MATEO SOL: “6 Ways You Hinder Your Self-Growth Without Knowing It”

Our “self-esteem” is a very delicate illusion. We are so off-centered when it comes to locating the origin of our self-worth, that the smallest realization of an imperfection in ourselves can bring up all kinds of insecurities.

When a person begins working with their soul, they will start through self-exploration to gain energy, vitality, and clarity. They will also, however, notice the ‘shock’ of beginning to see their own unconscious selves and their deep inner fragmentation (e.g: all your sub-personalities).

These contradictions within ourselves that speak of who we truly are beyond the social and cultural conditioning in our lives, are humbling, but more importantly, they can also be disturbing. If we were to discover and consciously become aware of all these contradictions at once, the shock would be so great we would most likely go insane.

Our brains have a limited capacity to process all the intellectual and sensory information that we encounter at any given moment, and because of this the unconscious mind exists. In essence, the unconscious mind is a psychological “buffer” which is a part of the brain that stores all the unprocessed information the conscious mind can’t handle.

The unconscious mind works as a shock-absorber, and in psychology this is known as a “defense mechanism”. There are an infinity of defense mechanisms going on within us at any given moment, but these are some of the most common I’ve observed in our practices:

Innocent Bystander

One of the greatest hindrances in anybody’s journey of self-growth is to fool themselves into thinking they haven’t done anything wrong. This may be why the recovering addict’s first step is to acknowledge they have a problem. Most people live in denial or avoidance of exploring themselves because it keeps them from properly recognizing their more unsavory traits and capacities.

“The world is screwed up but I’m completely guilt free” is their basic outlook on life. They refuse to see the interconnection between their actions and lifestyle with the external world around them.

Innocent Critic

This defense mechanism is very similar to the Innocent Bystander, only this one avoids guilt by actively criticizing the world and people around them. Criticizing is our way of rebelling against society and wanting to find a way out, of wanting to be outside of the ‘herd’ while still feeling a sense of false participation.

Critical thought is a necessary instrument in any persons self-growth. But often these “critics” use critical thinking as way of boosting their ego, to feel smarter than the ‘herd’ who haven’t realized what the critic has. Unfortunately, noticing what’s wrong with the state of affairs of the world isn’t enough unless you actively apply a solution to the problem. It’s the essential difference between the paths of self-discovery and self-understanding.

Suppression

Unquestionably, a major obstacle in living a fulfilling life to the maximum of your potential is your inability to be authentic to yourself (it’s the key element in Self-Love). All too often we live with an inner tension of controlling desires that we fear will be socially unacceptable. Let’s say you like a movie or a song that you know your friends don’t like, or maybe you are attracted to someone you know everyone will disapprove of, so you suppress that feeling.

The suppression won’t make the feeling go away, in fact, what happens is that you might be so good at suppressing the feelings that your unconscious mind learns to switch between your authentic self (“I like this person or thing”) to your false sub-personality (“I don’t like the person or thing anymore”).

In the end, the unconscious defense mechanism of “suppression” is protecting you from experiencing confusion as to whether you like something or not by jumping from one extreme to the other. Not only does suppression hinder your self-growth, but it can also contribute towards emotional, psychological and physical repression resulting in a host of sicknesses.

Repression

Repression differentiates from suppression in one important way. While suppression is initially a conscious process of having a desire and learning to avoid or ignore is, repression is an entirely unconscious process.

For example, you might have had a traumatizing experience as a child that unconsciously affected your feelings towards whatever the experience involved. This unconscious defense mechanism basically serves to protect you from feeling pain or other difficult emotions connected to the memories of what is being repressed.

Sometimes, religious beliefs or social conditioning can be so strong that desires that would normally be consciously suppressed (such as sexuality for instance), become automatically unconsciously repressed. You don’t even become aware of what exactly were the desires of your original authentic self, and this makes you completely out of touch with your true self. This self-denying defense mechanism makes it very difficult to learn and cultivate Self-Love.

Reactive Extremes

In psychology the technical term is “reactive formation”, and this is something you’ll observe everywhere. The nature of the unconscious mind is that it requires absolute certainties — it needs to see the world in black or white. There is no grey, or “in between”.

Many people who had a very strict religious upbringing for example, grow older and become disillusioned with the dogmatic ideas they’ve been taught. These people unconsciously find atheism a very attractive option, and become fanatical anti-God advocates, almost dogmatically. Another example of a reactive extreme is the person who finds it difficult to deal with, or understand, other people, and as a reaction decides to become a hermit and go live in the mountains.

Going to reactive extremes can also be illustrated in the case of sour grapes (or the false pretense that we don’t care for something we really do care for, which can be illustrated in the Fox and the Grapes fable). In this situation, our unconscious mind realizes that we are fixated on a certain topic so it protects us by going from one extreme to the other, e.g. from love to hatred.

