NEZEL PADAYHAG: “The 2 Most Important Traits Of A Soulmate”

Most people think that a soulmate is a person who magically appears in your life out of nowhere because they are destined to be with you.

However, a true soulmate doesn’t have to be a romantic partner. But they will most likely be. And they do not appear magically, they are attracted to your vibration.

So this means that no matter how close your soulmate is to you, if you do not let yourself be yourself, and shine with your light, they will not perceive the truth of you.

To find the right person and connect with on a cosmic level you have to become the right person yourself. And once you find this person, everything changes in your life.

When the two of you unite, your energies complement each other and become so extremely strong that just your partnership in love creates a positive change in this world.

There are countless signs, traits and explanations of what is a soulmate and how it feels when you find them.

But most of these traits are not concrete enough. So here are the two most important traits of a soulmate.

The 2 Most Important Traits Of A Soulmate:

If someone has these two traits, whether you believe in soulmates or not, they are what is considered a soulmate.

1. You’re deeply inspired by them.

“Inspiration” comes from the Greek word “Theopneustos”, which literally means “God breathed”.

In other words, when you meet a soulmate you feel connected to them on a much deeper level, a level that is spiritual, coming from the Source.

This person inspires you more than you can imagine. It goes beyond reason, time, space, and comprehension.

You feel a deep connection on a subconscious level. Having this subconscious connection, you both tap into your infinite potential.

You’re inspired to do things you never have done before. Because you inspire each other, manifesting your dreams is easier.

You become aware that you’re both co creators creating your reality.

When you’re together, your energies are so strong that people can’t help but notice its magnetic power. When both of you enter a room together it illuminates the atmosphere.

You know what the other person is thinking even just by gazing at each other’s eyes. And whenever you are together you feel as there are no limits to your potential.

You are changed into the best version of you not because they magically transform you, but because you are inspired by them to transform into your best self yourself.

At times, it takes true love so the darkest places of your soul can surface and be healed. And this kind of love is what really transforms us.

2. You love deeply and care strongly for them.

As we said, a soulmate doesn’t have to be a romantic partner. Some times it is a friend, or maybe even a person you consider a foe.

But most often it is going to be a romantic partner. This is because a soulmate reflects deep parts of yourself you are often attracted to or you disassociate with and hate.

There are many ways to define love. And it’s often subjective. A person can love someone out of a deep need. Or, they can love someone just because they do.

Most often, the second kind of loving is the deepest kind of loving. It’s because you have no need to love a person, but you still do, that hints to some deeper reason.

You love deeply and care genuinely when you’re willing to give without demanding something in return.

A usual phenomena that happens with your soulmate is when you can look at each other’s eyes and see that you’re both timeless.

You unconsciously understand that you come from the same source and the same breath of life.

If you feel your partner is the right person but things aren’t flowing smoothly, there might be some issues that both of you need to solve.

Both of you may have reflected upon each other’s aspects that need healing. It’s scary to look but if it’s the only way to heal, then face your fears and inner wounds.

This often happens with soulmates who are not romantic partners but a friend, or maybe even someone you just hate. But it can happen with a romantic partner.

You hate them because they reflect the things you hate within yourself and they are, in a way, trying to heal you by making you face what you avoid within yourself.

But whoever they are, a friend, a foe, a romantic partner, if they are your soulmate you will feel deep care for them, even if you hate them.

So what do you need to do to attract your soulmate:

You shouldn’t force yourself trying to attract your soulmate. If a relationship isn’t making you happy or fulfilled, then you might be in the wrong relationship.

You don’t need to suffer in a relationship wishing the person you’re with is the right one. No one knows it better than you. But first, you need to work on yourself.

You need to have a deeper connection with yourself because your vibration is the link that connects you to your soulmate.

When you’re fully aware of yourself and vibrate in the same frequency your soulmate is vibrating, then there’s a big chance you will meet each other.

Whatever the case may be, continue to shine your light. When the right person comes, you will just know it. Any other explanation will be just irrelevant.

