We all have bigger potential within us than we think we have. We can be and do much, much more. We can influence the world on a much bigger scale.
Success in all areas of life depends largely on how you carry yourself. Whether you want to be the best lover or worker, you can’t become one without having to work for it.
You need to be the best that you can be before you can attract the best things and the best people to come your way.
You need to be aware, though, that becoming your best self doesn’t mean things will flow smoothly in your life. You may still encounter hardships along the way.
Yet, these things are easy to handle when you have become the best version of yourself. The suggestions below will help you become one.
10 Tips How To Become The Best Person:
1. Love yourself the way you want to be loved.
There is no one in the world who can provide you the love that you need except your own self. You alone know yourself inside out, including your strengths, weaknesses, failures, successes, and quirkiness.
If you can love yourself despite some of the things that you hate in yourself, then it would be easier for others to love you the same.
In the same way, you can’t love others for who they truly are if you can’t love yourself for who you really are. Make it a point to love yourself genuinely and be energetically vibrant.
2. Go deeper and discover the beauty within you.
As Aristotle pointed out, “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” It’s because while growing up, we have been conditioned to believe we need to become someone else.
Seeing yourself other than who you really are may block you from seeing your true beauty.
You are a divine being destined to spark. But you can’t see yourself this way unless you connect to yourself much more deeply.
3. Accept your own uniqueness.
Avoid the pitfall of comparing yourselves with others. You have your own journey and have a different path to take.
Don’t be afraid to express your unique self because that is who you are. You don’t need approval or validation.
Follow your own unfolding and focus on your unique gifts. You alone carry the kind of gift you are intended to share with the world.
4. Forgive and heal yourself.
Carrying grudges decreases your life force. Forgive others even if they don’t ask for it. Forgive yourself too.
Healing begins with the act of forgiveness. When you forgive, you free yourself and heal yourself from all the pains that you may have accumulated for so long.
Once freed, you begin to gain access to your life force.
5. Be aware of your inner critic.
Most often, your inner critic is your worst critic, telling you to be more than what you can be. Don’t fight this inner critic because you will only waste your energy.
Instead, be more compassionate with yourself.
When this critic speaks tell yourself how much you love yourself for all that you are. Love conquers all, your inner critic included.
6. Follow your gut feeling.
Learn to honor your gut feeling or intuition.
Most often, it carries the answers to your questions and serves as a guide in making important decisions.
Your intuition is your inner knowing that only wants the best for you.
7. Practice meditation.
A regular practice of meditation goes a long way.
Meditating for at least 15 to 20 minutes a day is enough to calm your mind, free you from stress, and enhance your well being.
It’s also a great means of connecting with your inner being.
8. Honor your body.
Your body is your physical manifestation in this world. It’s how others connect to you on a physical level.
When it’s in good shape, your connections outside and inside can go smoothly.
Give it the self care that it needs. Feed it with nourishing food, get enough rest, and do physical exercises.
9. Design your best life.
You have in your capacity the full power to design your life the way that inspires you to wake up every morning with vigor and excitement.
You can create a unique living that suits your special needs.
It’s the kind of life that may not be the ideal one in the world’s standards, but one where love prospers and where you can be absolutely happy.
10. Strive to make a difference in your small part of the world.
Wherever you are, you can make a difference in your own unique way.
Your contribution may be small, but giving all your best to the world can create ripples that will ultimately touch the lives of more people than you could expect.
Even becoming the best person that you can be is enough to create a spark in the hearts of others that you may come into contact with.
Remember, the greatest person you are to meet in this world is still within you. Awaken that person and be the best that you can be.