LISA RENEE (Time Shift Blog): “Loving the Masculine”

“True balanced masculinity and authentic male-ness are healthy expressions very much needed in our ascending culture. They should be loved and appreciated to support the corrected example needed to grow healthy boys into healthy adult men that are emotionally mature, heart based and spiritually inclined. True benevolent patriarchy role models are based on a value system of truthful, balanced and Krystic males that is intrinsic in helping to serve and protect the values of personal freedom that are inherent in the main thoughtforms of the western culture. However, the same value system for upholding human rights, free speech and religious freedom are not the same as those held in the New World Order authoritarian rule or within the religions of many of the eastern cultures that promote patriarchal domination. These anti-human cultures run by lunar forces are currently vying for world domination in taking their position from the west, so they can be at the top of the pyramid of patriarchal control as the dominant global culture.”

~Lisa Renee

 

During the turbulent times of the planetary dark night of the soul, the patriarchal dominating culture appears to be heavily challenged in the west, through several mind control social experiments in the academic environments that are being implemented now to further capitalize on spreading human misery. Thus, there are current attempts being made through social engineering to intentionally emasculate and diminish the power inherently held in the male’s role in western society, as an action appearing to take down the patriarchy, but this is actually a complete fallacy.

True balanced masculinity and authentic male-ness are healthy expressions very much needed in our ascending culture. These masculine qualities should be loved and appreciated to support the corrected example that is needed to grow healthy boys into healthy adult men that have a strong core self, are emotionally mature, heart based and spiritually inclined.

True benevolent patriarchy role models are based on a value system of truthful, balanced and Krystic males that is intrinsic in helping to serve and protect the values of personal freedom that are inherent in the main thoughtforms of the western culture. However, the same value system for upholding human rights, free speech and religious freedom are not the same as those held in the New World Order authoritarian rule or within the religions of many of the eastern cultures that promote patriarchal domination. These anti-human cultures run by lunar forces are currently vying for world domination in taking their position from the west, so they can be at the top of the pyramid of patriarchal control as the dominant global culture. The tyrannical patriarchal rulers in the east are particularly misogynistic, and patiently waiting for the mass confusion of transgenderism, transhumanism, and misguided feminism to fully crush the masculine identity by labeling it as toxic, while eliminating the powerful roles of males in the west. Roles that in the past were protecting some semblance of democratic freedoms, for the purpose of protecting human rights to liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Although we no longer live in a democratic society, western ideology still claims on the surface that it has the intent along with an ethical duty to serve and protect the rights of all, especially those of women and children. The intent behind the belief in protecting personal freedoms such as free speech, is still powerful to deflect those tyrants who would relegate us to another stage of implemented world slavery.

The pathway to healing the Masculine is to first comprehend that all humans are energetic forms that contain both the male and female principles. There is no way to stop the fundamental energetic principles that we are made from, but when we are confused, we easily reject the gender principle that causes us the most internal suffering. As spiritual beings incarnated within a male body, the masculine principle is made visible and the body is a reflection of that energetic principle. The hidden principle inside a male body is the female aspect. Thus, the male has to find the less visible component of himself and learn how to communicate with his inner female parts. If he does not understand this female principle inside himself, he cannot communicate clearly with that internal aspect, and thus he is in pain and suffers greatly. Developing the female principle is necessary to communicate with feelings, sensory ability, higher consciousness and this supports a vertical connection with spiritual forces. Without comprehending the role of the male and female and honoring them equally, it is impossible to be spiritually whole.

This lack of understanding contributes to the wide schism of separation between the genders. This is how the NAA agenda has been accomplished through pushing the False King of Tyranny mind control archetypes, which are used to enforce the patriarchal domination of divide and conquer on the earth. If we believe the False King of Tyranny is the true and accurate definition of the male principle, we feed that gender archetype and reward it in the social systems that have been culturally shaped by the predator minds of the NAA, to accept aggression and violence as normal standards for men. In order to change masculine archetypes, we have to understand how we have accepted these values and thus enforce the False King of Tyranny archetypes in our own lifestyles. With this larger awareness, then we make a stronger effort to stop feeding and rewarding these aggressive and dominating behaviors in both men and women, especially in the workplace. We start modeling different behaviors for opening honest dialogues, removing winner-loser ideologies and cultivate more compassionate communication styles that help to foster more open emotional sharing. We need strong role models in leadership to start releasing all levels of 3D gender role expectations that exist solely to separate and alienate the sexes, focusing upon the quality of one’s character and personal merits and not on the personal choices one makes in alternative gender lifestyles.

