CONSCIOUS REMINDER: “Are You Suffering From Post-Narcissist Stress Disorder?”

Ascension Avatar note: This brought a chuckle, but I suppose it would be no laughing matter for those who have experienced it (I’ve always kept narcissists out of my life…).

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Post Narcissist Stress Disorder or PSND affects those who have just managed to extricate themselves from a relationship with a narcissist. It is very much like PTSD.

PSND can be easily triggered by even the smallest thing the sufferer associates with the narcissist, be it a familiar smell or sound or taste.

Three major symptoms of PNSD:

1. Intrusive memories of the narcissist

Sometimes people suffering from PNSD are unexpectedly faced with triggers that send them into a nightmarish flashback about some incident with the narcissist.

They being to relive painful moments that involve narcissistic rage and other traumatic memories without being able to stop themselves.

Sometimes they begin to doubt their own sanity. Long periods of abuse may have conditioned them into believing that they are lacking in something.

They suffer nightmares and often have difficulty rebuilding their confidence in themselves.

2. Avoidance and emotional numbing

If you’re suffering from PNSD, you might begin to actively keep away from society and the things you once loved to do.

You’ll try your best to not dwell on the narcissist who hurt you. You’ll begin to feel like your mind is numb to all emotions.

Some try to overcome their issues by overusing recreational drugs or sedatives. Others might repress bad memories and have trouble focusing on even the simplest day to day tasks.

Forming new emotional connections will be hard and you might prefer to just hide yourself away from the world.

3. Anxiety and increased emotional volatility

Sufferers become very volatile and are prone to fits of irritability and rage while at the same time suffering from overpowering guilt which they try to hide.

Some may gaslight themselves (i.e., they begin to question every little action and memory and somehow bring all the blame onto themselves).

Insomnia, hyperventilation, hypervigilance, paranoia and distrust are also common symptoms.

 

~via ConsciousReminder.com

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CONSCIOUS REMINDER: “Are You A Victim Of False Twin Flame Telepathy?”

Have a ‘firecracker’ intuition and never fall into victimhood… If a false twin is creating negative fireworks, just energetically ‘blast’ ’em outta your space! 💥 Problem solved. 😉

It is very difficult to identify a false twin flame as their true self is hidden under layers of perfectly curated persona. They are imposters, mirrors of our real twin flame and suck us dry of our energy like vampires.

Telepathy is the method of connecting subconsciously with your beloved which mainly arises out of deep spiritual compatibility. Through this bridge we can understand what the other is thinking and can even influence their mood. You must have noticed that a couple who is deeply in love often feels sorrow and happiness at the same time.

They resemble their partner’s emotions whenever they’re going through emotional turmoil. This kind of behavior can be justified by telepathy which links the souls together.

Now if someone false acquires these telepathic abilities, then we can be gravely hurt by them. When they get close to us, they get hooked to our spiritual energy and manipulate our moves to fulfill their desires. It absolutely ruins our self-esteem and confidence.

The most harmful aspect of this is that we assume they are our true flame and hence refuse to leave them. We get confused by how similar they are to our true flames, and how compatible we seem to be. This is why we go on to tolerate a relationship that is nothing but emotionally abusive. They have no feelings for us and use us for their gain.

We are constantly ill-treated by them and the worst part is they do this through telepathy. This connection destroys you, bleeding insecurity, doubt and confusion into you all the time. You fail to realize that you are the victim. You feel that the disastrous relationship is your fault; that you are to be blamed for this massacre.

However, false twin flames are not concerned about your emotional state at all. They only remain in your life as long as they need you for their own selfish gains.

You must understand that nothing happens without rhyme or reason. The universe is making you tolerate this, to suffer a horrendous relationship, only to motivate us to grow and move forward towards refined spirituality. Hardships and pain propels you forward to your destiny.

It helps us take off our weary soul and replaces it with a new strong one. False twin flame telepathy is a dangerous entity, a ruthless weapon that can absolutely destroy you if it falls in the hands of the wrong people. It affects our mental and physical health to great extents and very negatively.

You have to take matters into your own hands and realize how harmful this false twin flame is for your well-being. You need to be brave and let go of them for your own good. You can’t be pushed into a corner to suffer all by yourself, trapped in your own mind, with the telepathic connection feeding you lies. You can’t let your insecurity and self-doubt consume you to such an extent and that you can’t even speak up for yourself.