 

~via LifeCoachCode.com

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JADE SMALL: “The Different Kinds of Soulmates and Their Real Purpose”

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Human life’s purpose is to return to unconditional love.  Depending on the type of relationship, as we learn to love unconditionally,  we feel affection, friendship and romance.

This is where the soulmate fits in, and our soul families are here to help us learn that unconditional love.  Romance alone wont fulfill that mission, so our soulmates are here to help us grow and understand.

Karmic Soul Mates

You can have many Karmic soul mates experience in a lifetime, it is very common.  These soulmates come into our lives to teach us valuable lessons.

Karmic soulmates can be family members, close friends, or even co-workers, but humans are not the only karmic relationships we will have, the same karmic characteristics displayed by humans are often found in our pets, as many of us consider them important and special members of our family.

On occasion, Karmic relationships can be romantic in nature, however, they usually do not last long, because they are solely meant for us to learn a lesson from, for personal growth.

Companion Soul Mates

This soul mate relationship can and usually is romantic in nature, but these soulmates are usually not meant to be forever, just like Karmic relationships, these soulmates come into our lives for a specific purpose, and leave once the lesson has been learnt.
Many people do spend their entire lives with their Companion Soulmate, if they haven’t yet met their twin soul, but should they meet their twin soul while in this relationship, it could suffer and this can cause it to end.  If it continues, it won’t be a satisfying relationship at all.  If you feel like you have felt your twin soul while in a Companion relationship, it does not mean you need to run off!

There is a reason why your companion soul mate is till part of your life!

One thing you must keep in mind is that ending an existing relationship solely because one feels one has found one’s twin soul is never a good idea, because over time you will realize that both associations are meant to be and both have an important role in your life.

We put a lot of our energy into the Companion soulmate relationship, which is an interesting aspect.

While the Karmic soulmate tends to go slow and easily, without effort, just like it does in the twin soul type, the companion bond needs work and effort from both partners.

Twin Flames

The highest form of soulmate connection is that of the twin flame.

This is your souls other half, finding this soul is much like finding yourself.

People spend their life searching without realizing that they are looking for someone just like them, and often never find them in this lifetime.

The twin flame is always there, but not always apparent.  Do we close our eyes to them instead of observing and listening to our souls yearning?  Life is set at such a fast pace and we forget to take notice of things that are right in front of us.

Recognizing your soul mates

Twin Flame

  • A feeling of knowing. 
  • A feeling of comfort and a feeling of assurance that no matter where you go or what you do that you will reunite.
  • Similar intuitions.
  • Dreams.
  • A knowing that you share a higher purpose.

Companion Soul mate

  • A teacher.
  • Someone who mirrors you in some or many ways.
  • Someone that may have gone through a similar life story or situations.
  • Someone who reminds you of the lessons you are here to learn, like forgiveness.

Karmic Souls

  • A soul which you have shared another lifetime with.
  • Someone whom you might feel a connection to when you meet. 
  • You have a feeling of knowing this person previously.
  • Intense feelings of love, needing to be together and sometimes fears.

 

 

~via SpiritualUnite.com

GUSTAVO CASTANER: “Soul Mate, Twin Flame… Who Cares?”

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Imagine if you had never heard of labels like ‘soul mate’, ‘twin flame” or ‘spiritual’, what would you look for in a relationship?  What values, qualities, principles and characteristics would your ideal partner have?”

~Gustavo Castaner

Quite often I get emails from people asking me how to manifest or attract their soul mate or twin flame.  Students will have sessions with me so that I can assist them fulfill this intent.  And even though I believe in soul mates and twin flames, the reality is these are still labels.  Labels that will often work against people when it comes to manifesting the best relationship they could ever have.  So the first thing I tell people who desire to manifest their soul mate is to drop this label, because when it comes to the equation of manifesting the relationship that is for their highest good, the label soul mate or twin flame is not really that important.  Think about it, if you could be with a man or woman that loves you, adores you, respects you, supports you, makes you feel safe, inspires passion within you, you are attracted/magnetized to his/her presence, you share many interests and you are happy with… would it really matter if he/she was your soul mate or twin flame?

