MARION SELISTA: “15 Keys To Unleash Your True Authentic Self”

Every person is unique and has something to offer the world. Being authentic means embracing who you are and accepting your uniqueness.

However, being the real you is a challenge to most people because they either don’t know how to connect with their true self or how to unleash it. You are always trying to please others, and live up to society’s expectations, forgetting yourself.

When you finally make yourself a priority, that’s when your life starts. You honor yourself by unleashing your true self. You can now say NO to things and people that do not serve you.

Here’s how you can unleash your true authentic self by using the below 15 key ways.

1. Hello, it is you

Being real starts with discovering who you are deep at the core; what you stand for; your strengths and weaknesses; your passion; and what makes you happy. Knowing yourself will make you happy and experience less inner conflict thus make better decisions. You can also resist social pressure and understand others which makes you a better individual.

2. Self-acceptance

What you think of yourself is shaped over the years by both positive and negative experiences. You will be on the path to self-acceptance when you start restructuring the way you view yourself. You must learn to admit your flaws, and accept what you can’t change. Always set small goals every day, never give up and surround yourself with positivity.

3. Reframe your life according to your principles

The expectations placed on you by society are challenging to live up to. Reframe your life by creating rules for yourself that match your values. Focus on self-care and things that bring the best in you. You will no longer have to follow what everyone expects and can take charge of your life.

4. Meditate

Meditation is a very effective method of unleashing your true self. It draws you into a place deep within yourself for self-reflection and awareness hence giving you a push in the right direction. Daily meditation can result in a rewiring of your brain allowing the decreasing stress and tension.

5. Follow your bliss

You get increased happiness and satisfaction when you do what makes you happy. Doing what you love gives you a sense of purpose and belonging, clear objectivity and self-awareness. Identify what you are genuinely passionate about and give yourself to it thus unleash your true self.

6. Find your purpose

You find your place in life when you identify the reasons for your actions and set meaningful goals. It keeps you motivated throughout your life and you remain focused on meeting them.

7. Don’t look for external approval

Seeking external validation is a burden and affects your decisions in your life. Stop letting the outside world dictate your opinions or actions. Your dreams don’t have to be acceptable to everyone. You will be happier living by your beliefs.

8. Practice gratitude

Being a grateful person has numerous benefits; it makes your life easier, happier, and healthier both physically and psychologically. You look at life with a positive attitude. You can maintain excellent relationships with others. Practice it through; letters of appreciation when someone does a good thing for you; sharing with family everything you are grateful for during meals; Writing on paper what you are thankful for and putting it in a jar; keep a journal of things you are thankful for and not taking what you have for granted.

9. Be present

You embrace the real you when you start living in the present and avoid obsessing about the past. Enjoy every moment.

10. Compare yourself to you only

Comparing yourself to others only results in evaluating and rating yourself by chasing symbols of status and success. Unlock your authentic self by accepting yourself the way you are and measuring yourself by your standards.

11. Become your best self

Master these three elements that make you the best you can be;

Connectedness  appreciate what you have now by showing love for what you have and don’t take anything for granted.

Calm observe your thoughts as they pass through your mind by staying calm.

Motivation  understanding the reason you do the things you do will spur you to continue striving to accomplish your objective.

12. Love

People often ridicule and give you a strange look when you are authentic. Self-love entails accepting and expressing your true self. It involves loving yourself and living life to the fullest just the way you are. You can’t give love if you don’t love yourself first.

13. Trust

Follow your wisdom and gut instead of looking externally for inner peace. Avoid seeking others’ opinions and get guidance from within yourself. Honor your emotions instead of hiding them thus unleashing the real you.

14. Authenticity

If you can’t be yourself, who else can you be? Connect with your inner self. It involves letting go of the false identity of who you think you should be and instead allowing the real you to emerge.

15. Affirmation

Affirmations are very easy and powerful to use. They train your mind through repetition and positive encouragement to connect to yourself. It entails thinking good thoughts, expressing who you are, taking actions to meet your needs and doing what you want. It builds self-esteem and unleashes your true self.

Final words

Learning to unleash your true authentic self is not an easy task- though it is a rewarding challenge. You discover yourself; identify your true passions; let go of past mistakes and accept yourself. You break free from crippling self-doubts and love yourself just the way you are. Being the real you helps you find your purpose, build your self-esteem; and brings you happiness in life.

