared and empowered with this knowledge will create a much smoother process for the human ego experiencing these transformational energies.

Self examination, meditation and inquiry is tantamount to the exploration of our inner secrets and god’s mysteries being revealed through us. This revelation is our divine inheritance leading us to Self Sovereignty, a lifetime free of suffering and blindness.

And so the examination continues.

Superimpositions or Unprovoked Energy Attack

Specifically directed spiritual attacks is a more rare occurring phenomena to the general populace, however it is worth having a comprehension of the various levels and possibilities. In my experience the more energetically sensitive or consciously developed a human being is,( as that is reflected in the energy field of the lightbody of that person multi-dimensionally), the energy field of that person is more vulnerable to superimpositional energy from a variety of sources. We will start with a general look into karmic manipulation although it has the possibility to manifest at many different levels and scenarios. This may take our newsletter series into a book, as there is so much material to cover within these areas, to further investigate and discuss.

This is an area one must gradually explore at your own pace as appropriate to what you can process or handle.  This has been a challenging topic for me as I inherently tended to be in conflict with the idea that there are unprovoked attacks by negative interference perpetrated by a form of “evil”.  Many advanced healers and light workers refuse to believe that this dark force exists in the other dimensions and psychic world. Denying acceptance of negative interference is possibly the ego’s way of creating a defense mechanism. It all may feel too much to integrate in addition to the various demands we experience in third dimensional life on earth.  However, denying their existence does not stop these dark force energies, events and attacks from happening.

In the beginning of my awakening process, in building my light bodies and communing with various beautiful light beings and members of the spiritual hierarchy, I completely refused to think or believe there was “evil” and that most of what is perceived as evil was the ignorance of the human collective mass mind of low vibrational thoughts. I believed that this type of negativity did not have a “consciousness” intentionally to harm others but that it was seeking more impersonal balancing of karma through natural laws. As this is accurate in some cases, I have learned through my own experience that this is not always true.

Once you experience dark force attacks you are forced to deal with the event and your belief systems surrounding it. There is a fine line of balance that one must maintain between cultivating the knowledge of such matters to learn how to protect oneself and remain in a neutral association devoid of all judgment and emotional charge. Clarity in these matters is challenging, as outside of linear space and time our conscious mind does not function as an indicator and you are left with your intuitive knowingness, your team guidance and verifying your experience by testing it over and over again. Relearning to connect to the innate divine intelligence of the universe takes practice and further practice to regain confidence and trust in your new sense perception. This is why comprehension of your energy field, developing a still mind through meditation and finding balance to work on integrating all of your bodies energy fields is extremely important. (The process of Integrated Ascension) When you are in a state of psycho-emotional imbalance it is increasingly difficult to maintain clarity in fearless detachment. To increase your ability to understand your lightbody (bio-energy mechanics) in this world and to be archetypally integrated and grounded in the Earth will assist you tremendously in achieving self mastery.

Why is this important? Negative interference and psychic attack causes harm and energetic blockages.  It blocks the self determining aspects of your life, blocks free will and obstructs your ability to manifest your life purpose. Obsessive negative thinking, illness, depression, physical pain and fatigue and a life filled with fear can all be directed by dark forces and unhealed aspects of your ego.

An example of a negative interference is a ‘Karmic Manipulation’, when some other person or entity consciously or unconsciously sends karmic energy to you that is not personally yours and not of your ancestors’. Negative manipulation is any act of coercion on any level that takes away the act of personal consent. It can manifest as nuisances to create more havoc in the life of another. We each have the right to transcend and purify any karmic entanglement or consciousness pain trap (also referred to as miasma in our cellular bodies and energy templates). Without spiritual clearing, it will just keep returning to you in order to seek energetic balance. At certain points in human evolution only the person or lineage that generated the karma could release it. However during this time of Ascension, we are granted many dispensations and new knowledge to heal ourselves , transforming and transcending karmic patterns in our bodies templates, group template bodies, planetary and collective bodies and so forth.  However, when there are certain negative interferences there is another process that may prove helpful when you have exhausted other clearing techniques within your bodies in regards to miasmatic patterns, such as cord cutting. If it is determined that a karmic/entity manipulation has taken place, especially if its been intended to stop you from manifesting your soul purpose of service work into the world, there is an additional process. If you determine the source of dark force interference, it is possible to request and enforce a “ban of non interference” which will ban them from intruding or manipulating upon your energy field.