I resonate with the idea that we all have various soul mates but not all are the romantic relationship type.  But even those soul mates that belong to the romantic relationship category are not always the best relationship for you.  I have witnessed people stay in unhealthy, dramatic and co-dependent relationships only because they believe the other person is their soul mate. Imagine if you had never heard of labels like “soul mate”, “twin flame” or “spiritual”, what would you look for in a relationship?  What values, qualities, principles and characteristics would your ideal partner have?  Would it be easier to determine what person is best for you if you did not have to answer the question “is he/she my soul mate”?

I have seen people fall in love with soul mates who live on the other side of the world and they end up having a distant relationship that most of the time turns out not working at all.  Would you prefer to meet your soul mate who lives on the other side of the world or have a loving partner who is by your side?  Then there are a few people who believe that their soul mate or twin flame currently is stationed in another dimension (often the 5th) and they state this is the reason why they are single.  This could be very well true, yet why would you limit yourself to not have a relationship here and now in the 3D?  Relationships are one of the greatest blessings and gifts we have to love, grow, learn, share and evolve.  I am sure that if your soul mate or twin flame is indeed waiting for you in another dimension he or she wouldn’t mind if you enjoyed having a relationship here and now.

It is my belief that I have met and been in a relationship with two different soul mates whom I later realized were not the best relationships for me in terms of life partnership yet still necessary ones for my own learning, healing and evolutionary process.  Today I’m engaged to my beloved Jenniffer, is she my soul mate or twin flame?  Who cares… she is the woman I love with all my heart and she is my life partner, our commitment to each other is very strong, we are happy together and have absolute certainty that we will stay together.  That is all that really matters.

The term soul mate, twin flame or spiritual are not determining factors when we have an argument or face a life challenge, rather it is the love we have towards each other beyond any labels and the tools and resources we have and can apply to learn, grow, heal and evolve that really make a difference in our relationship.  So if you haven’t met your soul mate or you are not sure if the person you are in a relationship with right now is your soul mate, who cares?!  Focus on attracting and manifesting the relationship that will offer you the greatest opportunities to love, be happy, share life’s blessings, learn, grow, contribute, connect, feel safe, feel unique and evolve.

 

 

~via AscendedRelationships.com

ALETHEIA LUNA: “10 Soulmate Love Myths Everyone Needs To Read”

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When we were young we listened to jovial stories about princes and princesses falling in love and getting married.  We were taught that we only have one true love out there, and that this person (who is always the opposite gender) completes us.

As we grow older many of us seek to fulfil this romantic ideal.  Some of us spend years pining and searching for the “perfect” lover who can tick all the boxes and match all of our criteria.  In fact, some of us even carry around a mental idea of what our soulmates will look like, sound like, and behave like.  Being a romantic soul myself, I always thought that my soulmate would be a tall, mysterious, rebellious, Australian bloke.  Perhaps I was simply projecting my own disowned anima (masculine energy) outwards?  Instead I fell in love with a logical, brawny, emotionally balanced man of Peruvian descent — a perfect fit for me!

But I’m not the only one who has experienced this.  So many of us think we know what we want in a person, when in fact we don’t.  And sometimes, when someone not quite matching our description comes along, we shut ourselves off, missing the opportunity.

To those of us who have experienced severe emotional and mental wounding in our lives, soulmates appear as a kind of holy mecca or “promised land.”  When we feel incomplete, lonely and disconnected from ourselves, the ideal of soulmate love becomes a beacon of hope promising to save us.  Soon we start sincerely believing that our beloved will “complete us,” and thus make our lives meaningful again.

Deep down many of us believe that there is at least one person out there who will fulfill all of our needs and desires.  In fact, such a warped belief is what causes such high divorce rates and relationship dysfunction running rife in our societies.

There are so many harmful myths about soulmates that circulate through our cultural dialogues.  These myths end up as rigid stories and ideals within our minds.  In fact, these ideals and beliefs are actually responsible for limiting our spiritual growth and capacity to mature as divine beings.  Believing that anything outside of yourself will complete or make you whole is not only misguided, but highly dangerous to your well-being.