 

~via ConsciousReminder.com

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ADEANA M. SLATER: “Allow The Energy To Move You Full Steam Ahead”

It appears that a new year is upon us! In that case, Happy New Year 2019 to all of you beautiful souls. We can call this new year a new dawn, a new cycle, or a new phase in this Ascension process. No matter how you describe it, the projected energy is the same for all to take in and experience. How you interact with these higher energies and how you respond to these influxes will be tailored to each soul individually. There is no correct or incorrect way to integrate all of these magnificent opportunities presented to you.

Keep in mind that with these higher energies, your manifestation abilities will increase significantly so there is again the reminder to pay most attention to your thoughts and the words that you speak. It is easy to sabotage your own efforts by any negativity or fears that you choose to focus on and project outward. This will stop and or slow down the success of any desires or goals almost immediately in its tracks. Similar to you boarding your own train in order to move forward swiftly towards whatever your heart desires most.

As you eventually find yourself traveling “full steam ahead,” you may allow one negative thought after another to cloud your forward progression. It would be as if part of this track you were traveling on, suddenly disappears. This would halt you immediately as the energy you send out acts as the brakes to your train. You would no longer be able to move towards this manifesting desire with no tracks to travel on. At this point, you as the engineer, will get off your train and scratch your head in wonderment at the missing tracks. “How did this happen? How do I fix it?”

All is not lost from self-sabotage. You can always correct the damage that you create with your doubts and your fears. It may take some time to reconstruct your pathway forward. Rest assured that you can and you will remember how to use positive affirmations, vision boards, prayer, meditation, gratitude, joy, and love to re-set the energy. This will fix the tracks before you, and you will be able to board your train and continue to chug along once again.

It may seem like a daunting task to look into your “future” at all of the things you wish to heal, change, and grow from. It is becoming more widely accepted and some are aware that time is just an illusion. However, we often use time as a way to gauge the success of the goals we wish to accomplish. That by such and such date or by such and such age we wish to be successful in achieving certain goals. In this way, I will say that time can feel like your biggest enemy, but then again, your best friend.When you initially think of your goals and aspirations, it may feel like such a drag when you think of all of the “time” and effort that may need to go into it. In this way, time may feel as if it is against you. On the other hand, time as you experience it to be, is speeding up immensely. How often do you say to yourselves and others:

“Where did the day go?”

• “Where did the week go?”

• “Where did the month go?”

• “Where did the season or year go?”

And before you know it, the timeframe that you initially felt as being such a drag to manifesting your goals, has since passed. You now find yourself at the other end of the spectrum wondering how it went by so quickly. Climb confidently on your locomotive and allow the energy to move you full steam ahead. Know in your heart that you will arrive at your intended destination and will achieve all that you truly desire…

AND then some.

🌟 Love and Blessings to you ALL. 💕 ~Adeana

 

~via In5D.com

ADEANA M. SLATER: “Ascension Rollercoaster Exhaustion”

Change has been knocking on your door more often than not lately. Did you answer it? This past eclipse season was the energy boost you needed in order to change both within and without. It was also available to help you heal from past wounds or damage that needed your attention. This does not mean that the opportunity for change or healing has been lost. It is an on-going process. Every individual has their own level of growth and expansion to work towards. Please be patient with yourself and others as we are all experiencing this purge in all aspects of our life. Since we are all inter-connected it’s a good idea to receive love and support from others and you can lean on one another as needed.

If you are exhausted from riding the “Ascension Rollercoaster,” you can always step off temporarily and give yourself a much needed break and rest. At this time, you can step away from your life to evaluate where you are and where you want to be/go. Just keep in mind there are no limitations, so remove the words: “I can’t” from your vocabulary. You can begin practicing your manifestation skills at this point to bring about desired change. Speak with intention, visualize, and use gratitude to thank the Universe for whatever it is you wish to do or receive as if you have already received it. This sets the energy in motion.