As part of your regular intents with your 12D shield, you can include: “I command True Spiritual Law in all interactions. All manipulated karma is null and void”. This will help stop this sort of negative interaction from intruding upon your energy field again.

This type of issue is far more likely to what spiritually aware people are feeling in their energy fields at this time, especially as they increase in vibration. However, there are times that deliberate negative attacks or curses that are made towards others by people who do not understand the laws of karma.

An example of a dynamic of this issue would be a hostile threat received from a religiously indoctrinated person that has a belief and judgment that all healers using light as a healing tool are serving satanic forces. This person justified through their religious belief decides to have a personal vendetta targeting one healer in particular and continually sends negative thoughts, threats of curses in the hopes the healer will be incapacitated. Maybe this person goes to their church prayer group to hold prayers to move this healer away from their community, as they feel this person poses a threat to their idea of a relationship to God. If the healer is not aware of the need to scan and clear their energy field and/or develop tools of protection, there is a high potential risk for the healer to develop drained vitality or negative interference with their work.

Also, persons attracted to the glamour and idea of witchcraft, occultism or satanic ritual that cast spells for personal benefit without understanding intention or caring where these spells go, they are manipulating the free will of another, or even harming others.

A spell or curse is a form of intent that sends out a negative thought form, harmful entity or pattern. It could be to the universe, to the Earth or nature kingdoms or to another person. Before sending anything out to another person – even if it is seemingly for their own good – you need the permission of that person either directly or indirectly via your higher self and theirs. If you have permission to send them love and healing then this will also return to you as all things must come to equilibrium. Equally, if you send out hate, manipulation and pain to another it will return to you, whether they are aware of it or not.

Using manipulation to achieve results for selfish motives does not contribute to inner peace or spiritual growth, but in fact will increase only the lower entities drawn to you, causing more negativity to appear in your life.

For those on the receiving end of such manipulations, there is energetic recourse. Determine with your higher self or spiritual guide for clarity if it is a spell or curse as the issue if you suspect someone doing this towards you. It may be also that the carrying over of such spells and curses from your ancestors has occurred from a time when this was far more common in society.

Again, the natural process of your spiritual growth and rising vibration will bring these things to the surface to be released. As you reach deeper layers of release and achieve energetic balance, keeping the energy field clear, clean and protected should prevent these things from taking hold again and make them easier to prevent and clear if they do reoccur.

Lightworkers especially will be exposed to other’s negative ego and other dark attacks as they rise to greater leadership position and spiritual responsibility. The first lesson is not to react to attacks and lower your vibration by sinking to that level. Remain neutral, detached, forgiving and loving, striving to maintain divine indifference.

Ground yourself, clear your field daily including whatever intentions you need to include and make a 12D protective shield around yourself. Begin to wean yourself off violent entertainment, gossip, media and negative emotional attachments to others. Intend to align to your authentic soul purposes and divine will. This will improve the quality of your life through daily experience with sensations of a much smoother, more enjoyable and spiritually connected life of synchronicity.

I am including a suggested invocation that addresses the Guardians and Councils, and the highest spiritual authority you feel aligned with for support and intervention of removing deliberate attempts of others to thwart you from your spiritual projects or life purpose.  Or, you may simply call upon your Higher God Self as the ultimate authority. This is to be addressed from a position of heart felt sincerity, higher self alignment and purity of intention. Be clear in your motivations before asking and be sure you address them with reverence and respect.

Ban of Non Interference

Prepare your 12th Dimensional Light Shield.

We Ask The Guardians, our Higher God Selves, Evolution Support Teams, Starseed Identity Matrix, aligned to the Law of One Mission to work together for the highest capacity of exchange of GOD’s infinite light, love and power in divine right order and harmony.

Please Open the 12th Dimensional Vortex in counter clockwise motion into full expansion in the Maharata Force Of Platinum Light, Grid this Space entirely in the 12th Dimensional Pale Silver Light. Set the Spin Accordingly, Calibrate, Anchor Lock and Seal in this Hologram. North South East West – Earth- Sky : We direct the Four Corners to Be Sealed in the Light of Unity and Oneness. We Are Impenetrable and Invincible.  We ask the Guardian Gatekeepers to Anchor this Space Sacred in Service to the Law of One of which We Serve.