Because the masculine principle has been socially conditioned and controlled to project overly mental or intellectualized states of being, it is common for males to reject their inner trauma and sweep under the rug deep feeling experiences. Men are socially programmed to reject their inner trauma and shut off deep sensory feelings and emotional processing. In the death culture where the False King of Tyranny reigns, they are penalized if they show too much emotion or if they are unwilling to become hypnotized into the addictive and driven states of the power mongering alpha male. Thus, many men do not know how to open their heart and access deep heart based feelings or even begin to describe what they are feeling. Many times, they may be completely unaware of what they are actually feeling about something, beyond the conditioning of base survival needs and instinctual reactions, like anger, lust, hunger and violence. (See Archontic Deception Behavior)

Shutting Down Heart Creates Violence

The False King of Tyranny program is used to completely shut down the heart and thus terminate the ability to access the deep expressions of sensory feeling, especially targeting boys and men. When we shut down the emotional feeling and sensory capacity, because it is not considered a strong masculine trait, we are cultivating emotional aberrance and inner violence in boys that grow up to be violent men. This is the terrain that spreads the False King of Tyranny archetypal forces, thus, more aggression and violence that fuels satanic forces on the earth. If we do not help our boys respect and accept their own inner female principle, taught to give healthy respect to emotions and intuitive sensory abilities, we are growing them into disconnected and angry adult men. Violence can be acted out and expressed inwardly and outwardly. However, the purposeful shutting down of aberrant accumulated emotions, and not allowing a way to express those pent up emotions in a healthy and cathartic way, eventually turns the inner blockages into outward manifestations of perversion and violence.

Males that cannot process negative emotions or cannot find a healthy outlet for inner trauma or tension, tend to involve themselves in assorted addictions, and destructive relationships which destroys the potentials for building intimacy and connection. This perpetuates the destructive cycle, which continually suppresses the emotional tension and adds an increasing amount of aberrant emotional energy that builds up to the point of inner explosion. When males explode into emotional tension, they can be involved in very destructive, violent and harmful actions where they lose control of their bodily actions and mind. When the emotional aberrance takes them over, they are easily used and manipulated by dark forces. When a male has embodied years of accumulated inner rage and violence, without an outlet or catharsis, he loses control over his mind and emotions, easily becoming an automaton. The majority of tragic events where guns are used to kill groups of random people, or even family members, share this pattern of unresolved deep mental and emotional problems. The statistics point to males that have no ability to cope with the internal stress and pressure they endure with these problems, so find relief from their inner anxiety through explosive tension and outward destruction. At this level, they have not been taught coping skills or ways to diffuse accumulated emotional tension or stress. This is the result of being exposed to continual traumatic experiences that they do not have the capacity nor awareness on how they can emotionally process the tension and let it go. All traumatic experiences and emotional conflicts are kept in our emotional body and energetically stored there, until we can resolve or release them in some way. Not helping people to process emotions in our society is the intentional creation of emotional ticking time bombs, many males are at the end of their fuse, ready to explode in rage at the least provocation. This is a primary goal of the NAA, is to incite rage in the public and bring males to their absolute breaking point, in order to carry out the most violent actions that involve killing and harming as many people as possible, and not feeling remorse or empathy, and further killing themselves in total despair and agony (broadcasting of suicidal thoughts). When the masculine has been tortured with levels of aggression and violence his entire life, and without finding an outlet or ability to heal through his own inner feminine principle, he remains a tortured and split soul.

When we refuse to take care of emotional processing or look at deeper feelings, we are ignoring the contents of our subconscious and conscious mind. When we are at an emotional breaking point from accumulated tension, the subconscious contents can come exploding to the surface awareness and can take control over our conscious mind and body. This is when we may observe a person who appeared sane and functioning in the day to day life, and yet, one day actually turns on a dime and goes on a killing spree. People are shocked and may say, “What happened to him he seemed like such a nice, and sane person”. When you push people hard enough to their breaking points without any support for a coping mechanism or positive outlet for stress, you can easily trigger that person to act out extensive destruction. That is exactly what the False King of Tyranny (FKoT) archetype and the western social standards for the majority of males is designed to do, take them to the edge of sanity. The lifestyle and gender role expectation is designed to create more chaos, destruction, and violence that brings people to their breaking point of mental and emotional fragmentation. The Controllers want slaves, they want the majority of the males to enforce the rules and feed the power into the control system or to completely self-destruct from unresolved inner violence. Most women are used differently, to enforce the reward system through manipulating sex with the males that obey the power and control system.

Masculine, What you Need to Know

Your mind can be your best asset or your worst enemy. Not every thought you have is important, and needs to be announced or acted upon. Focus your attention on what you are doing in this exact moment and stay present. Learn to observe thoughts without immediately assigning judgment, gathering more facts to exert control, or needing to resolve the problem. You do not need to solve every problem, it is more important to make the right choice for your destination moving forward. When you make the right decision for yourself, you make the right decision for others. How do you know which thought to act upon? Pay attention and observe where you are right now in the moment. Instead of acting upon every thought, or trying to assume what is going to happen, make the choice to tune into the best part of yourself now. Reinforce that belief in the best parts of your strengths and abilities, focus upon the finest parts of yourself. Each time you make the choice to ignore the loud ego broadcasts, it is easier to ignore the next one. Give yourself permission to drop deeper into your higher sensory abilities and feelings, and allow the space to show you what is possible without needing to act, control or fix the problem straight away. When your mind races from topic to topic and thinks in the past to future time very rapidly, you have little concentration, poor memory, and no present-moment awareness. This wastes your precious life force, scatters your focus and takes you on the wild goose chase to a dead end. The energy of control will exhaust your body and it is counterproductive to being guided to your true destination and the ability to feel peace on the journey.