There is the reminder that whatever it is you desire to manifest, has to be with good and pure intention and to be the best for everyone and everything involved. The good news about this is that we have reached a point whereas vengeful actions and ill intention will only return to the sender with this same level of lower vibrational energy. This has always been the case with energy and attraction but as we are increasing our soul frequency and vibration even higher, the “timeframe” for this boomerang effect of energy is rapid and will become almost instantaneous. This is to push us all out of the negative energies/programs and keep us moving forward and onward towards love, joy, peace, and unity.

I know that the energy has been intense and most of you have been through a lot already. It is easy to enter the victim mind-set when all that no longer serves you falls away from your life. It can feel as if all of these changes are some sort of punishment. There is nothing farther from the truth. Remember that anything that transpires in your life is meant to bring you positivity and joy. Anything that you are holding onto out of fear, will continue to move out of resonance with you until it gets to the point where the discomforts of remaining the same will far outweigh any fears of changing it. This is when you will elevate yourself in leaps and bounds on a soul level onto your projected pathway.

When you begin to feel the low energies of depression, sadness, fear, anger or grief, it is good to express your emotions and then release them as you heal. An effective way to increase your mood or energy level is to replace the lower dense energies and emotions with appreciation. When you express gratitude for everything in your life, you will generate more of the same since the energy you send out, all gets attracted back to you. One powerful way to do this is to keep a “gratitude journal” and jot-down anything and everything that you are thankful for, on a daily basis. Read your list out-loud if you wish. It has been wisely stated before that: “gratitude is the vitamin for the soul.” This necessary vitamin will work to uplift your heart and soul exponentially.

You can also use daily affirmations to uplift yourself or as manifesting tools. My father taught me an affirmation at a young age that I use daily. The example of this is:

“Every breath I draw into my body brings the strength and healing of the Universe and of Mother/Father God. The pure white light of Source energy flows through me like a virtual torrent: cleansing, healing, energizing, rebuilding, and replenishing every cell it passes through.” …

This can be your opening affirmation and you can add to it and tailor it to your specific needs or desires. You have the ability to create your own or I know there are others you can use that are available and best fits you.

Be proud of yourself for having come so far so quickly. Keep moving yourself forward in love, joy, and gratitude. 💕

Love to ALL of you,

🌟🙏🌟

~Adeana

 

~via In5D.com

ARIA BELLA: “You Are The Fireworks”

You know when everyone is oohing and aghing over the beauty and wonder of fireworks.

Watching the pretty shapes and wondrous colours?

That is how we feel about you! You are a wonder beyond all comparison, you truly are. Allow us to hold a mirror up to you, so you can see the magic that we see.

The beauty, the uniqueness that is all you.

Today allow yourself to be reminded that you are like those amazing fireworks.

No you ARE the fireworks… So go out there and shine and dazzle your way through your day.

“I am a firework, shining and dazzling my way through life. I am a wonder!”

But unlike a firework— your brilliance does not fade out, instead the more you believe, the more you razzle and dazzle! Here’s to razzling and dazzling our way through life today. Burning ever so bright. Till next time… keep walking your spiritual path xx

 

 

~via Aria-Bella Rises @

YellowWolfEnlightenment.wordpress.com

ARIA BELLA: “Luck Is Yours To Hold”

“Luck is yours to hold, cherish and use for the greater good.”

~Aria Bella

You know how some people just seem lucky? Always seem to land on their feet no matter what? Always seem to get what everyone else wishes they could have? This kind of luck is available to anyone.

You just have to have faith and learn to tap into it. You have to believe in what you are capable of. Know that going for this or that, is not just for selfish reasons – that it is to help your family, friends, strangers.

It may seem like it is wholly for you, but it will spread out to those around you when you allow it.

You have to surrender to putting one foot in front of the other as you are guided to, not in a controlling way, in a way of detachment, knowing you are being guided by something bigger than you.

True luck comes when you are confident you are going to succeed. That you want it, not just for yourself, but for the good of mankind. No matter how indirect it may seem.

Luck is trusting in your abilities and the abilities of the universe to provide and guide.

 

“I know I am lucky and can succeed at anything. I draw luck to me”

 

Today, put your faith in the universe, and in yourself and dream away and let that luck find you.

Till next time… keep walking your spiritual path xx

 

 

~via Aria-Bella Rises @ YellowWolfEnlightenment.wordpress.com