Blameless Victim

I’m sure we’ve all come across an angry victim of life, someone who blames other people or the world for their difficulties. But everyone uses blame as a defense mechanism to some extent. In truth, what we’re defending ourselves from is our own responsibility for dealing with the unpleasant experience we’ve been given.

To indulge in blame is to give up personal responsibility and mentally delegate it to someone else, convincing ourselves that we are not responsible for the state of our lives, instead blaming it on some “outside force”. The blameless victim mechanism blocks us from seeing clearly just how we are contributing to our own suffering.

Essentially, the blameless victim is one of the fiercest protectors of our ego. It causes us to feel that we’re never failing ourselves, or that we lack the maturity or strength to come to terms with the reality of the situations we’re confronted with. Whatever happened is not evidence of our own inadequacy, but of someone else’s.

Have you observed any defense mechanisms in yourselves or in others? Let me know in the comments below!

 

~via Wake-UpWorld.com

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LISA RENEE (Energetic Synthesis): “Compelling Changes”

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“One of the most common ego defense mechanisms used to avoid personal accountability or responsibility is to become upset, blaming others, assuming untruths or to have an emotional tantrum.  When a person goes into tantrum mode or has an outburst, obviously, they can no longer effectively handle the matter.  They have gone “unconscious”.  When a person goes unconscious and engages in tantrums, they are now fodder for dark and negative energies in the near vicinity.  Many people that are not in control over their impulses or emotional reactions are dark portal people, and are used for “jumping” possessions.  Emotional tantrums or derailing the topic at hand are common ego defenses to avoid facing the truth in the matter and to avoid any attention being placed upon the person’s accountability for their actions.  It’s a diversion tactic made by the unconscious or conscious personality that refuses to take responsibility for their behaviors, actions or the harm they cause others.  This is done by simply tuning someone out, spin-doctoring the truth to create confusion, or by having a mental conversation while someone is attempting to point out how you could have assumed greater responsibility for personal actions.”  

~Lisa Renee 

 

During the bifurcation cycle, the planetary body is gradually undergoing subatomic shifting in the lower fields of the particle structure, which forces collapse in lower dimensions and rolls them up, as the entities are transited out and the leftover energies merge with the next octave of higher harmonic frequencies. As a result, the point in time and space where the planetary body is located, and the time continuum in which we exist as a collective consciousness, is being moved up the harmonic scale. Therefore, the collective consciousness is also shifting and the current station of identity that exists in a certain time and space location is also being shifted, to better align with the planetary body. That means that many people are undergoing deep and powerful transitions, and are intensely impacted by the magnetic changes that redirect how the energy fields, such as ley lines, are aligning to a higher frequency space-time. This acts as a personal trigger event in the future timeline for certain groups of people, who will experience radical life changes moving them into new environments, consciousness transformations, and even exiting this plane entirely. We are at a fork in the road which will compel us into new directions, or exits. During this current planetary transition, we are co-existing within evolutionary stages of accretion of new cosmic frequencies into the planetary matrices. Rather than stay on the planet to integrate those next generation frequencies, some people and animals have chosen this phase of time to leave. A rebalancing of the magnetic field is occurring, and this changes how we ground into the earth, how we interface with the earth, and if we are able to work with the planet, rather than against her, as she rebalances sections of her body.  Humanity must remember how to live in harmony with nature, and to co-exist in harmony with creation.

Those of us on the ascending path have already made this consciousness shift beforehand, while we are coexisting on the planet with many people that are still maintaining the lower energies that descend with the third dimensional timelines. So the split in the timelines and frequency schism are existing in parallel to each other, yet each person that represents either the upward or downward momentum of the energetic spiral, is actually located at a different point in the timeline. Their station of identity is located at a different point in the time space continuum. Over the past 60 days, the planet entered its annual cycle of increasing the frequency split that exists between the most extreme polarities that co-exist within dimensional spaces. The accumulation of progressively increasing frequency being integrated into the overall planetary field, is what shifts us into higher frequency dimensions. When the movement into higher dimensions of frequency occurs in the next higher octave level, it creates a great impact in the overall fundamental (base) frequency on earth. The overall base frequency is also the coordinate location of a fixed point in a time and space field. So when the base frequency changes, so does time and space. This base frequency is comprised from the lowest frequency strings which are resonating in any kind of energy field, whether it is a human aura, or a group aura, organizational energy field or the multiple layers of energy within the unified planetary field.  All of those combined fields of resonating energy are potentially averaged into an overall base frequency. Where the base frequency is resonating is the location at a fixed point in time, which is the value that determines the range of possibilities of that energy field (as a person, place or thing) in the momentum of forces which direct future timelines.