Learn the skill of observer consciousnesses and pay attention to when you tip over into states of imbalance that take the mind or body into unhealthy negative states of mental looping, worry, inner or outer violence or addiction. Comprehending the balance point between the masculine energy and feminine energy, while knowing that this skill set gives you incredible strength and advantages to resolve life’s problems, is key to allowing more development of inner feminine energy. It is important to know that developing and balancing the inner feminine with the inner masculine does not weaken you, but actually strengthens you in every way possible, it is a secret you have not been told that allows you to function at much higher levels in every area of your life.

Masculine Keynotes

Mental

Active, doing

Mental, intellectual

Analytical, methodical

Driven, striving

Left Brain

Assertive, confident

Logical, rational

Controlling, directing

Break down, dissect

Feminine Keynotes

Emotional

Beingness, presence

Emotional, feelings

Intuitive, perceptive

Peaceful, tranquil

Right Brain

Receptive, willing

Creative, imaginative

Allowing, permitting

Synthesizing, blending

Art of Surrender

Surrendering to what is, allows the natural flow to be expressed to resolve life’s problems. It is not our egos job to solve the world’s problems. Problems can resolve when we give up fighting against the natural flow of life. Surrender means to stop fighting with yourself. Stop fighting the Universe and the natural flow of things by pushing against reality. Surrender is not about inaction. It is learning when to take action from that place of Surrender, while in the natural flow of life.

  • What are you afraid will happen if you give up control and surrender? Pinpoint the fear driving the control reaction and see if that fear is really valid. Then face that fear, find ways to express it and let it go, move on and join the flow of life.
  • If you are controlling something or someone outside yourself, this action will ultimately not go well.
  • Surrendering will produce better results in the outcome and you will feel much less tension, anxiety and exhaustion in the process.
  • Accept yourself, others, and the world the way they are right now. Surrender has no loser or winner, it is about accepting what is, as it is.
  • The quality of focus is maintained in the present moment and not on the expected outcome of a future event.
  • When presently clear, the most natural flow of consciousness will access the circumstance. When you are not pushing for answers, wait, listen and notice discernment about when to take action. Meditate and ask for guidance.
  • When we are caught in past or future thoughts, we can be mind controlled and deviated from our true destination. We do not make good decisions from fear or by controlling the situation. (See Ego Defense Mechanism)
  • Sometimes you will not get any impetus to take action until the 11th hour. Be patient, this is to conserve your energy and trust in the natural flow of life.
  • Include your female aspect and trusted female partner in your decision making.
  • Be aware of oppression in the False King of Tyranny archetypes, and stop letting these forces influence your behavior and self-esteem. Your value is not held in your financial worth.

In my final thoughts, may we hold deep reverence and compassion for the masculine principle in all ways, holding a spiritual vision of breaking through the spiritual oppression of the patriarchal domination mind control overlays in order to find the true benevolent divine masculine in all his glory! This classic song below captures the pure emotion in the lyrics that describes the painful longing in the experience of the masculine that is struggling to grow out of the patriarchal domination culture of the NAA, and find out what it actually means to have an open heart that can share deep love, emotions and meaningful connections with others.

How? (Video)

How can I go forward when I don’t know which way I’m facing?
How can I go forward when I don’t know which way to turn?
How can I go forward into something I’m not sure of?
Oh no, oh no

How can I have feeling when I don’t know if it’s a feeling?
How can I feel something if I just don’t know how to feel?
How can I have feelings when my feelings have always been denied?
Oh no, oh no

You know life can be long
And you got to be so strong
And the world is so tough
Sometimes I feel I’ve had enough

How can I give love when I don’t know what it is I’m giving?
How can I give love when I just don’t know how to give?
How can I give love when love is something I ain’t never had?
Oh no, oh no

You know life can be long
You’ve got to be so strong
And the world she is tough
Sometimes I feel I’ve had enough

How can we go forward when we don’t know which way we’re facing?
How can we go forward when we don’t know which way to turn?
How can we go forward into something we’re not sure of?
Oh no, oh no

John Lennon Lyrics

(Source: ES News- Arc Zone, Ascension Glossary – Masculine Healing)

 

~via EnergeticSynthesis.com – Time Shift Blog – September 17, 2017

LISA RENEE: “Cognitive Dissonance”

“People will ignore evidence that is contrary to their own beliefs, in order to preserve their mental beliefs that have become important to their personality, and to avoid feeling the tension of conflicts. It takes personal dedication to honestly face internal conflicts in order to evolve past cognitive dissonance and into the higher clarity of discerning resonances. This means asking equally if we are being lied to through mass manipulation, or if we are lying to ourselves to avoid a painful truth. In either case our Consent is not in alignment to Universal Law, and we can feel this through our heart intelligence.”

