You’re a free spirit who enjoys adventure and craves for authenticity in life, but your perfectionist sidekick prevents you from savoring joy and getting lost in the moment. Consider allowing yourself to sit with your emotions, no matter how inconvenient they are, and accept that you can only influence what is in your control.
You’re a pleasant and trustworthy companion, but you hardly find it in you to trust others. While you invest yourself a lot in relationships, you ban people from your life without second thoughts when things don’t go your way. Learn to make room in your life for tolerance, empathy and mutual respect, and you might discover your opposing traits can reach conciliation.
You want to be friends with everybody, but you can’t accept the differences in people (or in yourself). It is only when you are willing to take people for who they are you will find solace in the company of kindred spirits.
You’re a hopeless romantic, but you easily get bored. Your passionate core makes you invest a lot in relationships and even spill the three magic words way sooner than your partner may be prepared to hear them. You want it all and you want it now, but your interest fades away as soon as you get to know the other better. Learn to channel your energy in rationalized bits and accept that keeping yourself focused on other aspects of your life as well (not just your love life) can present you with serendipitous moments.
You’re often stuck in between the need to ground yourself and follow a strict system of values and morals, and the desire to break free and live spontaneously regardless of what happens tomorrow. You love being the center of attention, but you grow jealous once you feel ignored. You can make ends meet by allowing yourself to be both rigorous and creative, by turning your inner control freak into a master of imaginative planning.
You’re chasing eternal love but you’re unwilling to work for it. Your seductive element likes all things beautiful and inspiring, but when the script in your head fails to match reality you bail out without much explanation. Learn to look more deeply into things and take the time to actually know a person, you might be surprised that the one thing you’ve been looking for is right under your nose.
You’re very protective of your friendships, but also very vengeful. If someone crosses a line with you, you shun them without further notice and oftentimes without giving them the benefit of a doubt. Learn from your own sensitivity that nobody’s perfect and channel your inner strength into forgiveness — everyone you meet holds an inner battle that you may not know about.
You’re a natural born empath, but you keep too much to yourself and that makes it hard for you to control your anger. You show a lot of concern to other people’s needs but fail to express your own concerns up to the point where you lash out at others. Create balance in your life by addressing your own needs and expectations openly to people and learn to say no when you can’t deal with something any longer.
You’re kind hearted and generous but lazy. You easily get comfortable around others and once a friendship, relationship or business deal is sealed, you’ll just lie there and consider yourself involved just because you’re present. Learn to participate and become more proactive and engaged in your own life and partnerships, it takes two to tango and three to make a happy crowd.
Your craving for independence, wanderlust and adventure and your consuming desire to love, be loved and share a fantastic relationship can mend together beautifully once you stop trying to control your future and accept that while not all people are as libertine as you, the key to successful connection is embracing each others’ differences.
You put on a fantastic show of seduction and mystery, but you’re needy. Remember, the things you’re looking for in others are the things you mirror to the outside world. Spend more alone time with yourself and your needs and adjust your expectations of others accordingly to what you can offer the world.
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