The magnetic shift in base tone frequency sets to impact the dark matter template in the earth, which has greatly increased ascension symptoms that put pressure on the physical body. Many people may feel exhausted by the changes that are effecting metabolism and the endocrine system, as well as, the nervous system and brain. Magnetic changes that are this pronounced result in experiences of nervous system exhaustion, changes in sleep pattern, disorientation with time bubbles, shifts in metabolic functions, as the body attempts to recover its homeostatic balance in daily functioning.

Additionally, as the global brain shifts its magnetic structure, this means our general world perception; world views and values are shifting and many people are being deconstructed and extracted from the collective consciousness base frequency that exists in the 3D. This 3D base collective energy is what we can observe reflected in the fragmented chaos and severe disconnection that currently dominates the entire worldscape. The quality of frequency reflected from the collective energy field shapes most people’s world views and belief systems, influences the world perception into a dominate culture, and the dominate culture reinforces values which are reflected in the personal choices that people make. Unless humanity breaks away from the dominate culture of the Archontic Deception, changes its world view and starts to make different choices, the overall quality of frequency in that collective field remains stagnant or descends into polarity force explosions. The Bifurcation of Time is forcing a direction which will accelerate volatile change in people that are energetically stagnant or are connected to the descending forces. This change in the nature of timelines pushes humanity to makes choices from the mental attitudes that have been formed from the world view perception and level of consciousness they have now. Thus, the choice is made between the negative ego layers or the spiritualized higher self, based on which alternate is in control of the overall energetic aura and physical body. Many people are having sudden physical issues that are personal messages being given from their higher self, as a spiritual wake up call.

Many humans on the earth are indifferent to their spiritual growth, or are unable to discern the world of forces that are impacting the environment, as they are exposed to heavy mind control.  Therefore, under mind control they are more susceptible to become consubstantial (of the same substance in consciousness) with the Imposter Spirit forces who use the negative ego to lure people to become complicit and connected with them. As a result, the higher consciousness identities of people have taken the position of spiritual crisis in order to wake up their counterpart on the material plane, which usually appears as sudden and radical lifestyle changes that act as a spiritual catalyst. The body is a harmonic resonator, whatever consciousness force we identify with, is what we will resonate with, and the same frequency substance is generated into our aura which creates the personal sphere of consciousness. Whatever energy we hold in our aura, that energy is then brought into the physical realm as a conduit of expression made through the human body. Thus, the higher spiritual consciousness is trying to get people’s attention in order to communicate with the spiritual realms, so they can help to increase the base frequency that is in the aura of that person or group.

As a person or group identify their own ego/personality to connect with a certain group of collective forces, they become connected with them energetically, thus, aligned to that group consciousness and its mental body schema or mental map. Academic reality, Medical reality, Atheistic reality, Religious reality, etc., all have their own reality bubbles that are formed from the mental map that is generated from the group’s consensus or consciousness agreement. Therefore, the person or group becomes a primary vehicle for that force or gestalt of consciousness that carries out that quality of mind, and then demonstrates that quality of thought into the physical realm.

At this time, whatever force we become identified with, we will become fixed with and potentially consubstantial. Our elemental body will undergo forms of alchemical change, which relate to our consciousness shift, either ascending or descending. If our mind is identified with the Imposter spirit, our body will become consubstantial with it and embody that force. This will harden our heart and close our mind. If our mind is identified with our inner Christ spirit, the body will become consubstantial with that and purify and cleanse itself to embody that force.  This will soften our heart while opening our mind to higher consciousness and is the best alignment for our future timeline.

Sanity vs. Insanity

The recent magnitude of stellar explosions and concentrated solar flare impacts to the magnetic field have consequences in the global brain and collective consciousness. Thus, impacting the individual human brain through a variety of factors that will either reorganize thoughts into coherently integrated patterns (sanity), or collapse thoughts into disjointed and fragmented chaos (insanity). This cycle is leading us to the choice point of holding sanity or insanity as thought-forms, and we must choose. The state of mind we choose leads to personal patterns of energetic influence. Depending on our thought-forms we will either be protected or bombarded from the collective behaviors that are manifested from collective forces in the environment. Our personal state of mind will reflect how those collective forces of chaos impact us or not. Can you hold peace in the chaos?  Sanity is defined as remaining mentally open and mentally flexible, while choosing spiritually healthy behaviors, thoughts and attitudes.

Insanity is defined as shutting down into robotic and mentally rigid beliefs of spiritually abusive behaviors, thoughts and attitudes. Mental rigidity leads to mental breakdowns and nervous system damage that will manifest into a variety of levels of dissociation, which potentially lead to psychotic break. Psychotic break is created from extreme traumatic stress or pain placed on the body, brain and nervous system.