~Lisa Renee

 

Currently the earth and all inhabitants are subjected to hidden and obvious Mind Control technologies used to increase Cognitive Dissonance that socially engineer the collective consciousness Consent to accept the Death Culture, in order to continue to accept world slavery and parasitism. Most people on earth would not give their consent to be slaves or to be used for energy, so they are mind controlled to stay in denial, survival or escapism to avoid seeing this painful truth. Consumer marketing campaigns capitalize on cognitive dissonance by framing their advertising in such way that the easiest magical solution to reduce pain or discomfort from problems is to buy or support their product or Propaganda. Through media bombardment they consistently form positive associations to the negative behaviors of the death culture in order to increase cognitive dissonance in the way people think, which increases suggestibility and gullibility into programming. People that are highly suggestible are programmed in such ways that directly impact the unconscious formation of Doublethink into socially acceptable belief systems. This is purposed to covertly, yet directly stimulate the unresolved conflicts in the instinctual and unconscious mind’s reactions, eliminating critical thinking, common sense, consistency and coherent thoughts. This way people are led to associate the negative belief systems being propagated, with the positive associations being programmed for them. When the actions or results of those associations are actually entirely negative and spiritually destructive to them. As an example, why would humanity endorse the death culture when its purpose is to enslave and kill members of the human race? This is cognitive dissonance in action, the deliberate ignoring and denial of the War Over Consciousness on the earth in order to avoid conflicting thoughts.

This further influences and shapes what the collective unconscious creates as the main value system in society, which reflect what type of external structures people have given away their consent to. Because money and Materialism are highly valued by the masses, this is the area in which most people give away their power of Consent. Doublethink produces lack of coherence and inconsistency in one’s thoughts, which is similar to the state of cognitive dissonance. People that are mind controlled with cognitive dissonance or doublethink, refuse to acknowledge what is in plain sight or right in front of their eyes in full evidence, because they are still clinging to denial and self-deception generated from fear and pain avoidance.

Cognitive Dissonance is the uncomfortable tension that exists when holding two conflicting thoughts in the mind at the same time, or it is the tension that exists between the actions of the mind, and the actions of the heart. It is the state of incoherence or inconsistency within our thinking, when conflicting thoughts surface into the mind and cannot be reconciled, clarified or neutralized. Therefore, the state of cognitive dissonance usually brought on by Negative Ego pathology, manifests as a range of psycho-emotional-spiritual conflicts that impact the functioning of body, mind, heart and spirit. Many people misplace their consent through the mental state of cognitive dissonance, because they do not know the core spiritual self, and thus their Consent is given away through the confusion they have with conflicting belief systems. When a person makes decisions that are based in self-deception or group deception, they are basing their consent on the beliefs that the deception is true or going along with the popular opinion because it’s easier. This is the way to manufacture consent in the masses through the setup of the Imposter. Because a person is consenting to something that represents itself or markets itself with Propaganda, as something other than what it really is. When we believe manipulated lies as truth, we give up critical thinking, common sense and intuition that help us make informed decisions about where we place consent.

Dissonance between the Ego and Heart

Cognitive dissonance happens commonly between the beliefs of the ego mind, and the core beliefs or truth that exists within evidential facts as considered through the open heart and spiritual intelligence. If we ignore our spirit, and go against our heart intelligence to give consent to the ego intelligence, we create cognitive dissonance in our thinking which manifests as unresolved conflicts that generate energetic blocks in our pain body. These blocks are created when consciously aware of dissonance, or unconsciously reacting to dissonance through uncontrolled impulses. Dissonance or uncomfortable tension that we feel is very strong when we believe something about ourselves and then perform an action that is against that belief. Dissonant based tension and anxiety is much more powerful when there are conflicts about our self-image, who we believe we are, and what we identify with as our personality. The more dissonance, tension or mental anxiety we feel, the more attachment and dependency we have to defining our self-image based upon those sets of beliefs.

Mental Anxiety produced from cognitive dissonance magnifies considerably in relation to how important the subject is to us and how much we identify with it. It also relates to how polarizing the opposing thoughts are that are in conflict within us, and our inability to rationalize, explain away or resolve the conflict. This makes it clear that Confirmation Bias and Self-Justification through Ego Defense Mechanisms are commonly used to explain away the conflicts, in order to make people feel instantly better. People will ignore evidence that is contrary to their own beliefs, in order to preserve their mental beliefs that have become important to their personality, and to avoid feeling the tension of conflicts. It takes personal dedication to honestly face internal conflicts in order to evolve past cognitive dissonance and into the higher clarity of discerning resonances. This means asking equally if we are being lied to through mass manipulation, or if we are lying to ourselves to avoid a painful truth. In either case our Consent is not in alignment to Universal Law, and we can feel this through our heart intelligence.

In order to resolve mental tension and inner conflicts that results from Cognitive Dissonance, one must first recognize that they have the power to make different choices. In taking responsibility for the choices they make, they can learn to change the way they think and change their behavior in ways that restore Coherence and consistency. In this way by resolving or removing issues of cognitive dissonance (mental anxiety from inner conflicts) they become more coherent and consistent in their thoughts, which allow for better choices to be made with the power of their own consent. When people remain in cognitive dissonance and they refuse to take responsibility for their choices to resolve conflicts, the negative consequences of dissonance are that it attracts more dissonant or negative energies.