So with this in mind, let’s explore 10 of the most common soulmate love myths out there:

Myth 1. You can “find” your soulmate.

First of all, it’s important to drop the illusion of control.  Here’s a wake up call: you have no power over when, where or how your soulmate will appear.  All you can realistically do is be open and receptive to meeting your soulmate.  The human ego tends to believe that it can control life.  But life can’t be controlled.  Life is just as wise, wild and mysterious as it is frustrating!  Our soulmates often appear “out of the blue” when we least expect them to.  But it’s also quite common to intuit, sense or dream about your soulmate before they suddenly appear in your life.

Myth 2. What you want in your soulmate is what you’ll get.

We tend to approach relationships with preconceived notions of what we want or need.  So many articles out there that I’ve read recommend “visualizing your soulmate” so as to “attract them” into your life.  However, this is another trick of the ego.  The law of attraction doesn’t quite work that way.  It is your thoughts and beliefs that reflect your reality.  Your soulmate often isn’t someone you consciously desire, but someone you unconsciously attract and need for inner growth.

Myth 3. Soulmates will stay with you no matter what.

This is another highly harmful myth that creates a lot of unnecessary pain.  As a species we find great comfort in the thought of “always and forever” (hence why marriage is so appealing to us).  But this isn’t always the case.  Sometimes our soulmates stay for a season, and sometimes they stay for a lifetime.

Myth 4. We only have ONE soulmate.

This point is a matter of personal opinion.  However, I believe it is possible to have more than one soulmate in a lifetime.  Talking to many people about their thoughts and experiences on love, I’ve discovered that a great number have had “multiple” soulmate experiences.  Each was different, precious and life-changing in varied ways.  I do, however, believe that we only have one twin flame relationship.  Read more about the difference between soulmate and twin flame connections.

Myth 5. Soulmates are always romantic/sexual.

On the contrary, soulmate relationships can be completely platonic with no sexual or romantic feelings involved.  In other words, your soulmate could simply be your best friend in the world.

Myth 6. Soulmates are human.

We think of soulmates in terms of humans loving other humans.  But many people have felt intense and strong bonds with animals and pets that transcend human language.

Myth 7. Soulmates are the opposite gender.

Religion and tradition would have us believe that soulmates are heterosexual in nature.  In reality, love is free: it is not restricted by what is thought of as “right” or “wrong.”  Your soulmate could very well be of the same gender as you.  If you identify as heterosexual this will obviously come as a great shock to you.  However, it will ultimately encourage you to reclaim your authentic sexuality.

Myth 8. Soulmates are single.

Love is a complex emotion.  It is true that “we can’t choose who we love” — love flows freely and runs wild.  Who can claim to understand the mysteries of the heart?  As such, many people are tormented by the fact that the one they love is already in a relationship or marriage.  This is not the same as stimulation seeking or lust: soulmates resonate much deeper than great chemistry, sex or compatible interests.  As such, soulmates in this position must choose to move on, or break up marriages.  While both options are painful, both are ultimately catalysts for growth.

Myth 9. Soulmate relationships are effortless.

There is a widespread assumption that soulmate love is easy and stress free.  This belief adds to the desirability and idealization of such a relationship.  However, soulmate relationships require time, effort, patience and diligence like any other relationships.  Without conscious maintenance, even soulmate relationships will fail.

Myth 10. Soulmates complete you.

Perhaps the most destructive myth of all, the thought that our soulmates complete us is not only misleading but it is also highly self-disrespecting.  We are taught to believe that our soulmates are our “missing halves” when in fact they are helpers and catalysts of our spiritual growth.  The belief that our soulmate “completes us” is so popular because it encourages us to bypass responsibility for our happiness and wholeness.  It’s much easier to put the burden and pressure on others!  So many people enter relationships believing their soulmate will give them everything they need.  This unfortunately leads to issues such as codependency, toxic enabling and self-betrayal.