Request the intelligent presence of the Laws of Karma if aligned to the Cosmic Sovereign law (that you have stated your representation)  serving the planetary purposes.

Request a Ban on Non-interference to be placed as protection for yourself, your operation, your books/ projects. Do this request one at a time for each person or entity you have determined is creating negative interference in your life’s work. Request this person be reported to the Higher Councils and/or Karmic Laws while removing any and all superimposed influences upon you. Ask if there is any agreement or vow you have made with this person/entity in any of your lifetimes. If you get a “Yes” answer, request that you want to be released from the contract permanently and aligned to your highest spiritual purpose removing all obstacles. If answer is “No” continue the request that this person/entity be appropriately shut off through the ban from any further contact to influence your energy field or consciousness, removing all sabotage influence and reviewed appropriately in Cosmic Sovereign Law.

Thank the Guardians, Councils and Spiritual Masters for their consideration and close your contact with them.

Next we will get more specific about Forces resistant to your lightwork, healing work or conscious support of Ascension. This includes all those persons intending to increase or build planetary evolution at this timeline. We will also define the term “starseed” soul and why they are vulnerable at this time.

Stay within the light and path of your soul, ignite the power of the eternal light within YOU!
Love, Lisa
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LISA RENEE: Psychic Self Defense: Karma” (Part 5/8)

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Karma

The Psychic Self Defense Series continues with the exploration of the topic of Karmic Return. This Ascension cycle has much energy seeking balance and clearing, much of this is sourcing from ancestor lineage and other lifetime experiences. How does Karma make one feel psychically attacked? We will discuss more of karma and its effect upon us, especially now!

Karmic Return

Many of the things that happen to people in their lives, which they may presume are attacks or bad luck, are in fact cycles of karma returning to be balanced. The basic law of karma states as what you sow is what you reap, what you put out comes back to you. This is the Universal Law of cause and effect. The interesting thing about Karma is that it extends over many lives. For a long time on Earth and due to the shortened life spans and the lack of awareness of humanity, karma tended to carry over into many future lives. This compounded the problem, as future selves were unaware of this carried-over karma and unwittingly added more. Many incarnates see themselves as ‘victims’ of whatever has transpired in their lives thinking they had done nothing to deserve bad luck or problems. In fact many of these events are simply lifetime lessons to achieve and gain more self mastery, self realization and soul growth. Many times the energies of karma are administered impersonally, as it is directly linked to the way natural laws of energy behave in that dimension and the human beings energy field of consciousness ( as incarnated) that houses every instruction set and soul agreement for that lifetime and the karmic influence of other lifetimes. By virtue of the simple mechanics of the operation of the dimensional laws, the human being is subject to those laws and plugged into that energy as soon as the body is birthed into physical manifestation at that level. That means the soul planned its incarnational karmic contracts and aspired to resolve and transcend that karmic instruction set in its lifetime for various purposes of evolution.

 

To describe a few of the different levels and layers of karma, at the personal level it is what you have personally set into motion with your own consciousness. At the group level it has many layers of what you choose to be born into as a group with race, genetics, religious affiliation and so forth. At a national level it is what demographic and country you are born into and experience its influences upon your lifetime. At the planetary level, it is the particular school called Earth of which many lessons and experiences are provided. You must deal with planetary karma at the phase of history or timeline you are born into. It can be said all these layers of karma are personal to you as the soul chooses these factors before coming into each incarnation.

Now as we reach an end cycle of creation, the time of “Ascension”, the karma “buck” has stopped, as Earth is on her return journey upwards in vibration. All species who are accompanying Earth in the transition through the ‘Ascension’ – including all of humanity – must clear all the outstanding and unfinished karmic business. This means that any new karmic effect generated in this lifetime must now be cleared and balanced in this lifetime – not carried forward, and all ancestral karma that was left unfinished must now be cleared as well.

Are we responsible for our ancestor’s misdemeanors? Yes, we all are. We are genetically the sum total of our ancestors. We carry in our cells not only their physical attributes but their cellular memories, genetics and the karma that must be released and brought to balance. The great news is that we have many dispensations to clear karma and its entanglements via the Law of Grace, the forces of the divine grace of God. Choosing to experience this grace over karmic cause and effect for the sincere seeker is powerfully transformative and liberating.