Our thoughts shape our beliefs, which inform decisions about where to place consent. So the process of cognitive dissonance becomes the basis for how we evaluate situations and make decisions. It is the central mechanism by which we perceive or experience differences that we encounter in the world. Once we become more self-aware, we evolve beyond egoic levels of cognitive dissonance and into choices based on deep inner feelings of nonjudgmental personal resonances, which is the higher sensory language of the heart and spiritual intelligence guidance system. [1]

 

References:

Consent

See Also:

Manipulation of Consent

Mind Control

Media Manipulation

 

~via AscensionGlossary.com

LISA RENEE (Time Shift Blog): “Denial and Blame Shifters”

“Psychological projection is when humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities by denying their existence inside themselves, while attributing those same qualities to others.  For example, a person who is habitually rude may constantly accuse other people of being rude.  This incorporates blame shifting.  Denial of the truth is the seed of all Ego Defense Mechanisms.”

~Lisa Renee

 

When we understand how fear is created in the body, it is helpful in releasing the grip of anxiety and fear patterns. People that are triggered into fears and mental anxiety may impulsively turn to blame shifting or the projection of their fears onto others. When people are in deep pain and they are suffering, many times they will move unacceptable impulses in themselves and place them onto someone else. Sometimes, if another person or situation makes them feel uncomfortable, the person will blame them for their own discomfort. In this way, it is a denial of personal responsibility by attributing to others their own unacceptable or unwanted thoughts or emotions.

When a person is shifting blame to an intuitive empath type of person, this can feel like someone throwing an energetic weight on top of them, while trying to make the empath process another person’s emotional garbage. In this way, the blame shifter is throwing off his emotional garbage onto another person whom he perceives can process his emotional stuff. This throwing off energetic weight in blame shifting or projection is a method used in order to release his or her own internal anxiety, in which that person seeks to release inner pressure that makes them feel immediately better about themselves. There is an emotional pay off that exists in blame shifting. Blame shifters tend to need to find self-justification for their own negative behaviors. They conveniently place blame onto others in order to continue with their own sense of self entitlement to behave in the ways that make it easier for them to cope with stress. Rather than get to the root of problems, they deny them by shifting blame of their issue onto others.

Psychological projection is when humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence inside themselves, while attributing those same qualities to others. For example, a person who is habitually rude may constantly accuse other people of being rude. This incorporates blame shifting. Denial of the truth is the seed of all Ego Defense Mechanisms. The concept of denial is particularly important to the study of addiction as facing the denial is getting to the root and cause of the addictive personality. When denial occurs in more mature minds, it is most often associated with death, dying and rape. Such as thoughts that are made towards crimes against humanity that are too terrible and fear inducing for that person to actually consider as accurate or truthful information, so they deny them instead. Extremely difficult topics, like SRA [Satanic Ritual Abuse] or dying, may trigger great inner anxiety and fear, and are generally shut down from further discussion because many people are too afraid to confront these topics for a variety of reasons.

Denial is putting up a thought barrier and arguing against an anxiety-provoking stimuli by stating that it doesn’t exist. When we live in denial we are refusing to perceive the more unpleasant aspects of the external reality, as well as many unpleasant aspects that may be hidden in our own behavior and personality. Denial may also mean denying the happening of an event or the reliability of information, which can lead to a feeling of indifference on the topic in general, and to completely ignore the possibility of beneficial information.

A person that is rejecting unpleasant or painful truths inside themselves or in situations may use:

  • Simple Denial: deny the reality of the unpleasant fact altogether.
  • Minimization: admit the fact but deny its seriousness and impact through a combination of denial and rationalization.
  • Projection: admit both the fact and seriousness of the issue, but deny personal responsibility by blaming somebody or something else as the problem.

It is important to note that what makes denial denial and not just the refusal to admit to or accept a truth or fact, rests in the degree of that individual’s direct experience and awareness of the actual existence of the truth or fact. In denial, an individual does not see or is mostly unconscious of the existence of the truth or fact. The choice to refuse reality, then, is unconscious as well. Refusal to admit to or accept a truth or fact differs from denial, in that the individual recognizes or is conscious of the existence of the truth or fact but consciously refuses to accept it as such. Refusal to admit to a truth or fact, especially when it concerns others involved, can be considered a complex psychological and emotional manipulation tactic that is designed for selfish motivations.

When we are unaware of our subconscious reactions and thoughts, it is easy to project one’s unconscious qualities onto others, and this is a common occurrence in everyday life.