Instead of looking outside for completion, why not look inside of your own precious and unexplored soul?  Everything — all the love, acceptance and joy you need — is waiting there to be found.

Tell me …

Did you have any strong emotional responses to this article?  Perhaps this article was everything you didn’t want to read, or everything you hoped to discover.  I hope that I’ve helped to bring more realism to a world that can easily get obscured by myths and ideals.

Some final parting words: learn to completely love, forgive and cherish the person you are.  This is the best way to both attract, and bring harmony to your soulmate relationship.

Did I forget to mention any important soulmate love myths?  I welcome any thoughts or experiences you have below.  Finally, if you haven’t already, take the soulmate test  I created (just for fun!).

~via spiritualunite.com

GUSTAVO CASTANER: “Karma Between Soulmates and Twinflames & The 12 Benefits of Manifesting Your Twinflame”

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It is sad to see how many people meet their twin flames and soulmates but then can’t stay together. Online forums are filled with people sharing how their relationship karma and drama got the best out of their relationship. Some swear that they would never again be in a relationship with their twinflame due to the pain they endured.

Instead of using the relationship to heal, clear and transcend this karma what they did was add MORE karmic baggage to the relationship. And even though they have gone their separate ways, little do they know that they shall meet again (in this or another lifetime) and will have to work out their karma.

Why wait? Heal your relationship baggage now and have the best relationship you could ever have. Remember that your partner is simply mirroring what YOU need to work on. All the reactions you are experiencing and all the things your partner does that trigger you are signals to unresolved issues.

These resistances are simply entry points that offer you the opportunity to unwind, expand, heal, grow and transcend. Be grateful for them, for they are a catalyst towards your enlightenment.

Don’t be fooled, finding your soulmate or twinflame doesn’t mean that the relationship will be a smooth ride ALL the time. The fact that this relationship is triggering you more than any other relationship means that that person is your clearest mirror. Celebrate this.

And if you do the proper work, you will experience the biggest and most profound breakthroughs in your mental, emotional and spiritual evolution. Not to mention that you will also experience a fervent and heartfelt connection that is beyond your wildest dreams.

The benefits of manifesting your twinflame include:

1)  Fulfillment of your Soul’s Purpose

2)  Experiencing higher-giving love

3)  Raising the your own frequency and the frequency of the Earth

4)  Healing the Earth’s grids using tantric energy (most powerful healing energy there is)

5)  Giving birth to an ascended master

6)  Fully satisfying the 6 basic human needs, especially the needs of contribution, self-growth and love and connection

7)  Begin able to breakthrough the inevitable challenges

8)  Deep sense of trust and safety

10)  Assisting in humanity’s ascension

11)  Opening of the heart chakra and the embodiment of bliss

12)  Modeling to others what a higher vibrational relationship is and leaving a legacy

One of the most important steps you can take to manifest your twin-flame is cutting all cords of attachments to previous relationships (from this and past lifetimes). Click here to get access to our FREE Cutting Cords of Attachments Healing Session. 

 

Sincerely,

Gustavo

 

 

 

 

About the author:

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Gustavo Castaner has been a leading authority in the field of DNA Activation, ascension and distant healing for over 8 years.  He is a international speaker, seminar leader and relationship strategist. He is a leading expert in a variety of fields including twin flame and soulmate manifestation, energy medicine, Indigo children, emotional mastery and distant healing. He has done over 10,000 one-on-one sessions and he is known to draw thousands of people from around the world to his online workshops including How to Manifest a 5th Dimensional Relationship, Cutting Cords of Attachments, and Golden DNA Activation. No matter how large the audience is, he has the ability to connect to each person’s Higher Self and perform energy clearings and DNA Activations for everyone. His mission is to assist people clear themselves of energetic blockages that prevent them from embodying their Higher Self, manifesting higher frequency relationships and live a life imbued with joy, peace, abundance and a sense of fulfillment. Gustavo’s vision is to see humanity’s ascension become a reality.  

~via ascendedrelationships.com