You are a wonderful human being. You are worth it. You deserve all the happiness, goodness, satisfaction and the bliss of real love. Deep down you know that too. So it is you who has to consciously take the decision to make your life better by getting rid of all the negativity that is holding you back.

Your loved ones will be there by your side but you have to fight back on your own. It is difficult but try to identify the false twin flame as fast as you can and take them out of your life. It is a powerful entity, ugly and vicious. Take required steps before it’s too late.

 

 

~via ConsciousReminder.com

JACKSON MACKENZIE: “Signs You’re Arguing With A Psychopath”

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Psychopaths make up one percent of the general population. Contrary to popular belief, most of them aren’t serial killers.

They’re manipulative people who intentionally cause harm to others without any sense of remorse or responsibility.
Psychopaths are social chameleons who can fit perfectly into any situation.

They are experts at morphing their identities to get what they want and mirroring others for money, sex, and — most commonly — attention. Because of their ability to idealize others, psychopaths are often perceived as charming, innocent, and fun to unsuspecting onlookers and casual acquaintances.

But there is another side to them.

When they’re feeling threatened or bored, a psychopath’s true colors start to come out. They draw you into arguments that are unlike anything you’ve ever experienced. The argument usually stems from something hurtful or inappropriate they’ve done, but you’ll quickly find that you’re the one defending yourself.

It’s sort of like good cop, bad cop, demented cop, stalker cop, scary cop, baby cop.

Here are 6 warning signs that the person you’re arguing with is a psychopath and it’s time to disengage.

 

1. They lie and make excuses.

Everyone messes up every now and then, but psychopaths recite excuses more often than they follow through with promises. Their actions never match up with their words and their lies disappoint you so frequently that you actually feel relieved when they do something halfway decent. They’ve conditioned you to become grateful for mediocre treatment.

2. Their tone is condescending and patronizing.

Psychopaths often try to make you unhinged in an attempt to gain the upper hand. Throughout the entire argument, you’ll notice that they keep a calm and cool demeanor. It’s almost as if they’re mocking you — gauging your reactions to see how much further they can push. When you finally react emotionally, that’s when they’ll raise their eyebrows, smirk, tell you to calm down, or feign disappointment.

3. They employ mind-blowing hypocrisy.

In heated arguments, psychopaths have no shame and will often begin labeling you with their own horrible qualities. It goes beyond projection, because most people project unknowingly. Psychopaths know they are smearing you with their own flaws, because they are seeking a reaction. The point is to lure you in so that you react and seem “crazy” to onlookers.

4. They seem to have multiple personalities.

When arguing with a psychopath, you’re likely to notice a variety of their personas. It’s sort of like good cop, bad cop, demented cop, stalker cop, scary cop, baby cop. Once you begin pulling away from their manipulation and lies, they’ll start apologizing and flatter you. If that doesn’t work, they’ll suddenly start insulting the qualities they just flattered two minutes ago. As they struggle to regain control, you’ll be left wondering who you’re even talking to.

5. They play the eternal victim.

Somehow, their bad behavior will always lead back to a conversation about their abusive past or a crazy ex or an evil boss. You’ll end up feeling bad for them, even when they’ve done something horribly wrong. And once they’ve successfully diverted your attention, everything will get messy again. Psychopaths cry “abuse,” but, in the end, you’re the only one being abused.

6. You feel the need to explain basic human emotions to them.

You’ll find yourself attempting to explain emotions like empathy and kindness, guided by the thought that if they understand why you’re hurt, they’ll stop hurting you. You are not the first person who has attempted to see the good in them, and you will not be the last. They behave this way because they know that it hurts you.

There’s only one way out of these arguments. You need to disengage!

Arguments with psychopaths leave you drained. You might spend hours, even days, obsessing over the argument. If you think you have the perfect response to their latest outrageous comment, they planted it there on purpose. They’re trying to provoke you. They’re trying to draw you in.

In professional environments, they want you to blow up so that coworkers and superiors see you as unstable. In romantic settings, they want you to lash out so that they can use your “hysterical” reactions to show potential partners and exes how crazy you’ve become. Until we understand this, we’ll continue to fall into their trap.

So next time someone you’re arguing with uses these tactics to draw you in, try a different strategy: simply smile, nod, and go live your life.

They don’t deserve another second of your time.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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