It is helpful to understand that dark forces in humans and nonhumans, commonly use blame shifting as a psychological warfare tool to weaken and exploit spiritually awakening people. Blame shifting is a potent way to use trauma based mind control to weaken people, and so controller and manipulator types use this tactic skillfully to exploit those around them. Blame shifting can also be accompanied with Gaslighting. We must remember the goal of dark forces is to exploit and weaken those spiritually activated. Thus they will target the mental body, emotional body and spiritual body, in so to exploit personal weaknesses. The plan of action is to make that person doubt themselves or second guess what actually happened to them, even if they remember what has happened very clearly. When a person is in perpetual self-doubt, this greatly weakens his or her mind and spiritual communication. Gaslighting is a form of psychological-emotional abuse that Controlling types of personalities and dark forces use to which a victim is manipulated into doubting and discrediting their own memories, perceptions, experiences and sanity. When people do not have the whole picture of events, and they are being deceived and manipulated with only limited access to the truth contained in circumstances, it obfuscates their ability to make informed, clear and well thought out decisions. Thus human and non-human Gaslighters like to tell other people what they are feeling, what they are perceiving, what they should be doing, and criticize and condemn anything else they do not agree with in that persons experience, because it is not favorable to serve their own selfish agendas. By attempting to gain total control over another person, this directly leads to control over the mind of another person, and this is what dark forces are striving for. As long as they have some influence or control over the mind, they continue to have control in the mind, body and spirit of that individual.

These dark forces can be included in the subconscious fear content that exists in the fragmented parts of the individual’s mental body, in which great darkness has been allowed to grow and even flourish from feeding the fear. When a person has not taken care of their subconscious fears, the inner darkness may explode from inner to outer, in which blame shifting and projection becomes a part of that person’s survival mechanism to cope with life. When the negative ego and all of its shadows are feeling threatened, it will attack and lie in order to preserve itself, in a variety of ways that is described as ego defense mechanisms.

Anytime we reject the unpleasant truth to remain comfortable within our belief system, or from our fears of self-annihilation, we easily accept lies as truth. When a person believes the negative thoughts they received from a negative entity, are actually coming from their own mind, and they act out that destructive behavior, the entity is successful in deceiving them. Generally, entities use an emotional bait hook based on manipulating the type of pain or trauma that specific person carries. The dark force will find an inroad into the weakness of that person, and possibly bind itself to the wounds of that person, through the consent that was made during the destructive behaviors that person has acted out in the past or present. In order for that dark force to remain connected to manipulate the subconscious mind of the unaware person, they will use deflecting tactics to keep attention away from their existence and to keep the focus on other people and things on the external that can be used for blame shifting. This is a potent way to continue to lodge the programing for fear bondage loops of victim-victimizer archetypes, which amplify polarities in the energies, and thus are feeding parasites and predators.

Being able to own your own emotional conflicts without blame or projection upon another person by making it their fault is the hallmark of personal responsibility. Do not assume that you know anything about that person that can be judged for what you cannot see or really know about them, as you have not walked in their shoes. When feeling upset towards somebody else, restore balance to your heart and aura by lovingly holding boundaries without violating others boundaries. It is a violation of another’s healthy boundaries by expecting them to resolve your conflict and process your emotional content. Be willing and open to learn what the real issue is that has created the conflict that exists within you. Most of the time, we’re upset about something deep down from our own inner fears and it’s not what it appears to be on the surface of life. By going deeper and reflecting on forgiveness of ourselves and forgiveness of others, while allowing the time and space needed to heal, helps to neutralize the conflict in most cases. We all must learn how to become responsible for our own behaviors, thoughts and actions. Accepting Self-Responsibility is a major step of productive negative ego clearing, in which we stop blame shifting or projection when it is merely convenient for us to unload our emotional garbage onto other people.

(Ascension Glossary: Denial, Blame Shifting)

 

~via EnergeticSynthesis.com – Time Shift Blog – May 29, 2018

LISA RENEE (Energetic Synthesis): “Splitting Behaviors”

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Splitting is a very common Ego Defense Mechanism. Splitting (also called black and white thinking or all-or-nothing thinking) is the failure in a person’s thinking to bring together the dichotomy of both positive and negative qualities of the self and others into a cohesive, realistic whole. Usually one small piece of the overall picture is focused upon, while ignoring other details that the person is not willing to look at. It can be defined as the division or polarization of beliefs, actions, objects, or persons into good and bad by focusing selectively on the judgments or perceptions of positive or negative attributes. Splitting is a coping mechanism which diffuses the internal anxiety that arises from our inability to grasp the subtleties and complexities of a given situation or state of affairs. The situation is broken down into smaller parts in order to simplify and schematize the situation, thereby making it easier to think about and rationalize. Splitting also reinforces our sense of self as good and virtuous by effectively demonizing all those who do not share in our same opinions and values. Through the course of growing up from childhood into adulthood, we develop coping skills and will come to label people, places or objects in the environment that are acceptable or not acceptable in our belief systems. Ego defenses are similar to mental racketeering programs that are commonly used as coping mechanisms for reducing day to day anxiety, fears, and obsessions that are related to thought addiction or the need to control the environment. When we are addicted to our thoughts, we have lost balance with our feelings and sensory abilities that allow us to be fully present in the moment and be in a receptive mode to better discern the environment and their energies.

One day, friends and lovers are being thought of as personified virtue, and then when something displeases them, they may suddenly think that same person is evil or bad. (flipping back and forth).