Through recent change in the Law of Structure, during the bifurcation of time, this routes group consciousness into aligning with various stations in the timeline. These stations make further conjunctions into specific corridors of time. This poses a great challenge on the surface of our planet as well as for all of humanity. The transformation in the instruction sets of DNA messaging made to the cell for long term information storage is transpiring at the individual, collective and planetary levels of consciousness. Long term information and cellular records are the equivalent of memories. All memories in which we identify as a human; with a race, with a religion, with a history, or whatever our accumulated beliefs may be, are undergoing alteration. In the functioning brain, to access short-term memory, is in fact to access the accumulated behaviors that were recorded in a vast assembly of nerve cells and their associated molecules in the body.

This time represents the true energetic reality behind the surface façade making its contents known to us, simultaneously, as there is a stripping of the wheat from the chaff. Humanity is in a process of identifying the source of our values, ethics, and priorities in life.  For real change to occur, people need to make different choices in familiar situations. Since what we value in life is represented in our all our choices, this means people need to undergo a shift in values. That consciousness shift includes the re-education to human values rather than propagating anti-human values. For a values shift to occur in the world, people’s world-view, self context and myopic perception must change to include a larger overview. The awareness of the great fraud being perpetrated as the Archontic Deception through the Negative Alien Agenda (N.A.A.) is an integral part of finding that clarity that is required for the world view to shift.

This requires the consistent development of greater responsibility to the behaviors we choose when we interact with others and how we interact in group consciousness. In many cases, our personal responsibility lies with where we are required to place firm boundaries with people who do not recognize unethical or destructive behaviors and have no desire to stop these behaviors.  For many, there is no more personal room for emotionally unstable people to have further access to us, when they do not want to evolve beyond those behaviors. This current shift that is happening in relationships, may ignite old feelings of abandoment and betrayal, which are the core seed fears that all humans have.

GSF Behavior – Responsibility: Accepting responsibility is being able to own your own emotional conflicts without blame, guilt or projection upon another person, by needing to make it their fault. We should not assume that we know anything about that person that can be judged for that which you cannot see or really know, as you have not walked in their shoes. When feeling upset, it is our responsibility to restore balance to our heart and aura, by lovingly holding boundaries without violating others boundaries, by expecting them to resolve your conflicts. Be willing and open to learn what the real issues are that are generating the conflicts, which most of the time, are not what you think it is. Going deeper and reflecting on forgiveness of yourself and others, allowing time to emotionally process, neutralizes the tension or conflict. Learning how to become responsible and accepting Self-Responsibility, is a major step of productive Negative Ego clearing.  We are accountable to our actions and accept responsibility for our words, commitments and energies and how this impacts others. We are realistic and dependable only committing to that which we are capable, and are genuinely sincere. We are aware of how our language and behavior impacts others, the environment and act humbly. We are conscientious in everything that has our energy stamp and recognize to create quality in our life and with appropriate value exchanges. Quality is a byproduct of our energetic responsibility and commitment to develop integrity in everything we do.

Many people confuse Responsibility and Accountability as being one in same. In the practical reality, they are character traits that are more like two sides of the same coin. Being accountable has more to do than just giving up certain Ego Defense Mechanism behaviors, such as negative beliefs, attitudes, and manipulations to get what you want. Some people think they are being accountable when they are just making an effort to behave or relate to others in a different way. This is to say a person who just says what they think people want to hear, is not being responsible nor accountable to their personal behavior. Being responsible is being willing to tell the truth authentically from the heart and by addressing personal conflicts and issues, honestly and with kindness.

One of the most common ego defense mechanisms used to avoid personal accountability or responsibility is to become upset, blaming others, assuming untruths or to have an emotional tantrum. When a person goes into tantrum mode or has an outburst, obviously, they can no longer effectively handle the matter. They have gone “unconscious”. When a person goes unconscious and engages in tantrums, they are now fodder for dark and negative energies in the near vicinity. Many people that are not in control over their impulses or emotional reactions are dark portal people, and are used for “jumping” possessions. Emotional tantrums or derailing the topic at hand are common ego defenses to avoid facing the truth in the matter and to avoid any attention being placed upon the person’s accountability for their actions. It’s a diversion tactic made by the unconscious or conscious personality that refuses to take responsibility for their behaviors, actions or the harm they cause others. This is done by simply tuning someone out, spin-doctoring the truth to create confusion, or by having a mental conversation while someone is attempting to point out how you could have assumed greater responsibility for personal actions. People will only take responsibility for themselves when they decide they will, with an attitude adjustment. No one can force anyone else to make productive changes to be responsible for themselves, when they are unwilling to face the core truth of the matter.

 

 

 

 

~via EnergeticSynthesis.com – Time Shift Blog – October 25, 2016