Many humans are now also rising in vibration within their personal energy fields simultaneously with the Earth. This not only gives them a new intellectual interest in spiritual things, but will also awaken new understandings and new ways of viewing the world. The coming era is a balancing of energies within all structures in order to lay the foundation of new paradigms of human reality.

As humans increase in vibration, the ability to start touching on new vibrational bandwidths that can be accessed to release information and memories, thoughts and feelings that previously you were not aware of, is made available. This may start as a remembering of previous lifetimes, or feeling the pain, panic or love from these ancestral memories. If you are unaware of where these emotions or sensations are coming from, you may perceive they are external to you and if the feeling or thoughts are unfamiliar, you may think someone else is sending them to you.

Much of what the currently awakening spiritual people feel is not actually psychic attack from the outside, but karmic release and integration from the inside. This is where being able to pendulum or muscle test can help you pinpoint where these impulses and feelings are coming from and then how best to treat it.

So what is the best way to address this ancestral karma? Most of the time it is the best choice to simply go with the flow, surrender and let it release out through you. It is important to find detached awareness that allows you to observe these events as much as possible, without judgment or over involvement personally. Much of the time you do not have to live through each detail or process it consciously. You are acting as the living conduit to release and balance those energies held in your ancestral lineage. Many of us at this time of the shift into ascension have taken this on as a soul contract and have incarnated with strong intent to serve this purpose in humanity’s evolution. Some of these energies may take longer to release than others, and you may encounter them again cyclically as you move up through the higher vibrational bandwidths of consciousness. People and circumstances will return to you to be integrated at the higher octave of frequency or resolved of conflict and healed. Cord cutting techniques as described in the previous newsletter may be especially helpful in these circumstances. Moving through the planes of consciousness means you are integrating more aspects of self existing in several timelines and dimensional spaces to become an even greater whole of creation. You may experience sensations of no-time (voids) or of time manipulation, moving further back through time or acceleration into a future time. Dreaming experiences during sleep time during this phase of our evolution may be rather intense as our being and guidance utilizes the subconscious and astral states to release and clear a lot of accumulated debris over lifetimes.

It appears overwhelming as it sounds like a lot of work to do, but we are sharing this task by large with everyone and everything on the planet. You are physically and energetically related to hundreds of thousands of other humans sitting at various bandwidths of vibration who are currently helping to balance and release this karma as well. It is just that many of them are not aware that they are doing it by the very essence of their existence and lifetime. With your conscious awareness, you are also in a position to have your ancestors help you through the karmic releasing. When they have finished releasing their karma, it is possible to invite them to merge their gifts and talents with your energy field and you’ll discover new interests as well as make your process more enjoyable.

Additionally, there is a small group of humans akin and to be known as the “mapmakers” who have been intimately involved with the planetary evolution and have been working hard over the last several years to keep ahead of the human vibrational increase and release and heal the really serious karma so that humanity has a safe roadmap to follow as they ascend. Sometimes I refer to my light worker family as the “cosmic filtration” system, which is not unlike its literal interpretation!

More about Karma

Possibly there may be other, more direct karma returning from things that you have done consciously or unconsciously in this lifetime or immediate past or parallel lives. It does not matter if you do not remember the event, or that it does not return in the same way it was sent. The laws of karma are energetically balanced and seek to resolve and reconcile always.

Karma is not a person or god figure sitting in judgment of you. It is an impersonal energetic force that flows and must come to be balanced before it can move on. What flows in one direction will also flow in another direction before it comes to balance. Unconscious karma may, for example, be repaid in the unconscious (it may be remembered in a dream) and not played out on the physical plane. Once karma has been released, let it go with love and forgiveness and it will not need to repeat. You will also find yourself experiencing a sensation of being ‘lighter’ of heart and vibration and able to move up in bandwidth once the old karma and patterns are no longer holding you back.

The word “karma” has been associated with an event that is considered negative or bad, the idea you must suffer because of a soul lesson has not been learned. Transcending suffering by calling in the law of grace and surrendering to your spiritual connection and receiving it’s support is a huge step towards tapping into divine states of peace and serenity. It brings with it the acceptance of allowing the divine will and wisdom to permeate your life making life experience much more enjoyable. I truly wish to offer another perspective which eases the ego’s tendency to personalize and overwhelm the emotional body with understanding more about the purpose of life challenges and its relationship to karmic energies.

Until next time, keep yourself balanced between the horizontal and vertical worlds.

Blessings,
Lisa Renee

 

 

 

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