Such a narrow compartmentalization of opposing energies leaves the person using splitting behaviors with a distinctly distorted picture of reality and limited within a small and restricted range of thoughts and emotions. It also affects that person’s ability to attract and maintain relationships, not only because splitting is tiresome and draining, but also because it can easily flip at any moment. One day, friends and lovers are being thought of as personified virtue, and then when something displeases them, they may suddenly think that same person is evil or bad. (flipping back and forth).

Splitting also arises in groups, when members of the in-group are seen to have mostly positive attributes, and whereas members of out-groups are seen to have mostly negative attributes, This is a phenomenon that contributes to group think and, indeed, may include inflexible attitudes of xenophobia. Xenophobia is intense or irrational dislike or fear of people that we consider strangers or that are unfamiliar to us.

Splitting in Relationships

Splitting creates instability in relationships because one person can be viewed as either personified virtue or personified vice at different times, depending on whether they gratify the subject’s needs or frustrate them. This, along with similar fluctuations in the experience and appraisal of the self, leads to chaotic and unstable relationship patterns, identity conflicts, and sudden mood swings. The therapeutic and healing process can be greatly impeded by these sudden emotional or mental oscillations, because the therapist or healing tool can be seen as all good or all bad. To attempt to overcome the negative effects of emotional instability and rapidly shifting moods from confusion around personal identity, constant re-interpretations and self-inquiries on personal progress to become more emotionally and mentally stable is needed.

Splitting contributes to unstable relationships and intense emotional experiences. Splitting is not uncommon during adolescence, but is regarded as temporary. Splitting has been noted especially with persons diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Treatment strategies have been developed for individuals and groups based on opening the dialogue to explore unconscious and conscious behaviors, and for deeper exploration between couples. There are also self-help books on related topics such as mindfulness and emotional regulation that have been helpful for individuals who struggle with the emotionally devastating consequences of splitting.

Narcissistic personality disorder

People matching the diagnostic criteria for narcissistic personality disorder also use splitting as a central Ego Defense Mechanism. Most often the narcissist does this as an attempt to stabilize their sense of self positivity in order to preserve their Self Esteem, by perceiving themselves as purely upright or admirable and others who do not conform to their will or values as purely wicked or contemptible. Given the narcissist’s perverse sense of entitlement and splitting, he or she can be equally geared, psychologically and practically, towards the promotion of projects simultaneously, while promoting the demise of that same collectively beneficial project. The cognitive habit of splitting also implies the use of other related Ego Defense Mechanisms, namely idealization and devaluation, which are preventative attitudes or reactions to narcissistic rage and narcissistic injury.

Depression

In depression, exaggerated all-or-nothing thinking can form a self-reinforcing Negative Ego cycle. These recurring or obsessive thoughts might be called emotional amplifiers because, as they go around and around, looping, and with each cycle of looping, they become more intense. Typical all-or-nothing thoughts:

  • My efforts are either a success or they are an abject failure
  • I am/other people are either all good or all bad
  • if you’re not with us, you’re against us

Triangulation

Triangulation is a situation in which one member will not communicate directly with another member, but will communicate with a third member, which can lead to the third member becoming part of the triangle. The concept originated in the study of dysfunctional family systems, but can describe manipulative behaviors used in other systems as well, including work or group dynamics. This is a common method to spin disinformation between multiple parties to increase Compartmentalization within organizations or employ divide and conquer strategies.

Triangulation can also be a form of “Splitting” in which one person plays the third family member against the one that he or she is upset about. This is playing the two people against each other, but usually the person doing the splitting will also engage in some form of character assassination, only with both parties.

The key word here to remember is Character Assassination. Gossip and triangulation is the method used for Character Assassination. The NAA Victim-Victimizer software is specifically designed to assassinate the character of any person that is publicly involved in the Law of One and Ascension material, especially if you are a Starseed and not culled by them in their programs of mind control, and including MILAB groomed abductees with genetic enhancements that turn into whistleblowers.

Compartmentalization

Compartmentalization need-to-know-basis is a mind control strategy to contain and control the field of academics, scientists, military and government personnel who are complicit in carrying out the destructive and harmful behavior of the NAA and Power Elite, and are rewarded monetarily and socially for going along with reinforcing the alien invasion of our planet and enslavement of humanity.

Compartmentalization is the Mind Control method used to shut down and destroy open mindedness, critical thinking, independent thinking and creative thinking. Compartmentalization is an unconscious psychological defense mechanism used to avoid cognitive dissonance, or the mental discomfort and anxiety caused by a person’s having conflicting values, cognitions, emotions, beliefs, etc. within themselves. Compartmentalization allows these conflicting ideas to co-exist by inhibiting direct or explicit acknowledgement and interaction between separate compartmentalized self-states. Splitting behavior is the result of the compartmentalization of accurate facts or complex situations, in order to remove the conflicting details that cause one internal anxiety.

False Truce

False Truce is a Victim-Victimizer software mind control archetype that is used to target spiritually developing people. This is one of the Controller Programs that is a sub program of the Victim-Victimizer software program and a collective miasm that has accumulated over many generations.

As the Victimizer Archetypes and related programs that are embedded in the cellular matrix are very enhanced now, especially in adjunct to Life Review patterns for many of us now on the ascension path. This is explosive for some of us now, and I am observing these traps for ensnarement, and like Addiction, are jaws attempting to latch on to our vulnerability.

A False Truce is when a person who has had a conflict with another person, is not interested in resolution or ending the conflict, but in promoting the conflict further. This is the guise of pretending that they are perfectly okay with whatever conflict had transpired. Because they have not accepted any Accountability to their role in the conflict, they will usually spread gossip, defame the character of the other person (Character Assassination), to retaliate for the self-justification they made up from their Ego Defense Mechanisms.

Character Assassination

Character Assassination is a deliberate and sustained process that aims to destroy the credibility and reputation of a person, institution, social group, or nation. Agents of character assassinations employ a mix of open and covert methods to achieve their goals, such as raising false accusations, planting and fostering rumors, and manipulating information.

Character assassination is an attempt to tarnish a person’s reputation. It may involve exaggeration, misleading half-truths, or manipulation of facts to present an untrue picture of the targeted person. It is a form of defamation and can be a form of ad hominem argument.

For living individuals targeted by character assassination attempts, this may result in being rejected by their community, family, or members of their living or work environment. Such acts are often difficult to reverse or rectify, and the process is likened to a literal assassination of a human life. The damage sustained can last a lifetime or, for historical figures, for many centuries after their death.

In practice, character assassination may involve Doublespeak, spreading of rumors through Malicious Gossip, innuendo or deliberate misinformation on topics relating to the subject’s morals, integrity, and reputation. It may involve spinning information that is technically true, but that is presented in a misleading manner or is presented without the necessary context. For example, it might be said that a person refused to pay any income tax during a specific year, without saying that no tax was actually owed due to the person having no income that year, or that a person was sacked from a firm, even though he may have been made redundant through no fault of his own, rather than being terminated for cause.

Transference

Transference is a phenomenon characterized by unconscious redirection of feelings from one person to another. One definition of transference is the inappropriate repetition in the present time of a relationship pattern from the past that was important in a person’s childhood, to which the conflict was never resolved. Another definition is the redirection of feelings and desires and especially of those unconsciously retained from childhood toward a new object or person. Still another definition is the reproduction of emotions relating to repressed experiences buried in the unconscious mind, and the substitution of another person to be thought to be the cause of these buried emotions, instead of uncovering the original object or causal event of the repressed impulses.

Splitter Tech

Splitter Tech is a type of AI encoding that run as a Mind Control script that is embedded into a variety of types of media, such as written words, spoken words of an infected individual, video or audio recordings, that can pass on that same scripted code to another person that resonates with that same frequency or information. It reveals a profile that is commonly observed in very academic or intellectually controlled or developed people, and tends to be attached to highly mentalized persons with dominating Negative Egos, judgmental perceptions and little to no heart opening. When a person is aware of the NAA and is also aware of the fact that Controller forces have a Psychopathic personality, this means they have Lack of Empathy, and no true developed Compassion for others, as they do not have a Soul, and thus cannot experience any higher emotional spectrum. They are indeed, heart-less, and unable to feel emotions and ruled by instinctual forces.

To a coherent, clear and energetically balanced person, when reading words or being exposed to Splitter Tech script, it feels like your brain is getting scrambled and thoughts are scattering, and maintaining clear focus is nearly impossible. It also is sprayed as implants to divert attention and focus within a group environment, as one person may be a booby trap with Splitter Tech that is used to disrupt or divide and conquer the entire group objectives. Patterns include running AI induced embedded code through a “signal” that may influence a splitting effect, also known as ‘bi-polar’ or Bi-Wave Influences to align the target or subject to Metatronic Reversal, Metatronic Spiral or Entropic Systems of energy.

As one learns how to refocus one’s thoughts, one prevents overwhelming states of emotion from triggering impulsive behaviors and angry reactions into splitting behaviors. As one develops strong impulse control they are learning a form of ego discipline through applied patience and diligence. If we check in and find that we do not like what we may be feeling, we can learn better the reasons for that by further shifting into the observer mode. In our community, we call that process of observing as shifting from identifying with a thought or feeling by moving ourselves into the compassionate witness. As a Compassionate Witness we have no judgment of thoughts or feelings, we hold no judgment of what we are observing in the external, we only observe those thoughts and feelings in our self and others. When we can fully observe through our own Compassionate Witness, we then become neutral and centered. Then, we can immediately find relief from our inner anxiety, fears and a host of other thought distortions. This process is key to shifting ego defense mechanisms, thought addiction tendency and releasing the anxiety or fear of feeling emotional depth or pain that contributes to splitting behaviors. By continually using an ego defense mechanism to avoid facing the source causation of the anxiety or deeply rooted fear, (which is unresolved pain or trauma) we are only perpetuating the mental looping which uses denial of the truth in order to avoid feeling pain or discomfort. Denial of accurate accounts of the truth is the seed of all Ego Defense Mechanisms that stunt our continuing path of emotional and spiritual development.